#This is important question yall

[uter-us]

radfem question!!

i'm having a conversation with someone about female only spaces (this specifically pertains to bathrooms) and they said that the rule of having female-only bathrooms would "act more like an enforcement of femininity more than anything else."

I think their point is about butch lesbians and/or women who present "masculinely," and so because there is ofc no female identification at the door, and policy would likely just make it more acceptable for women and girls to report if there was a male in the bathroom (without having to determine if the male identifies as a woman), this could end up hurting "masculine"-presenting women (implying that they could be mistaken as male), and in turn just reinforce femininity. Thoughts? (mine are in tags)

#I understand that this has happened a few times before actually. i think my main point would just be that dressing masculinely does not #actually make you look male and like its evolutionarily advantageous for humans to be able to spot the opposite vs same sex #and so this i dont believe is going to be a huge problem based off of mistakenly seeing female ppl as male HOWEVER #because (from my very limited knowledge) it seems that the few times it has happened it has been lesbophobia #could this be a tool to enforce femininity on females? my last point is just that ofc ideally (imo) many single-stall bathrooms with like #complete complete privacy is ideal but also financially that is very hard to impliment and is not practical. but also! kathleen stock spoke #abt how TRAs cant simultaneously claim that TW being able to use the womens bathroom is so important and also not think its important enoug #to shell out money on?? so maybe the financial practicality COULD be possible?? but also maybe not idk.! im just curious what yall think #thanks!! #radfem #radblr #radical feminism #gender critical #radical feminists do interact #terfblr #rad fem #gender criticism #terfsafe #questions tag

[frostios]

Boss makes a dollar, i make a dime, that's why i write matilda comic on company time

#frosti talks sonic #matilda the ant #i literally have no jobs active rn but am required to be in the office so i write #matilda comic is so important to me #understand that every matilda thing so far from art to questions yall ask has basically been concept building for this comic #smiles so big

[meownotgood]

hallo. if you'd like to be tagged when this fic releases, please reply to this post. you will be added to a taglist and tagged in all subsequent chapters!

please be 18+, and please make sure your age is visable, whether in your bio or a pinned post somewhere. something that says your age, 18+, or adult. otherwise you will be ignored!

#chapter one will be released in the next week or so! #sorry I was supposed to post this like way earlier but then life you know how it can be.... #mind the tags! and remember that they might not be complete #I'm pretty sure I got everything important but I may end up editing them a bit before the final upload #if you have any questions let me know #thank you for your support... excited to finally share soon 🙏 #doing it this way instead of just a like this post so it'll be easier to keep track of #I'll also open a proper taglist later on but this is for all yall early peeps

[patrocles]

sara snow. daughter of a lord, sister of another. a bastard she-wolf. a keeper of the old faith.

#a song of ice and fire #asoiafedit #asoiafgif #sara snow #valyrianscrolls #yall im just making stuff up #the important thing to know is that ragga ragnars is 6'2 so sara is ALSO 6'2 #and in my vision she is cregans elder sister because the idea of cregan being someones baby brother is cute to ME #ive been listening to a lot of heilung so i have this whole vision about sara being like an arbiter of the faith #hippy-dippy ritual priestess type #GREENSEER MAYHAPS???? #i love the idea of a bastard woman of winterfell who exists in a very specific social status #than what we know of bastardy in the south #theres so many unknown variables and so much potential to do something interesting #we have so many princesses and ladies but what about the low social class girlies #im asking the real questions

[emotinalsupportturtle]

Most people here: Michael Sheen and David Tennant are neighbours therefore it’s confirmed that they are secretly fucking (no, guys because the only reason I would live close to my best friend if I had all the money to do that is to fuck)

Meanwhile me: I bet staged 4 is just going to be them shouting at each other over the common fence

#I’m here to ask the important questions yall #challenge:stop obsessing over celebrities sex life. impossible #I honestly don’t care if they are fucking or not. good for them #also normalise people being so open about how much they adore each other #like these two #anyway when are we gettting staged 4 with them as neighbours? #someone to wake Simon evans #staged #david tennant #michael sheen #georgia tennant #anna lundberg

[herebecritters]

Please understand that, more often than not, works of fiction are a fictional exploration of concepts and ideas rather than a declaration of morality

#there’s a difference between fiction that condones disgusting things and one that’s breaking them apart and analyzing them through fiction #reading comprehension and understanding context is important YALL #please I beg learn how to separate fiction from reality folks #every so often I’ll see people making WILD claims about a person because they wrote a complex and flawed character #most of the people I know who enjoy exploring dark and questionable themes in their work are the kindest and most selfless people I know #while the people who sit atop a pedestal and judge every aspect of a stranger that they don’t know turn out to be the most selfish and vile #i should not be scared to write a story about morally questionable characters finding humanity #but yet here we are #Ive seen this kinda stuff do more harm than good too many times #sorry to post a hot take #just good lord I’m old I’ve seen this shit too many times #stop eating each other #you will see conflict and dark themes in my stories #if you cant handle messy themes in fiction please feel free to unfollow or block me for your own mental well-being #I’m sure I’ll regret posting this later but just putting it out there #hate being reminded that as a creator strangers are staring at you and making horrifying assumptions about who you are as a person

[cowboylesbian]

rewatching a crown of candy screaming crying and throwing up

#important question do yall think lapin had a tail. if so do you also think there would be a little slash in his fit so it could poke out. #do you also think its a little thotty #a crown of candy #acoc #dimension 20 #primsy coldbottle #lapin cadbury #pontifex belizabeth brassica #sir keradin #caramelinda rocks #lapin #primsy #annabelle cheddar

[wolfcat-hybrid]

I understand the instinct to hear news about something happening and go "ok, now how will this impact me", but folks. With the WGA strike. Please don't make it about your favorite show. I'm sorry something that's important to you has been negatively affected! But the wellbeing of writers should absolutely take priority over that. You can be sad about the impact of a strike and still be glad they're fighting for improved conditions.

#wolfy speaks #wga strike #writers guild of america #current events #its just kind of frustrating to go into the wga tag and seeing ppl talk exclusively about their shows being hurt by it #im sorry! i know its sad! but the human writers are more important rn! #that said it is absolutely an instinct to find out how a news thing inpacts you. i do it too. my first question when i learn something is #'how will this affect my day to day life?' #but then i move past that #some of yall are still in the 'prioritizing me' stage and you have to go to 'prioiritizng others' stage #that said if youre a fandom blog and explaining how the strike will likely affect whatever youre talking about you get a bit of leeway #wanting to understand what the impact of the strike will be is not the same as not caring about why theyre striking #sorry i know im rambling in the tags here... i feel like theyre room for nuance here and i dont want to come across otherwise #just. end of story. you should be more concerned with the wellbeing of the writers who are striking #than the wellbeing of your shows #human lives take priority #but you can be concerned for both

[mx-typewriter]

FUCK MISOGYNY-

REMEMBER, LADIES, YOUR WORTH IS NOT DEFINED BY SOME MAN, IT'S DEFINED BY YOU

#red says things #no but actually #fuck misogyny #yall dont deserve having to question your value because someone says that youre not important enough

[allieisacrybaby]

how does my turntable just know to pick up the tonearm after the vinyl finishes??🤨

#not gvf #like genuinely curious if yall know #i know i could google it as well but i needed yall to know o had this question #yes it’s important

[dizzybizz]

are there furries in the pokémon universe, are there just people who wear pokémon suits over there or-

#this isnt a thought you have at 12pm... this is some 2am shit wtf #BUT ARE THERE #AND WOULD THEY #????? #pokemon #pkmn #im asking the important questions ok #sorry if you follow me for art #i also happen to have dumb thoughts that i subject yall to as well #is this #is this anything #please discuss

[sunlitmcgee]

cbeeduo can't get perma divorced because who the fuck gets to have custody of ctommy

#he is part of the household. literally #he's their Strange Boy they keep around. and love #if they seperate who gets custody of him? does he get 2 christamas? #very important questions im asking here yall

[lesbian-empress-nero]

If Octopath Traveler was made into an anime, what artstyle would you want to see it in?

#hey guys its not partitio #octopath traveler 2 #octopath traveler #very important question #for me i was thinking castlevania or persona 5 #what do yall think

[latenightsinmay]

I'm like really new to the fandom so I wasn't around for any of the sexting! I wish there was like a comprehensive timeline of everything so I could catch up.

Yeah the lore really goes crazy, it's hard to even keep track of all the interesting messages (aka the sexts) we have hard proof of, let alone anything else. As far as i know, there are a couple of blogs here:

@dnfcliparchive and their yt but they are fairly recent so expect to find newer stuff (their compilations are great and they are very up to date with posts on here)

@dnf-archive is very comprehensive and they have a website link that's full of stuff very well categorised, but they last posted in june 2022, so no newer posts.

Also check out monthlydnf on yt as well they have stuff from over a year ago (I don't follow rhem personally so I can't vouch but I've seen people link them before)

There are probably more yt and twt accounts but I'm not as familiar with those so I can't be of much help, likewise for the google docs.

Oh and there are always miscellaneous posts floating around from bloggers who compile various dnf incidents lmao. I'm sure you'll catch up on those in no time (but there will always be more dnf lore to surprise you don't worry, they are insane and won't let us forget it)

I can't recall off the top of my head if we have other dnf timeline/guide/archives that cover everything so im forwarding the question to everyone here. If anyone has additional resources please add onto this post <3

#help a dnfer out yall #im not very organised and i was here since 2021 (lurking at the start tho) so i was around for most things and didnt have to look very hard #but i will try to find things from my drafts or saved links and reblog them so keep an eye out in the next half hour!! #dnf #WAIT IMPORTANT QUESTION: are you aware of The Quiz 1 & 2? #this is essential information #also! open invitation for everyone to share their favourite/wildest dnf moments #notemily

[codebreaker-0]

How long until we get the full Laika lore?

[ depends on what u do and don't do tbh ]

#yalls decisions are actually rlly important lmao #you guys missed a major lore piece a month or two back bc someone asked the wrong question #wont say what it was though LMAO

[glitterbimbo]

orgasm check

#questions #self care #it’s important yall