#I refuse to settle

[yourbleedingh3art]

I will always believe i can have my cake and eat it too and if youre telling me i cant , I dont believe you.

#WHY WOULD YOU EVEN GET CAKE AND NOT EAT IT #JUST TO LOOK AT IT? #JUST CUZ ITS A WEDDING AND ITS TRADITION. #ITS STUPID TO HAVE CAKE AND NOT EAT IT #I REFUSE TO SETTLE #I WILL HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT #blog post

[iamonlyhereforthefreefood]

It is sad to me how many women settle for ugly men with terrible personalities just to avoid being single. Please learn to love yourself.

#i've been single for 27 years and i'm going to keep being single until i find someone worth my time #i refuse to settle #'oh have fun being 40 and single' #ok??? have fun with your husband who cheats on you and doesn't wipe his ass because he thinks it's gay

[canisalbus]

There's a special pain that comes from not knowing how to make your long-snouted dog people kiss properly.

#no I still haven't figured it out #yes the research is ongoing #there's just too much snout #and teeth #and I absolutely refuse to give them any tiniest resemblance of lips to cushion their muzzles that's a hard limit #own art #own characters #CanisAlbus #Vasco #Machete #this far I've settled for one sided cheek/forehead/side of mouth kisses but it'd be nice to get the real deal damnit #there has to be a way

[rodentjazz]

Hear me out

#jrwi riptide #jrwi fanart #jay and ensa are endgame I need something to happen before the end of the campaign #I can’t take another yuri L #also ik jay is a pirate but i refuse to believe she would settle for a peg leg #the inventor of contraception and the person who implemented a soul into a ship would invent blade prosthetics if she had to #jrwi ensa #jrwi jay #what’s thier ship name #I miss riptide #I’ve been informed #clockwork rivals #birdbolt

[nunalastor]

Adam is older than marriage as a constitution - so he predates all the ceremony and contracts and blah blah - so as far as he's concerned he's married to anyone and everyone he's slept with. And while he's aware that monogamy is a thing that exists, it's very much not his thing.

So as far as he's concerned, he and the rest of the harem are all Alastor's husbands.

Lmaoooo

#hazbin hotel #Adam #nunalastor asks #tho I think Adam is more of a person who refuses to settle down because of his past experience #homie got cheated on twice #I think he just doesn't think to hard on things #he probably doesn't know how to feel about it so he doesn't think about it

[puppydoggraham]

Will and Hannibal were in love and made it everyone’s problem and I love them for that

#hannibal #hannigram #will graham #nbc hannibal #I refuse to settle for anything less

[cursehole]

I'm sooo annoyed with instagram. I can't beat the algorithm there, sadly. Tell me why the app congratulated me on getting 5k views, apparently the most I've gotten all month, when I have nearly 35k followers. So, about 30k of my audience isn't seeing my posts at all. No wonder I get 'good to see you again' type comments on random ass posts lol Has anyone else had much luck on other apps or sites?

#not sure where to make a settled place for myself to post? #I like tumblr but I dont feel like its a good primary posting place for me bc the app is weird and confusing for me and bc I have to format #my canvas sizes for it more than insta #insta is also where i easily make my sales for stickers and designs etc #hhhhhhhh #tackytext #complaining im just bitching #I absolutely refuse to use twitter tho #such a cesspool #not the people #their TOS

[disaster-j]

Okay but bisexuals loudly calling themselves ally right before experiencing something incredibly and undoubtedly homosexual is suuuuch a canon event

#obviously this post is about #evan buckley #911 on abc #buddie #bucktommy #kinley #kinkley #tevan #i hate yall for refusing to settle on a ship name already

[nhaneh]

Miqo'March 24, Free Day the Aunt

"I never had a mother - it was an aunt who first nursed me when I was very young. She was kind enough, and didn't treat me much different from her own child. I was just never allowed to believe she was my actual mother."

#ffxiv #miqomarch #kea lurvis #h'mira mar #gpose shenanigans #still haven't quite settled on a name for the aunt lmao #i have a vague general characterisation for her in mind #but not a lot of specifics #kea has mostly fond memories of her #i don't think she was who decided kea see her as her aunt #rather I think that was probably something other kids told her #proclaiming kea to be afflicted by a curse of motherlessness #and refusing to befriend her in case her curse spread to them #children can be very cruel #and kea was too different

[cupcakeinat0r]

Me on Tumblr: I wanna big ass man to absolutely destroy me n do disgusting things to me. I will cook and clean and give him children and also baby him.

Me irl if a guy looked my way: Please leave me alone and also I hate you.

#me when I realize if I want a man I have to talk to one #🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 #i love scary men #but also #don’t touch me peasant #I’m literally also a 10/10 n these mfs r soooooo not #21 years and no boyf bc I’m soooo picky n I simply refuse to settle for anything less than perfection

[just-late-roman-republic-things]

I do not know whether working toward a better world will succeed, but I am certain that giving up will not help anyone.

#i am not an optimist out of naive faith. i am an optimist because i refuse to settle for what we've been given. #positivity #hope #jlrrt speaks

[noisytenant]

there are therapists who specialize in cptsd. you dont need to go to inexperienced talk therapy or cbt or dbt ever again if you dont want to. there are options

#indexed post #Highly reductive please do not reply to me reminding me of the various other barriers to access - I KNOW #This isnt to say cptsd therapists on the whole are more competent than others - more research is needed #But like. You don't have to settle. It doesn't necessarily cost any more to have a therapist who is equipped to handle Shit #Sorry i just like saw multiple posts today but ljke #One meme like 'therapists if you talk about anything that isnt garden variety anxiety or depression' #and its like You can literally check their webpage or email them to ask if they specialize in whatever shit you have going on #A lot of therapists are inexperienced or incompetent but if you refuse to select for ones who nominally understand your shit #Then i kinda think youre shooting yourself in the foot

[atopvisenyashill]

i totally get not shipping jonerys but i think there's too much potential for george not to explore. i do think jon is going to be critical of dany’s methods and they’re doomed, but they have a lot in common too? like wanting to impose their beliefs and world view on others, and they can bond over having really bad pr too! i just hope that it’s more interesting than the show, for my own sanity.

I do think there's potential to explore but I just do not see the romantic potential. Their commonalities are not the sort that would make them get along. Jon's bad PR is he's a reclusive dick running off bad advice (from another Targaryen to boot) who won't explain his long term plans to people he doesnt like, sends every single one of his allies away, and is trying to break down long held prejudices in the span of a few months. Dany's bad PR seems similar except on top of "breaking down long held prejudices" she trusts violent, shady ass men at every turn (while Jon just straight up executes Slynt! Do you see Jon misstep wrt Alliser and Bowen? Yes, but he is not sitting here justifying their violence the way Dany justifies men like Daario), compromises in ways that completely undermine the prejudices she's trying to break down, and has now simply accepted that her dragons killing innocent people is an acceptable loss. Dany takes a profit off the selling of slaves and I simply do not believe Jon would react so cavalierly to Dany telling him about how she burned her slave alive to hatch her dragons, especially after whatever shenanigans Melisandre and Stannis are going to be getting up to in TWOW. Not for nothing here, but Jon does not use Ghost as a killing machine; anyone or anything Ghost has killed has been in defense of Jon while Drogon is very much a weapon of war.

Beyond that, Dany's identity is very tied up in the being the last dragon. She's going to be ten times worse in the books about finding a dragonseed in Westeros, especially if Rhaegar found out Elia was killed and married Lyanna, thereby legitimizing Jon above Dany's own claim. She's going to kill Aegon VI and destroy KL, maybe even Casterly Rock and parts of Dorne as well! The thing I think everyone overlooks here though is that she is not getting to Westeros until the very end of TWOW at the earliest! She's going to have wracked up a kill count higher than every other character on page, probably a kill count higher than the Conquerors or the Dance or the Redgrass Field. Regardless of any similarities they have in their backgrounds, what Jon is likely to feel when she lands is horror, and a fair amount of nerves. Do I think he will feel guilt for having a hand in his aunt's death, in ending the line of Targaryens? Yes, absolutely! It doesn't mean his guilt will drive him to side with a woman who lands with a slave army and then sets fire to half the continent.

And to be completely honest, if they do hook up, if she lands and she's lauded as a hero after destroying the city states of Slaver's Bay, after slaughtering the khals of the dothraki, after taking a profit off slavery and engaging in collective and cruel & unusual punishment, if murdering Aegon VI for *checks notes* being lied to about who he is and having a better claim than her but not "earning" his ending, and finds some sort of happiness with Jon, I'm saying that's 100x more misogynistic than what the show did, not to mention nauseatingly imperialist and classist. The reason I am very firm in saying Dany will go dark is because it is my opinion anything less is a betrayal of the themes of non violence, the costs of war, and the punishing of the poor. Like, Robb's murder is a tragedy but the book does not shy away from the harm he does! Dany will not (should not!) be treated any different just because she's a woman; that's like the basis of feminist theory!

#a normal person would look at the mess she made of slaver's bay and go 'dude what the fuck is wrong with you.' #unfortunately jonathan snowflake of game of thrones hbo is blinded by emilia's pretty face just like d&d and emilia herself are! #anti daenerys targaryen #anti jonerys #like even if jonsa doesn't happen. they're not hooking up. there's a world i do believe jon feels a complicated kinship with her. #but that doesn't mean he's going to like her. #like if jon had settled the wildlings and been like 'this is too hard. you're all part of the night's watch now and you have no choice' #you can bet i'd be dragging his ass the way i drag hers. but he gets shanked specifically bc he *refuses* to compromise in this way. #dany is a politican. jon is an idealist. neither ultimately makes good leaders. #asks #once again sorry if this sounds mad. i'm not mad. just animated.

[twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat]

ghost!toji x reader ….. hmmmm hm hm hm

#THINKING MANY THOUGHTS #one thing abt me is i fucking LOVE ghosts easily the best supernatural creatures ill forever die on this hill #anyway my idea for it is cliche but im weak for it ok 😔😔 #reader can see ghosts obviously. and ghosts need to settle their scores to move on properly #but toji is jaded and cynical and refuses to. he meets reader and is surprised they can see him but also doesnt really give a shit #but reader wants to help ghosts ichigo kurosaki style and ends up persuading toji to let them … #just. putting flowers on mamagumi’s grave… making sure gumi has a proper support system . checking up on shiu. etc etc #and obviously toji grows fond of reader because he hadnt realized how lonely he was #so maybe he asks for one final favor — for them to let him stay by their side for a bit longer .. #im also very much imagining this as a roomate au . toji crashes on your couch and you have to listen to his snoring from the bedroom <3333 #I JUST THINK GHOST!TOJI IS SO GOODDDDD HE’S SO SAD :(((( but also such a prick #also 100% the type to spook anyone who tries to flirt w reader and theyre like ??? wtf was that for. 🤨🤨 he ignores them . #scary dog priviliege except the scary dog is incorporeal <3333 protects you but like . transparently #need to write this someday #i have a lotttt of trouble imagining toji romantically though like that’s my whole father … #IM GONNA TRY THO !! #ari noises ✩

[benrybenrybenry-chr]

"the empty house is actually just a cover story for Watson beating the shit out of Holmes-" bad take. sorry not sorry.

#*LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER SOUNDS* #I cannot fathom the idea that people think Watson settles his issues like a child #he can be a civil adult and have a conversation #I refuse to believe he would hurt Holmes #especially not like that #sherlock holmes #acd canon #acd holmes #acd sherlock holmes

[sidetongue]

ignore the drool

#he gets carsick #but not like vomiting carsick just drooly and sad #and it took me a while to realise #and i started to panic because he was refusing high value treats when we would leave the yard #and i thought he must be flooded and overthreshold and not coping #even though he SEEMED ok #then the penny dropped that he was refusing food because he was nauseous #so now we have to walk on leash for 5 minutes whenever we drive somewhere #so his tummy can settle and he remembers that he's food motivated #because lets be real the only reason my dogs recall is because they get paid #sprig #dogs