#I don't really care if people disagree

[storfulsten]

colorful funky space friends

hm kinda sus tbh

#shading is overrated #and proportions and accurate size differences are also overrated lol #anyways #sussy space friends au #if there was an au this is probably the colors I'd go for #the letsplay inspo vibes may not quite match up with most colors but it's all mostly just guidelines rather than acual rules really tbh #it's all just vibes so who cares really ha #there's a couple more dudes I'd probably want to include but they wouldn't get the most fitting colors lol ah well they'd manage I'm sure #rn I'm too lazy to add more either way ha #so ye anyways #just doodled this bc I felt like it and wanted to help myself visualize all the dang colors on the correct people so ye #messy and lazy but fulfills its purpose well enough atm at least #so ye #maybe you wouldn't agree with the color choices but with my own au and ideas these combos work just fine ha #so agree to disagree and all that #either way I'm just vibin #lazy doodle is lazy and not very serious so ye feel free to ignore and all that #enjoy or don't #whatever floats your boat #fnf au #fnf amongus au #boyfriend #girlfriend #pico #whitty #hex #carol #ruv #sarv #I draw what I want

[supercantaloupe]

@widevibratobitch @verdiesque

can y'all either @ me or block me already this is getting exhausting

#sasha speaks #if you get upset about other people 'vagueing' you then perhaps try not doing it yourselves. use those spines of yours #here's the thing i don't even really care all that much about who wins or loses the polls #what i have an issue with is the attitude i see of 'we're better because we like these operas not those ones' #and 'this opera is objectively better than that one' when that wasn't even the point of the bracket #(it's 'preference' not 'objective quality' if such a thing can even be measured) #and the attitude of derision and meanness towards people for expressing hurt feelings towards your behavior #i don't have anything against verdi himself or his body of work as a whole really. in fact i would love to know what other people #see and love so much in his work. maybe i could see it then too #but i can only stand to have that conversation with someone who's demonstrated that they'll respect me for disagreeing #and i really have not seen that so far. for the most part notes i've seen from you just read as cliquey and self aggrandizing #or really moreover just. unpleasant. #but by all means prove me wrong. if you're willing to chat i'm all ears. but only if you're gonna be respectful #otherwise just block me already please. don't mock me.

[boyguk]

This “they betrayed the queer community by killing a queer character” take some people have irks me so, so much as a queer person…The Bury Your Gays trope does not mean what many of you think it means.

First of all, OFMD is literally full of queer characters. One of the most important and refreshing things about this show has always been the fact that the characters aren’t Queer™️ characters, they’re characters who are queer. No one ever makes a big deal out of it, the characters are allowed to exist as themselves and that’s great! The show and the people who work on it have always highlighted that. No one in this show is punished, tortured, bullied, killed, or tomented because of their sexuality.

So I find it quite strange that some people are now blaming the show for doing exactly what it has always done and gotten praised for – it's treating its queer characters the way it treats its straight characters. That's what equality is. Every character, queer or straight, has gone through good and bad things this whole time. It would be against the show's core principle if queer people got special treatment, and only straight people were allowed to die and suffer. It would also make the show incredibly boring and predictable if the nonstraight characters magically survived every single situation every single time.

I get why Izzy’s death has made people upset, but these “how could they do this to the queer community!!!” posts where people attack the show and basically call it homopohobic just because they killed Izzy sound straight up ignorant. Killing a queer character in a show full of queer characters doesn't mean they're homophobic or betraying their audience. Sometimes characters just gotta die and sometimes those characters happen to be queer.

#to me Izzy's storyline & death in season 2 makes perfect sense and I find it interesting that some people are calling his death unnecessary #his death is a catalyst #queer people are the reason queer people can't have nice things /hj #i don't really care if somebody disagrees with me btw I just felt the need to word vomit my thoughts out #our flag means death

[leatherbookmark]

a friendly reminder that jgy doesn’t “tell nmj that he’s more important than all those people he’s killed”.

nie mingjue asks two questions.

one, “are you saying your life is more valuable than theirs?” (高贵),

and second, “are you saying you’re different from them?” (不同)

to which jin guangyao says, “yes. of course we’re different!”

he doesn’t say, “of course my life is more valuable!”, note.

these are two separate questions, and he only answers the last one that, in my opinion, is the most mindboggling one.

nmj asks a son of a sex worker, reviled, harassed and bullied just for existing, if he’s any different than other people. nie mingjue, who’s SEEN the way he was treated and stepped forward himself to confront those people.

the same nie mingjue who thinks he’s a l w a y s killed people for a reason, and that it’s fair for him to kill, but when jgy kills it’s always cruel, needless spilling of blood. yknow, despite the saber.

this nmj gets so furious at jgy stating that he’s not like other people that he kicks him down the stairs.

🆗🆒👍

#i'm all for discussion and 'agreeing to disagree' but sometimes i see people discuss with those who aren't... really worth it imo #like there are signs that just show they're not gonna budge from their 'jgy Evil Bad da-ge Good Tragic' standpoint. why would you debate #someone like that lol #and again i don't remember a good chunk of the novel as well as i do the jgy parts (because i don't care) but i'm firmly of the opinion that #if you're gonna bring sth up to justify your dislike for a character it would be NICE if that sth was at least ACCURATE. without #backtracking like 'well maybe i'm remembering wrong and something totally different happens but it still proves my point' #it Lichrally Does Not. #also re: the sentence about jgy 'giving up on something'. if he was playing turmoil all along why would he be giving up on nmj now? #he is sentimental and loses his head (but not as well as nmj :>) in moments of panic but he's not as Stupid as to deliberately walk into #a starved lion's cage; wave chunks of meat in front of its face and then act surprised when it lunges. #shrimp thoughts #leaving the full names in because i'm Tired.

[roguemonsterfucker]

*sigh*

there are times where I wish I could grab youtuber commenter's by the labels and shake them.

#i was suggested a youtube short of a bunch of foals doing free jumping #which... uh #no #don't do #bad #foals' bodies aren't fully developed and doing those types of jumps can really damage them in the long run #THANKFULLY a few smart folks in the comments pointed that out #and multiple people responded 'well it doesn't look like the foals are being forced to do it so it's fine' #as if a baby horse understands the potential risks of the action and can make an educated decision 🙄 #there was also a few 'actually it's fine as long as it's not too often' #and uh strong disagree #but also it looks to me that these foals are very experienced #they had great form and confidence doing the jumps so i would assume they've had some training #anyways please be careful when exercising baby animals #people smarter than me explained the exact risks in the comments

[hamletunfortunately]

ham ranting

where did ANYONE get the idea that Hamlet ENJOYED the aesthetic of death, his father died, he killed someone, he held a skull of someone he used to know, he asked a suicidal girl "should people kill themselves or no".

im like 50% sure that Hamlet is still just some guy !! he probably went to a cemetery and cried over his father, left flowers, never went back again, never explored the aesthetic views of it. "its a cemetery" he thinks "dead people lie here." and its tragic sure, but what can you do? and then he leaves with the image of his father's grave fresh in his mind, because, wow, my dads in there!

maybe hes not very phased by death, that's okay!! but to think he ENJOYS being around death? like are you completely sure?! all death has ever done is cause him suffering! because of his dad's, Polonius', and Ophelia's death HE ENDED UP DEAD! it wouldn't be crazy to assume he hates the idea of death! all its ever done is hurt him!

#listen #people can have their own interpretations of Hamlet #i really don't care what YOU DO #but its still something i personally disagree with and thats okay #i just want to share my view of this character #hamlet #ham posting

[buffyspeak]

the lightwood siblings are literally like. "what if three siblings who genuinely love and would die for each other lash out with the cruelest thing they can think to say when hurt because none of them ever learned proper emotional regulation or communication skills" and that's SO real of them. tbh.

(notably they're all pretty good at/about apologizing when it's called for)

#sorry to exclude max from this but the show did it first #he is simply not around enough to be part of this dynamic #shadowhunters #the lightwood siblings #the lightwoods #do you ever think about how valentine sent jace to MARYSE. TO MARYSE!!! #his second in command his most efficient recruiter who believed in him who left the cause as soon as it became clear they would lose #bc she is first and foremost a Survivor #because he said he sent jace to people he knew would take care of him #screaming crying throwing up. actually #bc that led jace to his siblings!!!!! #like valentine sucks obvi but. wowza there is a lot to unpack there #people might disagree about izzy #but i am thinking about “i'm not your baby sister anymore alec i don't need you to protect me” or something along those lines #and hears the thing #maybe that doesn't SOUND cruel #but she's taling to alec #who knows really well and is a big brother who needs to be needed through and through #she said the cruelest thing to not just anyone BUT TO /HIM SPECIFICALLY/ bc that's how well she knows him #anyway. this is not a hate post. legitimatley i'm so obsessed with all of them

[suburbanlegnd]

*slowly backing away bc i've read marxist literature once or twice* 😔

NOOOO DON'T GO PLS I LOVE YOU BESTIE PLS DON'T HATE ME 😭😭😭😭

#I'm sorry #I'm just not quite fond of communism #and Karl Marx #I do agree with some of his points (esp. about religion) #but I quite disagree with others #being Polish has taught me that both capitalism and communism are equally bad #but I'm not a communist liberal nor a capitalist #I'd say I'm against politics politicians and all political parties in general #plus I hate monarchy ofc #the fact that you've read some Marxist books isn't bad #but people who are really obsessed with them and with communism are just a bunch of weirdos #just like all those people who think that all politicians care about them (spoiler alert: they don't!) #they think only of power over the people (especially those who voted for them) and money that shouldn't belong to them #ok i'm done #lol #stella 🏎️ #asked

[moonscape]

GOD THIS PERSON GETS IT!!!

#bwark #ignoring the ignorant use of the c slur as an adjective i am feeling so validated here #for all of sv's problems as a functioning game it's still full of personality and charm with a great story #it's like the pieces were there but they couldn't make them fit because of the strict release schedule #i vehemently disagree with the narrative people push that gamefreak doesn't care because in my eyes they clearly do #the problem is crunch time and the toxicity of the video game industry. that's always been the case #so really what's totk's excuse? 6 years of development (one year being dedicated to polish alone) for a game that lacks confidence in being #a sequel and strips away any of the charm and personality that botw had? please. #sorry i lied about not being as much of a totk hater anymore but do you understand how vindicating it is to see more of these critiques #finally coming out the past few months? i was disappointed with it within the first week of release and it felt like you couldn't express #any kind of negative opinion on it (or botw tbf) without getting insults hurled at you #i remember i was trying to respectfully disagree with someone who was my mutual at the time on our differing opinions #and some complete stranger came into the replies and started being rude to me #like idc if it was playful rudeness you're a complete fucking stranger so don't talk to me like that

[anti-transphobia]

Forever annoyed that "don't speak over marginalized people", the notion that marginalized people are already spoken over, and their oppressors need to actually listen and learn before speaking about complicated topics and need to do so in support of not OVER them, so quickly turned into "I'm not x so I can't speak on x issues". Like the "don't speak on this if you're not this" started out so well meaning because it was about people needing to actually take the time to learn before talking about issues they didn't previously understand! Now it's just an excuse for people to never learn about the issues minorities face or to actually stand up for them in any meaningful way

#forming an opinion is so natural and also important. you can't just stay 'neutral' on everything just because marginalized groups arent #a collective that either fully agrees or fully disagrees with something #you will always have 'lol im x and i dont care about bigotry' folks. always. always always always #you've gotta use your god damned brain and do what's right instead of going 'im not allowed to have an opinion on this' #it's literally just looped around to ignoring issues again. like saying 'racism is bad' isnt good enough when you stay quiet #when your friend is being racist because they're a poc being racist to another poc #and that situation is too 'unclear' for you #ive seen that happen a ton. fucking get over it. yes they're going to respond negatively to being called racist literally everyone does #get over that fear of backlash and stick up for people!!! #this is why radqueers are a plague. their entire stance is 'we dont care enough to think so everything is good and okay' #and has done horrible shit like spread RAMPANT misinformation about mental disorders such as DID #which makes life so much harder for people with DID. and all disorders as they get romanticized instead of actually understood #so the people with the '''bad symptoms''' get shunned #the amount of times I've heard horror stories of actual systems getting abused and forced into all kinds of shit because of endos....... #anyway neutral stances are for things that don't really hurt people or dont matter or #for when youre in the position of actually learning and forming a position #which in that case its meant to be temporary. temporary!!!!! #radqueers dni

[gideonisms]

sometimes it's wild watching 2 people you used to know from within the same group of online friends get radicalized in 2 wildly different directions

#not really sure what to do about it either. i was close with one of these people so i have like. had a conversation with her about it #in fact even back then she would sometimes say some stuff i'd disagree with & i'd push back on it but never to this point u know? #it's to the point where it's really unpleasant for me to be seeing some of this stuff on my dash #but like i care about her! we were friends #i don't want to cut her off bc isolating herself from people with different viewpoints who are still kind to her is probably #how she got there in the first place #and i have pretty extensive experience in being deradicalized from shitty viewpoints. like #i was southern us christian & deeply religious for the first 18 years of my life i know how they get you #the way out of that is meeting friends who aren't enmeshed in the same stuff #but that also feels close to the same old deal of wanting to be an influence in someone's life but not really. actually. #wanting to interact with them #it's just like i will never do evangelism again. idc what it's about. idc if i'm more at peace with my beliefs now. it isn't happening #it's complicated idk #i might just unfollow and stop trying to interact. it just feels bad bc i wish there was something else i could do

[piratefalls]

y'all, if you don't even like the premise of a fic, never mind its content, and you possess the ability to scroll past it, you should probably just...do that. instead of putting authors on blast for writing a thing you don't agree with.

#like what is your life like if you get you so bent out of shape over something someone wrote about people who are...not real #i scroll past shit that i don't like/doesn't interest me/disagree with literally daily it's not that hard #the only time i've ever gotten this mad at a fic it was for untagged drugging and subsequent non-con #and even then i didn't put the author on blast i was just like - hey this thing exists heads up to anyone who may be triggered by it #you can be mad about things and disagree with things and not be an asshole about it it's really very simple #you're absolutely allowed to not like the content of a fic - be it characterization or plot points or whatever #what's not okay is being really fucking rude to the people who create the content you disagree with #am i just a crotchety fandom old at this point? who knows. i don't care. #also not allowing reblogs because i'm not interested in discourse. i'm airing a grievance and moving on.

[isekyaaa]

I really hope that when people read articles that are like, "People of this minority group are telling you not to [insert something pertaining to said minority group]," please use your brain and take it with a grain of salt and don't accept everything you read as truth.

#rambles #just because someone screams really loudly about something doesn't mean that it's true #i cannot emphasize this enough #i lose track of the amount of articles that are like #'dont visit hawaii! natives do not want you here!!!!!!!' #'the tourism industry does not help natives at all!!!!!!' #like tourism is literally the backbone of the economy #it's hawaii's main moneymaker #how is that not 'helping the natives' #most locals do not care if tourists come #all we ask is do not be rude and respect the land and culture #what i am trying to say is that don't take articles you read online as the voice for a people #yes some natives don't want people here #but i cannot deny that a lot of that rhetoric has shades of racial hatred behind it #i'd say a good 99% of the time they're talking about 'tourists' they're talking about specifically white ppl #when in reality i want to say a good amount of tourists are asian #ugh #i just really hate articles like that #'dont do this because this minority group hates it!' #literally who said that and why are you not capturing the voices of people that disagree? #reminds me of the time i got almost banned from the asian american subreddit for saying pacific islanders are not asian during aapi month #because my words could be 'upsetting' to people #like literally what?

[hamartia-grander]

Hey just a PSA! I know a lot of people are having reactions to Annabeth's casting and they don't want to think their feelings are based on racism, but if you're more upset/concerned about a character's skin colour than their personality, if you're more attached to a character's race than their actual character, it is a racism thing, and you should be spending more productive time unlearning that than defending it <3

#If you're gonna read the tags please read all of them <3 #This is not meant to attack or call out anyone. Rather I hope people can see how deeply ingrained racism really is #And I hope people will choose to unlearn that racism rather than defend their adverse reactions to a black girl playing a character #And I disagree that book Annabeth and TV series Annabeth are different or separable characters #Because she is the same character regardless of the medium #But some people mentally separate books and live action so I will address that as well: #If you say you 'prefer' book Annabeth's look #as a white girl #And you can't see TV show Annabeth as the 'real' Annabeth #It is entirely because you refuse to see Annabeth for her character and have instead reduced a black girl to her skin colour #You don't care about Annabeth at all. You care about her being white. And that is racism. #Leah Sava Jeffries is Annabeth Chase #And 'holding onto' white Annabeth isn't actually because of any nostalgia or what you're 'used to' #It is racism. Intentional or not. It is #Percy Jackson #Pjo #pjo series #rick riordan #Annabeth Chase #annabeth pjo #Leah Sava Jeffries #percy jackson show #riordan universe #riordanverse

[tardis--dreams]

One thing you need to know about me is that I will never reblog anything that has the addition "this should be reblogged by everyone" or anything of the like.

#unless it's like #really funny and not a guilt trippy kind of bullshit #i can agree 130% with a post and then see that comment and I'm like #yeah no. go fuck yourself. #(this point has been made so many times but people don't get why it's annoying apparently. people don't dislike your stupid addition #because they secretly disagree with the post but because now it seems like some weird social obligation to rb is #rb this or you're a bad person is a clever marketing strategy but it's quite stupid because it weakens the original point #oh you're saying everyone should rb this? well now it looks like the ppl rbing actually just do it out of some feeling #of social obligation. not because they really want to but because they want to fulfill the arbitrary standards you just made up for being #a good person #and don't get me wrong most certainly are most people rb these posts still out of agreement with the original statement #but it's still annoying as fuck and also you'd think ppl would know by now that people don't generally like being told what to do #so my hypothesis is (and i won't do any research to prove or disprove it (i might be very wrong and most people don't mind obviously)) bjt #but my hypothesis is that people who originally agree with the post but have a strong desire of being free in their choices #won't actually end up rbing bc it's just not that free of a choice anymore bc you just had to make it 'obligatory' but we all know #nothing is obligatory on a stupid webbed site like this so they scroll past while people who maybe would have scrolled past now feel #like they might actually be a bad person if they don't do as it says but without actually caring about the content. which diminishes #the positivity the post originally was supposed to spread bc how do you tell ppl actually mean it now when they rb these things #anyway. am i ranting about something completely asinine phenomenon on tumblr.com? yes. #would it be better to not dedicate my time and energy into making a 'hate' post? absolutely. but that will never stop me from doing so #(also works for things like 'you guys HAVE to do xyz [for your (mental) health/etc]'. literally the best advice phrased like this #is counterproductive. post something that doesn't sound like you're judging everyone who does otherwise and maybe ppl will be more inclined #to believe whatever your point or statement is) #ok I'll stop #shut up amy

[vote-for-eggman]

I think queer people, like if us LGBTQ people, showed more advocacy for the “other letters” within our demographic, we’d get a lot more done.

Idk i just know that I appreciate when I see my Ls, Bs, Ts, and so on, voice their support for my G-ness. I try to return the favor as best as I am able to.

Not really poking at any one identity, because I think it’s pretty much commonplace for all “Letters.”

#queer #lgbtq #like i hate that people my age have forgotten what advocacy is like #we've become so divided and shit its sad #people like to hate on queer-identifying LGBTQ people for being too flamboyant or flashy or whatever #but historically those same people are the only reason why we've made any progress at all #because there's NO choice for them to fit in without them completely undoing everything they are so they MUST fight #and now its become so fringe mostly only gnc people who admittedly don't know jack or shit because usually theyre young care #i don't mean we must be militant i mean that's cool too #but fr when was the last time you've celebrated a trans person finally getting the surgery they've been saving for #ik most people say that sharing posts means relatively nothing but i disagree #sure when its the topic of the minute it really is slacktivism #but helping START the conversation or START the spread of news is a lot different imho