#Relationships suck

[chrissy-kaos]

I literally fucking hate people.. this is a real text I got this morning at 5:40am. Like wtf. Y’all wonder why I want to live in Antarctica and never seen another human ever again… this is why.

#I can’t stand this world anymore #it’s trash #humans are trash #why me #why does this keep happening #what did I do in my past life 🙄 #I don’t want to be here anymore #I’m just going to give up #on life #dating sucks #get your shit together #get your baby momma in check #relationship #relationships suck #I’m over people #all I want is to love someone

[papasmicstand]

Sorry, another personal rant because marriage is hard and after years I still suck at it.

Tonight after cooking dinner I washed our sheets because it was overdue. I hadn't had a chance to put them on the bed when it was time to put our daughter to sleep. Husband decided it was too much work and chose instead to sleep on the basement couch... This type of stuff is minor but actually bugs the shit out of me. He sleeps there often and it always feels like rejection.

So now I'm alone in a king-sized bed taking out my feelings here and in Google docs. 🙄

#relationships suck #rejection sensitivity

[lionmythflower]

i hate when girls are like "ya but I wouldn't date him bc he's too short" or guys are like "I'm not gonna date her she's not even popular" LIKE WHAT DOES HEIGHT AND POPULARITY HAVE TO DO WITH LOVE???? I fucking hate this society

#fuck society #Fuck stereotypes #people fucking suck #relationships suck #Life in general sucks

[ghuletteintraining]

Well so much for that situation. Back to the dating drawing board, I guess. Or maybe the universe is trying to tell me something and I should just accept the fact that I'm spending the rest of my life alone? Enh. Whatever.

#personal #dating sucks #relationships suck #they say everybody has a person #but i think my person is actually a native living in a community in the Amazon that has never been visited by the modern world

[naradivision]

Relationship: Family - Saigo Fuyugami

Shigure Fuyugami (冬雅味 時雨) † - Saigo’s biological father and the former CEO of the Fuyugami Group’s parent company. With his high success in business, he suddenly became a new rising star in the world of tycoons a few decades ago. Known by everyone as a man of very few words; though didn’t openly show much affection toward his children, he gives his greatest support in regard to their education. He also has one bodyguard and trustful confidant named “Chishio”, whom he entrusted to look after his son ever since Saigo was still unborn. Though he isn’t on bad terms with his father, his impression on him was more like a mentor than an actual parent until his life was taken by a pure accident under the bad weather. Anyhow, he was described by Chishio to be both clever and a bit of an idiot at the same time.

Nadeshiko Fuyugami (冬雅味 撫子) † - Saigo’s biological mother who had passed away soon after giving birth to him. With little information known about her, he doesn’t know what his mother is like except for hearing she was a genius artist who showed a great talent in every art form. While seeming to be well-adored by everyone in Minazuki, those in Fuyugami are likely to forget about her existence. He even guessed at some point that his parents may not have special feelings toward each other since his father remarried later and eventually had kids with another woman, besides, the arranged marriage is a pretty norm among prestigious families —However, Chishio denied all of his guess and that makes him get more curious about them. This maybe why he decides to move into the house his late mom bought in Nara before her death.

Senka Fuyugami (冬雅味 盞花, 51 Years Old) - Saigo’s stepmother who came into his life all of a sudden after his mother passed away. What he knows so far from her background is that she hailed from some big family owning a jewelry trading company. Seen reserved and having less to say just like her husband, she carries off a mysterious aura that no one seems to understand. The only times Saigo converses with her are when he is invited to play the game of chess together. And even if the veteran player like him always wins, his paranoid self just couldn’t brush off the itchy feels that her defeat was on purpose–

Suisen Fuyugami (冬雅味 水仙, 29 Years Old) - The oldest one among Saigo’s three half-sisters. In contrast to him, she may appear as the sociable businesswoman with a talent for getting on others’ good sides but her true colors are that of a two-faced lady who will literally step on anything in order to get ahead of others; like when their father died, she framed him for his death and convinced the board directors to promote her becoming a new CEO. Even if not considering what she had done to him, both of them are unable to stand each other from the very start. He even once said it was such a waste that her braincells on management weren’t just as good as her mouth runs. Furthermore, it’s no wonder she has something to do with multiple attempts of assassination after his life.

Shion Fuyugami (冬雅味 紫苑, 26 Years Old) -  Saigo’s middle half-sister who happens to be the only one he once and maybe still had a good memory of. Unlike her egoistic siblings, she is a pushover who would easily move to tears by a slight nudge; nevertheless, Saigo notes she is an admirable hard-worker. Having both passion and the natural flair for developing new innovation, she also gained various certificates through her participation in many awards since she was just a student. Miserably, no matter how much her talent attracts the attention from other big companies, she still falls victim to her older sister’s gaslighting. And even though she used to be a bit more on good terms with her half-brother, she couldn’t muster up enough courage to stand up for him when her evil sister started her exploit.

Nerine Fuyugami (冬雅味 ネリネ, 23 Years Old) - Saigo’s youngest half-sister who has debuted herself as an internet sensation and model, mostly for Kawaii fashions. Called by her fans “Nene-tan”, she has been spoiled all her life for having such a forever babydoll look. Given her job is to promote every aspect of pop culture, her rising poppularity has plagued her with the habit to judge people only by their appearances. Saigo also prefers to avoid her mainly because of her bratty attitude. On the other hand, Nerine admires her half-brother’s beauty but despises his guts nonetheless.

Shūkaidō Minazuki (水無月 秋海棠, 52 Years Old) - Saigo’s eccentric uncle (his mother's younger brother) and the current patriarch of Minazuki family in Kyoto. His household is widely known for being one of the main patrons supporting traditional artists and artisans across Japan for generations. Lately he has seemed to like nagging his nephew to just abandon his father’s lineage and inherit his household instead. He is also the one at fault raising Saigo to be quite competitive. From the outside, he may look like some boisterous geezer with an unfathomed zeal for arts; yet in any case, according to Saigo’s suggestion: if you aren’t a fan of troubles, don’t get on the bad side with either him or his family since this old but cunning tanuki happens to be the type to bear a passionate grudge.   […separate post introducing his ‘family’ coming later…]

Chishio (ちしお ? , 62 Years Old) - Saigo’s closest attendant who in fact actives as his bodyguard in disguise. Caring but also independent and secretive with a little morbid sense of humor; among the people in his life, both of them knows each other the best and clearly have mutual trust in each other. Though he has to admit that there are a bunch of things his guardian has been hiding from him, their relationship is undeniably close as they often nags each other like father and son while there’s the time they work along like partners in crime. And if anyone does wonder how strong this Chishio guy is, Saigo once said with a slight shudder that just the phrase of ‘one-man army’ isn’t even close to describe his competence —Oh, of course, ‘Chishio’ isn’t his real name ...He said he has retired from his previous work for like 30 years ago, but what the heck is that so-called work he refer to?

#hypmic oc #hypnosis microphone oc #nara division #miraitabi #saigo fuyugami #chishio #shūkaidō minazuki #headcanons #family #relationships suck #maybe? #nah I’m not gonna create the new division #picrew

[nagi3seastorm]

What is wrong with just being friends?

Am I just a cruel, unreasonable person? I am actually a disgusting person who does not deserve anything good in this world. I just need to check out and remain isolated for the rest of my days because clearly hurting people’s feelings by not reciprocating them is what I’m best at

😭😭😭

#life is hard #relationships suck #just friends #questioning #maybe it’s time to go

[marvgrrl]

I think the worst feeling in the world is looking at someone you used to love and not feeling anything at for them.

Once upon a time, you were planning your future around and with them and now, they’re a stranger whose face you recognize.

#relationships suck #i hate love

[cloudsforthoughts]

At what point did love become a template? Has it always been this way? Am I just unrealistic?

People date me because they want a partner. They're interviewing me for the role of their datemate. After a couple dates they want exclusivity. In their mind, they've already made a whole road map. Date, marry, kids, grandkids, retirement. It's all cookie cutter.

I want someone to want me. Not as a potential partner but as a person. Flaws and all. I want someone to fall in love with me because they're curious about me, not because they're trying to fill some socially dictated hole in their life.

I don't want to worry about hitting society's checklist. I don't want to worry about whether I can twist myself into the person they tell me I should be. Kissing and fucking. Having kids and grandkids. Staying in one place for the rest of my life. Sacrificing my free time for everyone else.

Maybe I want that stuff or maybe I don't. I want space to figure it out without worrying about whether that fits with your concrete future plans.

I don't want my life planned out for me. I just want some company while we navigate this chaos together. No judgement. No expectations. Just love.

Does that make sense?

#what is love #fuck love #relationships #relationships suck

[spookyhotmess]

#blah blah whatever #facts #quotes #relationships suck

[venomousgirl17]

Starting to wonder if men are bad for my mental health

#like why do they make me cry so much #no man should cause me this much anxiety #why is this so hard #relationships suck

[vexingvi]

I'm so sick of this shit. I give up. She's an asshole. She's always gonna be an asshole and I'm never gonna be a priority because she thinks I'm a pet....and everyone undervalues their pet until they get lost or die.

#sad #bpd vent #bpd splitting #bpd thoughts #bpd favorite person #bpd things #bpd #mentally exhausted #relationships suck #d.i.d system #i cant handle this #i cant do this #cant sleep #triggered

[bvbarmyforlyfe]

I don't know why I even try anymore bro 😭 I'm so fucking over it

#depression #relationships suck #bpd problems #worthless

[figurelifeflirt]

SWAT Season 6 Episode 13 Lion's Share

Poor Alexis. Hey um remember when Deacon took you to church? Deacon deserves better than Annie, use that. I know it feels hypocritical but I'm just spit balling here.

So, we got this little dose of Rocker a couple weeks ago and I miss him and I can't get him out of my head. And I want him back, like yesterday.

#swat cbs #relationships suck #asian representation

[wanttobed0ll]

Just got broken up with.... great lol...

Maybe feeling miserable will at least help me st4rve myself.

Having bpd is littt

#4n0r3x14 #an0r3xic #tw ed in the tags #sk1nn1 #relationships suck #bpd vent #bpd things #bpd problems

[ijustwannabehonest]

I’m a bit annoyed by my date (autistic vent)

I’m seeing this girl (she knows that I’m on the spectrum). We went to hang out and she convinced me to go to a night club (I only agreed because she guilt tripped me). I physically felt overwhelmed because of the sounds and the lights. She kept physical contact with me all night even though I was really stiff and visibly uncomfortable (and she noticed it to the point she told me it’s really annoying). After a few hours I decided I had enough and wanted to go home. She started to guilt trip me again saying that I need to man up and stay a bit longer. At that point I threw up because of overstimulation. I said goodbye and went home.

Edit: it’s a few months later. She broke up with me because I’m “too autistic and have problems with expressing emotions”. I told her about it when we started to talk. When I did express my emotions with stimming she told be to stop it because it’s embarrassing. Apparently she thought she can fix me.

#asd #asd problems #asd dating #abelism #sensory overload #overstimulation #i hate my life #vent post #it is ableist #fuck her #bisexual #abelist #happy stimming #simming #actually autistic #non bianry #nonbinary #actually neurodiverse #neurodiversity #relationships suck #autism #autism spectrum disorder

[thethorindorkenshield]

idk man relationships seem unattainable for me. that two to three year mark hits and that’s all anyone can handle of me. i try to be a good partner, i don’t ask for much and i put up with a lot of shit. just talk to me, even when you think i’ll be mad or explode, talk to me and include me and i’m yours forever. this last one has me fucked up. maybe even more than you did, which is impressive tbh. i have to laugh or i’ll just cry and i’m tired of crying. whatever. doesn’t matter.

#thorin is an idiot #kyo’s ranting #feelings suck #relationships suck #i’m done #i'm not okay #but still #i’ll figure it out #i’ll survive