#NB things

[chaoscalamari]

For anyone who's changed their name, have you been put off a name you particularly like because it is too close to one from something you enjoy and you fear people will think you got it from there instead of your actual source? Or am I just being paranoid?

#name change #nb things

[stoplookingupforheaven]

i wore a button-down to a concert last night because i was feeling they/them and i’m wearing a skirt today because i’m feeling she/her and i felt so gender in both outfits. i love being genderfluid/nb 🤩

#this isn’t relevant it’s just important to me that you know #nb things #rain talks

[jnjlen-ou-skinjbir]

What is it called when you wear your binder and you automatically speak in a lower pitch than usual?

#nb things

[kvzbrekkrs]

i didn't realize it was non-binary people's day yesterday, but i buzzed all my hair off at 11 pm last night because that's just how in tune with the universe that i am 💁🏻

#nb things #for the gays #n0va.pic #my face #happy non binary peoples day #nonbinary #nb

[rambrosius]

Anti Dysphoria Hoodie

#rambrosius rambles #nb things #trans things #trans rights #nonbinary #guess how tf I'm feeling #iykyk <3

[mezimraky]

my pronouns are teehee

#under the sun with kai #nb things #i had an awakening.

[inkskinned]

something bad happened to you, and you died, and you came back wrong.

not wrong all the way. the little ways. you forget important dates, stopped going out with friends. it's harder to make you smile. you're apathetic towards things you used to love, afraid of places you used to go to cheer up. quieter. flinching. different.

you came back for love. you're still here for love. what pulled you back was a brightness so loud that even death couldn't outshout it. death heard the call and smiled at you and said okay. go home. somebody is waiting for you.

but you came back different. like lot's wife; you've turned into salt. you used to chirp through life in hops and skips; but now you lose skin just standing up. you have to move slower, skimming across this world without-touching-it. most things feel dull - until they're suddenly all-too-much. life, and being alive just rushes up and over you and you get hopelessly crushed.

you try to explain it to them: it is ugly, but this is what you are, now. the huge golden hoop of your halo now a little bronze ring. you are still watering your plants and wearing the same clothes. after all, you worked hard to come home. this life; so odd and off-color, now that you are wrong.

but they waited for you - it's just that they wanted the "you" that happened before this. the "you" that could sing in the show and hug people tight and look at a blade without breaking down to cry. the you with a smile in pictures. god, holyshit, it's like looking at a completely different person, isn't it. that other-you; the one they actually wanted.

you are the consolation prize. you are the body that forgot the ghost. you are the memory of the bad thing, and the death after; like you are wearing that memory as a banner. you are a fragment, an assembly. simulacrum. you don't make eye contact in mirrors, afraid the light will glance off and your true nature will flash back at you.

you hear them talk about it in their hushed, desperate whispers. sometimes they even admit it to your face; harsh and violent, acid thrown at christmas dinner. god, can you just fucking be normal again. you do not remember what normal is. you had to climb so far to get back here; you are far too exhausted. you want to open the glass door of your heart and show all the gears. can you help resolve whatever got messed up?

you try so, so hard. you came back for them. because you believed they would love you, even when you were so horribly broken. because you believed they would be patient. because you believed unconditional meant "without exception." you cannot do things the same way. you just get tired too quickly these days.

you want to put them on a couch and pour them the tea with hands that shake more than they remember. you want to line them up and draw them a map of where you have had to wander. you want to show every bruise in a backsplash; the little helpless ant of your soul carrying all that weight, over and over. you want to say: yes! it is different! but i did it for love!

you want to say: "i'm not the same, but i'm yours and i'm here. can that be enough?"

#this is very obviously about my battle with #ptsd #but i think it's also like a pretty apt metaphor for a lot of things like setting boundaries or going to therapy or choosing recovery #i was thinking about the 'comes back wrong' trope and i was like. oh no i have feelings about this bc i have mental illness #and once i stopped masking - i was WRONG. i was different #here's the good news: i am now INNUNDATED with love. fucking swimming in it. excelling at it. the people who stayed #learned my new self. my new different body and how i am different but i am trying. they have held me so tightly #and my life no longer feels quiet. it is not based in my suffering. it feels like i have been growing a tree in my chest #and now it is flowering. #it is so lovely to be surrounded by people who have said - oh! you cut off so many branches i was worried you weren't the same. but now... #... this is just a new you. and i love you. and i love that you're different and happy. #(but yeah also im nb so i was absolutely influenced by Trans things)

[asexualbookbird]

Nonbinary Stellars Jay my beloved <3

#queer corvids #pride #pride month #nonbinary #nonbinary pride #bookbird babbles #snapshots #doing the art thing #GOSH THIS WAS MORE DIFFICULT THAN IT SHOULDVE BEEN #I HAVE A MIGRAINE BUT I WANTED IT DONE IN TIME TO POST IN THE MORNING #AND BY GOLLY DID I FINISH IT #was supposed to be a regular blue jay but i was having trouble translating the colors to the nb flag lololol #ANYWAY PLS LOOK AT THEM I LOVE THEM

[999999999inadream]

toby fox needs to add like a bit of narration in deltarune abt kris like "they themmed they/themily down the stheirs" cus i cant go on seeing them constantly get he/himmed in yt comment sections

#this is my punishment for actually looking at yt comments isnt it #deltarune #kris dreemurr #maybe im looking too much into things but... #it also feels sorta. misogynistic when ppl default to he/him for androgynous/non binary characters #like ive seen multiple ppl use “well its understandable that ppl assume kris is a he when they have such masculine behaviours/hobbies” #the masculine behaviours and hobbies in question are being a prankster #i shit you not #like they called pranking... masc?? huh #can girls and others not get their silly on anymore?? #also like i said before with the exception of like frisk and chara like almost every nb character is masculinised #like napstablook monster kid #god there has to be more but my memory is shit atm and i also have to go eat dinner #but i wanna talk more abt like why it feels so misogynistic to me #i thinnk it has to do with the fact that defaulting to he/him just makes women feel like an afterthought. ig like unless its confirmed then #they must be a guy to be relevant or smth #and also like how much they gender entirely non gender specific things (see: pranking) #ofc it wouldnt be BETTER per se if they imagined these characters as girls but its smth ive noticed and i just get frustrated cus #it feels sexist but i cant FULLY articulate why #i feel like i had the answer a lil while ago but i forgot #i might come back to this who knows #wow ok rant over #for now

[yukiire]

it's time to give the 4th but also newest bro a big hug 💖

#we already knew they were gonna pick satan in NB's lesson 19 anyway but i love how they got there #obey me nightbringer #obey me #obey me fanart #obey me mammon #obey me lucifer #obey me asmo #obey me satan #obey me leviathan #obey me belphegor #obey me beelzebub #obey me shall we date #riddle doodle #it also makes me wonder how they got to being bros in OG and makes me wonder if they got to do the same things as NB's #food for thought idk how to think

[urb0ytoy]

what the hell why am i not underneath someones desk rn sucking them off while they play videogames

#based on a convo with a mutual #the things i would do to be sucking someone off under a desk rn #transmasc nsft #trans nsft #ftm nsft #queer nsft #gay nsft #autistic nsft #catboy nsft #mlm nsft #nb nsft #nonbinary nsft #nsft t4t #nsft trans #t4t nsft #nblw nsft #nblnb nsft #nblm nsft #nb bottom #nb sub #t4t sub #t4t bottom #t4t breeding #t4t ns/fw #trans ns/fw #ftm ns/fw

[kvzbrekkrs]

hi, we got new hats at work and im lovin these fuckboi vibes.

#god i feel so powerful #nb things #for the gays #my face #n0va.pic

[flattery-suplex]

My dad just told me I’m handsome I’m experiencing massive amounts of gender euphoria  

#ahhhhhhhhhhh #guys i'm handsome #nb things

[marzipanandminutiae]

#poll #bad history #no Baylie Carson you cannot be 'she/they Boleyn' #you are a nonbinary actor playing a cis female 'character.' because she's not a character. she's a real person #who was a cis woman #with no known evidence of liking other women. ergo based on current scholarship...she was not queer #and it's cool I think! more trans and NB actors SHOULD play cis characters! god knows the reverse happens often enough! #but. yeah. #interestingly the pocket thing was a stolen and misrepresented bit of worldbuilding from another author #who was very clear- when the debate came to her attention -that it was fictional and she made it up #(it was from Alix E. Harrow's The Once and Future Witches) #but Forster blocked everyone who pointed this out and deleted all contradicting comments

[yearning-gay]

casual impregnation. idk. just being told by a friend or something that they wanna nut in you like it's a normal thing to do and just giving access to them, so they lube up your pussy and warm you up enough so they can slip inside and get off. you get help with the cleaning up because it's the polite thing to do sure and you're obviously thanked for it but it's just an entirely casual process. no big deal. you start to show after a few weeks and just laugh it off. oh yeah they came inside me a while ago! might do it again the next time i see them, haven't gotten around to mentioning this to them yet i've just had so much going on haha. oh what, you need to get off too? i mean sure, it's not gonna get me any more pregnant though you missed your chance on that this time. maybe hit me up on that after nine months, if you wanna call dibs i'll honor that for sure! :)

#jack.txt #t4t nsft #nsft trans #trans nsft #nblnb nsft #nb nsft #nblm nsft #nblw nsft #tw pregnancy #i love casual shit with things that have like heavy consequences or whatever ughhhhhhh 💞💞💞