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#Mod bubble: i completely agree! I use the label mspec bc I honestly can’t tell which label I fit in. Only that I’m mspec
mspec-culture-is · 3 years
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How do people know what flavour mspec they are?
Because im maybe pretty sure I know ik attracted to men, and I'm maybe sure I like women but how do you know which one??
Well, it's more a matter of personal sensibility. See how people from each community define their experience as mspec, see which label you'd like most to be applied to you, see which community you'd like to be a part of. It doesn't have to be just one either, you can be both bi and ply, both pan and omni, whatever makes a good description of yourself to your standards.
You aren't forced to pick one either. You can just be mspec, just be queer, just be unlabeled, or use other labels than those I've mentioned. I really want to insist on the fact that it's up to you. It can change with time, it can always be the same, it can take time to find what is more comfortable to you, it can click instantly, etc, etc.
I hope this helps, best of luck to you!
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