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thatsbelievable · 2 months ago
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frommyfavoritebooks · 9 months ago
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You were never asking for too much. 
You were simply just asking the wrong person. 
- A Gentle Reminder, Bianca Sparacino
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goldcoasthoney · 5 months ago
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stellariver · 5 months ago
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Life is meant to be lived.
You have to chase the things that ignite you. You have to do the things that bring you joy. You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and loved. You have to do the work to heal yourself, even when it hurts - especially when it hurts, so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you. You have to put yourself out there, and you cannot worry about what other people think, you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived. You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here. You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space. You have to believe that you have purpose.
Because our existence is finite. And as hard as that is to understand, as hard as that can be to connect with, from time to time remind yourself that in the most human way - we are all living on borrowed time.
– a gentle reminder by bianca sparacino (link in source)
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moon-stars-and-ink · 5 months ago
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— BIANCA SPARACINO
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shyghosties · a year ago
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It’s okay to do nothing today just being here is enough
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khelinski · 3 months ago
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You have to let go. You have to let go because when you hold on, when you keep something alive inside of you, you are allowing for your past to take up the space in your heart and in your mind that is meant for your future. You have to let go because at the end of the day, if you are going to find the human being who is going to bring you the deepest kind of joy, if you are to find the person who is going to help you experience the kind of love you have always deserved - you have to make sure that you are ready for it. You have to make sure that you will be open to it, and you cannot make a home within your heart for the person who will someday care for you in the softest of ways if someone else's memory is still living there. You have to let go. You have to accept that sometimes beautiful things end, that sometimes  people leave, that sometimes two human beings don't beat the odds, and you have to find closure in that. You have to heal. You have to move forward, you have to believe in the version of you that is laughing in bed on a Sunday morning with the person they love twenty years from now, because you deserve that future. It is waiting for you. Choose it.
Bianca Sparacio
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One of those easier said then done momentos, but, I needed to read this NOW.
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mariamthe1st · 2 months ago
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You have to let go. You have to let go because when you hold on, when you keep something alive inside of you, you are allowing for your past to take up the space in your heart and in your mind that is meant for your future. You have to let go because at the end of the day, if you are going to find the human being who is going to bring you the deepest kind of joy, if you are going to find the person who is going to help you experience the kind of love you have always deserved — you have to make sure that you are ready for it.
You have to make sure that you will be open to it, and you cannot make a home within your heart for the person who will someday care for you in the softest of ways if someone else’s memory is still living there.
You have to let go. You have to accept that sometimes beautiful things end, that sometimes people leave, that sometimes two human beings don’t beat the odds, and you have to find closure in that. You have to heal.
You have to move forward, you have to believe in the version of you that is laughing in bed on a Sunday morning with the person they love twenty years from now, because you deserve that future. It is waiting for you. Choose it.
A Gentle Reminder.
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kaebedom-me · a year ago
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That moaning hcs thing but reverse? Like the loudest their partner is just below normal speaking volume, just a lot of breathy sighs and mewls. I'm not loud in bed and I'm extremely insecure about it bc well media, but I've been told what I lack in volume I make up for in very lewd expressions. If you don't wanna do this ya don't gotta, please just take care of yourself
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I'll just get thise out of the way first before it's no longer "recent" lol
Nonnies pls dont feel insecure!!! They love you no matter what ogei!
Imma be honest, they don't care how loud or soft you are in bed
The fact that you're willing to bed them is enough to drive them wild!!
They first find out like you're quiet in bed they won't even question it
Different people sound different in bed ya know and as long as you're not in pain, not enjoying yourself they're glad to be here with you
They will just check if you're ok though, even if you're loud in bed, like they'll just check they're not doing anything wrong that's making you feel like you can't moan/moaning excessively loudly
Because they're sweet like that uwu
But they think it's adorable you're so quiet in bed! Your little gasps and sighs so cute uwu
Aye, soft moans you know what that means right?
Public sex
Since you're quiet anyway? You guys won't get caught it'll be fun and chill uwu
They'll also try to get you to moan louder tho
Just a little experiment see if you can get loud? Not because they want you to be loud they just want to see if you can
If you're like quiet quiet that's ok, it doesn't really matter to them will still kiss and fuck you the same uwu
If you've got a really lewd expression when they're fucking you they also think it's so cute
They'll coo at you and tell you how cute you look taking their cocks
And if you're shy about it they'll only laugh at you more
Most importantly they just want you to feel safe and ok to be yourself while y'all are having sex
They wouldn't want you to change for them
Outside of bed if you express that you're insecure about your moans (or lack thereof) they'll reassure a whole lot
Telling you you're perfect the way you are
They'll hold your hand and tell you that if it's shyness, they'll do anything to get you more comfy
If you're naturally like that then that's ok! Your sighs and gasps are enough indicators to them that you're enjoying yourself
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maison-de-soie · a year ago
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thatsbelievable · 3 months ago
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frommyfavoritebooks · 6 months ago
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I hope you learn how to let go of a love that won’t love you back.  I hope you learn how to let go of the stories you tell yourself, of the ways in which you have let all that has hurt you, all that has bruised your soul, convince you that you needed to settle for less than what your heart desired. 
- A Gentle Reminder, Bianca Sparacino
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goldcoasthoney · 4 months ago
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derjaegermond · 4 months ago
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-She reassures you gently-
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moon-stars-and-ink · 5 months ago
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— Bianca Sparacino, A Gentle Reminder
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serenaelizabeth · 9 hours ago
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khelinski · 3 months ago
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This is your reminder - alone is not synonymous with not good enough. Alone is not a weakness, it not something to be ashamed of. No, alone is a gift. It is a foundation, a stead ground within yourself that will be there whether or not you sleep beside the tired bones of another human being. Alone is knowledge, in yourself and in your hopes. Alone is a ruthless dedication to understanding your heart and fighting for what compels it after years of allowing for it to be loved in halves. Alone is not lonely. Alone is not broken. Alone is an anchoring, a healing - a reminder that the love you find within yourself will be yours forever, a reminder that you have the capacity to be your own home.
Bianca Sparacino
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mariamthe1st · 2 months ago
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A gentle reminder.
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thequietesthing · 2 months ago
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The right things will always connect
- Bianca Sparacino ( @rainbowsalt on IG )
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