#Trans non passing

[genderkoolaid]

i think "nonbinary" can be useful but a lot of times the way it is being used isn't helpful to actually discussing nonbinary people, especially since it is a HUGE umbrella term with very few boundaries. like there are nonbinary men & women, so positioning "nonbinary" as something intrinsically separate from man/woman isn't accurate. or there are times where it would be more useful to name the specific group (like multigender people, androgynes, abinary/aphorians) rather than a much vaguer term

in general the problem is that our language to describe nonbinary existence is basically some scraps held together with duct tape. there's sooo many ways in which nonbinary people are erased or binaried through language. not just through the lack of gender neutral options but the la of blatantly genderqueer ones.

i kinda feel like as of right now, nonbinary-ness is pretty slapdash & all over the place and it would be helpful to have a large-scale discussion on what terminology would be best for discussing things like exorsexism and it's various aspects, and how to talk about nonbinary people without homogenizing us, while ALSO acknowledging the need for umbrella terms that can cover a range of individual identities, even if people don't personally identify with the umbrella term itself. & on that note we should also probably discuss the issue of. like. perfectionism wrt nonbinary language & the way that potentially useful terms get lost bc of it. I don't think nonbinary people can really achieve meaningful equality and inclusion on the same level until we are able to have equally diverse and useful ways of describing ourselves, and a stronger understanding of how we relate to each other as a community.

#I've been chewing on this general topic for a while #bc I'm realizing that I don't like identifying as nonbinary specifically bc of how ppl often use that #to just mean ''gender neutral'' & often exclude androgyne multigenders by assuming nb can't be men/women #even trans theory so often just groups nonbinary people in with whoever feels the most relevant and is uninterested in exploring exorsexism #outsidr of it's connection to other issues #there's an assumption that nonbinary experiences can be more or less grouped in w binary ones without missing out on much #it's just frustrating. same w when people assume that all transitions end w people looking cis-passing #and ignore the difficulties that can come from things like non traditional bottom surgery! #there's next to no resources for salmacians and virtually none for agenital prople #which y'know. might be important for things like urinary/genital care #or sex work or anything #hell so many people have argued that exorsexism doesn't exist because all nonbinary oppression is ''just transphobia'' #so many ppl are completely uninterested in looking at nonbinary people separate from binary ppl & binary experiences #m.

[uncanny-tranny]

I always feel like a broken record for saying this, but there is literally no form of transphobia that is acceptable. All transphobia is harmful - all forms of bigotry toward a group for features they cannot change (in this case, being trans) is harmful. It doesn't matter what gender a trans person is, it doesn't matter if they are a Good Person, it doesn't matter if you like them or want to see them happy. None of that matters because transphobia is transphobia is transphobia.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #transphobia #transphobia tw #there is no 'well trans men have it better than trans women' or 'trans women have it better than trans men' #there is no 'transphobia is good if you do it to the sparklegender neopronoun users' or 'transphobia is okay against nonbinary people' #there is no 'well they did bad things in the past so you can be transphobic to them' #there is no 'well non-transitioning trans people have a unique privilege where transitioning trans people don't' #there is no 'well you pass so you can't face transphobia' or 'non-passing trans people deserve transphobia' #throw all of these in the dumpster and light them on fire!!!!! death to transphobia. ALL transphobia #i always feel like i'm screaming this into a void but. even if the void doesn't listen or respond i scream nonetheless #unfortunately for everybody involved g-d gave me a voice and i use it either for Evil or to say things hehe

[prehistoric-faggot]

fat trans men <3

feminine trans men <3

non passing trans men <3

gnc trans men <3

disabled trans men <3

trans men of colour <3

pre op trans men <3

mmmmm trans men <3

#trans stuff #trans men #trans man #fat trans man #feminine trans man #non passing trans man #gnc trans man #disabled trans man #trans man of colour #pre op trans man #transgender

[raynedayys2]

Friendly reminder that not all trans people who transition have the goal of passing.

Not all trans people want to look cis.

Not all trans people want to take hormones.

Not all trans people want to have surgery.

Not all trans people change their name or pronouns.

And that's all okay.

#text post #lgbt #lgbtq #transgender #trans #trans passing #genderfluid #nonbinary #gender non conforming #gnc

[ali3nboyfriend]

i'm not a butch woman but i believe in their beliefs

#as a non-passing trans man i am often mistaken for one #and like. i feel a lot of solidarity w butches. a lot of the feelings they describe about their gender are things i've felt about my own #holding their hands in solidarity #sorry if these tags are incoherent the melatonin is hitting me really hard #starscream.txt

[angelboybreakdowns]

and another thing. this is hardly related to what i just rbed and i dont want to speak over op so im making it its own post. but there are people who straight up just use ‘fem presenting’ to mean ‘i think you look feminine’. not even in terms of having a stereotypically female body but like. ok me for example. i bind, i never wear skirts/dresses, i have pretty short hair, i dont wear makeup, the only jewelry i wear is bracelets and rings. and i have had ppl call me ‘fem presenting’ irl. like its really just straight up becoming a way to say I Think You Seem Like A Girl without technically misgendering you.

#‘masc presenting’ has the same issue i think but like. non passing trans guy here so i dont really have experience w that #not very articulate in this post bc i have class in 5 minutes but you get my point #rambling #trans

[schadenfreudich]

I hate it when people equate amab non-binary people with masculine non-binary people and afab non-binary people with feminine non-binary people.

Like, shut up! And stop recreating the fucking gender binary or I will hit you over the head with a baseball bat.

#not really. but like. fucking stop #i'm a mostly masculine non-binary trans guy. i am 'afab' but i'm also trying to pass as a guy. like fuck. man #can people stop trying to recreate the gender binary and especially stop make it so fucking cis-alligned?

[yesyourstalker]

Is it wrong that I hate when people draw Yamato transitioning or with top surgery scars

#i love because he doesn't pass #but he's confident in his identity and gender #non passing or non traditional looking trans representation matter #he's a man #yamato one piece #yamato op #one piece #draw what ever you want #this is just a vent #folks respect his identity and gender without him having to change anything. I wish people were like that in real life

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Gender Passing Pride Flags

Cis-passing Pride Flag

Cis-passing (or simply passing): a transgender person’s ability to be correctly perceived as the gender they identify as and beyond that, to not be perceived as transgender; to be passable as cisgender.

Trans-passing Pride Flag

Trans-passing (or non-passing): a transgender person's ability to be perceived as transgender; or a person who is perceived as trans despite not being one.

The flag format is based on straight-passing flag. Image descriptions pending.

#passing #gender #genders #nonpassing #non-passing #passer #passed #passable #cispassing #cis-passing #transpassing #trans-passing #passoid #nonpassoid #non-passoid #pride flags #mod ap #passability #mogai #lgbt #transgender #nonpassable

[transenbyconfessions]

I wish trans people weren’t sorted into the two narrow categories of “passing” and “non-passing” when it’s so much more complicated than that. Some people sort of pass, or sometimes do and sometimes don’t, and the whole concept of “passing” is complicated anyway! Also I look, sound, and dress exactly like my agab, so I don’t really fall into either category. I’m not visibly trans, but I can’t say I “pass” as my actual gender either

Submitted May 8, 2023

#transgender #trans #enby #nb #nonbinary #non-binary #non binary #transphobia #transmedicalism #passing

[peterp-kinnie]

I adore the trans regulus headcannon and it’s something that brings me so much comfort, but I feel that we always just say he cuts his hair and wears stereotypical boys clothes and suddenly he passes completely, and I just feel as though we should sometimes delve much deeper into him NOT passing, and how that affects the way he lives life, because not everyone’s trans journeys are the same, and not everyone passes, and yet in things like fanfics and stories the trans characters pass even though that’s not true to the experiences of lots of trans people, and although I don’t know if other non passing trans people feel like this, it makes me feel like I’m less or not valid because people wouldn’t look at me and think that I was a boy.

#regulus black #trans regulus #non passing trans regulus #my opinion

[cryptidjeepers]

I cant believe the doctor is a trans allegory (i already knew this)

#nah i thought that was really cute #its a bit funny they do the whole trans non binary doctor thing after having a single female doctor but ill let it pass #dw spoilers #doctor who spoilers #doctor who

[shhhimnothereiswear]

I like boobs when they're not on me

#i woke up from a dead sleep at 3am #wrote this and then just passed back out #what does it mean #shitpost? #idk anymore #trans pride #transgender #transmasc #nonbinary #non bianry #non biney #nb #genderqueer #gender queer #gender nonconforming #gender noncomformity #gender non binary #gender nonsense #help #too many tags

[urmumhaha]

Prob gonna delete but that fact that it was women who attacked and murdered Nex in that bathroom is so sinister but so telling. I feel like everyone expects gender violence against trans non-binary and (in this case) two spirit people to be committed by cishet men as if cishet woman aren’t equally as capable of horrific gender-based acts like this if not more so bc of their little safety blanket of shit like “women and non-binary” or whatever. TERFs cry all the fucking time about keeping bathrooms safe and all that but when a group of CIS WOMEN murder a two spirit CHILD in a bathroom it’s crickets. Not even gonna finish with some “cis women hold each other accountable” sentiment. It’s just sick. You are all sick and this murder has never made that clearer

#thinkin thots #again will delete most likely but been thinkin abt it and it makes my stomach turn #and I know I still pass very much as a woman in public spaces despite my being non-binary #but honestly if ME. someone who has some relative safety in that is feeling like this? can u imagine what more vulnerable trans non-binary #and two spirit people in our community r feeling #anyways

[ratwithahatonamat]

I will never get over the fact that people will gender me correctly but the moment I admit or talk about being trans they intentionally use the wrong pronouns

Your putting in more effort to be transphobic then to not

#literally it’s like ‘he oh I mean she’ bruh??? what??? #people always assume when I say I’m trans that I’m a trans women or non binary like uh i literally told you I’m a man #bitches think I’m cis until I reveal I’m trans suddenly it’s ‘I always knew’ #I know that passing as a trans guy is a privilege w Huge one and I wanna say that if you don’t pass this still isn’t okay #trans people don’t owe you comfort or passability #support your local trans cross dresser

[axe-cution]

Can. Can. Can people draw more non op trans characters please please please please please PLEASE please please please 🥺

#please #especially ones that don’t actively pass at all #PLEASD PLEASE PLEAPEOALSOELSPLSELLASLSEXPLEASD PLEASEEEE PLEASEEEEEE #post directed at Hayden #they drew a non op trans character and if made me SO VIOLENTT /VVVVVVPOS