The hardest part of being a trans man is wanting to be feminine and it just not looking…right, like I wanna have long hair I wanna wear skirts and dresses I wanna wear make up and jewellery and be called a pretty boy but no matter how hard I try, no matter how flat I get my chest how big of a packer I use no matter how much I deepen my voice or contour my face it doesn’t look right…and it’ll never look right…because I’m not a cis man…it fucks with me…that I can dress how I want but no matter what my own perception of self won’t match what others see, yes I can go hyper masc, boots and trackies and hoodies and I do but…but sometimes…sometimes I just wanna be a pretty boy…sometimes I wanna feel pretty and look pretty and I just…I don’t know what to do…because when I look pretty I look like a girl…and that’s the one thing im trying to avoid…and I’ll have to deal with this forever…knowing no matter how hard I try I’ll never be seen as a real man…that no matter what I do…I can never be a pretty boy…not in the way I want to be…
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Me: *Finally comfortable with my gender, having only small gender crises every now and then, is comfortable with the label Genderfluid*
TikTok: Here is the Abrogender definition.
Me: What-
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*looks at your art* *looks at you* ah yes. Theres the nonbinery
I have so many feelings about this ask
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Cannot overstate how much that spongebob scene that went
Somsone: "spongebob you look like a girl"
Spongebob: "am I a pretty girl?"
Like was such a legit game changer for me as a kid
I remember that family and grownups and other kids at school would tell me in a sort of mean-spirited way "you look/sound/act/dress/talk like a boy" and I'd just be like
"Am I a pretty boy?"
There were other unexpected things that came from that long-term I think but that'sprobably where it started being fun
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“pretty boy” is such a good and fun gender i’m a big fan
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I'm so glad the fnaf movie just kept Balloon Boy as this creepy mf. No explanation. Why is he here. Who is he. Who cares? All the jumpscares with him were great
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gege gave him those eyes and those lashes and then went: why are people obsessed with him????
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