#I believe you

[fella-lovin-fella]

hey if you ever feel like you're faking your pain/mental illness/any symptoms, or if you feel like no one understands or believes you. i do. i believe you. i love you and i hope you do what you can to take care of yourself <3

#i spent so so much of my life in pain or sick #and being told i was faking it #or being dramatic #or just acting out for attention #and it's crushing #but being around people who genuinely care about me #and them BELIEVING me #it's such a foreign feeling #but it's life saving #i believe you #thank you for believing me #mental health #mental health awareness #chronic illness #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #chronically ill #mental health positivity #positivity #not mlm #dantes talking again

[traumasurvivors]

I believe you.

I believe you if you remember all of your trauma.

I believe you if you remember none of your trauma.

I believe you if you remember some of the details but not others.

I believe you if you are unsure of some details.

I believe you.

#my post #I believe you

[spacedocmom]

Doctor Beverly Crusher @SpaceDocMom Chronic conditions often fail to perform on command for doctors and other health care workers. That's why when you tell me what's happening to you, I believe you even if I can't see it in action. emojis: black heart, blue heart, masked 3:26 PM · Feb 1, 2024

#star trek #doctor crusher #star trek the next generation #star trek memes #star trek tng #kindness #support #care #compassion #health care #healthcare #medicine #chronic illness #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #disability #spoons #spoonies #I believe you

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#I believe you #you’re not faking it #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery #chronic pain #trauma recovery

[thecrystalkid]

artist’s depiction of my genuine response to this scene

#okay sam #i believe you #i drew this from memory please don’t yell at me #there are two wolves inside me one says loving platonic male friendships the other gay gay homosexuality #samfro #lotr #thank you tumblr for ruining my quality that’s super cool of you

[clotpolesonly]

Ronan triggered by Declan's injuries

Dream Thieves ch 5 // Dream Thieves ch 12

#ronanedit #declanedit #nialledit #trcedit #Ronan Lynch #Declan Lynch #Niall Lynch #TRC #this one actually kills me okay #he's so flippant about it like he doesn't care that Declan's hurt and he's not concerned about it #then he's thinking about his dad and praying for forgiveness for not stopping it and worrying about wHO could get the better of Declan #the tire iron took dad's face and the ''burglar'' took Declan's and all the boys were made in Niall's image and #yeah sure Ronan #you don't care that someone attacked Declan #i believe you #quote posts

[4spooniesupport]

#i believe you #tw ptsd #ptsd recovery #just cptsd things #living with cptsd #cptsd recovery #cptsd problems

[casuallivi]

I'm only gonna say this once, bitches.

ELRIEL MONTH IS COMING! SUPPORT THE PEOPLE WHO KEEP THIS SHIP RUNNING!!!!!

It's been years since we last had news from the motherland, and yet, we are blessed to keep receiving content left and right, FANDOM CONTENT! That's right hoe, the reason you can stand here today, enjoying the good elriel juice is because normal people, with regular jobs, kids, husbands/wives, in health and in sickness, these amazing precious people take time of their days to give us art, fics, HC, theories, moodboards, and a whole lot of good stuff to keep the elriel's mouths fed! But a fandom can only exist if people INTERACT! Don't just stand there enjoying everything without letting the other person know they changed your life and made you believe in god again.

"oh Livi, but I can write, I can't draw, I have no way to contribute"

BITCH, ME NEITHER! That's why we can

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all the post that sent that especial little tingle in your heart (or between your legs, because we all know this is a family of horny bitches, no shame, this is a sex positive household with plenty of angst/hurt/comfort to balance the dirty vibes) because we are the only ones capable of making Elriel Month an enjoyable experience.

Don't forget,

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Peace out homies✌🏽🕊️

#elriel #elriel fanfic #elriel fanfiction #elriel fic #elain archeron #azriel #SUPPORT THE COMMUNITY BITCHES #elriel month #elrielmonth23 #this is valid for when is not EM too #the secret for content is feedback #you can do it! #i believe you #lets gooooooooo

[darkmedolie]

No i wasn't hugging my minions - i was crushing them! this is very cruel torture i swear !

#ok snatcher #i believe you #snatcher #ahit #a hat in time #the snatcher #ahit subconites #hat in time

[sukustar]

I would never refuse to have tea with these two gentlemen.

#If you tell me that they are related #I believe you #shumatsu no valkyrie #boku no hero academia #record of ragnarok #my hero academia #gentleman #bnha gentle criminal #jack the ripper #snv jack the ripper #ror jack the ripper #Jack #my hero acadamy #record of ragnorak #shuumatsu no valkyrie #Snv #Ror #bnha #my hero acedamia #mha #anime boys #gentle criminal

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

Let's talk about Online Grooming

(TRIGGER WARNING: As the title suggests, this post talks about grooming and sexual abuse. Reader discretion *HEAVILY* advised). I'm sure most of you already know about this (Especially if you're involved in gaming), but for those who don't or are just finding out (like me lol), YandereDev- yes, *THAT* YandereDev, was recently outed as a predator, and was revealed to have groomed a minor. Now, I've seen multiple conflicting posts on this, so I won't be getting too deep into it. If you'd like more info on it, I advise checking out this video from callimara. However, one thing I do want to point out regarding this subject, is the victim continuously defending her abuser, which has unfortunately resulted in victim blaming from multiple of YanDev's supporters. And that's actually why I'm making this post in the first place. While grooming can be done both online and offline, this mostly focuses on online grooming, as well as E-CSA, which is something I don't see talked about often at all. This gets pretty triggering, so if you don't have the stomach to handle this, go back now. Lastly, YanDev defenders and 'Narc Abuse' believers do NOT fucking touch this. You WILL be blocked on sight.

What is Grooming?

Grooming is a series of abusive behaviors that are used by abusers as a means to establish a relationship with their victim to eventually exploit. While it can be used with any form of abuse, the most common is sexual abuse, particularly towards children. What is E-CSA? E-CSA is the use of technology or the internet to sexually abuse children. This can be done in many ways, and one of the most common forms of E-CSA is grooming. How grooming occurs.

Predators will usually pretend that they are a minor themselves in order to get with their victim, which can make it difficult to identify a predator. Offenders will usually try to develop a bond with their victim, typically using the promise of gifts or something else. Disturbingly, offenders might resort to threats, or manipulate their victim into accepting their behavior. Once the victim is vulnerable, the offender may make an advance onto their victim. The offender may also try to isolate their victims from their friends and family, making the abuse worse. When called out on their abuse, some offenders might also deflect their blame on the victim, making it harder for the victim to seek justice (Does "Colleen Ballinger" ring a bell to some of you?) Why might victims defend their abusers? Unfortunately, a lot of victims tend to defend their abusers as well. To make it clear: This does NOT make the abuse okay nor does it mean the victim was at fault. There are multiple reasons why abuse victims, grooming victims or otherwise, will defend their abusers, the most common reasons being: -The victim might be thinking the abuse was normal, and are in denial that they were abused. -The victim is being threatened by the abuser. -The victim might have developed a genuine bond with their abuser. This is what's known as "Stockholm Syndrome" or "Trauma Bonding". Victims with disabilities such as autism might also have trouble realizing that they were abused. The victim's environment can also have an impact. Signs of grooming: -Heavy age gaps. This one depends on how old two folks were when they met. -Sexualized behavior, especially if that person is a minor. -Isolation. -Being secretive. And so much more. What to do if you have been groomed: -If you can, cut off contact with the abuser and contact authorities. -Remind yourself that it's not your fault. -If you can afford it, consider getting a therapist to check in with your mental health. -If you have met up with the groomer and have had sexual contact with them, get a STD test just to be safe. STDs can result from sexual abuse. -Additionally, if you are someone who can get pregnant, get a pregnancy test. Additionally, if you know someone who has been groomed, tell them any of the above. My Experiences: Unfortunately, I myself was groomed online many times by different people. However, the experience I'm sharing is the one that impacted me the most. The abuse happened on Discord and at times DeviantArt and Hangouts, but mostly Discord (Sidenote: If I see you making a "Discord Mod" or "Discord kitten" joke, you'll be blocked /srs. I hate that I even have to say this). I was 10, and he was 16 at the time. The abuse first started via roleplay, which was normal at first, but then it started to become sexual. And me, being the naive fucker I was, didn't even notice it was wrong. And I thought it was okay because we were both minors. (There is also the chance he could've been lying about being 16, however I have no intentions on digging that up). People were quick to catch what was happening, however, instead of helping me, most folks got mad at me for it and I ended up banned from a server as a result (The reason for the ban was "NSFW"- even though I wasn't the only person posting such). This also resulted in a series of harassment which has negatively impacted my mental health. The harassment has since stopped, but it still hurts me to this day.

The harassment from others led to me getting closer with my abuser, which resulted in the grooming continuing for atleast two more years. It was only after someone intervened (via even more traumatic methods, but I'll spare you the details) in which the roleplay stopped. However, thanks to a friend (Who had recently been promoted to mod within the same community the abuse occured in) who eventually enlightened me on what actually happened, I was able to cut off contact with him for good. I will admit, I still feel guilty for letting this happen, though I am working on it! At this time, I don't plan on reporting my abuser to authorities, nor will I be able to since I unfortunately lost most screenshots of the abuse (That, and this individual isn't in the same US state, so it'd be kinda difficult to do so).

#tw abuse #tw grooming #general tw #lets talk about stuff #long post #grooming #child abuse #anti yandere dev #anti yandev #<-filter purposes #victim blaming #idk what else to tag this as so here's some positivity tags #it's not your fault #you're not alone #you deserve better #i believe you #it's going to be okay #you deserve good things

[traumasurvivors]

I believe you if you talk about your trauma.

I believe you if you don’t like to talk about your trauma.

I believe you if you reported what happened.

I believe you if you didn’t report what happened.

I believe you if you reported and then changed your mind about doing so.

I believe you.

#my post #I believe you

[spacedocmom]

Doctor Beverly Crusher @SpaceDocMom You deserve good, competent health care from someone who respects and believes you. emojis: black heart, blue heart, masked 3:03 PM · Mar 22, 2024

#star trek #doctor crusher #star trek the next generation #star trek memes #star trek tng #kindness #care #support #health care #compassion #healthcare #medicine #chronic illness #disability #i believe you #respect #spoons #spoonies

[eulchu]

Am I allowed to say I think that shirt is dreams 😭 and hear me OUT he was in his dressing room and dream wears that style under other shirts or with something under it and it looks big enough to be dreams like not George’s and considering dream wore something very similar on his tour only a stop or two before under that black short sleeve shirt so I think it’s dream that George liked and wore and it was all back stage never in photos or on stage bc it’s dreams thank u for listening to my crazy people talk

i would never call you crazy gorgeous

#i believe you #asknootfound

[soloorganaas]

bo katan and the armorer sitting quietly together one evening on the steps of the living waters watching for the mythosaur

#nitearmor #bo katan x the armorer #i mean this in a sweet way #like holding hands resting helmets on shoulders #but its funny to imagine bo being like its here i promise i know i saw it #and the armorer being like babes i literally fundamentally altered my religious beliefs #and supported you as the leader to reunite our people and retake our planet bc you told me you’d seen the mythosaur #i believe you #otp: remove your helmet #the mandalorian

[dirtyjvconfessions]

Anonymous confesses: jhonen likes period sex. Trust me bro.

#dirtyjhonenvconfessions #confession #no source needed for this one #I believe you