#Stag Bisexual

[femmebis]

💖 My proposal for the stag, tomcat and doe bisexual flags 💖

At the request of an anon, and with help from a tomcat and stag bisexual (with myself identifying as a doe), I have worked to create some designs for the sapphic bisexual identifiers of “stag,” “tomcat,” and “doe.” These terms are for bisexual sapphics who embody queer masculinity, androgyny and femininity respectively!

The meanings of the flags can be seen in the images, and in the alt text!

These are all free to use! Credit is NOT required (but it is appreciated)!

#doe bisexual #doe bi #stag bi #stag bisexual #tomcat bi #tomcat bisexual #flag creation #my posts

[your-greatest-queen]

I'm collecting images on Pinterest for my photo wall

I type 'stag bisexual aesthetic' into the search bar

I get nothing but Hannigram fanart

#hannigram #stag bisexual #lgbtq+ #hannibal

[anonil88]

POV: You're video chatting with the butch/masc vampire before going to bed.

+cis het men please don't touch this+

#lgbtq #butch #stag #masc #lesbian #bisexual #queer #queer vampire #queer black women #nbpoc #nonbinary #pov

[sembers]

What big teeth you have.☆sapphosembers

POV: masc/butch vampire has you on vc

#butch #lesbian #queer #butch vampire #masc #mine #nbpoc #nonbinary #stag #qpoc #bisexual #queer vampire #vampire #poc vampire #black vampire

[blood-choke]

I thought butch is a lesbian only term?

hmmm yes and no? this is something that doesn't really have a simple answer. it depends who you ask; people have different opinions about it.

in general, the term butch means a lot of different things in the lgbt community. obviously there's butch lesbians, but it's also a term that's used in ball culture, by drag queens and gay men. it's an adjective, it's a gender, it's an orientation. i assume you're referencing the other anon, and i have no idea what they may mean when they call themselves butch. if we're talking about bisexual women then the truth is that bisexual women can have just as complex experiences with gender and presentation as lesbians and i don't really think it benefits anybody to exclude them from the community.

like i said previously, butch is not just an "aesthetic"; there's more to it than just dressing a certain way. i think it's way more harmful to pretend like other women don't also grapple with their gender identity and their sexuality and their gendered roles in society-- basically, we should celebrate our similarities rather than argue our differences.

a lot of the time people say bisexuals can't be butches because they still "cater to men" which to me is just a gross thing to say. there are plenty of bi people who prefer women, who do not pursue men, who are gender nonconforming; and even if they do prefer men, if they date men, that still doesn't mean they're "catering" to anybody. it's a very... dehumanizing and misogynistic attitude to have when talking about bi women imo (and straight women as well)

the term butch/femme was historically used by all gay women; butch/femme in this context, are roles that came about in the working-class lesbian bar scene in the 50s, 60s, and 70s. there were plenty of bisexual women that went to lesbian bars and filled these roles as well. there's bulldagger, bulldyke, and stud, that came out of Black lesbian communities. there's kiki, which isn't used at all anymore, to describe lesbians that don't identify as either. there are people that will insist that bisexuals use the term "stag" and "doe" which i don't think is fair; most people do not know what these terms mean and there is no "stag community" as far as i'm aware. i'm pretty sure these are just tumblr terms.

what it all comes down to is that when people see a gnc woman in the street, they're not going to rush over and politely ask if she's a lesbian or not. to be blunt, most of the time they're going to call them the same slur, regardless. the world is going to treat them the same, regardless. so for me personally i'd rather offer them a little bit of relief in a community that is familiar and understanding rather than exclude them to face that kind of shit all alone iykwim.

#but yes this was like. a huge discourse topic on here a few years ago lol #and im like. 99% sure that discourse is the origin of the stag/doe thing bc i've never seen it anywhere else except tumblr #when we talk abt bisexual women historically they are inextricable from lesbians. there is no way to separate them we have a shared history #and to pretend that bi women are so different from us is. to be frank. stupid #also this is not me inviting that discourse im just expressing how i feel about it. i am not trying to argue #ask #anonymous

[xxwandering-wombmanxx]

@rouninren LMAO remember this shit i made?

#bisexual #stag #lol

[gender-sexuality-happiness-rage]

shoUt out2all the bi guy stags out there who have ONLY been w/ladies who wonder if they r"gay enough"2b apart of pride THIS IS YOUR PRIDE MONTH2!

#bi stag #bi #bisexual #bi guy problems #bi guy #bi guys #happy pride 🌈

[judasvibe]

Lmao bi women who call themselves “femme” are like if a straight woman called herself a “femme” like??? We could just say masculine and feminine especially since most bisexuals default to heteronormativity anyway…. But anyway….

i wish we could retire that word from the lexicon for everyone

there is nothing special or sacred about being feminine while (exclusively or not) into women, as opposed to being feminine while het...this is just the radblr approved version of 'queering' gender roles

plus, i think at this point even masculine and feminine need to be retired or at least put on a high shelf for a bit. people will call a woman in a t shirt and jeans from the women's sections gnc/masc because shes not wearing a skintight sheer dress and dragqueen amounts of makeup

#je suis une femme car je parle français. c'est la seule bonne raison si on est honnête. #but for real i remember when bisexual radblr was trying to invent butch fem equivalents #like stag and doe or whatever #cringe as fuck #just let it go. stop inventing gender roles like you're addicted to them

[jeeklaart]

New beetle options are now added to my sticker listing! 🌟 You can find these cuties and more - here -

( find me here )

#my art #more beetles has joined the parade #and they got even MORE flowers to give to u #if you want them that is dskjglskfdgsklf #shop update #sticker #vinyl sticker #sticker design #beetle sticker #stag beetle #beetle #bug sticker #cute #lgbtq+ #trans #lesbian #non binary #bisexual #pride #art

[annasluttyhotwifelife]

I love having a bisexual husband he picks out such hot guy for me to fuck and lately he has found me this sexy dominant man with a cock so much thicker and longer then his own and he loves seeing my face when I chat with the guys he finds and he found a good one this time I can't wait to fuck him and come home stretched out and dripping with cum for my hubby so he can see what a good job he did picking a guy for me and I'm sure he's going to want to slide inside me and feel how loose I am and feel my studs cum pour out around his cock and on his balls then of course clean my pussy as I clean his cock I can't wait🧡🧡🧡

#bbc bull #bbc married #hot white chicks #mom #mommy k!nk #mommy milkers #bbc breeding #hotwives #hot as fuck #stag vixen #bisexual husband

[bi-sapphics]

i firmly believe that assuming a woman is building her gender presentation, solely for men because she has even the slightest attraction to them, is misogynist. sorry, but no, full stop. we don't exist for men. talking very specifically about butchness, we will be seen as ugly, as disgusting, as too mannish for most straight men, do people really think we even get into average straight misogynist transphobic lesbophobic men? that we turn into feminine pretty frilly straight girls whenever we may like a man? the whole debate on the butch part of butch femme discourse to me is extremely coercive, dare i say, with corrective undertones if you get what i mean. sorry for the long ask, your blog keeps being the space i needed when i just got into butchness, i feel you understand.

!!!

#chase answers #god i'm tired and when i first read this ask #i thought it was talking about doe/stag and stuff like that #and anon was saying 'i firmly believe the bisexuals using fem/masc identity labels is bad #because they are women attracted to men and that's misogynistic bc it hurts wlw' #i know that's not what you said dw but i read your first sentence wrong and had to do a double take LMAO #bi tag #biphobia #bimisogyny #butch tag #butch/femme discourse #butch bi #butch bisexual

[sembers]

Getting ready with masc/butch vampire to sit in the rain and watch another year begins. Happy New Year.

🦇 sapphosembers

#poc nonbinary #butch #vampire #poc vampire #nonbinary #nbpoc #mine #stag #lesbian #queer #bisexual #butch vampire

[peabrain-crafts]

#entomology #arthropods #digital art #stag beetle #pride #bisexual #bisexual pride

[stagmalinay]

Ayo Stag, we’re Bi buddies 😎

Hell yeah we are!

#ask stag #heyhellohihowareyou #Stag Malinay #Stag of the day #bi buddies #bisexual awareness #beware the bisexuals #solarsavoyart