#I'm really grateful

[a-soft-fluffy-nerd]

... I really do have to thank you dorks on Tumblr for being as positive about being fat as you are. I've told a lot of my friends and loved ones that them being thicker is never something to be seen as a mark of shame, but it's taken me until seeing so goddamn much positivity that isn't fetishized to begin actively looking down at myself and... not hating what I see.

I've always kind of preferred those with a rounder form. Some people have lean builds that are healthier for them and others have metabolisms that work on overdrive, and I'd never call them unhealthy. But people who hold fat, who have slower metabolisms or mental or physical issues that make the body retain weight... or just fucking love to eat because that isn't a crime? That also doesn't immediately make you unhealthy. And it doesn't fucking make you unattractive!

Yes! That fucking includes people who actively want and seek to be fat! Because it's a state they actually WANT to be in!

It doesn't make ME unattractive! I see a lot of fetish art as a furry who enjoys the wider ranges of the fandom's artistry, and while it's fun and fine to look at that and go "oh hey, someone likes those body types like that, cool", it doesn't feel the same as someone taking pride in their OCs being thick or chubby or fat or obese! I'm ace. I don't like being objectified. I don't like the idea of objectifying people.

But then I see people like Fey or Kris or Cake or Ripley or Cy just RELISHING in it! Casually telling you "fuck it, go make a fat OC, you'll feel better", drawing so many, if not almost all of their OCs as round and soft as they do! Sharing it all with the world as a mark of fucking PRIDE.

God.

It does fucking wonders. Seriously, thank you.

#I don't wanna force anything I just #I'm really grateful #I'm just a dumb trans girl with a lot of thoughts in her brain #feyfoxen #chubunited #krisispiss #confectionarrie #tagging rather than mentioning so I don't clog anything #cynical-cy #cynical cy

[combinado]

There'll be others.

🎵 Aerosoul feat. John Ward - Time Is By Your Side (Armenian Soul Remix)

Pillowfort | Dreamwidth

#star trek #star trek tng #guinan #i love guinan so much #and some of her advice genuinely helped me with some things i've been struggling with for a long while #i'm really grateful #so this little tribute is the least i could do as an act of gratitude #markmaking and howling #music #0r19

[lossie92]

Hii

I hope you're better today ♥️♥️

I love your work here and you deserves to feel good ♥️♥️♥️♥️

Hi dear ❤️

Thank you for your kind words 🥺 I do feel a bit better yeah, thanks for asking!

#tysm #again #i keep saying this #but honestly #i'm really grateful

[teabooksandsweets]

Friendly reminder that all Starshine Legacy games can be played for free, even by non-SSO players!

#free game #sso #star stable online #starshine legacy #i just remembered #and as i don't have most of the games anymore #i'm really grateful

[dreamsofyexiao]

thinking of void stardust a little bit again... I'm thinking of how extremely lucky I was in my pulls. Glow came in my first 10 pull, then Nikki soon after, my 20th or 30th, I don't entirely remember. it's just a really nice little thing to remember though, feels like it was made for me, meant for me. I know not really, but it's a nice thing to think. I fell in love and awaited it for so long, and then it rushed towards me when it was finally on our sevrer. we were made for each other

#ah... it feels like a selfish thing to say... #it's just that i love it so much that it feels like it was for me... a gift to me #thinking that makes me happy... #because i love it so much #and I'm extremely grateful #for that luck #i have no idea what could've caused that sort of luck but i am so thankful for it #thank you thank you thank you!!! #it made me feel so happy #for a moment it even made me feel a little special... #so thank you ♡ #thank you #I'm really grateful

[collieii]

someone probably said this already but in spiderverse i think it's interesting how when pavitr was first introduced everyone thought something bad was gonna happen to him bc of how confident and optimistic he was. and then in the actual movie we see that something bad was supposed to happen to him (police chief dying!) but it doesn't! miles stops it! and miguel berates miles for this, says it's going to cause the universe to collapse or whatever.

there's this idea that tragedy is inherent to spidermans growth, and while it's true that some spiderpeople learn important lessons through loss, no one stops to ask, is it really necessary? yeah, maybe the chief was supposed to die. but why does spiderman have to be formed through tragedy? why do we (as heroes) have to let people die? pavitr didn't lose anyone, and he's still a good spiderman! maybe, if he doesn't suffer, he'll end up better off for it!

so while miguel is arguing for all this big picture stuff about saving the multiverse he's lost sight of what it really means to be a spiderman, he's not looking out for the real individual people. yeah it's just one person who would die, but that one person means something to someone. shrugging and saying "stuff just sucks sometimes, we can't do anything about it" is the opposite of what superheroes do. pretty obviously, miles arc is also a reflection of the struggles people face in real life, working within unequal systems, where it's easy to shrug and say "that's just the way it is" and not ask "but why does it need be this way? can't we do something about it?"

miguel is arguing that you can't have your cake and eat it too. presumably, miles and co. are going to find a way to get around that and change things for the better (and maybe that's why miles has that line about two cakes in the advisors office!)

#across the spiderverse #across the spider verse spoilers #break from my regularly scheduled trigun posting for spider posting #i'm actually kinda eh on the idea of the canon and police chiefs dying it is not my favorite plot point #but like any sane person i love spiderverse so #actually still think i like the first one more but wroaw much to think about #spiderverse #atsv #.lieii #i only watched the movie once so hopefully this is all accurate #i feel like this is all really obvious my point was like #pavitr being an example of a spiderperson who is still successful without going through all these awful things #and you think despite all this stuff about the multiverse how does he feel about the chief being saved? hes probably rly grateful right? #i mean maybe something terrible will happen to him in the next movie but. yk what im saying #.lieii txt

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Happy Valentine's Day! (and this blog's first post anniversary!)

#poorly drawn mdzs #better drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #lan wangji #Woah...it's been a whole *year* since I took the leap and uploaded my 'first attempt' art. #It's outdated now but it holds a special place in my heart for the fact it started all of this off. #Calling this 'poorly-drawn' was always about accepting that my art was going to be imperfect and messy - and doing it anyways! #There has been a staggering number of times I have drawn something I almost didn't upload because I didn't think it was 'good enough' #only for someone to say they liked it - or that it made them laugh. And it has helped me realize - #-The worst critic for my work has always been myself. If I listened to it all the time...well we would not be here now B'*) #And now that I have dabbled in other fandoms I can truly see how lucky was to start out with the MXTX fans. #The supportive messages and tags have truly been a guiding force toward my artistic and self improvement. #I really can't describe how grateful I am. #Thank you for seeing something worth rooting for when I was just figuring things out. #Thank you for being sweeter than the candy I have strategically hidden in the nooks and crannies of this house. #But watch out! If you forget to find them we will get ants. #I remembered to not hide chocolate in the bed this year. Yes I know it melted last time. Yes it did stain. I'm still sorry. #Thank you for loving me regardless <3 Even if it looked like I shit the bed real bad.

[wenellyb]

White French people hate it when they get a taste of their own medicine. 

I was discussing with one of my colleagues and she told me how she was planning to go to Senegal for the holidays because she thought it was a good way for her kids to see more diversity and people who don’t look like them (ie Black People).

So I told her it was a good idea because I was 4 the 1st time I saw a White person (and I cried btw...) And she was so shocked, like she couldn’t understand that some Black kids have never seen White people in their lives but somehow doesn’t think twice about the fact that her kids are in a similar situation.

Another time, I was talking to someone else about how I arrived in France when I was young but had lived in many African countries growing up (RDC, Kenya , Gabon, Center African Republic...).

And then that person proceeded to go on a tirade about how I must have felt so lucky to arrive in France, and how I should have been relieved to arrive in a developed country like France, blablaba. I just told him “not really”, because growing up I was told that France was amazing and so wealthy, but the first time I saw homeless people was when I arrived in Europe, so I didn’t really understand why people always talked about Europe like that. And again, the guy was shocked, just because I didn’t say my life in Africa was miserable and sad, and because I said that Europe was from what I had heard as a child.

If you’re going to bring your assumptions without knowing, I’ll retort with mine ( the view of an 8-9 year old). I don’t understand how someone can feel so entitled and assume something about your situation without asking first. I’m sorry the only thing you know about Africa is that one documentary you watched in middle school but leave me alone.

#random stuff #I just give what I get #And I'm not saying there's no poverty in Africa... But people need to understand that Africa is a continent not a country #and I think that even people who understand it don't really understand understand it #what I mean is that all countries are different and even within the countries you have differences and just like any other countries in the #world you have wealth differences and it's stupid to assume that just because you come from an African country you're grateful to arrive in #an European country or a western country #Also you'll have very different opinions whether your coming from east Africa west africa northern africa etc... #They say stuff but then are surprised when you say the same thing back

[shikai-the-storyteller]

There is something so deeply cathartic about being one amongst nearly 50,000 people watching Phil build a memorial for Techno in his Hardcore world. Something about shared grief. Something about humanity. Something about love and friendship and the legacy it leaves behind.

#i talk #hard to put my thoughts into words #it feels like a silent vigil #I'm so grateful Ian and Kristin are such good mods #it was really hard seeing everyone's chats yesterday #technoblade #dsmp talk #not really but

[yashley]

"Yeah, but we talked about it and I didn’t want it." "Why not?" "Because it scared me."

#critical role #ygifs #cr3 #fearne #she got me fucked up #her leaving her treasured cherished postcards at the altar of the raven queen where so many memories are left #leaving the one thing that had been her lifeline and her hope. the most important thing to her and she leaves them behind #because they weren't what she thought they were. #her innocence growing into sadness and that's the reason why she feared the dark versions of herself #because she was sad and angry and alone #this faun wearing her heart on her sleeve and running from what hurts her and it's just. ms johnson i'm #''do you think it’s the world changing you or do you think it’s you changing in the world?'' ''yes.'' girl i'm on my knees #I couldn't be more grateful fearne continued from exu this growth hurts so so so good I'd die for her #fearne angry? delicious. fearne sad? delicious. fearne tits? del- #fearne this episode you can really taste the If I'm Not Pleasing People It's My Fault When They Leave and it bit me

[milk-sharks]

smitten ☁️

#my last drawing of the year! #i wrote a big mushy thing on twitter but i'm so grateful for everyone's kindness and support and patience with me this year #i used to be a hardcore lurker for 2 years and i'm so glad i started learning how to draw humanoids #because it led me to a really great and silly and wonderful community and i'm just really grateful for everyone #my art #skyfire #jetfire #transformers #maccadam

[harundraws]

Christmas-y Taivan art to commemorate the holidays 🎄

#yellowjackets #yellowjackets fanart #van palmer #taissa turner #taivan #harun art #i'm really grateful for all the people and moots i've gotten to know through yj #also very grateful for my followers #you guys all add to my life in such a wonderful way

[xoxoemynn]

Hello OFMD crew! I love you and I'm happy you're here. 💕

#ofmd #our flag means death #I know it's been a rough few months with a lot of ups and downs #and just perusing the timelines I'm seeing a lot of people really feeling the Big Sads again #which is so so valid and I think everyone should really feel whatever they need to feel right now #but also know fandom isn't going anywhere #the show may be taking a breather but our heart is still beating strong 💗 #sending so much love and hugs #I am grateful to all of you and my inbox/DMs are always open if you need someone to talk to

[royalarchivist]

[A sad violin song plays over an image of a sad hamster]

Pac: This doesn't have anything to do with me – I wear a blue sweatshirt, you're crazy, this mouse doesn't even have a sweatshirt, this hamster! [Reading chat] Am I a depressed hamster?

[ Transcript continued ↓ ]*

–

Pac: Actually– that's fine! I embrace that idea – of course I'm going to be depressed, are you crazy? [He hits his desk, then starts counting off people on his fingers] Fit is gone, Richarlyson is gone, Ramon is gone, Bagi and Empanada who were always there when we were there are also gone, I haven't seen them! It's just me and Tubbo, and sometimes Philza shows up.

Pac: I lost Chume Labs, I lost the Favela, I lost Murder Mystery, I lost Ilha Chume Labs, it's crazy! Look at how much I've lost, and I've gained nothing! Of course I'm going to be depressed, are you crazy?! How am I supposed to be happy?!

Pac: [Reading chat] "You have us Pac," that's true, thank you. No, that's true, sorry.

* NOTE: Please note that this is an incomplete transcript, as I was primarily relying on Aypierre's translation mod at the time and if I am not confident of the translation, I do not include it. As always, please feel free to add on translations or message me corrections.

#Pactw #QSMP #Pac #March 18 2024 #As much as I love keeping people updated about Pac / the other Portuguese-speaking creators #I think I might not make as many transcribed posts for their clips anymore #I just don't think I'm qualified enough to be transcribing things for a language I don't know #like yeah we have the Qlobal Translator and Aypierre's translators to rely on #And I'm always upfront when I'm not 100% sure about a translation #but I've been thinking about it a lot and it kinda makes me feel a bit icky. Idk. #I might be overthinking this but I just I don't want to spread around translations I'm not super confident about #esp. since I know a lot of people cite my clips in analysis posts or link them to other people as resources #and 90% of the time I'm like ''Hell yeah I love seeing people getting a lot of use out of the archive'' #but sometimes I get a bit anxious like ''Did I do a good enough job translating this'' #''Am I ruining someone's entire perception of a conversation or character because I left one word out or mistranslated something?'' #And like I said that's normally not a HUGE concern since if I'm not certain about a translation I just won't post a clip. but you know #idk it might just be the anxiety talking but I really really don't want to spread bad info #Happy to hear other folks' perspective #I'm really grateful for people like Bell and Pix and others who translate clips and I always try to reblog those #but we don't have a ton of people posting clips & translating things on Tumblr since we're so English-centric #which is part of the reason WHY I like sharing clips of the non-English-speaking CCs #but at the same time I want to do an accurate job representing what they're saying #Maybe I'll just start posting things and give a TLDR context of what they're talking about but not a transcript #that way native-speakers can hop in and add translations if that's something they're comfortable doing #and if not then well. at least I'm not sharing something that isn't super accurate #idk I'm just thinking out loud a bit in the tags #But I'm open to hearing other people's thoughts on the matter #Anyways giant rant aside. q!Pac is NOT doing ok rn

[nellasbookplanet]

If you like Science, use ao3 (writer, reader, both, some nebulous other usage I have yet to figure out) and enjoy sharing your opinions on fanfic and fandom, I'd be hugely grateful to anyone willing to take part in a short survey!

It's anonymous (you can use whatever name you like) and the answers will be used for my paper on fan archives, fandom, and how fans relate to the two. The survey will stay open for a week starting today.

If you want to take part, click here!

#archive of our own #nella talks #i'm not really expecting more than a handful of responses but am grateful for anyone wishing to partake!

[oksanaastankova]

#queen of facial expressions #idk i miss her #add your caption #when someone i don't like talks to me: #when i wanna cry really bad and someone says i have to be grateful i'm alive: #when the love of my life is walking away and my boss says she wants to meet me (to kill me): #villanelleedit #villaneveedit #villanelle #jodie comer #killingeveedit #keedit #ke s3 #killing eve #ke #women #oksanaastankova's #jodiecomeredit