#Why are woman so fucking confusing

[thefishdeath]

Never feel more masc then the times I try to look fem

#Crossdressing as a woman is truly the epitome of being a man #I HAVE to be the most confusing person at the grocery store #Voice of boy? but makeup like girl? but boy mannerisms? Girl hair? Boob? lesbianism? Man? Woman? Man? They? It? Maybe #You'll never fucking know. I hope it keeps you up at night #Committing gender fuckary? In my city?. it's more likely than you would think #It's very obvious how boy I am when I try to girl #I love being a weird little guy #I'm that boy thing wearing a dress what's not clicking here #Transmascs im telling you WEAR THAT MAKEUP!!!!! #PUT ON THAT DRESS!!! #only if you want to ofc but there is nothing more euphoric then dressing like a woman and still feeling like a man #but that's the process. A couple years ago wearing nail polish made me sick to my stomach. AND IM AGENDER!!!! #totally just like rambled in the tags mb #transgender #trans masc #transmasc #agender ism #genderqueer #nonbinary #trans man #trans joy #just fishdeath-ing #genderfluid #genderfuck #multigender #xenogender #genderflux #abinary #transneutral #don't know why I'm tagging this so hard but i learned like three new terms so that pretty cool

[benjinoff13]

Remember when the supergirl suit got pants instead of a skirt and that’s when they stopped dressing kara like this

And started dressing her like this

Idk to cancel out the lesbianism or something

#GOD FORBID a woman doesn’t wear a dress of a skirt at least once every episode #I think about this so much #it’s so fucking funny and problematic lmaooo #they didn’t even try to hide it #supergirl #kara danvers #supercorp #also why does she look so confused in every picture lmao

[the-darkestminds]

One thing that’s always bothered me is how Feyre was able to put Beron on his ass at the meeting of the High Lords. It makes zero sense for her to be more powerful than him. She is newly fae and only has a drop of power from each of them, and yet it reads like she has the full arsenal of all the High Lords’ powers. If it was truly just a drop of power given, shouldn’t that be reflected in how she’s able to wield it?

#Beron should be scary and difficult to kill #for example Aelin has a drop of Mabs water powers so she can control a very small amount of water #it makes the high lords seem silly when this young woman can overpower them all #it seems like her powers have no limit #Beron is the oldest of them too #he should be powerful as fuck #sarah j maas #sjm #acowar #acomaf #acotar #sjm critical #a court of wings and ruin #a court of mist and fury #a court of silver flames #a court of frost and starlight #acosf #ACOFAS #Beron Vanserra #Feyre #feyre ACOTAR #if Feyre can defeat him with little effort then why has Beron been allowed to live all these years #Rhys basically says he could wipe him off the earth with a single thought #idk it’s all very confusing to me

[astarab1aze]

d&d stats here

#☿ || Dash. #long / #/ im so confused as to why this thing thinks cro's evil but aight lmfao #/ kae could never be a pally he's like 2ft tall and hates religion what even #/ vayn being a druid checks all the way the fuck out for reasons that remind me i need to reply to caemth #/ sorti being an evil wizard? 100 #/ i really expected these to be different lmao #/ cro got that nat20 int #/ kae with his nat20 dex is accurate actually. until he's in his 30s and arthritis starts to develop- #/ but his intelligence being so low hurts me physically #/ hilarious that cro's a halfling when the woman is literally 6'1"

[knaveofmogadore]

You ever have a customer with a legitimate problem but they're such an asshole that they extinguish the embers of empathy within you with their insolence?

#messages from knave #her name is [redacted] and I've dropped from being her champion to wishing she'd lose internet #in about 4 hours #i felt. SO BAD. for this woman last night. only for her to call and scream at me #when the office phone turned on this morning #she's like 'the weather shouldn't have effected anything' when it was raining half this week #this same woman blew her top that people were late when a fucking tree was blocking the road #i tried so hard to keep feeling bad for her cause we (my boss) genuinely screwed up at her house #but she's made it extremely difficult to keep being nice to her because she's begun inventing problems #like for example #i say 'the electrician is gonna be there between 9 and 10am' #she says 'youre disorganized and confused because he said he cant be here at 9. why are you terrible at your job' #i send her a SCREENSHOT where the electrician says he's going to be there around 9:30 #she says 'thats not 9am' motherfucker that isnt what i said. He gave a timeframe of 930ish to 10am and that is what i told you. #between 9 and 10 #lord in heaven #i dont know why she hired us again she hates one of our techs enough to remember him by name and ask he not be sent #she's never said a nice word and threatens to sue us constantly like WHY DO YOU WANT US TO WORK FOR YOU IF YOU HATE US #YOU'RE PAYING. GO ELSEWHERE #and i tell her last night 'just so you know we're not done #'we have to come back #and what does she do but fucking call me at 8am yelling about why shit isn't done. ma'am. i told u it wasn't finished #im going to lose my mind #can't even make her my boss's problem because he threw a temper tantrum at the implication something was his fault #and fumbled their text chain so gloriously last night that he wont even share what he said to make her want to sue him specifically #I don't even WANT to know what he said because it'd give me an ulcer thinking about it #i need another job before this one gets sued into the ground #also im sick because my partner works retail and thats about as bad as having a kid in daycare

[firelise]

im ready to virtually punch one of my coworkers in the face

#not a black woman too #shes got me fucked up today its like we're speaking two different languages #she accusitorily said 'i asked for you to create a final folder for these days ago' and then links to a message #where she says (TO NO ONE in the chat) 'can we add this to a final folder?' ma'am wtf am i supposed to do with that #nowhere in there did you say to create a new folder nor did you specify who or what 'this' is or where u want this made #like? how are you this bad at communicating and you work in communications? #MIND YOU she told us off earlier for not understanding why we were confused by them sending edits to these files 1 by 1 not all together #and said she views them as individual projects not one big one (even tho it IS one big one as evidenced by the fact that #YOU WANT THEM ALL IN ONE (1) FINAL FOLDER NOW) #so u admit it? #ughhhhh

[mighty-poop]

Define a woman!

I’m gonna rant this here cus this argument keeps returning on the clock app and one day, I’m gonna be stupid and leave a comment in the wrong thread or smthn so I’m just gonna get it out of my system:

“How do you define a ‘woman’?”

Answer for idiots: you can’t.

You cannot possibly make a definition for the term ‘woman’ without excluding someone from the group when they clearly ARE part of the group (even if you’re a piece of shit transphobe and don’t want to include trans women). A woman is someone who has the potential to give birth? You just excluded every child before puberty, every infertile woman and every woman on menopause, next. A woman is someone who has a uterus? You just excluded a bunch of intersex women and all women who had a hysterectomy, next. A woman has a period? Excluded the millions of women who never get their period for various reasons AND all the women who take continuous birth control AND women who are pregnant AND again, little girls and women on menopause. A woman has to have XY chromosomes? Are you gonna check that for every feminine-looking person you’re gonna meet? How? Do you not think women with down syndrome are women?

Decades of feminism working so hard to make sure women are more than their genitals and potential to give birth, all flushed down the drain because you refuse to believe trans women are more than men in wigs? You’re weak as shit.

So answer for people who actually want to use their brain:

Woman is defined through experiences. Which experiences? Entirely up to whoever defines themselves as a woman.

The ‘female experience’ is so broad. You cannot possibly define it in one sentence and stick it on everyone who calls the word ‘woman’ their own.

You feel feminine and empowered by doing your nails? Congrats, that’s the female experience and makes you, therefore, a woman.

You feel feminine and empowered by wearing plaid and splitting wood in two with a giant axe? Congrats! Female Experience. Woman.

You feel feminine in a dress? Woman. You feel feminine in a tux and suit? Woman.

You feel empowered as a mother and love being pregnant? Woman! You despise the idea of being pregnant but find empowerment in your career? Woman! You feel like your period makes you more in tune with your femininity? Woman. You feel like your period makes you less than human and getting a hysterectomy makes you feel more comfortable in your body? Woman.

you love long hair? Woman. You love short hair? Woman.

You love loving men? Woman. You love loving women? Woman. You love both? Woman. You love everyone? Woman. You don’t feel like love is your thing? Woman!

Sitting at home with a good movie and a bottle of wine? That’s a woman. Getting bloody in a game of soccer? That’s very woman! Taking a walk with your dog? How very woman! Going to the gym? Such woman! Eating out with friends? Friend woman. Shooting a gun in the yard from the patio you built yourself? All woman!

Whatever the fuck makes you feel in sync with your femininity is your female experience, and if you have female experience and you like it, you are a W O M A N ✨

Same goes for men and the male experience btw! Since the question “what defines a man” is never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever EVER asked for SOME 👀 reason. (We all know the reason….) Also same goes for my fellow enbies and the non-binary experience. If painting your nails bring you closer to your enbie side, you’re non-binary.

Gender is such a deeply personal experience, it’s just dumb to define it for someone else, let alone the entire human species. It’s like asking to define a chair, like, you KNOW what it is but you can’t possibly define it without excluding some chairs (“has at least 4 legs”, that’s a horse also swivel chairs exist).

Sidenote: If some idiot tiktokker shoves a microphone and a camera in your face and goes “WHAT IS A WOMAN” or “HOW MANY GENDERS ARE THERE” just go along with whatever dumbass scenarios they come up with. “How many genders are there?” “My dude, as many as you want!” “Oh so like 40??” “Yep!” “Can I identify as a helicopter lol?” “Sure, who cares, do it!” “Should I demand everyone at my job calls me a helicopter” “You can go to your local townhouse, request to change your name to ‘helicopter’ and they’ll most likely let you. You’re an adult, you can do whatever you want as long as it’s not hurting others.” “You don’t think it would be dumb of me to do that?” “Why would I care, I don’t know you?”

#Imma get off the clock app for a while again #My fyp is on the wrong side of the argument again #Saw a lot of comments basically boiling down to “you’re delusional and you need to grow up” #Y’all the ones breaking down an entire socio-biological science to just “can u make baby or nah” #And it’s always under videos of enbies with really Out There fashion senses who have Such Trouble talking on the spot #Or who clearly have trouble explaining themselves #And the transphobe eat that shit up like sugar #Cus that’s all we are right #Blue-haired snowflakes who are so confused about our gender experiences that we fumble whenever asked #Like i love y’all fellow enbies with daring fashion but pls be more mean and confident about your identity #“What does that mean being a they/them” #I’m not a woman and I’m also not a man it’s that simple #“Is it that simple?” Yes what are you not understanding do you need me to tell you like a 5 yo? #I’m a brownhaired twink-looking gremlin who dresses like a skater boi who likes musicals and hates make-up and loves books #TRY to define me #Put me in one of your silly little boxes and see what happens #I’m gonna rip the box to shreds until there’s nothing left unless you leave me the fuck alone and let me pee in whichever bathroom i need #I have more pressing matters than worry about you thinking I’m confused but not empathetic enough to wonder why #There’s too much other really bad shit happening in the world for you to wonder if the blue haired young adult deserves to be taken serious

[pluto-boy]

if my students DON'T question if i'm a trans man or a trans woman am i even doing this androgyny thing right

#MAN I JUST GOT THE CUTEST SET OF CLOTHES #and i sent it to my tutor #and the first thing she did was go 'this is why they're confused about your gender' like. yeah okay fair #it's so funny one of them fucked up my pronouns and then tried to correct it with feminine pronouns and then just sighed and apologized #me (amused): you know my name is benjamin right? like what trans woman would choose ben as her name #my student (dismayed): i'm so sorry. i am so sorry #me (laughing): it's all good i should've stayed a woman anyways i look 10x hotter as a femme #...this might explain why i can only rizz up butch lesbians i'm ngl #laughing hysterically

[picory]

i really need to rewatch uwe before the upcoming season finale and properly gather my thoughts on it but i really really like the show! its goofy and cartoony style paired with a serious story about these warriors' souls stuck in an eternal war with the evil, the slight psychological horror of being used as hosts for said souls and almost completely discarded and disregarded (though it doesn't say too much about this, this is more my overthinking), the steampunk elements, the character designs, the voice acting... all of it. despite that i still have some irks with it, like the pacing. this show would've definitely benefited from having more episodes. for such a story heavy show 10 episodes doesn't feel enough. it worked with primal, genndy tartakovsky's previous show, because there was little to no dialogue there. it did an excellent job at making the viewer understand what was happening with mere facial expressions. but uwe characters have a lot to say, a lot to work out between each other. and it's clear tartakovsky wants to tell more. they need more episodes to do that. i hope the show gets renewed for a second season. i need everything that i'm extremely confused about to be addressed and cleared up

#the whole emmalinda thing! she's both of them and neither of them! which woman is taking the centre stage? #it's confusing. everyone calls her melinda. but she's not really herself #everytime she looks at her reflection emma's there instead. so emma is still in the ''backseat'' #this emmalinda has both of the women's memories #she's an enigma to me #dimitri while heavily influencing edred's behavior is just. not there. chilling the background. rolling with whatever (free him 💔) #alfie and seng? i have no fucking idea half the time. they're like emmalinda to me #this whole thing is so confusing.... we need to see the other hosts shining through more. not just emma. just a bit. please. for my sanity #i don't care for the romance. at least now that they are they way they are. emmalinda isn't just one person #so her being pinned with either edred or winston doesn't feel right to me. ''is she into edred? is she into winston?'' #yes and no! no and yes! she's two people!!!!! it's complicated!!!!!!!! forget the romance #it's fair to question their relationships status though considering everything (edred and melinda were lovers for eternity; #emma and winston were about to get married) #but man. whatever #WHY IS THE ELF KINGDOM JUST A FEW KILOMETERS AWAY FROM THE MAIN CITY. why are the elves that edred knew still alive #do they just live that long what the fuck #aelwulf is just going to be stuck pretending to be his brother for the rest of his life huh. that's fucked up. are they not gonna notice #this is a rambling mess isn't it. it's rare for me to go off like this in public i think. i usually keep that all in my head

[inexpressiblybeautiful]

Sherlock and Irene: *are going through emotional turmoil*

Mycroft:

#Honestly I'm kind of sad that we don't talk about him during this scene #When it's so goddamn funny 😂 #Even the scenes before he was already absolutely devastated #Like when he got Moriarty's message #Man just wanted to solve his problems with cake #lol #And on the plane too #Mycroft at the start: Lmao Imma just gonna tell my little brother about this woman. Nothing bad can come out of this. #*6 months later* #Mycroft: FUCK NO... NO... NOOOOOO #And then he had to deal with these two in his own home #I'm sure he just wanted to chill down after a busy day #Thanks S & I #Now he be standing there like '🧍‍♂️' nearly the whole time #Waiting for them to resolve whatever the fuck is between them #Which is kind of interesting #Cuz unlike John he never got to see them interact with each other irl #Like he just wasn't there until now #Then this scene happened and he was probably confused a bit cuz 'Wait she be actually liking you?' #'Why?' #'I mean good for me but the fuck is happening??????' #Also just seeing his brother being like THAT #'Is he really in love or...????' #No wonder he didn't think that Sherlock wouldn't save her in Karachi #He wasn't there during their numerous eye fucking like John #Not like he needs it #I also like how he was the one who was present during this super important scene in both Sherlock's and Irene's lifes #Big Brother looking after his little brother and The Woman who is known for using other people's feelings against them #But you were so wrong about Sherlock's feelings Mycroft #Ofc he went to Karachi and he ATE... ugh there is no more space left for tags... shame

[mifunebooty]

Only thing i have to do to move on from how bitch ass messy 5th grade me was that totally was out of her control is to kill that bitch

#cherry says #that really at the end of the day when i lashed out toward others was just mean #yes youre SOMETHING mentally wrong with you but what do others have to do with you? #what does bringing other people into ur anger and confusion and make u feel distracted from being alone achieve? #mad to your classmates in general are pointing out as a collective you as a presenting woman arent feminine enough nor light enough? #fuck them fuck off #mad to a new world coming that wants you to turn into something you dont even know? mad at this image of who you even wanna be? #whats the purpose of it #self sabotaging 5th grade me ....... i have to kill you and drive off with you in a shallow grave like nothing #i wish somebody was nice to you you stayed in the library forever you thought of peoples opinions less #because theres ways to love attention daily like nothing while not caring what they say #i wish somebody was your best friend since forever and never left you and stayed and stayed #but people move like book pages and so do you because this isnt love to yourself nor others around you #and thats why i have to kill you and leave you and not even give much ceremony for because i gave u enough power anyhow

[mooblybloom]

WHAT IS HER NAME

I LOVE HER SO MUCH

SHE'S LITERALLY SO PRECIOUS AND I CAN'T FIND HER NAME ANYWHERE IT MAKES ME CRY

WHO ARE YOU YOUNG FOX WOMAN LET ME KNOW ALL OF YOUR SECRETS

#my hero academia #deku #random foxy lady from MHA I love her so much #literally why doesn't she have a name I can't find it anywhere #It just says random girl on the fucking wiki #Also does she have teal skin or orange skin I've seen fan art but it's confusing #ordinary woman

[anachronistic-falsehood]

therapy costs money. listening to the entire 2007 album meet miley cyrus all the way through is free

#whiskey yelling into the void #ough. #i listened to this album so fucking much as a kid i loved it more than anything #i'm struggling rn wondering if i'll ever be who i want to be but like. #i think that little girl who listened to miley and selena albums on loop on her shitty cd player in her room and danced on her bed #would be a little bit proud of the guy she grew into #even if she doesn't understand who she'll be quite yet or why her older self isn't a woman i think she'd think i'm cool. yk. #i think she'd be confused as to why i want to go on t but i think if i explained it she would understand and it would explain a lot for her #and she'd be so delighted over my purple hair and my single piercing and the emo fashion i wear that she never got to have #she'd think i'm so so cool. and tbh i think that's the most important thing here

[waluigisgaybf]

trauma caused by a therapist really makes getting therapy for trauma a bitch

#she was my first ever counselor at like age 8 too #I legit sometimes forget why I such a HUGE time trusting or feeling comfortable with a therapist no matter how kind they are #and why I feel weirdly terrified of saying literally anything to them #cause a therapist misunderstands you one time and gets in your face in a panic #and basically courses you into saying yes when she asks if your being abused by a roommate #and then gets the police to show up at your school and then you have to somehow find a new home #and it’ll def stick with ya :/ #the shit didn’t even make any fucking sense #I was 8 years old #and I spent so so long feeling like it was totally my fault #and that I was an evil child and a horrible fucked up liar #actually shit I think I was 6 or 7 #but when I started to really think about what happened and how it started #that woman totally fucking acted SO unprofessional and even if it wasn’t her intent she tricked me into agreeing with what she said #SHE made the suggestion and scenario and got in my face and acted so so panicked and freaked out #and I was a baby who was so scared and confused as to why she was in my face freaking out #so obviously I just like yeah I guess immediately #it was a fuckinf drawing of our roommate we moved in with #and he was was holding me in the air and calling me Little Bug ?????????? #I just didn’t like him so it’s what I drew #and she didn’t even ask WHY I drew it so didn’t think to be like #idk he annoys me so this represents that #she instantly got down in my face and went “IS HE HURTING YOU #DOES HE DO THIS TO YOU #and made me panic and freak out and basically liked me through making up more to the story #course when the cops and shit asked I was like yeah no nothing she said happened #because they weren’t screaming in my face asking super baited questions