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stonelovesbeer · 3 days

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your-astro-mami · 3 days

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Could you tell us what indicates no marriage or yes marriage in a birth chart?

I rarely see charts that are very troubled in regards to long-term relationships/marriage. You have to have multiple aspects that show difficulty and even then people are still able to find love, marry, etc.

The "Challenging" marriage aspects in the Natal Chart:

I would say that Uranus in the 7th House (natal) could be a bit difficult - it could show commitment issues, attracting on and off relationships, right person/wrong time - timing could be a bit problem for people with this aspect. This includes having Transit Uranus in your 7th house as well. The positive is that when the timing is right you can find love very unexpectedly and the relationships could be very freeing. I have observed that people with Uranus in 7th also like unusual relationship dynamics/non-standard dating.

Saturn in 7th house could be interpreted in different ways - marrying later in life, feeling dissatisfied about the thought of marriage, high standards/expectations, prioritizing other areas of life over marriage/relationships.

Pluto in 7th shows that any traumas/insecurities could manifest in relationships and marriage so the person has to heal, really wait for the right person in order to avoid jumping into unhealthy relationships.

Aspects between Juno and Uranus (square, conjunct, opposite), Juno-Saturn and Juno-Pluto could have a similar effect as the descriptions above.

Neptune in 7th, Juno in 12th could show someone that idolizes marriage/has an unrealistic idea about marriage. So that could lead to disappointment in committed relationships or once the honeymoon phase is over in marriage.

I will also add the ruler of the 7th house conjunct Uranus/Pluto/Saturn. For example: Cancer on your 7th house cusp, Cancer is ruled by the Moon and the Moon is conjunct Saturn/Pluto/Uranus.

2. The "Good" marriage aspects in the Natal Chart:

Venus in 7th, Venus trine Juno/Venus conjunct Juno is the one that is usually associated with good, lasting marriage, supportive spouse, equality in marriage. Committed relationships could be easy for these people.

The 7th House ruler conjunct Venus has a similar effect.

Juno conjunct/trine Jupiter or Jupiter in the 7th House is great for a happy marriage. Your partner usually inspired you, teaches you a lot of things, helps you go out of your comfort zone.

Juno in the 7th House is also really favorable for commitment, attracting a spouse who has the characteristics you want in a partner, commitment could happen easily.

Libra or Taurus on the 7th House cusp also tend to have good marriages.

My advice is to wait for the right timing and the right person/not rush into it. There is always someone you are FULLY compatible with so don't waste your energy on bad relationships!

#astrology #marriage #jupiter in 7th #uranus in 7th #saturn in 7th #juno #aries #taurus #gemini #cancer #leo #virgo #libra #scorpio #sagittarius #capricorn #aquarius #pisces

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anistarrose · 3 days

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I think when a lot of queer people who aspire to marriage, and remember (rightly) fighting for the right to marriage, see queer people who don't want marriage, talking about not entering or even reforming or abolishing marriage, there's an assumption I can't fault anyone for having — because it's an assumption borne of trauma — that queers who aren't big on marriage are inadvertently or purposefully going to either foolishly deprive themselves of rights, or dangerously deprive everyone of the rights associated with marriage. But that's markedly untrue. We only want rights to stop being locked behind marriages. We want an end to discrimination against the unmarried.

We want a multitude of rights for polyamorous relationships. We want ways to fully recognize and extend rights to non-romantic and/or non-sexual unions, including but not limited to QPRs, in a setting distinct from the one that (modern) history has spent so long conflating with romance and sex in a way that makes many of us so deeply uncomfortable. And many of us are also disabled queers who are furious about marriage stripping the disabled of all benefits.

We want options to co-parent, and retain legal rights to see children, that extends to more than two people, and by necessity, to non-biological parents (which, by the way, hasn't always automatically followed from same-gender marriage equality even in places where said equality nominally exists. Our struggles are not as different as you think). We would like for (found or biological) family members and siblings to co-habitate as equal members of a household, perhaps even with pooled finances or engaging in aforementioned co-parenting, without anyone trying to fit the dynamic into a "marriage-shaped box" and assume it's incestuous. We want options to leave either marriages, or alternative agreements, that are less onerous than divorce proceedings have historically been.

I can't speak for every person who does not want to marry, but on average, spurning marriage is not a choice we make lightly. We are deeply, deeply aware of the benefits that only marriage can currently provide. And we do not take that information lightly. We demand better.

Now, talking about the benefits of marriage in respective countries' current legal frameworks, so that all people can make choices from an informed place, is all well and good — but is not an appropriate response to someone saying they are uncomfortable with marriage. There are people for whom entering a marriage, with all its associated norms, expectations, and baggage, would feel like a betrayal of one's self and authenticity that would shake them to their core — and every day, I struggle to unpack if I'm one of them or not. If I want to marry for tax benefits, or not. If that's worth the risk of losing disability benefits, in the (very plausible) possibility that I have to apply for them later in life. If that's worth the emotional burden of having to explain over and over, to both well-meaning and deeply conservative family members, that this relationship is not one of romance or sex. (Because, god, trying just to explain aromanticism or asexuality in a world that broadly thinks they're "fake" is emotional labor enough.)

Marriage is a fundamental alteration to who I am, to what rights an ableist government grants me, and to how I am perceived. I don't criticize the institution just because I enjoy a "free spirit" aesthetic or think the wedding industry is annoying, or whatever.

#to claim “gay marriage is assimilationist” is of course bullshit and ahistorical #but to claim “gay marriage is the last marriage reform we need” is even more bullshit. in the vein of “fuck you; i got mine”#amatonormativity #marriage #there's also something idk if i'm that qualified to articulate as a culturally christian person (even if nonreligious)#but concepts of marriage (or lack thereof) vary across the globe and across cultures #yet legal marriage - which crosses borders via presence in immigration law (in addition to obvious colonialism)#can impose extremely eurocentric norms onto countless people #which is a strong argument for separating spiritual/religious marriage from legal benefits tbh #they're *supposedly* separated in the US but you know obergerfell wouldn't have taken until 2015 if that was fully true

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mutiarafirdaus · 2 days

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Proses Pernikahan, dan Pernak-Pernik Didalamnya

Ketika sedang menjalani proses taaruf dengan suami, Umi berkali-kali ingatkan.

Banyakin tilawah, banyakin istighfar, kamu gak akan tau kedepan ada hal-hal yang terjadi di luar dugaan. Jangan terlalu membulatkan keyakinan pada pilihan yang kita ambil, tetap serahin ke Allah apapun hasilnya. Masa-masa seperti ini harus deketin diri banget ke Allah.

Dan setelah membaca CV, mengobrol dengan suami lewat zoom karena tidak bisa pulang ke Indo, Umi kembali mengingatkan.

Menikah itu bukan karena berlandaskan pada deret prestasi pendidikan yang dimiliki. Bukan karena prestisiusnya pekerjaan. Umi memberikan restu melanjutkan karena melihat sepak terjangnya bareng Quran dan komitmen dia dalam berbakti kepada ibunya, juga karena dia tetap mengikuti pembinaan.

Jangan sampai menyandarkan pilihan dalam pernikahan pada urusan dunia. Kamu harus luruskan niat terus agar menikah karena kebaikan agama yang dia punya.

Saat itu aku hanya anggukan kepala dengarkan nasihat Umi. Tapi sekarang, ketika menemani teman-teman menjalani proses pernikahan mereka, maka nasihat Umi yang dikeluarkan.

Begitu banyak drama dan ujian hati dalam menempuh upaya menyatukan dua keluarga dan menyatukan dua kepala. Disatu sisi harus serius menjalaninya, di sisi lain harus memasrahkan apapun hasilnya dan siap dengan ketetapan takdir melanjutkan atau menyudahi.

Apapun hasil dari proses pernikahan yang sedang ditempuh, kita tetap sangat butuh Allah dalam setiap langkahnya. Maka mendekat pada Allah ketika menjalani proses pernikahan adalah resep jitu yang dengannya kita banyak temukan solusi dari ragam ujian yang datang.

Mendekat pada Allah tidak secara otomatis menghilangkan semua ujian, tapi mendekat pada Allah membuat kita tangguh menjalani ujian di hadapan.

Syawal dengan keramaian undangan dari kawan-kawan, bukanlah jadi perkara yang menggoyahkan keyakinan kita bahwa kelak akan disandingkan dengan pasangan yang ia mencintai Allah dan Allah amat mencintaiNya.

There must be, just wait

#selfreminder #semogaistiqomah #perjalanan #life #moslem #marriage

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fewwordsmanyriddles · 24 hours

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There's no man like you Baek Hyun Woo.

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classycookiexo · 16 hours

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#honestly #marriage #men

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theroundbartable · 2 days

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Guys, I had a vision:

Imagine:

Luffy: Hey Sanji, I heard you wanna get married

Sanji: I don't want to. I have to. My family-

Luffy: Robin just told me that if I say you're married, it's legal

Sanji: but who would I-

Luffy: You're married now, Sanji. You can't get married again. Yay, I did it!

Sanji: but... To whom?

Luffy: Guys, Sanji is staying!

Sanji: to WHOM?!?!

Luffy: I want meat!

Sanji: to fucking WHOM?

And that's that.

#one piece #this is ironically shipless #sanji #luffy #marriage

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limestoneisnotjaded · 2 days

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I keep your secrets, you keep mine ~

Love the height difference. Hillary looks so elegant, as always. 😍

Why is Bill fidgeting like a little kid? It’s adorable! 😭

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elcosmiquechild · 8 hours

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B L A C K • L O V E 👌🏾🌹✨

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greenfinchwriter · 2 days

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Snack Cakes And Other Love Crimes

Something tells me that even though Hannibal would become desperate enough to start recreating home made,gourmet versions of snack cakes at some point rather than watch his little mongoose continue eating the gas station kind - which Will would undoubtedly love too, of course - Will would still sometimes get the store bought stuff. Probably to Hannibal's eternal bafflement,and horror.

And if Will's southern ass saw these,well,all bets would be off,imho:

#nbc hannibal #will graham #hannigram #domestic fluff #murder husbands #southern will graham #headcanon #marriage #will x hannibal #will is hannibal's precious cruel sugared up meow meow

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your-astro-mami · 3 days

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Hello 😊

How to know through astrology when one is going to marry?

Jupiter return/Transit Jupiter conjunct your natal Jupiter

It tends to be a good sign of a big romantic commitment, taking a big step in a relationship, marriage. In general it brings luck to various areas of life (again it really depends on the house your natal Jupiter is in and which house in your chart is ruled by Jupiter). It is good for love, financially, professionally, for health.

Transit Jupiter in your 7th House

Jupiter is the planet of abundance, luck, growth and in the house of commitment it shows entering a happy relationship or taking bigger steps in a current one. It shows the most favorable timing for marriage.

Transit Venus in your 7th or 10th House

Transit Venus in your 7th is the best time out of the year for marriage depending on your chart. So if you are planning to get married check when Venus will be in your 7th house. It brings harmony, luck, positive energy. It can be a sign of entering a committed relationship.

Ruler of your 7th house in your 4th/7th/10th house

If the ruler of your 7th house is transiting your 4th house then it could be a sign of starting a family, moving in with your partner, if it is transiting through your 5th house it shows having children, if it is in the 7th it shows marriage/big romantic commitments, if it is in the 10th house it could also represent marriage/pursuing legal commitment with a partner.

example: Gemini on the 7th house cusp, Gemini is ruled by Mercury so Mercury is the ruler of your 7th House.

#astrology #marriage #7th house #zodiac signs #aries #taurus #gemini #cancer #leo #virgo #libra #scorpio #sagittarius #capricorn #aquarius pisces

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camilleflyingrotten · 19 days

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