#Queer problems

[muwfui]

Queerness.

If you’re intersex, you’re queer (includes PCOS), if you’re trans, you’re queer, if you’re gay, you’re queer, if you are aromantic, asexual, or on the aroacespec/aspec/arospec+, you’re queer, you use mpsec labels, you’re queer, if you’re gender-fluid, you’re queer, if you use xenogenders, you’re queer, hey if you’re apart of the LGBTQIA+ you’re queer! I’m tired of seeing other queer people shit on others for who’s ‘really’ queer, it’s not a fight, we’re literally apart of the same goddamn community.

Edit: You don’t have to consider yourself queer! This is for people who do!

#lgbtqia+ #aromantic #acespec #arospec #queer #trangender #queer community #queer problems #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbtq #xenogender #xenogender pride #intersex issues #intersex #intersex pride #trans pride #gay pride #gender fluid

[kinkypurepear]

Been a while ⛸️⛸️⛸️

Loves you babes😙😙

#pride month #queer pride #trans beauty #trans man #trans nsft #trans rights #transformation #transgender #mtf pride #queer community #queer #queer problems #queer nsft #bisexaul #bisexual pride #lesibian #lesbian pride #mtf trans #lgtb #lgbt pride #lgbtq

[viktheviking1]

Meme (very loosely based off of real events and) made by @viktheviking1

Let me know if you want a part 2

Original video below:

#lgtbqia+ #lgbtq #lgtbtq #queer problems #queer memes #lgbt memes #lgbtq memes #lgbtqia memes #lgbt+ #lgbtq community #gay memes #lesbian #pansexual memes #pansexual problems #accidental ally #trans memes #trans problems #transgender memes #transgender issues #bi memes #bi problems #asexual memes #asexual problems #bisexual memes #bisexual problems #nonbinary memes #nonbinary problems #non binary memes #jammidodger #one topic at a time

[imaginarylungfish]

I AM GENDERFLUID!! I must scream this into the interwebs because I am starting to get dysphoria from thinking about going to Thanksgiving with my family next week.

#queer #genderfluid #genderqueer #lgbtq #queer problems #queer identity

[agender-wolfie]

Dear, Authors.

Saying your book is LGBTQ+ but both main characters are cishet and the only queer characters are background or barely mentioned means that it is not LGBTQ+ and just (yet another) straight romance. The LGBTQ+ community is not here for you to gain brownie points for putting us in the background. Make us main characters or don’t write us at all.

Signed, a very fed up trans/agender queer 😘

#books #authors #lgbtq+ #queer books #lgbt books #lgbtq+ books #enough with the straight people #bookstore #books and reading #reading #bookworm #dear author #trans problems #Agender problems #queer problems #diversity #queer media

[multifandomh0e]

i dont hate being trans

I hate how hard it is to be respected as a trans person

i hate feeling uncomfortable in clothes i like because i know noone will respect me if I show off my body, because it doesn't reflect my identity

I dont hate being nonbinary, I hate the way people think only in a binary way and how they're not able to see me as something in between the two genders they're so used to knowing.

I dont hate being queer, I hate how society makes it hard for me to be respected for being myself

#nonbinary #transisbeautiful #transmasc #queer problems #queer #trans #trans problems

[sebcosmothetransguy]

i need to be more queer o-0

#queer #queer pride #queer community #queer problems #i just don’t FEEL queer enough #i need to be queerer

[arsonists-oatmeal]

Idk if it’s the constant background buzz of the trauma of being a poc in a racist society coming to the forefront, or the fact that a lot of racism I’ve personally faced was from white queer folks But. I have been seeing a lot of “I was from a conservative family/was conservative until I found out I was queer” stories again, and to those people, I Have Some Words That I Hope You All Will Listen To So congratulations on getting away from your conservative family/your self discovery of queerness! Genuinely good job, it isn’t easy. You’ve probably had to unlearn all the homophobia/transphobia/queerphobia that you were taught growing up. Your journey of unlearning bigotry has just begun. Conservatives are really fucking bigoted, not just in the queerphobia but also the racism. You have unlearned the first part, but that second part is still there. There is a still a lot of internalized racial bias that queer people who grew up Conservative have, and a lot of those people make the mistake of thinking just because you are now one marginalized identity, you are now incapable of any kind of bigotry for the rest of your life. Being queer =/= being a poc. We are all marginalized but we’ve got a different set of problems and the ways people oppress us. So don’t make that mistake. Keep unlearning. You’ve already started doing it, you can keep on doing it. You will be a much more educated person from it, and not end up being an ass to a lot of poc

#usually I would not ask people to reblog but this one means a lot to me since it effects my daily life a lot as a poc #so i'd really appreciate it if people could #obligatory op is a queer person of color tag in case people want to discredit me #queer problems #poc problems #queer poc

[dr00lygorli]

Do I have a 4am shower or do I just silently get myself off so I don’t have to leave my bed!?!?

#me #mine #nsft #queer problems #problems #idk

[nyquil-guzzler-420]

It's so odd being a closeted transmasc who's mostly into men but being perceived and filling the roll as a lesbian all the time in life.

Like, i feel like i'm being deceiving when i relate to, or put my two cents in on lesbian media or online discussion, or finding myself attracted to another lesbian. But i feel even more deceiving and even more out of place when im attracted to a cis gay man or relate to gay relationships and problems.

That awkward in between stage of not being far enough into my transition to relate to men and feeling just far enough removed from womanhood to feel awkward when i relate to lesbianism.

shit is wack

#nyquil #transgender #trans posting #trans problems #trans discussion #lesbians #transmasc #gay #queer problems #queer

[axolotlsforlife]

*TW:This post is a very long rant about Homophobia with a good amount of curse words*

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I was having this conversation with a girl and she asked me what I thought of Disney Princesses and my response was “I like the newer ones I’m not a huge fan of the old Disney princesses considering most of their Storylines revolved around men. Some day I hope they have a lesbian Disney Princess”. (That’s a simplified version of what I said) and she replied “I hope they never have a gay Disney Princess”. So of course I asked her why and her entireeee arguement was “I don’t think we should be exposing kids to that, we need to repopulate the Earth”. Like those two statements completely contradict each other. People with ideology like this are just dumb. For starters if your kid is looking at two men holding hands and thinks of sex then clearly there’s a problem with how you’ve raised your child. Actually scratch that no matter how old you are if you look at a gay couple and immediately think of sex then you are the perverted one. See I could understand if you didn’t want children exposed to any sort of relationship/romance but that’s not the case. Unless there’s two gay men having sex directly in front of your child there isn’t really a problem. When I realized I liked girls I wasn’t thinking about sex I barely knew what it was, I just knew I that I had crushes on girls. Yes there are some instances where children are exposed to inappropriate content but in most cases it’s an accident (for example a 7 year old watches a music video with inappropriate language however stuff like this can be solved by simply having better control on your child’s media) but straight people post the same kind of content as well. We need to all stop always looking at the lgbtqia+ community in a perverted gaze.

#lgbtqia+ #lgbt #lgbt pride #lgbtq positivity #lgbtqiaplus #lgbtq #queer #lgbtqia #lgbtq issues #lgbtqi community #lgbtqipa #lgbtqiia+ #queer problems #lesbian #gay #transgender #nonbinary #asexual #acesexual #gender-fluid #agender #pansexual #bisexual #intersexual

[noperopesaredope]

Does anyone else (specifically enbies) here experience, like, “situational gender”?

Because sometimes I will identify differently based on who I’m with, or I want certain gendered titles depending on the context. Like, around my friends, I feel completely gender neutral. But I also like to say that I’m my sibling’s “older sister.” But I also want my parents to refer to me as their “son.”

And these aren’t just to conform to anything, I just feel differently in relation to certain people in my life. I wouldn’t say I identify as “female” or “male”, but I do identify as an “older sister” and an “eldest son” and a “non-binary friend” and an “agender acquaintance” and a “trans classmate.”

I do have gendered titles, but they change based on the relationship I have with the person. I like being someone’s son, and I like being someone’s older sister. I like being both these things at once.

And when it comes to me by myself, I identify as anything and everything all at once.

Is this just a me thing? Am I weird for this? Does this even make any sense?

#enby #nonbinary #non binary #non bianry #non biney #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqiia+ #lgbt+ #lgbtq+ #queer #queer struggles #non binary stuff #queer experience #lgbt pride #queer problems #gender fluid #genderfluid #transgender #trans umbrella #trans #trans experience #gender feels #gender identification #gender #gender identity #agender #gender expression #gendered terms

[fatfemme-inist]

My parents when I came out: Why did you tell us this? We don't want to know about your perversions! Don't bother to tell us about your relationships in the future - we'll never acknowledge a woman as a real spouse.

My parents now: Why don't you ever call??? Why don't you tell us anything about your life???

#queer problems #you can't have it both ways y'all #family drama #family dysfunction #dreading seeing them for the holidays

[alix-is-o-a-k]

You know what’s sad about the LGBTQ+ community? We have so little representation in mainstream media that we have to headcannon characters as queer and somehow, when we finally get one fucking character, The Straights still manage to make them cishets. I’m looking at you Across The Spiderverse.

#Trans Gwen stacy #queer problems #lgbtq #gay #queer #transfem #trans rights #STOP MAKING THE TRANS CHARACTERS CIS

[thearoaceditto]

My mom: why don't you like to see my side of the family

Me: no reason

Connie: bonjour

(Connie is very much a bigot and I don't want her in my life, for reference she is my great aunt, one of 6 great aunts and 6 great uncles)

#family shit #annoying relatives #queer problems #asexual #aromantic #aroace

[bli-o]

dont know which gay needs to hear this but dont listen to your friends saying “the gay people that ______ are so annoying and toxic” (ex: wearing pride flags as capes)

you are allowed to be as loudly queer as you want. queer culture isnt “cringe”. if your friends think so, fuck that. you arent hurting anyone. go frolic.

#queer #queer community #queer discourse #queer kids #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #lgbt+ #queer problems #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtqplus #lgbt community #lgbtq positivity #pride #queer pride #gay pride #trans pride #lgbtq pride #queer positivity #queer culture #blios rants