#I’m going to be super annoying with this post

[findafight]

The "Robin would never date Steve's ex who broke his heart" take is FUCKING stupid for a lot of reasons.

First of off, the autonomy you're taking out of Robin with this.

Like she's not Steve's sidekick, she's not his yes man, she's an indepent girl who should be free to date any girl she wants.

She would never let her friendship with him ostacolate her love life.

Why the fuck she should do that?!

No one would.

And also, Steve is actually the one who hurt Nancy the most (slut Nancy Wheeler).

And if you think for a second that Robin would ever take Steve's side, then you're wrong.

Just stop centering everything around Steve, and stop reducing Robin to be just his sidekick, 'cause she's FUCKING not.

Hi! So. Pretty sure you found the most recent post I made (on April 6th) tagged anti rnce (and ONLY anti rnce. Not even stranger things. Just anti rnce and my personal original text post tag and a quip about choosing violence. So clearly if that’s how you got here you chose to not just send a post you disagreed with to your friends to rant about but came into my inbox and tried to start shit)And if you didn’t I truly don’t get how you, clearly a rnce fan, found me.

I’m going to be honest. Neither of us are going to change each other’s minds. I don’t like rnce for a lot of reasons, from i just don’t see a romantic spark there to a lot of the shippers being kinda shitty. I don’t care what you ship, really, just that. Claiming it’s canon or should be canon endgame etc gets annoying. And that a lot of the times the way I’ve seen the relationship portrayed (because, contrary to possibly popular belief, I have actually tried to read some fics for them. It’s also such a commonly untagged side or background pairing that I am subjected to it like that often as well) there’s so often weird terf or radfem red flags and alarm bells going off. I’ve seen someone harassed by rnce shippers for calling them out and then those shippers loudly regurgitating terf talking points like it’s fucking funny. I know all fandoms and ships have bad eggs but holy shit.

There’s been a few posts about how for some reason rnce fans try to portray people who don’t like it as making Robin Steve’s sidekick, when really we are acknowledging the facets of her characterization other than her lesbianism. Just because she likes girls doesn’t mean that’s the only thing that matters to her!

Yes, Robin liking girls is part of who she is, it influences how she acts and what she talks about, but it’s not the ONLY thing about her. She likes old movies, she enjoys pop and new wave music, she does her make up in her best friend’s car, she forgot to mention she never learned to drive because he forgot to ask if she could, she thinks combining into a super being with said best friend would possibly solve most of their problems.

Robin is a character who makes her own choices! She chooses to butt in at scoops, chooses to stay with Steve in the bunker to hold off the Russians, chooses to tell him her deepest secret, chooses to apply for jobs with Steve once they heal from the mall, chooses to spend a lot of time with him! And that’s rad. It gives us insight on who she is!

Whenever I’ve written or talked about Robin choosing not to date Nancy, I’ve always made it perfectly clear that it is Robin’s choice. Because given what we see of her in two seasons, Robin is loyal, and greatly values her friendship with Steve. Like. Regardless of how Steve feels about it, and I do think of Robin was legitimately interested in Nancy and Steve thought she had a chance, he’d encourage her to go for it. (Steve isn’t blindly encouraging Robin to hit on Vickie. He has high suspicions that Vickie is queer in some way too! She likes boobies!) I think Robin would think twice about it just because how much she encouraged stancy to get back together in s4.

Honestly, it makes me sad seeing how many times “why would robin choose her best friend’s feelings over getting a gf” is said because like. I value my friends’ feelings all the time. If I thought something I was doing was or would hurt them, I would reevaluate. Why WOULDNT Robin consider her best friend’s feelings? The first person she ever came out to? Who made her feel safe and accepted? Who made her laugh when she felt most vulnerable? Who she encouraged to get back with his ex? Romance is not a level up from friendship, it is not the endgame of life, it is not superior to any other relationship type. Treating friendships as less important to romance is something to reconsider and reevaluate.

Your last point. Anon, who is centring Steve now? Sure. He fucked up in s1. Literally no one denies that. He fucked up and he worked to make things right. He cleaned up the graffiti, he went to apologize to Jonathan, and he presumably apologized to Nancy, because she decided to date him for eleven months after that. I highly doubt there wasn’t heavy gossip about the graffiti or their breakup/makeup. I do agree that before Tina’s party Steve wasn’t helping Nancy as much as he could have, but Nancy wasn’t communicating to him either. They weren’t in the right place for each other. If we consider the alley the breakup, how is that not still breaking his heart? Yes Nancy was on a noble crusade, but it still had collateral damage. It’s something interesting about her character!

Robin wouldn’t be on board with the graffiti. But like. Steve’s changed and apologized since then. And She wasn’t there? She’s just here for the aftermath of Steve’s reignited feelings for Nancy. Idk. Both Steve and Nancy hurt each other in s1/2. It’s not a Steve v Nancy thing? It’s just an acknowledgment that of the two, Robin is closer to Steve. She’s more likely to consider him. She’s not omniscient to everything that happened or the persons feelings and reasons for doing it.

I’m sorry you don’t think friendship has an equal or greater value than some romantic relationship, it must suck. I also hope you find better things to do than to come to someone’s inbox and try to start something over a ship you like that they don’t.

#anti ronance #I censored it in my answer but anon didn’t so it might show up in the search #but not in the tag #findaanswers #listen. just get out of here #if you think I’m a stupid idiot then block and move on #but you clearly came here from somewhere looking at stuff to be mad at because I always make sure to tag #also everyone ignores that Steve has CURRENT FEELINGS for Nancy that ROBIN ENCOURAGED

[anonzentimes]

Hii!! I agree with your points and your interpretation is valid. But just wanted to say that I think that using a guy character not acting like a pervert and borderline assaulty around women as a proof of them not being attracted is a very flawed and harmful logic (talking ab the scene of Komaeda falling under Mikan’s skirt you mentioned). I’m attracted to women but if I fall under girl’s skirt or witness an embarrassing situation I will be uncomfortable too. Komaeda’s reaction is how a normal respectful person would react and I’m very saddened that the amount of pervert anime characters has normalized such behaviour

That's super fair! I only realize now I am using it under the expectations of Danganronpa since there are so many perverted characters in the franchise, you're right and thank you for pointing that out. That actually is really upsetting now that you mention it, yeah I'm going to edit that out ew.

I've made posts on twitter of small, even if silly, praises about how Nagito seems to really value consent. He's always the loudest and most annoyed about teruteru's behavior, and within the franchise he's the one who's the most respectful and realistic when it comes to the problematic subjects. It's sad that not every character is as respectful as him. In fact almost all of the dr2 male cast is crushing on girls, some being gross about it, the only ones who don't are Nekomaru and Nagito. Crushing on girls is definitely not the issue, but half of them being gross about it is.

Just to redeem the example because I'm upset by it here's some instances of his weird somewhat lack of interest in women that we've seen or general vagueness

Chiaki saying this isn't as straightforward but it still implies her being sexy wouldn't work to get Nagito's attention which still says things about his possible disinterest or respectful nature maybe even both.

During fan service scenes in every manga adaptation he never blushes while every other character does

He avoids the question of sexuality every time it's asked, he either doesn't know it himself, doesn't think about it because he thinks he's unworthy, or has to beat around the bush because he's closeted. Although outside of characterization wise it may just be kodaka staying vague because that's the common pattern Lmao. The question is avoided during Q&as and during ultra despair girls he just ignores Kurokoma altogether lmao (would add more but image limit on mobile is my worst enemy)

i've seen multiple interpretations for this so just ???

Either way the status of canon is: Nagito shows interest in men and we see he has sexual desires, he's anything that isn't straight or aroace. He doesn't show evident interest in women and there's been no official word on his sexuality, it is up in the air when it comes to specifics. He is absolutely a queer coded character, whether he's gay, pan, bi, or something else there's no doubt about that. I believe Nagito is gay because there's a lot of evidence supporting this, I think it also makes his storyline more impactful. But at the end of the day there is no said canon and people are free to headcanon what they want to, whatever people say that isn't invalidating important parts of his character we actively see is preferred.

#nagito komaeda #danganronpa #danganronpa komaeda #sdr2 nagito #danganronpa nagito #sdr2 komaeda #komaeda nagito #sdr2 #danganronpa goodbye despair #komahina #kamukoma #nagito sexuality #nagito #komaeda #nagito asks #anon ask #anon asks #danganronpa ask #danganronpa asks #danganronpa 3 #sdr2 nagito komaeda #dr nagito

[tomatoluvr69]

Unbeeeeeelieeeeevable sight in the parking lot at the gym

#HIS LIL UNDERBITE… #ok upon reflection the next tag is mean spirited and that’s not who I am. i mean it’s deeply who I am so I’ll keep it but it’s not nice #and I’m someone who’s pretty immune to heckin doggo pupper whatever #so it’s all the more powerful when a dog actually moves me lol #but I just smashed a super awesome workout I feel shredded as fuckkkkkkkkkk #this invincible feeling will last about ohhh eight more minutes #and I just ate my yummy snack too… #protein bar tastes so good when you don’t have a bitch in ya ear telling u it’s highly processed food #(I’m the bitch) #and now it’s time to go have dinner with 3 friends YAYYYYYYYYYY #I love **** to death but christ is it good to socialize separately sometime. freeeeeee me #‘tight pussy kind of annoying’ what’s that post again #release me? #anyways swimming is the bestest thing ever and now I’m cured #for seven and a half more minutes that is.

[misspermitted]

I wanna say that I totally get Xuening’s decision to break Zhang Zhe’s heart. I would’ve done the same thing. She knows he’s going to let himself die. She knows hes breaking. She manipulates the situation the only way she knows how, and it goddamn works. He starts eating. He hates something else.

It’s tragic but call it fate or just personality, they’re not suited. She will ask him to compromise his morals more, he just wants peace, and all of it came to a crescendo.

#story of kunning palace #I may or may not have seen a post of someone calling her selfish #I make a rule not to reblog posts arguing with the op #when I get super annoyed about something #but I did want to do a seperate post #saying the point of this is that she isn’t being selfish #she was selfish in the first life for desperately wanting his affection #her going for his affection again despite knowing the effect she has on him #was selfish #her making him never forgive her and forgive himself #by breaking his heart #is incredibly selfless and such clear character growth #I’m proud of her

[fantasykiri5]

So. Just finished watching Summer Camp Island.

Damn.

Good shit.

#kiri rambles #IT SO FUCKING GOOD #up there with adventure time and Steven universe honestly. tied with those for one of my favorites #I super recommend it. you can find it loads of places honestly #summer camp island #summer camp island season 6 #julia pott #<- should I use that tag? it’s her show I might as well #I think she worked on adventure time as well #anyways yeah it’s great please please please go watch it it’s so great #also I’m insane so of course I have now been thinking of slapping together a hermit/life/empires AU of it because. y’know #soooooo maybe I’ll pop that out at some point. we’ll see #also this is my second time typing this fucking post because I hit post limit RIGHT before making it. mildly annoyed #anyways byeeeeee

[deityofhearts]

I hate people who think they have a say in what other people do with their own belongings, people can customize their collectors dolls and figurines, people can write in, fold and tear pages out of their books, people can alter their clothes to their own liking and so that they actually fit. people can do whatever the fuck they want with their own shit, why are y’all so mad over something that isn’t and never will be yours?

#deity dialogue #y’all don’t get a say in what other people do with their own shit #it’s so irritating to me to see ppl go ‘you ruined that!!’ ‘how could you do that’ ‘you don’t deserve that item’ #you don’t get a say plus you’re super annoying xoxo #I really wanted the vampire heart draculaura doll (and still do) but if someone completely customized her head to toe guess what! #I wouldn’t care that’s not my doll I don’t own her I don’t own that persons doll #actually I would care id probably watch the video or look at pictures and go ‘that’s so cool!!’ because i think doll customization is cool #I think it’s cool and fun when people do whatever the fuck they want with their own things #y’all are so precious and defensive of others peoples things and it’s weird #like what does this actually have to do with your life that you’re so pressed about it #i will say this however: ruining one of a kind historical items for the sake of it isn’t. great I’m not defending that #you may know what I’m talking about and you may not but I am mad about it still #but this post is about shit that I’d fairly in abundance #like books are printed every day even collectors dolls have enough in existence that it’s stupid to get mad about it #ince you buy a thing it’s yours to do with as you please #if it’s not harmful or hurting anyone why does it matter??

[dreamings-free]

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#idk wth is going on with dma’s not posting anything about afhf.. #but if it is as some suspect because they don’t want to annoy their 'too cool' fans that’s.. ridiculous #and would honestly make me lose a lot of respect for them if true #(and why would L put up with that from people he considers his friends..) #like.. it'd be such an unnecessary move and I do find it hard to believe that could be the case because #one: they didn’t care about that when they released the glow and lost a goood bunch of the brit rock following #same with the latest record really #but mostly their most recent song with that ruel guy is so ridiculously poppy (I’m honestly not a fan) #that surely will lose them a lot more credit with the snobs than playing a festival with louis tomlinson ever could.. #makes no sense.. #maybe they just don’t wanna muddle their promo of the ruel collabs with afhf posts but I can’t really see why that would be an issue #post a damn story show your mexican fans some respect #😒 #anyway it’s all super weird #dma’s #afhf 2024 #.

[rosicheeks]

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#I’m getting hit with a massive wave of nostalgia now #I remember staying up ALL NIGHT working on changing my theme #I used to play in the html and add things #I looooved adding falling snow during the winter #I remember when having a music player at the top or somewhere on your blog was super popular #but ended up being incredibly annoying #cause half of the people put it on autoplay so when you entered someone’s blog you would get blown away by music #I remember having a whole different page for an about me #I wonder if I still have that up on mine #broooo I haven’t looked at my blog page on a laptop or anything in fucking AGES #I’m embarrassed to think what it might look like but whatever #most of us are using mobile anyway #or at least in my mind we are hahaha #so when I first started a blog I think I was in middle school??? like 12 or 13 hahahaha good times #my first url was SO CRINGE and I’m not going to say it cause I’m 😬😬😬😬😬 when I think about it #and then I slowly got more of a following and started doing smoke videos #I miss that community too :( #making smoke videos and tagging a bunch of stoner mutuals to ‘pass the bong/joint’ #and then they would make a video and tag me #awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwhhhh #I haven’t logged into that tumblr in AGES omg #but then I decided to post content and I didn’t want to post it on my original blog in case it got flagged or anything #so I made this blog #and here we are 🥰 #but man I have SO many memories from my last blog #i made a friend in Belgium and we sent presents back and forth #I think only once but maybe twice #I still have the bracelet she sent me #can’t believe I’ve been on tumblr for most of my life lmao #but I’ve met SO many amazing people that I would have never have met

[nappingpaperclip]

Don’t call yourself punk (or even “punk wannabe”) if you’re gonna actively support and DEFEND a genocidal imperialist

my genuine reaction to reading this

huh?? what on Earth are u talking about? lol have I not been outspoken enough about how genocide Joe is a rabid dog who deserves to be beaten to death with a stick?

#this made me laugh lol what?? #how can u look at my blog and my posts and come to the conclusion that I support a genocidal imperialist #did u send this to the wrong blog? #what post gave u this impression #I have always and always will be outspoken and frankly super annoying about my hatred of Biden and also Trump #go read my .txt tags #like I’m genuinely confused #.txt #<- there for ease of access go read through my posts and please get back to me #I want a minimum of 500 words with MLA citations on what the fuck you are talking about #anon #ask

[chain-chomp]

Genuinely sad abt this, rotom started out as a mysterious and rare ghostly trickster that lived in a spooky mansion, now they’re pumpin em out puppymill style just to make phones that don’t need a battery 😔

#pokemon sv #rotom #Rotom phone #HOW THE MIGHTY HAVE FALLEN 😭 #rotom dex #is this thing as annoying as that thing was #This is like. A half joke not a super genuine complaint expect maybe a lil bit #but there are bigger issues w this company to worry about rn ajskskdndc #The post is a joke tho I’m sure rotom WANTS to be in there #I just think its not very good or makes sense for a ghost type that much tbh #especially considering his first appearance. #where he was. Somewhere people barely even go! Not even found a specific place in da wild #It was a special guy you could only get ONE and now they’re just. In huge numbers. At your local 7-11 #in your pocket #everywhere?? They love people actually except that weird loner in sinnoh! Forget about that one!

[museenkuss]

Spn blogs in my recs and they WILL NOT LEAVE.

#they’re even on my main blog now #at least for me #and like yeah I get it blood and rot and family and whatever #I think I’m getting my period soon because it usually doesn’t annoy me like this but GOD #I don’t WANT these here. #but tbh I just don’t like the fandom. it’s all very clique-y and I am so so lonely #like genuinely I haven’t felt good about a single thing I posted for that in way too long #I like WRITING but posting?? in that fandom? it’s terrible. I hate it #& I’ve taken to writing out all my frustration and anger and grief in a separate doc to be deleted before posting the main work #which is fucking. just. it’s bad. I’ve never had to do that for ANY fandom I wrote for. #and I geeeeeet that it’s because it’s such a big fandom so people know each other and it’s not like my small communities where you #parallel play in peace. but I don’t like it. it’s deeply uncomfortable and isolating and I’m so sick of it #but I also like the writing I do so I try to just stay in my niche and not look at anyone else #I think I unfollowed every fandom blog save for two? three? so I could be alone instead of lonely #but it still washes over me whenever I post something. #oh an! sometimes I’m tempted to just do something super mass appealing so they’ll like me but that just makes me feel worse #I’ve been tempted to delete my blog so many times because I lost my friends from the old fandoms and this one is the poorest substitute #but I also feel like that won’t make me happier either. I wish I’d just never started engaging w that show tbh #okay done. just. I’m going through it

[deadbeatdadjokes]

me n my brother looking at the new mario movie posters 😳👀

#i am going to be a [me] that is so [annoying about mario] #not deltarune #but my other little special guys look so good I’m gonna scream and cry and throw up 💀💀💀 #posting it here though bc I’ve noticed that I have a tendency to pick the same type of favorites in multiple fandoms so dissect that 🏃 #Mario was a huge part of my childhood though #i remember me and Louis as kids would bother our gma to take us to the blockbuster to rent the same SMB super show DVD for the 8th time lmao #just a disclaimer as the date approaches 🤠

[robertsbarbie]

also i am once again super paranoid my classmates found my blog

#and yet i’ll keep posting #they were just kinda like ‘did you see this’ and ‘yeah it’s bullshit’ after i made those points about being annoyed #so i’m like SUPER paranoid they found it even though this isn’t connected to any of my other social media #anything that is is through different blogs #i can’t remember the last time i posted a selfie #and i go by my birthname at school so so like! would it make sense?? no. #is it making me irrationally irrational #yes #eris: text

[gobbluthbutagirl]

i think like 3 different people who have a whole bunch of followers all reblogged the wikihow post at around the same time. rip my fucking activity forever

#going in my notes to see who’s done this and being like you…and you…and YOU #of course i could simply delete the post or turn off reblogs but like. #no one’s being super annoying yet it’s just a bunch of hashtag yes hashtag it is hashtag i can answer that for free yes #and a few people trying to actually give their own version of an ‘expert answer’ like guys hello i don’t need it i’m 25 #rest assured i know how to drive a goddamn car by now

[georgeeehd]

um hi all who followed me or came to my blog um 😭 im a cc dream/dteam blog . that is what u get here 😭😭😭

#okay going back to regular posting now #i like the dsmp and i know all abt it cause i was literally watching pre tommy but sorry if you’re following me for lore #that’s like maybe 15% of the stuff i like an reblog if i’m being generous #i really was just hyping up dream being super smart like i remembered it and i was like oh i remember being really impressed when #that happened how did it go exactly #literally episode 15 or something of blueberry tv it was an easy find 😭😭😭 #also i had no clue who the person i replied to was 😭😭 not even whomegaluling the reply just annoyed me #cause it wasn’t about lore to me

[intimidatingsqueak]

smapxsmap (1999.10.4)

im actually breakin’ my own heart over here

(read tags if you want a bit of a nonsensical ramble…😭)

#im interrupting the pussuma posts because im upset lol #like this has honestly been wrecking me ever since I watched the ep last night #and i apologize in advance because these tags are super vague… #…… #for the amount of shit takuya gave him this episode…THIS part was the reality #he wasn’t actually pissed/annoyed with him which was made clear a few times #but those were usually him just playing around with tsuyoshi which was v cute and funny #in this case tho…he genuinely looks sad and scared #like he was really fucking worried about him #(in my view obv because these men don’t talk FOR SHIT…again my view…but i mean…his eyes are telling a story) #(…just fucking tell him you’re scared and worried about him instead of telling him to be better for the fans or his duty) #(taking this tactic doesn’t work anyway…tough love doesn’t work here…) #(I’m not judging either of these guys AT ALL btw I couldn’t even begin to imagine being on either end…) #(but i just wonder if any of the guys expressed their personal concern or if they just deflected to other reasons) #(please actually correct me if I’m wrong because I haven’t watched much in the scheme of things lol) #also right before this takuya had to DRAG him up the stairs and its making me so…jeez actually fucking hurts lol #ugh okay im gonna go ugly-sob and overthink about this byeeee #more happy and silly pussuma gifs in the pipeline lol #on my soapbox #smapxsmap gifs