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succulentsiren · 3 days
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Advice I'd Give to My Younger Self.
Be unapologetic about your presence. Never enter a room with your head lowered. Hold your head up like you are proud to be who you are. Take up space. Be bold in your actions. Let your voice be heard.
You don't have to be perfect. Get over perfectionism and the fear of being embarrassed. Learn to own all your flaws and insecurities and continue to do what you love.
What other people say mean nothing. Never loose sleep over anyone’s opinion of you. They are not God and they don't define you.
Believe in yourself. You can be successful just like those people you look up to. You have what it takes. Hone your skills and be great too.
Appreciate your unique gifts and qualities. Stop comparing yourself to others and changing yourself to fit in. Always stay true to yourself.
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yourecitten · 3 days
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you already have it
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When you get caught up thinking "but I can't see it now" and you lose yourself in thought, that is why things don't materialize. It all comes down to your relationship with the Self. It has always been there with you, you just have to quiet down the noise you've accumulated so you know and trust. When it is all silent for a moment, everything arises. When you know you are that I AM always, that is when everything can come to your reality in the 3D. You simply become aware of it and it is. You are that which is infinite. You can be infinite joy or infinite sadness. Nothing is too big or too small for you to be, for you are that consciousness. Nothing you want in materialization is outside yourself - it is all inside.
It doesn't matter what is in your mind. We cannot control our thoughts. All we can do is not hold onto them. You have to let the thoughts pass through you and not attach yourself to them. Let them be there but not identify with them. Let them be there and let go of their power by not identifying. You can practice this: You can simply say 'this thought is not mine' or 'this thought belongs to someone else' or 'I am not this thought'. Or just observe your thoughts but do not judge them in any way. This is difficult at first because we naturally have this instinct to identify with anything that pops up. Be mindful and remind yourself that you do not need to claim any thought for it is simply not true. It is not you, do not resist being 'you' by resisting the thoughts that rise up, for you are so much more. This is practice, you can only let go of the habit of identifying. Let go of the sense of duty. Everything is already done, but we like to hold on. We think we need to remember and constantly re-affirm. It's ok, and we all do it, but it is not necessary. It is the feeling of need and urgency that brings everything into your experience. When you need nothing, everything comes. Everything you desire is already within you. There is nothing outside to be fulfilled. You are already whole. The moment you are with yourself, all you are truly with is that I AMness. You have nothing to do, you are simply a being. It is just a matter of being comfortable with yourself and letting go of anything else that makes you think you need anything else.
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nondualiber · 19 hours
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real useful things i've realized about loa while i was "resting" from tumblr & overconsumption:
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• stop gaslighting yourself, make actual change instead. you know when you're not doing it right. if you spiral, get desperate, dwell in the old story... well, i've got some news. -- this might seem obvious but for me it wasn't. i was super desperate, giving like 1 step forward 50 steps back but i still played blind bc i thought that if i just said "oh no but my mindset doesn't matter" that would solve all my problems. damn
• WHAT WORKS FOR YOU. ik EVERYONE says this but omfg. i can NOT stress this enough. actually find what works for you. i used to think that my key (decide once n keep going with my day) was not a "correct" way to do it bc it made "no sense" or wtv, but now i've manifested a lot of things with that method & i'm so proud of myself for doing so :,,) wdym with "works for you"? whatever makes you confident enough to not spiral, to believe you actually have what you want, to not pay attention to the 3d & doesn't make manifesting feel like chore but something that comes naturally for you is the correct way to do it. trust your feelings, your intuition, yourSelf; they don't lie
• work on your manifesting concept, a.k.a trust in law. we talk a lot about "self" concept but not about "manifesting" concept. for me, i (kind of) believed i could manifest, i just didn't believe 100% in law. i still don't, but i've gotten considerably better!! my best tip to build trust in law was to start manifesting things that were "easier", more archivable, but not happening on a daily basis so i'd know if it was my manifestation turned reality
• stop consuming. not over-consuming but just consuming, literally. don't read neville, don't open tumblr, don't listen to edward nor any other coach! again, this one was obvious to everyone but me. trust me, you already know everything you need. "but i actually put in practice what i read!" yeah, but which one? you read 100 methods everyday. consuming is thinking from the 3d, and long-term it will demotivate you. trust me
• and last one, forget about deadlines. "when will i have it?" now. "where?" here. now and here. keep that mindset, and tbh in one week it'll be done
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blissfulreads · 2 days
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life-spire · 3 days
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saber-monet · 18 hours
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The one life advice I can give is to believe that you will get what you’re looking for. You’ll get the the house and the money, the friend, the social dynamic/interactions, the material things etc..
For me, I define belief as ‘a story that you keep telling’.
I make it a daily habit to ask myself, “Do I believe that ?” with the noise that goes on in my head.
And I’m basically asking myself: are you going to continue telling that story? Are you going to continue claiming that reality until it comes true?
If it’s not in front of you and it’s making you feel bad, question if you want to believe it.
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godnessofassumtion · 21 hours
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felineandhustle · 2 days
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selfhealingmoments · 3 months
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sugarsprinklesoul · 2 months
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Abilities that will forever benefit you
The ability to walk away
The ability to manage your time
The ability to remain consistent
The ability to self analyze
The ability to learn how to learn
The ability to understand others
The ability to listen
The ability to express your thoughts and feelings
The ability to break down tasks
The ability to adapt
The ability to control your mind
The ability to ask for help
The ability to act upon facts not feelings
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alilarew23 · 6 months
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daily reminder that
once you decide something is happening/has already happened/is yours/will 777% be yours, you can feel whatever the fuck you want to feel, you can think whatever the fuck you want to think, you can carry yourself however the fuck you want to carry yourself—it DOES NOT MATTER. there is nothing, and i mean NOTHING, more powerful than the energy of decision, than the absolute unwavering belief in a specific outcome. decide, know, and stop giving your power up. if you’re on my team, you’re fearless, you’re winning, you’ve already won, and that’s on god.
love you, strong one. 💋
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anniespositivity · 8 months
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In case you are full of doubts while stumbling upon this post: You are more than your bad days. You are more than your sadness. You are more than these bad thoughts telling you that you have no purpose. You are loved. You are important. You are irreplaceable. You are so damn worthy. Nothing and no one can ever take that away from you.
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prettieinpink · 7 months
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PROCESSING YOUR EMOTIONS WITHOUT SUPPRESSING THEM - TECHNIQUES
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this post is all about how to process emotions that we are uncomfortable with, safely and positively. Today, I’d like it if you’d try to implement at least one technique today!
REMINDERS
Remember that when you feel an emotion, it is your body communicating itself to you. Listen to your emotion, and understand.
All emotions are temporary, and will pass. But some can leave a more long term effect on us.
Having the skill of sitting through uncomfortable emotions calmly, and not let it impact our lives greatly will serve you well.
TECHNIQUES
STOP TECHNIQUE
S- Stop what you’re doing, pause all activities and shut off your brain.
T- Take a few deep breathes, continue until your focus is only on breathing deeply.
O- Observe your thoughts, your body language, any physical sensations and acknowledge them within you.
P- Proceed with any activity that may help you process this emotion. Meditation, journaling, stretching, talking to someone, etc.
ALL TECHNIQUE
A- Acknowledge, accept and alllow what you feel. Identify what emotion you feel, if you can’t, try to associate it with something. Sit in this feeling for awhile and truly accept it within you.
L- Link it to a circumstance or situation that may explain why you’re feeling this way. E.g ‘I feel so irritated lately, it may be because I’ve been eating sugary foods more’
L- Learn what this emotion may be telling you. There’s not much detail on this because only you know what your body needs/wants.
SELF EXPRESSION
Draw, write, compose music on what this feeling looks like, sounds like, maybe even their taste. This really helps go deep in your emotions, analyse it and then hopefully process it.
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the-joy-of-knowledge · 3 months
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Common Sense for women in their 20s
Define your raison d'être
Journal regularly, in fact daily
Figure out the right hairstyle for you
Buy clothes that fit your body type
Learn to do you own makeup if you'd like to wear it
Observe, observe, observe
Try to participate in the society
Know that not everything is within your control
Do not live in fantasy or fear, they are distractions
Read books
Learn to form you own opinion
Do not force friendships
Do not stress the small stuff
Spend time getting to know your self
Know women's history & History and use it to your advantage
Have some intellectual rigor
Create your own community
Find a third space
Take your vitamins
Your wellbeing and wellness should be your priority
Have role models for every area of your life
Have discretion
Do not be quick to anger
Have mentors and be a mentor to others
Your social skills will take you far
Be responsible, the world is not so forgiving to women
Know when to stand out
Know when to fit in
Curate your life to fit your goals and desires
Understand strategy and how best to use it to your advantage
Get acquainted with what maks the world go round
You have to climb socially
You need allies in areas where you want to win
Be kind
Be content with what you have, otherwise you will pay the price
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free-my-mindd · 2 years
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