#Of course they belong here!

[itsoktocallmegay]

Friendly reminder that aplatonics are queer. It’s so disheartening to see so much aphobia be directed towards aplatonics. The A includes all aspecs.

#lgbtq #queer #aspec #aspectrum #aplatonic #aplspec #aplatonic spectrum #aplatonics are queer #aplatonics belong here #lgbt+ #lgbtqia #the a includes all aspecs #the a does not stand for ally #aplatonic questioning #of course not every aplatonic may identify as queer but the label itself is very queer regardless #if the person is only aplatonic but otherwise doesn’t I’d with other queer labels they still belong in the queer community #aphobia

[yuridovewing]

i loveee kit scenes theyre so precious

#actually ik its just to make everyone seem awful here but i think there could be something made out of a young inexperienced med cat #doing what ravenwing did. like an immature sense of ‘’justice’’ formed by bigotry #he could absolutely have waited til those kittens were at least old enough if he HAD to say anything #but that ‘’justice’’ came before all else and ended several lives #albeit indirectly #of course most of this is just bigotry. ravenwing CORRECTING maple when she says theyre thunderclan cats #and going ‘’no. theyre half riverclan. they dont belong here’’??? oughh he knew exactly what he was doing #msv liveread

[kattahj]

Watching the transformations in Queer Eye is like: That hair looks nice! Those clothes look nice! That food looks nice! That home looks like a hotel lobby!

#queer eye #of course the problem is that homes aren't supposed to match #they're supposed to be a mix of stuff you got from your grandmother or garage sales or your childhood bedroom or ikea #plus that one thing that was actually expensive but that you fell in love with #and random belongings scattered here and there #if everything is tidy and tasteful it's not a home

[dollypopup]

just. . .do y'all remember when Polin actually loved each other in our fandom? do you remember when our posts were about how sweet they were together? when it was about how they were on one another's teams? when it was story after story and post after post of polin against the world? of 'I like you' 'I like you too'? of 'Is life meant to be this happy?' 'I think so'? Do you remember when we were all about how much Colin loved Penelope and Penelope loved Colin? When the biggest narrative was that they saw one another, made one another brave, brought out the best in each other? When the mirror was more than just a sex scene and was also a metaphor for what they saw in each other and how they reflected one another? When they were kind to each other? When we were kind to them as characters? When they were encouraging? When they were affectionate and loving and tenderhearted and messy and silly and loving with one another? When Penelope chose Colin at every turn and Colin chose her?

Where is it? Where is the love for our couple? Be honest, wanting Colin to grovel and suffer isn't for Polin fans. It's for Pen stans. Because us Colin fans are shown time and time and time again that it's okay to call a character we love an idiot, want him egregiously punished or humiliated, to see nothing good in his character at all. So who else is it meant for? I miss when we cared about them. I miss when there was a place we could go that was about their romance and tenderness. I miss when it wasn't just straight up hating on him, or us obsessed with Penelope getting with other characters, or thinking he's less than.

We have one of the *best* Male Love Leads in the entire series. And if you don't think that way. . .I just don't understand why you claim to ship this ship. We have an amazing pairing. A wonderful couple. A couple who cares about each other, a couple who builds one another up, a couple that are friends, a couple that has passion and happiness and so much potential.

Do you remember our gifsets gushing about how much he cared for her? Do you remember our metas about how they could bloom and flourish around one another? When we looked at how Colin was hypervisible but ultimately unheard and how Penelope was invisible but the loudest voice in the ton and sighed about how they fit so well with one another? Do you remember when Penelope was proud to have Colin as a partner and he showed her off at every turn? Do you remember when it wasn't a scorecard? When it wasn't about suffering and was about tenderness? Do you remember when they LOVED each other in our fandom? Do you remember when we loved them?

I remember.

And I miss it. I miss it so much.

#actually fuck it i'm untagging it #because no one fucking cares #i don't belong here and i should just take the fucking hint already #these posts are depressing #these TAGS are depressing #there's no love #there's no romance here anymore #our version of their romance has been distilled into 'heehee can't wait to see him jealous and crying over our queen' #but i want to see them in LOVE #ooey gooey happy sugary dripping in sap in love #these posts about groveling and jealousy and suffering aren't for them as a couple #where is penelope 'my husband' featherington? #where is how proud she is of Colin? how happy she is with him? #where's the tenderness? our bragging about how amazing our couple is? where's the heart eyes over their looks? their humor? #how they laugh together? #instead of seeing their lessons as quality time we've cheapened them into a series of suffering points #instead of looking at the suitors storyline and being like 'of course pen is still going to choose colin she loves him' #we want her to rub it in his face #instead of wanting introspection from colin and seeing him come to terms slowly with the fact that he loves penelope for all she is #we want a quick 'other people want her and that's not fair!' lightning strike realization #i miss when this couple was a couple #i miss when we loved them #and i miss when they loved each other #it's about drama not romance #it's about suffering and not joy #it's just painful loving this couple for both the characters and seeing them twisted into the worst versions of themselves

[lili-of-the-wildfire]

SCREAMING at the fan theories that Gwyn is related to Eris and Lucien bc the only foundation i see for that theory is that they’re all gingers 😭😭 WE’RE NOT ALL RELATED LMFAO

#i did not think we’d have to go over this in the year 2024 #as the designated ginger of the fandom i am here to tell yall that unfortunately we don’t all belong to the same family #tragic and heartbreaking i know #and even if we factor in that her grandmother had children w an autumn court male… it’s not like he was related to the vanserra’s either?? #they’re autumn court of course they’re gonna be gingers #acotar #gwyn berdara #gwyneth berdara

[badgerhuan]

hey. hey someone tell me why they had Naruhodou offhandedly mention that he'd probably fall for someone if they saved him from a life threatening situation and then later in the same game had Itonokogiri save him from a life threatening situation, and also being the only character who's saved him from life threatening situations multiple times throughout the trilogy. why did Mayoi joke about Naruhodou and Itonokogiri being A Thing two (2) times in this game and Naruhodou's reaction both times is a moment of hesitation before quietly denying it, instead of his usual hard and fast snapback with a sound effect when Mayoi says something he thinks is ridiculous. what am I supposed to do with this. I wasn't supposed to be here. hey listen to me-

#gyakuten saiban #gs3 #naruhodou ryuuichi #itonokogiri keisuke #narunoko #ace attorney #phoenix wright #dick gumshoe #roch speaks #man i don't even know their eng ver ship name lmao #ANYWAY my heart still belongs to mitsunoko but narunoko is gaining a STRONG foothold in my brain #and of course my ideal endgame will always be narumitsunoko with naruhodou coming into the relationship late #but hhh there's SO MUCH going on with narunoko #in gs2 especially you can see them growing closer and they have a lot of great moments #i never thought they'd appeal to me this much but here we are

[heyhellohihowareyou]

I have come to the conclusion that the “Hailey Blorbo” spectrum tends to be either:

Absolute sweethearts who may be insecure about themselves (Might not always be the case but they deserve the world either way)

OR

Cringefail losers who think they’re cooler than they actually are (They’re cool in my eyes at least)

Now there are very few exceptions to this rule but that’s usually how it is. Get Hailey into a new fandom, point her in the direction of the nearest cool loser and/or sweetheart and she’s all set!

#Some characters that come to mind: #yuuma isogai #hiroto maehara #sebastian debeste #makoto naegi #emu otori #tohru honda #tadano hitohito #mikoto mikoshiba #denki kaminari #shun kaidou #Not all of them of course (we’d be here all day) #But I want you to figure out which category each of them belong to!

[gloryride]

Shirtless boys

@angynomadsimp did these amazing pics of Virgile and @draerian 's Valentin ♥ thanks friendo ♥♥♥

#thirsty thursday #boys boys boys #not a v #oc : virgile sarto #male v #corpo v #valentin lacroix #valentin lacroix belongs to draerian #brotp : jerk/bitch #pics by jamie #JAMIE I LOVE YOU ! #look at these boys <3 #virgile looks so sweet #and as usual valentin smells sexyness #living naked of course #(insert lick emoji) #(insert here ovaries gif / my body is ready gif) #cyberpunk 2077 #cp2077 screenshots #cp2077 #virtual photography

[thewhizzyhead]

anyways I saw mean girls

#letterbox review coming up #the analysis rambles will of course go on here because of course #but um my rating is 3.3/5 stars #i'll explain why soon #bUT THE PLASTICS AND JANIS ARE HOT AND AMAZING #JAQUEL SPIVEY YOU WERE ROBBED OF WHERE DID YOU BELONG #and cady and aaron did a better job than i expected acting wise #(pero yea um writing wise gjdjdjd ILL GET TO THAT SOON) #mean girls #mean girls (2024)

[rsenak]

And steppe trip drawings, 3/3!

#my art #sv forum #horse #horses #xianxia #not svsss but a secret 3rd thing #fu yinya #sarnai #guobei sarnai #(???) #and horsies of course #done just in time before my semester starts #(and then im drawing 1-2 more.......... bc im so normal) #girls belong to @/tryingnottomind and @/mingyansveil on svforum (once again idk if you have accounts here) #i hate painting dapples but im so proud of how those turned out!!!

[detective-werewife]

pros of listening exclusively to music i downloaded on my phone: i dont need internet connection to listen to music, i can move it from device to the device, a general feeling of actually *owning* the song

cons of listening exclusively to music i downloaded on my phone: sometimes on shuffle i get a recording of peter nureyev speaking, and im supposed to just move on with my life as if nothing happened

#the penumbra podcast #tpp #peter nureyev #*music ends* #'oh but of course i do. the galaxy is much bigger than the two of us juno. my work. my life. #i belong out there. but life can wait one night juno. come here.' #*music starts again* #heart attack every time

[dreamings-free]

That indonesian fan is a legend, she saw her chance and took It, God only knows when he is going to Indonesia again. We stand by you indonesian fan 🫂

hehe yeah I think it’s a pretty cute story and louis clearly thought it was funny too. I’m still surprised stereogum posted about it and now it’s everywhere. must mean these publications are seeing louis content as good for engagement!

#then of course we can have the discussions about the negative effect of engagement-driven journalism but well.. #not getting into all of that on here #but it wild to me just how much kpop content is on nme these days #if you’re familiar with nme from when it was a weekly print publication #the shift in content genrewise.. is absolutely wild #like the level of music snobbery was probably second only to pitchfork back then #and now pitchfork belongs to goddamn condé nast.. #ehm okay this has been a tag ramble haha #anon asks #louis #and his indonesian wife #music press #.

[blujayonthewing]

reflecting on how all of my other DMs have gone above and beyond to lovingly weave my and my friends' backstory elements into the larger worldbuilding of the campaign by contrast to all of the ways Elyss' DM has gone out of his way to suppress or excise any influences her family may have ever had on anything and I'm genuinely near tears over it

#'I'm so surprised that Elyss wasn't more interested in going to her mom's hometown now that you're in her homelands!' #YOU! CHANGED Nami's backstory so that she never traveled anywhere before having Elyss #and YOU decided that she never tells Elyss literally anything even when directly asked #because you're so desperate to make sure your players never know literally anything about whatever might happen to them ever #YOU made it feel not only unrewarding but as if it was actively unwelcome for you if I even talked to my mother!! #'we're making this very dangerous journey (that you've been retconned not to have made yourself so you can't spoil it)-- #--assuming we survive can you please tell us anything at all about what to expect the other country to be like?' #'well. it is different than here. it may not be what you expect.' #'oooh why didn't you go to hometown' SUCK MY DICK I ASSUMED YOU'D BE ANNOYED IF I WENT THERE HOPING TO FIND ANYTHING #of course ELYSS wants to try to touch any part of her own heritage she can!! #do you think she doesn't wonder whether she has family there? do you think maybe it's weird that she doesn't already know?? #when *I* built Elyss' mother I made her a traveler from a far-off land so neither of us had to worry about it #YOU decided to send us to THAT far-off land specifically and then REFUSE to let Nami actually TELL me anything about it!! #feels very much like you don't want me to engage with that! feels very much like you ACTIVELY don't want me to explore that connection! #and if it felt like *Nami* was being secretive about it then Elyss would be even more keen to investigate herself-- #but it's just part of a well-established pattern of NPCs going 'it's a secret teehee' for very obviously no other reason than that-- #the DM just doesn't ever want us to have information even if NPCs have that information and have no reason not to share it #anyway. tl;dr grief over elyss yearning her whole life for somewhere to belong #but not going to her mother's birthplace because she has no reason to believe there's anything there for her. #for purely stupid empty meta reasons. #'I'm surprised you didn't go there 👀' so maybe he had something! #but my mother-- through you-- was so cagey about whether her parents even exist that I kind of just figured you didn't! so!! #about me #my OCs #elyss

[yardsards]

adulthood is just visiting ur friends, saying "damn bitch, you live like this?" (affectionate) and aggressively helping them clean up while they politely tell you that you don't have to do that. and then having friends do that to you when they visit your apartment.

#eliot posts #one of my friends often does not make his bed and sleeps on a bare-ass mattress so i INSIST on at least putting a fitted sheet on #(and then normally just fully make the bed too bc might as well) #i tell him to ''stop rawdogging the mattress''/''put some protection on that nasty thang'' #bc i of course must use the most cursed language available #it only takes like 5 minutes to do and is very worth it #and then i have this second friend who takes this to a whole nother level #he does my dishes every time he visits and lemme tell you. the dish situation around here gets DIRE. #he did like 4 sinkfulls when he was here last #and motivated me to clean the rest of the kitchen while he did that #it took like an hour and we ran out of hot water #but WAY faster than if i had tried to handle that shit alone #and we had fun and jammed to 80s music #another person i'm only loose friends with but i helped her clean a ton of trash from her dorm last time i visited #bc she was on the tail end of a depressive episode and i KNOW how that is #this only works w certain kinds of cleaning tho. you can't tidy up/organize other ppl's shit‚ for example #bc you don't know where anything is supposed to go and you'll likely make things more difficult in the end #amd it just requires you to handle all their personal belongings and open their drawers and shit #and there's a 90% chance that'll make them uncomfortable and like you're violating their space #but shit like dishes is generally very much fair game and won't make them uncomfortable #tho sometimes you gotta ask if there's a specific way they like their dishes washed bc some ppl are picky abt that #ANYWAY #is it obvious my love language* is acts of service? #*(tho the 5 love languages thing is a VAST over-simplification and things are not actually clear cut like that)

[itspileofgoodthings]

i've said this so many times but the all-encompassing love and protection in Taylor saying "chasing make-believe status last time you felt free was when none of that shit mattered cause you were with me" shakes me to my core

#it's actually the core of you belong with me #but it's so big/popular etc. that we almost can't see it anymore #like. she's just like. i will love you so much no other failure will matter #and the tRAGEDY is that she can't make that true if the other person cares #but her love is so powerful it can almost undo it #and it's so fiercely protective #it's so faithful. it's so TRUE #anyway like. can't you see that i'm the one who understands you? been here all along so why can't you see #you belong with me #these are mixed thoughts i'm saying badly but #she loves so much and so deeply and so truly that she WANTS to re-wire other people's priorities #and she almost can #but of course she can't truly. if they're going to care about make-believe status more than her it's not going to work #but she's so ready to care about them the MOST