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#I ramble in the tags a bit and it's trite pseudo-philosophical bullshit so skip please
deepspaceclawstation
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3 years
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#Sometimes people just assume the worst about you
#and stick with that assumption so firmly there's seldom anything you can do to change their mind
#Personal
#I ramble in the tags a bit and it's trite pseudo-philosophical bullshit so skip please
#It's sad that this happens but to a certain extent I understand?
#Like you've been hurt and shunned so many times you come to treat it as a standard
#So when someone approaches you and disagrees/doesn't immediately agree with everything you say your mind frames them as the 'enemy'
#The 'exclusionist' with so many 'red flags'
#Not that there aren't exclusionists with red flags running amok
#But every person? Every argument?
#This isn't solely about that catboy person this is something I feel applies to myself too
#How do we suss out people's intentions? Do intentions even matter in the larger context? What even is a 'good faith' argument?
#It just makes me so sad that we live in a society that makes it necessary for us or at least ingrains into us
#the need to go over each and every word (ours and others') each and every interaction with a fine-tooth comb
#It's exhausting and draining
#No wonder people are isolating themselves more and more it is a sign of the times
#This was brought on because I 'had to' go through that person's blog
#and I did understand a bit about where they are coming from (it definitely added some much-needed context)
#but mostly it was very 'recognition of self through the other'
#God help us all
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