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michaelmilkers · 8 months
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i'm regularly astounded by the cognitive dissonance some of yall have to accept that gender is a social construct with infinite possibilities with the capacity to be deeply personal and individual but still think there's a list of like 4 acceptable sexual orientations and if you go outside of that list or mix entries on that list or relate to them in a non-traditional way not only are you Breaking The Rules you're personally directly harming people who follow them
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starnosedmoles · 8 months
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Occasional Trouble Passing…
“What do you mean I can’t go in there? You can just suck my sock, buddy!”
found in “FTM Newsletter”, 1990s
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gray-ace-space · 6 months
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what was y'all's identity progression? mine was something like
lesbian -> bi -> bi & ply -> ply -> ply & gray ace -> bi & gray ace -> bi lesbian & gray ace -> bi lesbian & gray ace & genderqueer
(there were a bunch of acespec and gender microlabels in there too that sorta come and go and come again but i simplified)
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catgirl-catboy · 1 year
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I feel like LGBTQ+ identity politics would get a lot quieter if we could get rid of the idea that you can guess random people's sexual orientation.
That gay couple holding hands? One or both of them could be bi. Or you could be misgendering someone. Or they could simply be close friends that like to hold hands.
Less trying to guess people's identity and more waiting to see if they choose to tell you.
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bi-lesbian · 1 year
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icarusxxrising · 9 months
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My identity is for myself and no one else. Stop mistaking your discomfort for harm. If you're uncomfortable, that's something YOU have to work out, preferably far away from me.
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thatblondeperson · 11 months
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Genuinely disheartening to see this flag now showing up on a prominent asexuality blog.
Gonna just go ahead and keep using the prettier, "problematic" flag, since I'm not an exclusionst fuckface.
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doomgendr · 3 months
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girltwink & boybutch flags
for girls who are twinks & boys who are butches !
girltwink ⤵️
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boybutch ⤵️
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higher quality versions on my twitter
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intersexfairy · 7 months
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daily reminder i guess that "queer exclusionism" and "online discourse" isn't just internet bullshit. it has harmful, sometimes dangerous, impacts on real people. the people you see spouting even the most vapid queerphobia are real people who go around in their lives and their beliefs hurt others. it even hurts themselves. the internet may not be a physical place, but it still a place. the people on here are still real. it matters.
if all it is to you is nothing, you're either in denial or one of the lucky ones. also queerphobia isn't less important just because it comes from other queer people or takes place online.
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starnosedmoles · 8 months
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Bisexual Pride! 1990 🩷💜💙
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gray-ace-space · 1 month
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being bigender: a glitter text poem
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lesboyofdeath · 2 months
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I say I'm a multigender lesbian, NOBODY BATS AN EYE Say I'm a lesboy, and society goes WILD
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everyponie · 15 days
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exclusionists are no better than the LGB without the T alliance. Yall are cousins. You go hand in hand.
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Exclusionists: Self diagnosis isn’t valid because only a doctor can diagnose a mental disorder. It doesn’t matter what traits you have. Only a doctor can do the complex work of sorting out what traits indicate a disorder.
Also exclusionists: All aplatonics and aplspecs have a personality disorder. All of them. No, I’m not a doctor, but I’m still qualified to say that about them. Personality disorders are just lacking friends and nothing else, right?
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If you're in 2023 still thinking that labels like pansexual (and other mspec labels), asexual, aromantic, any aspec label, any xenogender, any neogender, anything MOGAI, mspec lesbians/gays, transmasc lesbians, transfem gays, and any other micro label is somehow encroaching on your identity and community
Then I'm sorry but you seriously just need to get over yourself
People are just trying to exist and live like you and I. If that offends you, then the only problem here is you
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