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Good to see a Hollywood icon - the late, great Lauren Bacall - who didn't turn botoxymoron. She said, "I think your whole life shows in your face and you should be proud of that."
A friend I'd never regarded as a fount of wisdom took me by surprise one day when he said that as he aged he saw the world filling up with beautiful women...
Ian Sanders
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“Instead of possibilities, I have realities in my past, not only the reality of work done and of love loved, but of sufferings bravely suffered. These sufferings are even the things of which I am most proud, though these are things which cannot inspire envy.”
― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
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When we are no longer able to change a situation… we are challenged to change ourselves.
- Viktor Emil Frankl
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A man who let himself decline because he could not see any future goal found himself occupied with retrospective thoughts.
Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning
#goals#future#live in the present#plan for the future#let go of the past#don't live in the past#viktor e. frankl#viktor frankl#man's search for meaning#quotes
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Whilst reading the first part of Man's Search for Meaning there were several sections that stood out to me, but most of all this quote:
'[...] no one has the right to do wrong, not even if wrong has been done to them'
Viktor E. Frankl
In this section Frankl is briefly elaborating on a response some people had after being freed from concentration camps. Although from his account it seems that reaction of wanting to misuse their newly regained freedom was short-lived.
Connecting it to current events, this simple statement combined with the context it was written in just makes it that much more impossible to justify the actions of the Israeli government or those that support them.
#this quote just immediately brought those vile 'pro-Palestine = antisemitism' takes to mind#I'm glad there's so many jews vocal about their support for Palestine#anti zionisim#man's search for meaning#Viktor E. Frankl#Viktor Frankl#quote#free Palestine#concentration camp#ww2#ww2 history#WWII#WWII history#human rights#queue#kelsonius op
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There are only two races, the decent and the indecent.
Victor Frankl 'Man's Search For Meaning'
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I got positive feedback for my writing in my course today. But the way one older student called it irony and said paying bills doesn't sound like a sadistic prank hurt so much. I wish I could tell them.
How knowing you have talent and potential, but having an exremely poor and inconsistent ability to actually do even the most tasks, is a traumatizing experience society doesn't acknowledge. (Especially when you burn out really easily, and get physically sick from stress - sometimes even having had anaphylaxis)
How living as a paraphile and having had to endure years of death and rape threaths in order to find peer support and friends you don't have to fear would hate you, is a traumatizing experience.
Still, doctors and psychologists don't understand why you would need help, if you don't fear you might hurt somebody. Still, you need to find motivation to study and be a part of society that wants you and your friends dead.
How living through 3 years of crisis after crisis - covid, attacks on trans rights and a fear of genoside, war in Ukraine - is a traumatizing experience. Somehow social security and my university expets that shouldn't affect my progress in my studies.
So yeah, I feel like capitalistic expectations that I should be able to write my thesis and pay bills like everything is fine is a sadistic prank. This existential trauma and stress is trying to destroy my ability to write, my ability to function.
I wish I could just collapse on my knees and weep. But society won't even let me have that. It won't even let me talk about my trauma. THIS is what I mean by no one can hear or understand me.
At least, I keep surprising myself by what one can bear, and still find beauty and meaning in their life. Viktor Frankl was definitely right.
#vent post#ableism#neurodivergent#actually adhd#adult adhd#paramisia#anti capitalism#paraphiles please interact#existential despair#existential depression#existential trauma#oppression#minority stress#chronic burnout#mcas#viktor frankl#man's search for meaning
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The Complex Relationship between the Headmaster and Atsushi
The headmaster taught Atsushi an essential message through immoral means: suffering is unavoidable. He wanted to show Atsushi that one does not have to cower when suffering enters life. Instead, take control of it and use it as a motivator. He recognized Atsushi would encounter suffering because of his ability. He wanted Atsushi to use his fate to his advantage by achieving goals through suffering.
"Here lies the chance for a man either to make use of or to forgo the opportunities of attaining the moral values that a difficult situation may afford him. And this decides whether he is worthy of his sufferings or not."
-Man's Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl
Atsushi's source of suffering is his ability, and he proves to be worthy of his suffering when he defeats The Guild. The headmaster saw the news and knew Atsushi used the source of his suffering to his advantage. He wanted to praise him by buying him flowers, but he did not due to an accident.
"If there is a meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering. Suffering is an ineradicable part of life, even as fate and death. Without suffering and death, human life cannot be complete.".
-Man's Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl
I believe Atsushi recognized the message of the headmaster, whom he views as an abuser and father figure. The headmaster acted as a parental figure by teaching Atsushi the importance of suffering, but his way of doing this made him an abuser.
You see how Atsushi's past has affected him with Kyouka. He does not wish to see her suffer and helps her to conquer her source of suffering. His past shaped him into becoming the type of person who helps everyone. He uses the lesson he learned from the headmaster to help people overcome suffering.
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"Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor E. Frankl book recommendation by Rachel Sylvan
#man's search for meaning#viktor frankl#philosophy#holocaust#book review#book rec#book recommendations#books#book#meaning of life
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"..... if we seem to be idealists and are overestimating or overrating man and looking at him that high here above, you know what happens, we promote him to what he really can be so we have to be idealists in a way because then we'll wind up as the true the real realist....... if we take man as he is, we make him worse but if we take man as he should be, we make him capable of becoming what he can be....."
https://youtu.be/loay2imHq5E?si=NIVedhXxFNB6Ofx3
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Book Recommendations
Having accomplished my reading goal for the year a few hours shy of July, I stood up, stretched my limbs , gazed over the horizon and contemplated this feat which for some might be grand or small depending on perspective and experience. I had set out to read a hundred books for no particular reason other than to venture beyond the comforts of my literary habits.
In the course of the challenge, I read books that were inconsequential other than their placement of rank between one and the hundred of books, I would have read before the year's end.
Books that opened a string of connected doors that led me down rabbit holes of the wondrous nature of certain genres and book series. While others portaled open brief but exciting worlds whose wonder I wouldn't do justice if I tried to describe. Others conjured the feeling of a polyester and wool spun thread that is constantly scraping against teeth or furniture that is constantly dragged across uncovered floor.
Some were the intake of fresh breath after spending all day indoors, a well scratched itch in the middle of your back or taking a dump after holding it in all day. Some were familiar songs but sung a bit of key as if to draw in the heart but all they did was confuse the mind.
While I could not cover all the ways that the books made me feel, there was in them a feeling of getting a hundred handshakes. Each intricately different and unique but what I felt was a callouse here, a moist hand there, a firm grip, long fingers and huge hands that completely covered my hand or tiny ones that made me stop and stare.
Some of the books that I would recommend are :
1.On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong
2.Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl
3.Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke
4.A Woman is no Man by Etaf Rum
5.Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin
6.As a Man Thinketh by James Allen
7.Nearly all the Men in Lagos are Mad by Damilare Kuku
8.Frankenstein by Mary Shelly
9.A lady of Rooksgrave Manor by Kathryn Moon
10.Ikigai by Hector García and Fransesc Mirales
11.Love and other words by Christina Lauren
12.Heartstopper by Alice Oseman
Now I am embarking on another journey where the books are fewer but more likely to caress my soul. It's one of intention more than the numbers. The mystic in me wants to try 21 books in the hope that it will build a habit. But in all this, I am aware that, reading should be a fun chore like , washing the dishes while listening to music. The moment it starts to become a cumbersome chore, we should draw new strategies lest we fall out of love.
#reading#book reccs#book discussion#writing#on earth we're briefly gorgeous#giovannis room#A Woman Is No man#as a man thinketh#ikigai#heartstopper#A lady of Rooksgrave Manor#letters to a young poet#Nearly all of the men in lagos are mad#Frankenstein#man's search for meaning#love and other words#2022 books#reader insert
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Milky Way over Australia by Babak Tafreshi
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Thank you Viktor Frankl.
He spoke of “a will to meaning in contrast to the pleasure principle (or as we could also term it, the will to pleasure) on which Freudian psychoanalysis is centered, as well as in contrast to the will to power.” Many were murdered outright, but in the harsh conditions of the camp those who lost their sense of purpose more readily died; those who had something to live for struggled and sometimes survived. Frankl concluded that it is “a dangerous misconception of mental hygiene to assume that what man needs in the first place is equlibrium or, as it is called in biology, ‘homeostasis,’ i.e., a tensionless state. What man actually needs is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task. What he needs is not the discharge of tension at any cost but the call of a potential meaning waiting to be fulfilled by him. . . . If architects want to strengthen a decrepit arch, they increase the load which is laid upon it, for thereby the parts are joined more firmly together.”
(Man’s Search For Meaning)
#Milky Way#Australia#sky#the heavens#heaven and earth#Man's Search for Meaning#Purpose#Viktor Frankl#quotes
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Literary Kaleidoscope: 7 Quirky Books That Will Revolutionize Your Existence
In the realm of literature, there are certain books that go beyond mere entertainment and have the power to reshape our perspectives and ignite personal transformations. These books often possess a touch of quirkiness, inviting readers into imaginative worlds and challenging conventional thinking. In this blog post, we present seven quirky books that have the potential to change your life. From intergalactic adventures to philosophical insights, these literary gems offer unique experiences and profound lessons.
"The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" by Douglas Adams: Prepare to embark on a hilariously absurd journey through space and time. This science fiction classic combines humor, wit, and mind-bending concepts, encouraging readers to question their place in the universe and embrace the unpredictability of life.
"The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" by Marie Kondo: In a world where clutter overwhelms, Marie Kondo's quirky guide to decluttering offers a refreshing approach. By emphasizing the importance of joy and creating a harmonious living space, Kondo's method empowers readers to let go of material excess and discover the transformative power of tidying.
"Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor E. Frankl: In this deeply moving memoir, Frankl reflects on his experiences as a Holocaust survivor and explores the human quest for meaning. Through poignant insights, he demonstrates the resilience of the human spirit and encourages readers to find purpose in even the most challenging circumstances.
"The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho: A tale of self-discovery and destiny, Coelho's enchanting novel takes readers on a journey with a young shepherd named Santiago. Through encounters with eccentric characters and mystical experiences, Santiago learns to follow his heart and pursue his dreams, inspiring us to do the same.
"Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind" by Yuval Noah Harari: Delving into the quirks and complexities of human history, Harari presents a captivating exploration of our species. From our cognitive abilities to societal structures, this thought-provoking book challenges our preconceived notions about humanity and invites us to ponder our place in the world.
"The Tao of Pooh & The Te of Piglet" by Benjamin Hoff: In this charming and philosophical book, Hoff skillfully intertwines Eastern philosophy with the beloved characters from A.A. Milne's Winnie-the-Pooh. Through the simplicity and wisdom of Pooh, readers are encouraged to embrace mindfulness, simplicity, and the joy of being in the present moment.
"Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine" by Gail Honeyman: Meet Eleanor Oliphant, an eccentric and socially awkward woman navigating life's challenges. Honeyman's novel touches on themes of loneliness, resilience, and human connection, reminding us of the power of compassion and the transformative nature of genuine relationships.
Literature has a remarkable ability to expand our horizons and transform our lives. These seven quirky books offer captivating stories, unconventional insights, and profound wisdom. Whether you find yourself on an intergalactic adventure, decluttering your living space, or reflecting on the meaning of life, these literary gems have the potential to spark personal growth, challenge your perspective, and inspire you to embrace the quirkiness of the world around you. So dive into these pages, open your mind to new possibilities, and allow these books to illuminate your path towards a transformed life.
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We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.
Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning
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Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
I got this from my library because it was pretty short and I'm currently in a queue for a book, so I didn't want to borrow a long book.
This book was very thought-provoking and interesting, and the recording showed it's age, because the narrator would occasionally say that it would continue on the next disc. I thought that this was a good book, it definitely made me think, and I thought that the author did a good job of organizing his thoughts in a way that makes sense for someone like me, who has read very little in psychology.
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Age quod agis
“Jangan terlalu idealis dalam memberi nilai ke siswa, bisa jadi nilaimu dulu adalah hasil manipulasi dari gurumu saat itu”
Kalimat yang akhirnya membungkam semua hal yang ingin saya katakan!
Pikiran saya mengulang pada tahun-tahun putih merah, putih biru, putih abu, rak buku perpustakaan, tumpukan buku tulis semua mata pelajaran, ruang kelas, senyuman para guru, tawa, dan amarah teman-teman, membayangkan bagaimana jadinya bahwa semua itu adalah ilusi.
Harus saya akui bahwa semua itu kenangan termanis saya, yang masih tersimpan rapi dan berharap agar tetap manis.:D
Pengalaman menjadi guru yang bahkan belum memasuki umur jagung, cukup memberi saya kejutan yang kadang harus disambut gelak tawa, senyum juga amarah [yang harusnya disimpan saja]. Tingkah para siswa yang seolah cerminan diri, membuat haru dan tawa bahkan dalam waktu bersamaan.
Tahun pertama, seorang siswa laki-laki menangis saat jam pelajaran saya berlangsung, hanya karena diminta untuk duduk di bangku terdepan. Dia menuruti perkataan saya, dengan setengah hati sambil menyeka air matanya. Saya gelagapan saat itu melihat reaksinya, panik [berusaha tenang] menanyakan apa perkataan saya menyakitinya? Geleng, tunduk, dan air mata yang terus mengalir. Dengan bahasa nan lembut saya membawanya keluar kelas dan mengajak ke ruang guru. “Jika ada yang ingin kamu ceritakan boleh cerita kok, bisa ke saya atau ke guru BK.” Tidak ada jawaban, lagi-lagi tunduk dan terus menangis. Akhirnya saya putuskan untuk membawa ke guru BK. Kelas berjalan kembali sebagaimana harusnya.
Masa adaptasi, membuatmu mulai memahami benang merah yang tersembunyi di balik ruang gerakmu.
Hingga akhir pelajaran, barulah saya mendapat informasi, bahwa pagi sebelum berangkat sekolah, siswa tersebut menyaksikan pertengkaran hebat orangtuanya.
Saat itu saya menyadari bahwa; hubungan siswa dan guru adalah tentang perihal ‘menjemput’, ‘menemani’, dan ‘menghantar’. Menjemput bersama dengan kelebihan dan kekurangan yang bahkan keduanya tidak saling mengenal dengan baik. Menemani bahkan sampai pada titik dimana keduanya ingin menyerah lalu menemukan secercah harapan untuk kembali bangkit. Menghantar untuk memastikan hal baik telah dibawanya pulang dan dijadikannya pijak untuk setiap tutur dan tindak.
Saya kembali teringat celetukan salah seorang teman guru; “Kita ini bekerja berhadapan dengan makluk hidup, bukan mesin atau komputer, karena itu tuluslah, dan hal baik selalu ada untuk orang-orang yang bekerja dengan sepenuh hati.”
Saya yang saat itu hanya tersenyum getir, mengingat rentetan keluhan dan umpatan yang terlanjur ucap, menunduk; i'm nothing more than a loser! Saya tidak ingin membenarkan diri dengan mengatakan; i'm just a human, tapi karena saya manusia jadi, saya harus tahu, bagaimana seharusnya.
Dunia kerja menghantarkanmu pada rahasia hidup, kebenaran pahit dan manis, langit yang terang lalu mendung kemudian gelap. Hamparan pasir berkerikil dan tanah lapang yang ditumbuhi bunga mawar berkelopak indah menjuntai pada tangkai berduri. Dunia dimana nyata dan palsu sulit dibedakan. Atau, bisa jadi sebaliknya; mudah dibedakan, mengingat saya atau juga kamu telah bertumbuh, dan bertahan sampai pada titik ini.
Percaya bahwa orang-orang disekitarmu memberi pengaruh besar akan pola pikir dan perilakumu, tidaklah salah, tapi apakah kamu akan membiarkannya? Seolah kamu dituntun pada jalan yang bukan menjadi inginmu. Saya, atau juga kamu tidak pernah tahu dengan pasti akhir kisah seperti apa yang sedang menunggu di ujung jalan, tapi bukankah kita berhak memilih jalan kita sendiri?
Terkadang saya bersikap seolah bukan saya, senyum yang dipaksakan, tawa yang tak lepas, empati yang tak berdasar, tatap yang kosong, lalu mempertanyakan bagaimana seharusnya menjadi peduli, sementara saya memilih menarik diri dari percakapan monoton dan membosankan. Menarik diri dari keramaian yang penuh dengan skenario, ketika berakhir kita saling membicarakan satu sama lain. Saling memuji lalu menjatuhkan. Hidup terlampau pura-pura.
Berkecimpung di dunia pendidikan bukan berarti kamu hanya akan berhadapan dengan orang-orang berkarakter baik. Orang-orang yang memiliki kemauan tinggi untuk belajar, orang-orang yang merasa sudah banyak belajar, bahkan orang-orang yang kurang diajar, pantas disambut dengan senyuman termanismu lalu takhlukan.
Menjadi bagian dari orang-orang ini bukanlah sebuah kesalahan, juga jangan lupa bahwa kita berhak memilih.
Saya teringat akan sebuah kutipan Frankl dari Man’s Search for Meaning; “apa pun bisa dirampas dari manusia, kecuali satu: kebebasan untuk menentukan sikap dalam setiap keadaan.”
Dan benar adanya bahwa kita tidak ingin dipermainkan oleh keadaan.
Saya harus lebih memahami diri saya, agar setiap tutur dan tindak saya, dipahami baik oleh mereka yang memanggil saya dengan panggilan Bu Guru.
Cakung, 08 Mei 2022
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