Jim and Spock: Vulcan married (by accident) in that Spock's pon farr was resolved with Jim (they rolled in the sacred sands and didn't die!)
Bones and Spock: Vulcan married (also by accident) in that they have an irreversible bond after the fal-tor-pan (I think this extended his lifespan to match a Vulcan's but idk where I read that, might've just been fanon)
Jim and Bones: Human married for sure. they had Spock officiate (partly cause he's the first officer and is able to do that, and partly cause they love him and wanted him involved) and they both cried.
all three: take turns getting married in all sorts of different cultures whenever aliens want them to do their special bonding ceremony. (same post as before but it's relevant here too) Once they encountered a planet where the locals marry in threes and of course they did it. They didn't even need to for the mission but they wanted to so bad. Jim and Bones cried again and Spock smiled when nobody was looking
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Obviously I’d want them to do whatever makes them happiest but part of me really does hope that if i ever get married that my spouse takes my last name, not because it’s traditional or whatever but because i just really want to take my own name back and actually form a family that i love and that loves me in return out of it. I want to overshadow my past and reclaim my identity and share it with you, i want us to be so intricately tied together in every possible way i want to make a little family of just you and me where there’s so so so much love, just as families are supposed to be
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