#I meant ex-boyfriend

[boag]

Not this dude arguing with me on that post I made referencing the “male loneliness epidemic” and reading everything I said in the worst faith possible and refusing to interpret words in any way that makes sense and then calling me a bitter feminist and making this stupid ass post abt me 💀 literally none of this follows an intelligible train of thought and most of these points have absolutely nothing to do with anything that was being discussed I feel like I’m having a fucking stroke trying to understand it😭

#it seems like he’s been quietly coping and seething about women voicing opinions for a while #and just decided to let it all out at once bc of me😭😭 #like my EX??? who said that!??? #wait my bad I forgot if a woman has a problem with misogyny it’s bc she’s projecting her fragile feelings abt an ex boyfriend onto other men #i thought women had the capacity to understand complex social issues for a second :( #‘vile shit’ I was not even mean to this person I just explained what I meant bc he was running with a wild misinterpretation in my replies #and getting mad about it

[ruiconteur]

just rewatched li lianhua and di feisheng's reunion and can i just say it's very fucking funny to hear li lianhua tell di feisheng 君子动口不动手 / a gentleman uses his mouth not his hands bc the last time i heard it used in real life it was as a sexual innuendo LMFAOOOOOO

#maybe i'll write this fic one day #that was also coincidentally the most memorable instance i rmb someone in my life using this idiom bc it was just so fucking funny to me #bc it was said by one of my best friends (whose chinese is q good) to her banana (now-ex) boyfriend #who didn't understand what she meant 😭 LMFAOOOOOOO #rui rambles #dihua #lhl #mysterious lotus casebook #li lianhua #di feisheng

[judasofsuburbia]

yeah okay we're all mad about the stupid time jump at the end of s4 and we think everyone except dustin being fine ??? is such weak writing right okay. we're dealing with teenagers here. heavily traumatized teenagers. and for whatever reason, their chosen angle was "they're going to help the town because they're heroes" okay fine whatever. but they also somehow? care about pursuing their love interests after all of that bullshit too?? starting with robin and vickie, regardless of whatever lesbian card they wanted to play giving her a love interest, do we really think robin would want to let someone in like that so soon after watching people she loves nearly die? that getting a girlfriend would be the first thing on her mind??? i'm sure robin is relieved to see vickie but it shouldn't have translated to "okay here's my chance!!". and steve being comforted by robin about nancy??? nancy running into jonathan's arms is to be expected and steve KNOWS that. i don't think he STILL expects an answer from nancy for his near-death love confession, especially in front of literally everyone they know. like i just think the most important thing to these characters would be that these people are Alive and Safe and despite being so young, would put aside their romantic feelings for JUST A FUCKING SECOND to grieve what happened. combining the pining with the weak "lets repair the town" plotline is just bad and muddy.

we know the duffers use shallow romance plots as a crutch fucking Always but it is just so sad to watch characters care about trivial crushes or exes after everything that's happened to them.

#my thoughts on stancy ASIDE i just think steve would feel the same way he did in s2 where it's like 'okay we're not meant for each other' #and okay cool i'm happy that jonathan's here now and can be that comfort for you #he wasn't that jealous ex he was a jealous boyfriend but not ex he respected her space???? #and robin whomst romance has never been at the forefront until this season wouldn't just shift gears like that it feels so unnatural #not that they can't still have lingering feelings for these people but more so that it's simply not important rn #stranger things #steve harrington #robin buckley

[whipbogard]

Happy Mother’s Day to Dr Thomas Elliot

#hope someone breeds him well #and by someone i meant Linc Bruce or Harv #I ain’t picky #one of his canonical ex boyfriends is fine too #thomas elliot #tommy elliot

[meat-huge-pain-endless]

peeling my skin off and tearing my hair out and screaming and crying and vomiting and walking into traffic and

#i’ve had a rough one today #i am alone and unwanted and my ex boyfriend (who is one of my best friends still) is sleeping with one of my friends #i’m not jealous of either of them it’s just that that friend was the first person i ever talked to abt my ex who had never met or been told #abt him prior #and that meant a lot to me #so i felt a little betrayed at first #he told me it’s like a casual short term thing but it still stings #i’m also just jealous of the attention? #i just want to be wanted #i want someone to want me enough to actually do something about it #i’m so drained and depressed and sick to my stomach rn #ugh whatever i can’t do this anymore #shut up michael #my ex also bailed on plans we had tn that were HIS IDEA to fuck her. so i’m feeling rlly loved and valued and appreciated :)))) #he apologized and like he’s going thru smth rn and he was very transparent abt that with me #AND YET #THESE HORRIBLE FEELINGS PERSIST #ok i’m actually done now

[robotpussy]

i see why ppl watch euphoria but this show is so fucking terrible oh my god

#i was watching a yoiutube video that parodied the fight maddie? and the other one had when zendayas character was #asking abt why cassie took maddies ex boyfriend or whatever and I had 2 see it for myself #like ok its sex (oh my god) drugs and drama its still weird that they're teens and its shot nicely. very stylised but omds #like the scene where barbie ferriera (or whatever) is fighting the girls in head abt loving herself.... it was so bad its meant to be #powerful but im sorry i was cringing the whole time idk ik that's the just the tone of the entire show but man

[hshouse]

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#tea is this #het fans are the least creative people on earth #so they take never start anything #they just follow us #WE (heheh) started the relationship signs #w mainly the coming out signs #we started the lights projects #WE took the flags and when they realized that he eould pick up #they brought them too #now they all make the same fucking poster about an ex boyfriend #throw the same fucking hat #the same fucking sunglasses #and the same fucking boa #NO CREATIVITY IN THEIR HOUSE CLEARLY #all of this to say #I do think part of the lack of flags #is hets moving on #because it never meant anything to them #more than getting an ‘interaction’ w harry

[throwbacktears]

anyway

with me back on my 5sos wagon, im just really glad i didnt get rid of my old tour programs and my slfl shirt

#that concert really did me in #i seriously thought i had moved on!!! 🤡 #i wasnt going to get rid of my programs. but my slfl shirt is p torn up and i did consider donating it #i havent listened to their discog this seriously since youngblood #and here i am. hemm-ifying my blog like its 2015 all over again #they meant sm to me as a teenager my soft spot for them and what theyve been up to never left #but now its like… im back in boys. listening to all their music and watching their interviews and old streams lol #theyre like the nice ex boyfriend youre still friends w and catch up every once in awhile lol #its crazy how ‘at home’ i felt at their show compared to the other concerts ive been to this year #its like. smth about all of it has been v neat and wholesome for me to revisit #mytext

[spicy-gf-archive]

sigh… i miss my boyfriends, (b.ob and bo.sip) tails…. i miss them a-lot…

#aughhh… thinking about your old F/Os is so painful. honestly… #hnnghhh… my 2 ex-boyfriends!!!! they meant the world to me. until December 25th 2021 happened… #listening to “sunflower” by rex orange county is bringing up heart-aching memories!! uh oh!! #y’know… i wish their creator wasn’t such a nonce. and it would’ve been nice if HE did not that… #but oh well!! no use crying over it now. i’ve moved on!! #but still… i miss them a-lot… it aches my heart to think about them after all this time… #⛈️

[anxietykicksmyass]

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#im sorry but what are you meant to do when. without wanting to or meaning to even the slightest bit. #you betray the person you care most about in the whole world and send them into possibly some of the worst heartache they've ever known. #what the FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME???? #WHY CANT I JST **NOT** FUCK EVERYTHING UP #I SHOULD NEVBER HAVE BEEN FUCKING BORN EVERYONE WOULD BE SO MUCH HAPPIER IF I HADNT #I KNOW HE WOULD BE. I KNOW MY PARENTS WOULD BE. #i try to think of any good i've done for anyone in my life and just. #maybe i helped him stay alive to this point i don't know. i guess i probably helped him feel happier moving forward in the past. #but i highly doubt that *i* would've been the difference between him being here or not so i guarantee he would be happier. #maybe two of my friends might never have gotten together if i hadn't been born. #is that all my purpose was. #...with my now-ex boyfriend. i felt so strongly the moment i first saw him on tumblr that he was going to be important in my life. #he showed up on my dash venting about his life and i followed and sent an ask to offer some comfort #fucking. Years later we were fucking ENGAGED and I RUINED EVERYTHING WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME

[thedeadthree]

if i buy cyberpunk again this time on pc what if i did

#leg.txt #I JUST MISS VIKA SO MUCH ​and maybe ill get dragon age for alphonsa screenies 🖤🖤 and fnv bc i miss morgie <3 #im already replaying dao on console but i think i should 🗡🖤😌 #WAIT I ALSO REALIZED WITH PC I CAN GET MODS FOR DAI AND CONFIGURE LHYSA TO HER CANON LOOKS IN MY MIND 🌸💞😭 #the meanie corpo lady ! she’s on the brain AGAIN !!!!!! #i also need to make luka in the char creator teehee #(and maybe ANOTHER corpo hehehe this time he’s yoris main guard and another one of vikas exes 🥀✨🥴) #(they came up around the same time and he’s a nepo baby as well (his grandmother is saburos sister) so! hehe!) #i told yall she collects corpo boyfriends like rocks 🥀✨🥴 I MEANT WHAT I SAID SKSJZJZJ #LEG PLAY THE GAMES YOU HAVE 🥀✨🥴😠 #like what i did with yelena and fo3 but this time with ice queenie vika 🗡🖤😌

[wow-itsme]

so the other night i couldn’t sleep and i was rereading through old messages between me and my first boyfriend. we had a pretty short and shallow relationship, and we were eventually friends after. i had kind of forgotten about some of these messages.

while reading some of them, i noticed the obvious melodrama of a high school relationship’s dialogue and started noting that some of these messages might be useful to me for writing songs.

there was this one that i really noticed, from an argument we were having, pretty angsty stuff and all, it was “you do have 100% of me, by the way, because you are all i fucking have” and i was just thinking like wow, that’s a lot, especially for that relationship. and then the next day i was working on a song and i went back to the message to make sure i had the quote right and then i SAW THE CONTEXT.

THAT EMOTIONAL ANGSTY DESPERATE MESSAGE WAS IN RESPONSE TO A S E U S S I C A L Q U O T E MADE BY ME BECAUSE THIS BOY AND I HAD BEEN IN SEUSSICAL JR IN MIDDLE SCHOOL TOGETHER AND I THOUGHT HE LIKED ONE OF OUR FRIENDS.

#i meant what i said and i said what i meant #an elephants faithful 100% #you can throw me in jail #lock me up in a zoo #but i won’t desert my egg and i will not abandon who #if this is relevant the messages were over email #songwriting #ex boyfriend #horton the elephant #remanded to the nool asylum for the criminally insane #seussical jr

[chisatowo]

I love making aro characters as an aro person cause it's just self inflicted relief after spending so much time seeing the weak alloro aro hcs as the "nothing" option for a characters romantic orientation to just remember that aro characters can in fact be written to be complex and interesting characters and their aromanticism can be incredibly meaningful to their character and story even if it's not a point of conflict

#rat rambles #just me thinking abt my aro ocs and going oghhhhh ahgghdjdgkfjndjdh #idk I just like that reminder that being aro is a thing I can be proud of. and that I am proud of #also cause god Im so starved of well written aro characters I could name like One #and its riz and thats still pretty surface level stuff #dont get me wrong that made me super emotional and happy and it meant A Lot to me to actually see an aro character like that #but it makes me long for more at the same time. idk I just want more varied aro stories in the world and more aro stories in general #anyways shout out to my stinky aro incel man who I am too attached too for my own good tkfndjd #smth smth guys with abandonment issues who believe that romance is the only thing that ppl care abt and as such romantic relationships are #the only thing ppl want to keep you around for excetera excetera #so when his ex/bestie got a new boyfriend he immediately freaked out a bit abt being potentially abandoned #which wasnt helped by how fast the two moved and by them going missing soon after #and he has a lot of shit goiny on that I wont go ibto rn cause Im tired gjxjdndh #oc posting

[zuble]

i need to get back into tarot readings for myself, because the readers on youtube are, exceptionally cishet

#hey guys. spiritually. divine feminine has never meant ‘is a female’ and divine masculine has never meant ‘is a male’ #every reading i see is like ‘heyyy divine feminines!! ur divine masculine ex is coming back and he’s jealous!! :0’ #‘hi divine feminine queens!! you are so beautiful girlies and your divine masculine boyfriends love you!!!!’ #it’s so annoying

[arikesblog]

#love #Trying to get over an ex-boyfriend? #Hi there #I'm Arike and I'm not a relationship or love expert but I'll be giving tips on how you can get over your ex boyfriend you still love from e #Getting over your ex won't be an easy thing to do but I hope all these tips will help. #1.ACCEPTING THE FACT:When my ex and I broke up it was all hard on me #I was thinking and getting slowly into depression thinking what I would be or do without him.He seemed like the only person who understood #in the first place the break up wouldn't have happened or probably mother earth wouldn't have made any of us do anything that caused the br #accepting the fact that you and him weren't meant for each other would be the first step in helping you to forget your ex boyfriend. #2.KNOWING YOU CAN DO WITHOUT HIM AND WILL GET SOMEONE BETTER:He isn't the only guy who can treat u right believe me dear there are thousand #3.FOCUSING ON YOURSELF TO GET OVER YOUR EX:Your financial life #education #businsss #family–Do things u can't do #if u dont have a business starting up one won't be bad.You would be able to focus on the growth of your new business.Getting back to my sho #learn new things that would take your time.examples of skills you can learn are ;website designing #digital marketing #make up artistry and others. #4.GOING ON DATES OR ATTENDING PARTIES:Go to parties you were invited to or go out with friends or go alone if you dont have friends and tak #5.CRYING ALL YOU WANT: Do not hold your tears in #cry all you want.The heart gets tired and weak especially when you cry over a loved person.and this will make you stronger.After sometime y #6.DON'T STALK HIM EITHER PHYSICALLY OR ON SOCIAL MEDIAS:I know you would want to do know if your ex is doing well without you but do not st #you can mute their posts or statuses but the best you can do is sending a text to them for them to restrict you from seeing their posts.And #you should just block them. Its for your good dear your emotional health matters more and if they feel offended you explain to them in a wa #CONCLUSION:Getting over your ex boyfriend won't be an easy thing but all these tips would help you I'm sure and If you don't have the money #you can do it FIGHTING!!

[furby-organist]

> Hey Alexa, what are you doing on a Saturday night?

> He's drunk as fuck, watching bootleg interrogation tapes and screeching at the TV the way normal people screech at football games.

#// when he said 'REALITY! TRUE PASSION!' he definitely meant this one dude who actually killed people and is being questioned just. flying #off the handle threatening to go rambo and shove his size 8 shoe up a cop's ass. and also ramble about his ex wifes boyfriend and how he #sucks. and then claim to know karate and show off his moves (he doesnt) and claim to be in hells angels (he isnt) and then lift his shirt #to show his abs (theyre not there) and his white power tattoo (it is very much there.) a whole fucking mess. #just. these interrogations are so much. #rn he's watching a dude say 'i aint answering your questions' to the cops every 2 minutes between actually answering the cops questions. #this goes on for 45 minutes.