#I’m apologising in advance bc these tags are about to be rude

[hella1975]

Eat your pasta dearie

this actually did cross my mind when I was making my pasta to eat

#I’m apologising in advance bc these tags are about to be rude #so just a heads up anon this is very much one of those ‘x thing has happened multiple times and I’m finally snapping’ things #that sees me lashing out at the next unfortunate anon that does it regardless of their intentions #so I’m very sorry it’s not you it’s just a trend I don’t like #but basically #sending things like ‘be safe’ ‘drink water’ etc are really nice things to do #like I don’t want what I’m saying here to be misconstrued as ALL messages like this being bad #but if I make a post effectively being like ‘my cramps are so bad I can’t even eat the pasta I made’ #and your response is ‘eat your pasta’ then can you see how that can actually be super invalidating? #for me I can hear a very loud ‘just’ at the beginning of that sentence #and it happens a lot with my sleep schedule too like I’m all here for the jokes I genuinely find them funny #bc 9 times out of 10 I am also laughing about it #but on the few times I’m acc venting about how annoying it is that I can’t just sleep and someone sends me #what I KNOW was supposed to be a helpful ask going ‘go to sleep’ #I feel very much like what I’m trying to say is being totally ignored and I’m being written off as overdramatic #like I have insomnia. I have had debilitating periods every month for my entire teenage life #I know what I’m doing so if I complain and say I can’t do something #then trust it’s bc I CANT DO IT #so yeah I know this is very much a grey area bc it’s not a set rule for whenever I talk about these things #but I need you guys to just use the context of my posts a little better sometimes lol #again sorry that this was snappy especially bc I know u were just trying to be nice anon #ask