Not everybody you want deserves you.
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Worrying about the meaning of your life in the context of forever, in the context of global challenges, in the context of human history, is like being anxious that you aren’t directly managing the conversion of hydrogen into helium in the heart of the sun. Just be you. Be here.
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Don’t forget to take study breaks!💖
I really like playing Switch in my free time! Especially Animal Crossing and Littlewood! But I’m recently also playing Pokémon Unite, it’s a really funny game✨💗 + I’m a huge Pokémon fan
Just clearing my mind by playing this games, feels really good for me. I can’t wait to play a bit this evening when I’m done studying!🥰✨
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It sometimes feels foreign repeating these types of affirmations, and then they become repetitive, and eventually, these affirmations become your default position. Keep at it 💕💕
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it is okay to admit that your wounds are still open. that you are still healing. it takes time. it takes time.
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Never let you loneliness drive you back to toxic people.
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Am I Worth It?
I know some of you worry that your life is not a net gain for our world. You worry if your existence is worthwhile in terms of bringing forth goodness and balance. If just being a living human in our modern context is immoral. If the Earth will gain a return on its investment for the air you breathe and the food you eat.But existence just doesn't work that way. Life doesn't work that way. You aren't an investment and can’t be evaluated as such. You weren't a calculated risk aimed at some form of profit. You didn’t invent the processes of life that brought you here nor can you edit them.You certainly didn’t choose what sort of lifeform to be. Unless you photosynthesize, you're living off of other organisms. You didn't create this system. No one asked you to sign on to this fact. Life exists in myriad forms and its existence is its own justification. There is no "best" way to do it or "ideal model" for the planet. We are temporary. The planet is temporary. What is ideal for one species is less than ideal for another. This isn't me suggesting we all take our hands off the controls of our lives and shrug. Our choices absolutely have weight. There is balance to be achieved and I think it should be our task to seek it. I imagine these issues all feel different for humans because of our executive function/agency. We think about patterns and the big picture. We create systems. We impose order. We fall into the trap of thinking of reality as a machine. But weighing the value of our fundamental existence and our life-minutes isn't like finding the most efficient way to load the dishwasher. There is no perfect version of ourselves or our world to achieve. I think we should lay our hands lightly on the things we can influence and press gently toward our values. We should do this within the vital constraints of honoring our own limitations, happiness, and mental/physical wellbeing. We shouldn't dash ourselves against our hopes for a better world. In the scales of my judgement, the quiet, gentle, tender moments deserve as much (or more) attention as our dramatic, strenuous, industrious moments. Lives are mostly quiet, small, fleeting things and it feels like a mistake to spend them wishing instead that we were huge, enduring, planet-shaping things. Context. Acceptance. Cultivate love for what is and hope for what could be, all while sparing a bit of awe and gratitude for the massive, unknowable, unlikely forces that culminated with your own odd, unique, singular presence on this planet.Yes, own the small concrete good you can do, but reject the idea that the fate of the world is in your hands. Reject the idea that you need to justify the breaths you inherited from natural systems older than we can imagine. Understand that not even the fate of this fleeting moment is in your hands. Yet, you should endeavor to love this moment and, by doing so, learn to love yourself.
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watch me do everything you said I could never do. I'm not turning back until I'm galaxies away from this toxic planet.
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nothing is too small or insignificant to have as your reason to live. live because you just found a song that you really like and you want to listen to it one more time. live because you want to see your friends next birthday. live because tomorrow is supposed to be warm. live because sunday is supposed to be rainy. live because you want to see your pets face light up when you give them a treat. you will find big reasons to live, but you don’t have to find them right now. you don’t have to know your purpose, but live anyways.
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are u ready?
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remember to differentiate life...
...from parts of life.
your work, studies, relationships, problems, and every little thing is only a part of your life. they are not your entire life and it's important you know the difference.
nothing is ever so big that it becomes your entire life. small parts make up your life. thus, no one thing has the ability to make or break your life. you aren't dependent on any one thing to maintain your life. there's always something more.
have faith in yourself. live beautifully ✨
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You deserve all the happiness and love the world can possibly throw at you
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disability does not make you incapable of knowing what’s best for you; that idea is an ableist myth.
you are still capable of consent.
you are still capable of making decisions about your care.
you are still capable of defining your own future.
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♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡ Your act of self love for today is to simply have a self care day. Take any minute or hour out of the busy schedule you have and just relax. Get calm essential oils, play some lofi beats, give yourself a scalp massage, binge your favorite show, read a book, use a face mask, smoke some herb, buy yourself a gift, take a nap, buy your fav meal. As long as you are pampered nothing else matters. ♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡
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