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am-i-the-asshole-official · 5 months

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A-i-t-a because my now former friend's bf was pretending to be a trans male and talking about bottom surgery on a forum and it made me very uncomfortable around him? Everyone is 20+

For context, my friends boyfriend started saying online he was an afab trans male, when no, he was a cis male. I asked my friend about it cause I'm sorry, she has shown me his penis before, and she had a talk with him about it. I told them both his actions were inappropriate because he was being very vocal about being afab trans male and a lot of underage people were contacting him for advice on transitioning . This resorted in him deleting his social media and remaking. Well, he didn't delete everything. I found out he was in this forum that talked about bottom growth for afab transitioning. I read things that made me very uncomfortable, like him lying about his bottom growth. So, I confronted him and said how inappropriate it is for him to be doing that cause one of the people he became friends with was underage and I found out they sent him photos of you know. My friend said I was being an asshole and I had to respect his fascination with bottom growth.

I'm not friends with either of them anymore, and he's began lying again online he's a afab transmasc. So, am I an asshole for being uncomfortable about this? Now, I'm not trying to be the moral police, but I feel so uneasy knowing he's talking to minors about their bottom growth. Maybe I need to go touch grass, but idk if maybe it's my moral obligation to be worried he's being like this with minors. Also, there's other reasons besides this why I cut off ties.

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole #i genuinely don't know how to tag this #predator cw #????

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hollowsart · 4 months

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@spooky-salesman drew me/Acedia as a Strawberry Shortcake character [XX] and I couldn't help myself.

Apple Strudel & Snickerdoodle the pet Sloth!

#my art #phone art #I genuinely don't know how to tag this #strawberry shortcake #????#sloth #sure skjdhjkd

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roryfrommybabysittersavampire · 4 months

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hi!!! my name is gray and i just released my first album! it's called mudlot. the genre is all over the place and i can't name it but there's grainy overdriven guitar, melancholy synths, heavy car seat headrest influence and a tboy singing out of his vocal range. it's terrible and i hate it and it's my proudest accomplishment and it would mean a lot to me if you checked it out.

UPDATE!! MUDLOT IS OUT EVERYWHERE!! i will love you so much if you take the time to listen to it :3 thanks !

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dez-wade · 8 months

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I understand how you feel because it sucks when people commit to misinterpreting a character because they're biased against them, especially when said character doesn't speak english as their main language. But people who don't watch Forever's POV aren't going to know everything about him, and that's okay.

Most people aren't doing everything in their power to go against Forever. They are reacting to events in a way that makes sense for their character. It hurts when someone is trying their best and they aren't appreciated, but that's something that is bound to happen on a server like this.

Forever's POV isn't the absolute objective truth and people are allowed to interpret the situation from their own perspective, which is just as valid. People having opinion different from your own isn't an attack, and misunderstanding are a feature, not a bug.

I feel like you want every character and viewer to extend every ounce of understanding and coddeling to Forever, while not being willing to give them the same courtesy.

I don't care if they don't watch his POV or know nothing of his character. No one is obligated to, I don't watch a lot of POVs and I don't plan to.

If you're talking about in RP, I can, as a viewer, be hurt to see a character being misunderstood, but I don't care if the CCs do it because they have no information and that's how it's supposed to work. I can get frustrated to see it happen, exactly like people feel upset when the characters make BBH's issue about not stealing furniture for example. But I won't blame them or get mad at CC, thinking they should know exactly how to treat Forever. I will just be sad because I'm able to watch multiple POVs and thus I am "cursed" with the knowledge they don't have. Knowledge that the characters I follow don't have either, and can't act like the way I wish them to. I'm just reacting as a viewer, I'm not demanding anything. Because otherwise I wouldn't be doing posts on Tumblr, in which no one important will be able to look at and see my "demands".

I'm hurt by how they treat Forever? Yes. Do I think they should change everything to accommodate me, the viewer, or Forever? No. That's their characters, they don't like the government regardless of who's running it. Bad is also a highly paranoic character. I don't think they should change, I just want Forever to be able to befriend people that are not that. Because it's obvious that friendship is doomed because Forever IS the government in a sense. There's no point in making him change, and there's no point in making them change.

For the viewers on the other hand, what I dislike is when people try to make an antagonizing opinion of a situation when a character is involved, and they clearly know nothing about them. They're not obligated to know. But if they don't, why spread misinformation? We, as viewers, have the power to watch or at least try to look for information about the whole situation. So, I'm sorry if I don't like when people talk about stuff they don't know. It's not about opinion, if people dislike a character that's okay. But if people say they dislike a character because of things they made up, it's just very frustrating. And if I'm able to, I WILL talk and defend about a POV I watch and know about.

Also I think you haven't seen my posts where I actually want conflict and didn't want the situation to be resolved where they all understand each other's point of view. I genuinely want them, BBH especially, to mistrust Forever even more and I'm still waiting for that prison he said he'll lock Forever up. I want Forever's actions to be seen even more suspicious in other people's POV. And also, yes, I'll be sad and extremely heartbroken over it but that's what entertainment is all about. Even cc!Forever is hyped with a bit of chaos and of course I am too.

I felt frustration plenty of times with the characters in QSMP but pretty normal average stuff, the things they want you to feel frustrated about. I actually never felt truly mad at CCs and there's not a single character I hate or I dislike. At most, I'm neutral to them. If I don't like a character's relationship doesn't mean I dislike the characters involved. For example, despite wanting q!Forever to move on with his friendship with q!Bad, he is probably my second favorite character and he's ironically the one I have most channel points of.

The fandom on the other hand pisses me off plenty of times. They have no excuses.

#qsmp #i genuinely don't know how to tag this #qsmp discourse #?#qmsp fandom neg #neg #don't know... i'm sorry

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spaceyeehaw101 · 8 months

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TW: Fake blood!!!

Save Them. You Can't.

I'm going a little overboard with the twd pony ideas

#i genuinely don't know how to tag this #the walking dead #twd au #mlp au #rick grimes #negan smith #twd fanart #fanf quotes #the first day of the rest of your life

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bunnybeandraws · 2 years

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@fluffydancer618 @bubblegum-gf

I tried for a bit to add this to a reblog, but hhhhhh-

But, yea, what if I just-

#i genuinely don't know how to tag this

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goldenpark28 · 7 days

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really random thought i've had since I finished watching one tree hill last year...the oversexualization of teenagers in media is a conversation that needs to be had.

TRIGGER WARNING:

Mentions of SA towards the end. It is 🚩flagged🚩for you to move past if you need it.

the oversexualization of teenagers in media is a conversation that needs to be had.

friendly reminder that while some actors are adults, their characters are often not. and it makes me personally really uncomfortable with just how comfortable media is with oversexualizing teenagers.

it's made me feel this way since I was like 14 myself and i realized some adults are sitting in a room somewhere writing sex scenes about literal children together. like...what? how is that okay?

or when i saw people (**emphasizing it is not everyone, not even close but still needs to be talked about**) legitimately upset there weren't any sex scenes in fucking heartstopper. charlie is literally 14 years old when the show starts, what the hell is wrong with you.

i think prime example is shows like euphoria or even bringing it back to one tree hill. both shows with showrunners/executives who purposefully oversexualized and adult-i-fied teenagers beyond their years, especially young women and then shame those same characters who choose to be sexually active in different ways.

it feels like the media is reinforcing these ideals of growing up too fast, almost? if that's the best way i can explain it. you have people in real life saying everyone is on their own timeline and then the media shows teenagers doing adult things, and then people either feel 1) like they're way behind or b) that it's okay to shame people who aren't living life on their own timeline that may be faster or just simply different than someone else's.

sex and exploration is natural. it's a part of life. sex and exploration is just about inevitable for some at that age. that's not the problem.

the problem for me is with shows that use their script as some perverted fantasy about minors. or have fans who over sexualize them because the actors are adults but their characters are literally sophomores/juniors in high school.

while the characters may not be real, the sentiment towards them is. and i feel like there needs to be a conversation about that as a whole. if you wouldn't morally say that to, do that to, or even thank about anything in that realm about a 16 year old in real life as an adult, why is it okay for you to say that about a fictional character of the same age and mentality?

***having adults play teenagers play teenagers is whole other subtopic about setting unrealistic expectations through media***

i feel like this also goes towards fanfiction...how many times have you read something where someone had to point out several times they were not comfortable with writing smut either because of their age, the characters', or they just simply did not consent to do doing so because they did not want to and people harassed them for it anyways? i have many MANY times.

there are ways to go about sex in media targeted towered a certain age with taste and respect. every other way just sets unrealistic expectations and false narratives that masses of people are buying into. or are seeing as being okay. no one should be made to feel shamed. and no one should be made to feel pressured. it's even reflected in clothing and music as well.

my brothers and I are just about 10 years apart. what was in media when they were teenagers versus what was in media as I am feels vastly different. the overall what is allowed in any context feels concerningly different in the level it's reached, but the same with shows like OTH who were maybe a little too okay with what they were showing. this isn't anything new. it's just worse.

I think it's also important to bring up censorship in the sense that we don't want to go too far in banning what we show or talk about because you can never fully hide something from a kid. especially this day in age. it's honestly just not safe to act like things like sex and drugs don't exist. when you villainize them so young instead of having an open. respectful conversation, you make a kid more curious to see what all the fuss is about.

prime example are the shows Boy Meets World and Girl Meets World. (Boy Meets World for YEARS after it aired on ABC, having been moved to Disney Channel.)

the topics that were even allowed to be discussed on either are VASTLY different. BMW did a whole episode on the emotional vulnerability of cults. CULTS. Could you imagine disney doing cults today? I know that as a whole by the time GMW came out, tv had entirely shifted on networks like disney from family shows to kids show. that's a big part of the problem. being afraid to have respectful, safe conversations is where things go wrong. when people are left to figure things out on their own, it can go down hill very fast.

younger and younger there's pressure to do things like wear makeup and crop tops and have already met these certain milestones when it comes to love (and even sex) through what media tells them to do.

i think with so much access to any form of media via the internet today, younger generations are heavily exposed to far from innocent things younger and younger. that scares me. it scared me then. it scares me now.

and i don't know. it just makes me uncomfortable when i see someone be like "ooh, i went feral at this scene" and the characters are supposed to be like 16-17. And then the person commenting it is in their late 20s, early 30s or older. it's just not adding up to me. i do have problems with reading social cues so maybe I'm overthinking this.

maybe it's a conversation of separating art from artist? i don't know if i'm wording this right. i don't want to get attacked on here for not being sex positive or whatever. i absolutely am.

there is nothing wrong with having sex.

i think sex and affection needs to be a consented choice for anyone involved whenever they feel ready, safe, and respected. i just don't feel like that's being reflected enough in media, particularly in media geared towards young people. you can never be too respectful or too consenting. that fact that we live in an age where people have to say the find consent sexy in order to have their boundaries respected is a little mortifying.

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and then you hear about these horrible experiences people have and you have to start wondering why those people (particularly assaulters) were made to think it was okay to that. or even victims who are made to feel like they're crazy for having not been ready or people who get shamed for having not lost their virginity yet or been kissed yet.

because hatred and abuse of power is absolutely taught. we see this with the shitty alpha male mentality. young boys are being taught by online presences that they should be in total control of a woman's life and her body, that women should be servants to men and be grateful men even let them exist. those are people who are gonna grow up and go into the real world and think that is okay. who ar entirely unaware that women do in fact have rights.

THAT IS VERY SCARY. Women and LGBT youth are losing their rights to conservative agendas around the world. These combinations are lethal. They are deadly. It is so much more than just a sex scene.

It's understanding that assault, harassment, and harm have a spectrum. any form of nonconsenting advances are still assault, harassment, and harm. they are still devastatingly traumatizing.

and they start with social spheres of influence like the media and peers who tell them it's okay to violate someone else.

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you look at how teenagers are with social media today alone. while they are teenagers, they are still children. their brains are still forming. their ideals of what is right and wrong is being heavily influenced by what they see on a screen. kids are being exposed to too much and i'm just wondering when it's gonna stop. is it ever gonna stop? or have we genuinely reached a point of no return in society?

is this something scientists are gonna study 40 years from now and say this is where we went wrong? i don't want my future children exposed to the levels of adulthood that children are being exposed to now. this goes beyond how sex is represented.

it's a conversation about how do we as a society protect and respect the age timeline of milestones so there isn't so much pressure in the media to grow up faster than one needs to or should. parents and guardians can only do so much on there end. at some pint, some of the responsibility lies with the media being shown too. kids are sneaky. especially ones with strict parents. those kids need to be protected.

My mom used to love watching Law and Order: SVU. That shit was traumatizing to even catch glimpses of as a child. But my parents had safe, respectful conversations with me about what I saw so I would know what was and what isn't okay. i still shouldn't have been exposed to that in way shape or form (sorry not sorry mom, still love you🥰.)

this was a really long post and i don't tend to get a lot of interaction so if you do happen to see any of this by chance of a miracle, please comment and share your thoughts. i know mentalities around social media and sex are different around the world. i'm just curious as to how those conversations are had and how media is different depending on where you are with topics like these.

i don't even know how to tag this so this is probably really random

#fandom #women's right's #i genuinely don't know how to tag this #social media #one tree hill #euphoria

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something-awful1 · 29 days

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this should be a thing i think

my friends have started a thing where randomly, in the middle of conversation, someone will go "GUYS WAIT," and if anyone is like "what?" they'll go "does the queen have that gyatt?" and it's usually met with exasperated sighs, keysmashing, and occasionally said person getting blocked or removed from the chat. it's silly, and i think more people should do it. go be annoying besties <3

#i genuinely don't know how to tag this #annoying the hell out of people?#live advice #definetly #this is good advice #please make this happen

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thefoldedbird · 4 months

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Person 1 likes a thing. Person 2 likes a different thing. Person 2 does not like the thing Person 1 likes.

This does not make the thing Person 1 likes any less valid.

Person 2 is allowed to voice their dislike of the thing Person 1 likes. This action is fine. What would not be fine is Person 2 being a jerk and putting down Person 1 for liking their thing.

Different people like different things and don't owe anyone an explanation as to why they do. An important social skill in a person is the ability to recognize when something either isn't for/about them and then subsequently either moving on or tactfully voicing their opinion/dislike without including the slander of those that it is for/do like said thing.

Person 1 and Person 2 can even be friends. They can have differing opinions on a subject but still remain respectful and cordial with their disagreements.

#social commentary #?#I genuinely don't know how to tag this

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elspeth-catton · 4 months

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i'm so so sorry to the people that didn't get to see saltburn in theaters because imo it was truly the best way to watch it

feeding off of the energy of all the other people in a packed theater, it feels SO much more voyeuristic with strangers sitting right next to you in a dark room with all your senses heightened, the soft gasps, the shocked laughs, people mumbling "what the fuck" to their movie partner next to them under their breath, i cannot describe the high i got off of seeing it in theaters

the genuine goosebumps i had from the soundtrack in surround sound, from rosamund's gut-wrenching scream, it is just not the same at home

i feel like if you didn't see it in theaters, it's not fair to give it a terrible review because it is really a completely different experience

#saltburn #saltburn 2023 #genuinely i don't think you can get the same thing out of it just from streaming it #and i don't know if i would be as madly and completely obsessed if i didn't see it in person #it is the greatest movie theater experience i've ever had #tomorrow is the official for real last day in theaters and i'm going to miss it so much #there's so many bad takes i'm seeing in the main tag that i think would be fixed if you saw it in theaters idk #but also i really don't want to debate with people how good i think it is if you disagree with me you can just block me it's fine

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