#I'm still a furious 9 year old playing in the mud

[theredquilt]

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#the other day my mum text to ask if I'd be taking my partners name #and I was like #'is that a joke? do you not know me at all??' #like its actually quite funny how little attention she apparently pays to whats going on around her #anyway #people can do what they want but like no I won't be taking a mans name #I'm still a furious 9 year old playing in the mud #that isn't going to change #today we got a 'happy wedding' card from his uncle and aunt #(who we hadn't told his parents must just be telling people) #and it was addressed to mr and mrs *his initial and last name* #so thats fun #the erasure of my identity has already begun #🙃🙃🙃🙃 #we're not even married yet #good times good times #but they did give us a cheque for £50 #(who the fuck still uses cheques) #maybe we can buy a strap with it lmao #. #(just to reiterate because this is tumblr and people can't read - #there is nothing wrong with taking your partners name - #its just not something I've ever been interested in)