#a trans man says and gets asked to tag it as a slur

[gartenofbanny]

Hello! I am currently trying to make a document including all evidence of Viv's problematic behaviour, and since you're quite popular in the critical community, I wanted to ask your opinion on the structure of it. If I missed anything feel free to correct me!

Vivziepop is a horrible person

I-early signs

-Nazi sausage party ocs (inspred by doctor Mengele, following a nazi blog

-drawing Kesha and glorifying her illness

-Zoophobia (contains the Addison drawings, Mirage being depicted as goofy when she's a pedo, Sahara and Latika designs

-supporting blaire white and Shoe0nhead (her too since Shoe has recently been revealed as a neo nazi)

-transphobia (discord messages)

-drawing Mimzi as a caricature/stereotype of Jewish people

II-Spindlehorse & twitter

-Raphielle shipping valangel, saying their a proshipper and still working on SH

-Following multiple proshippers, including someone who used audios of REAL kids for his digital CP and someone who actively ships Rick/Morty

-allowing and encouraging the harrasment of people who critique her shows to the point they are forced to come out or receive rape threats

-Blaming A24 for the lack of competent advertisement on Hazbin Hotel and replacing the voice cast

-encouraging harassing Erin Frost and Kendraw for coming out with their experience with her

-Studio reviews revealing the nepotism and abuse in the SH studio

III- The shows

-finn/ cole was made cis when he was originally trans

-sally mae only regarded by the fandom as a trap or futa, sexualised in every piece of her merch with her dick being emphasized to the point the fandom fetishizes her

-alastor being made creole or mixed as an afterthought, when Viv had already used real life voodoo symbols, very clearly inspiring alastor from Wendigos without any research, made him white as paper and depicted him as the 100th " asexual and aromantic person is an evil murderer!".

His asexuality and possible aromanticism is always ignored by the fandom in favor of shipping, and inclusive Vivziepop even said to do as they pleased with his sexuality for shipping.

-forced positivity, pushing the idea that even murderers, abusers and horrible people can change hazbin hotel

Depicting abuse (Crimson hitting Moxxie, the whole Valangel tag existing) and sexual assault (again woth Moxxie and angel) as funny jokes or sexy

-Noticing a pattern, Viv tends to promote M/M relationships a lot but depicts them as overtly sexual, predatory and toxic, and seems to have a problem with having "twink" characters abused sexually in a yaoi-ish way (Addison, Moxxie and Angel, Vox. Stolas/blitz too.)

-the only two people of color that are confirmed are Alastor, Velvette and Valentino. Velvette's color is very ashy and she is often infantilised (this might have more to do with her being a woman in Vivs eyes) she presents no POC features at all, neither does Valentino who is a stereotypical black man who is a pimp, abusive (sexually too) and has a short temper.

-using "it's hell " as an excuse to make horrible characters to glorify and depict as the true victim while doing nothing to become better. (Ex. Stolas is a rapist , Blitzo Sexually harrasses his co-workers and is very toxic, Alastor is a serial killer.) Depiction is not glorification, but Viv actively makes it seem like all of it is okay to do and has a show who has a very negative message that affects the viewers and fanbase into excusing disgusting shit.

-disrespecting religion by not accurately researching the demons she talks about

-Sexist writing in helluva and hazbin that favores males(Loona,Millie,Stella, Verosika)

-ableist language by Blitzo, refusal to acknowledge this and even joking about not being able to say a slur

-collaborates with Brandon Rogers,whose work is clearly sexist,racist,homophobic and ableist

-making fun of eating disorders (Moxxie)

-involving kesha in her show while she is trying to get justice for being abused and trying to recover, making the character she voices based on all the things she hated about herself

-included famous voice actors, pays thousands for them but actively underpaid and overworked her staff

-No trigger on an episode that contained Blitzo vomiting

-Barbie wire grooming a teenager is considered a joke (and the tweet doesn't count, we should be able to tell if the teen was actually older by his design or any line of dialogue, if those who don't have twitter won't know it means it's a problem)

-various incest jokes hinting at proshipping (Moxxie/Millie, and a rumor +dialogue cues hint at Andrealphus and Stella being in a relashionship)

-merch of almost all female characters being somewhat sexual

-depicting the Woman/Man as the only healthy relationship (Moxxie/Millie) while the queer couples are toxic (Chaz/Moxxie Blitzo/Stolas)

Holy shit that's a long read, I suggest you make that into a blog post or something. The only portion I can assume that you got correct is the third section. Most of the first two sections are spot on to me, but I am not sure if they're both completely correct because I'm not really aware of what Vivziepop did in the past, just what she has been doing since like last year. Sorry to disappoint, but it is pretty great from what I'm reading.

Modify it to what you think is best so that people will read from it and test read it yourself in case you got something wrong. I suggest you use Grammarly for grammar or spelling issues because even though English is my first language I still struggle with those

#helluva boss #vivziepop critical #helluva boss critical #helluva boss criticism #vivziepop criticism #vivziepop #helluva critical #helluva boss critique #vivienne medrano #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel critique #hazbin critical #hazbin hotel critical #hazbin hotel criticism

[generic-wattpad-badboy]

BAE CAN I GET A FTM READER WITH EDDIE MUNSON AND THE READER IS JUST LIKE SO IN LOVE WITH HIM AND HES ALL "I llohe you" WHEN HES DRUNK OR SMTH PLS ☹️☹️

Universe it's Eddie Munson calling

Pairing: Eddie munson x trans male reader

Tags: Love confession, Getting together, Frist kiss

Word count: 1019

Athour note : Heya bestie hope you like it, it went in a direction and i just followed it.

Eddie Munson had gotten himself into many strange and confusing situations before he thrived on weird shit, but this right here was the strangest. Eddie had finally done it; he had graduated so what better way to celebrate than to get wasted with his best friend/ person he may or may not have feelings for. Wrong bad idea because a drunk Y/N is a very cuddly Y/N.  

So, he’s trapped against the sofa cushions with Y/N cuddled into his side watching him with a soft smile enjoying his buzz while Eddie is suffering, maybe all those people who told him he would be punished for his sins were right because Eddie is truly being punished. 

“I like your stupid face, it's so stupid and pretty and I like it " 

Eddie lazily looks down and grins “aren't you a charmer” 

Y/N reaches up with his hand and twirls a strip of Eddie's hair around his finger and narrowly avoids hitting Eddie in the face due to his drunken clumsiness “your hairs so pretty and soft and your smile is so cute” 

And Eddie is dead, deceased, his head stone would read ‘Here lies Eddie Munson died because a cute boy told him he was pretty and played with his hair’ pathetic, But Eddie knows Y/N would regret this in the morning, so he does what he does best he acts. 

“And you are officially cut off my friend” He shifts and takes the bottle from his friend's hands dislodging Y/N from his side to lean forward and put it down on the table. 

Y/N whines as Eddie fully gets up from the couch and tries to get him up too. It doesn’t take long till Eddie has him standing with his arm wrapped around his waist to keep him steady, Y/N steps forwards and almost falls over  

“I think I'm going to throw up” He slurs  

“Okay, Lets go”  

Eddie drags him along as quickly as he can to the bathroom, as soon as they get close enough Y/N practically runs to the toilet bowl. Eddie rubs his hand in a soothing motion up Y/N's back. Thankfully or not, Y/N doesn't actually throw up. 

“Let it out man, let it out”  

“I Llohe you” Y/N slurs  

“I know man love you too”  

“No, no you don’t get it, I love you” Y/N says turning to look at him. 

He truly is in hell and as much as he wants to freak out that the guy, he loves apparently loves him back, he has to take care of him "I would love to hear those words in any other place than this bathroom, making sure you don’t choke” 

Y/N seems pleased with his answer, so he turns back around and sways, Eddie really needs to get him to sleep “Time for bed” 

Eddie helps him up off the bathroom floor and they both stumble to Eddie's bedroom. He sits Y/N down on his bed and looks for something for Y/N to sleep in. He places it next to him and turns around letting Y/N get himself dressed, which thankfully he manages. 

He helps him climb clumsily into bed and tucks him in, he turns to leave but hes stopped by a hand grabbing his t-shirt “Eddie,-ddie Wait” 

“What sweetheart?” 

“I really love you, like Really Really”  

“Okay, tell me in the morning when you’re not absolutely shit faced” The metal head says watching Y/N struggle to keep his eyes open 

“stay” Y/N mumbles before his hand finally releases his shirt 

After a long debate with himself he climbs in next to him, he spends the rest of the night watching Y/N sleep before he finally drifted off himself. 

“Morning sunshine, how’s that hangover treating you?” 

“I’m in hell and you are the devil” Y/N mumbles glaring as Eddie offers him a glass of water 

“Here” 

Eddies watches silently as Y/N sits up and take a gulp of the glass of water, he sits in the now vacant space at the end of the bed and waits but patients were never his strong suit so he can’t help it and asks “Do you Rember anything from last night”  

“Not really”  

Shit “So, don’t freak out”  

Y/N freezes “Why would I freak out”  

There is a time in one's life where they come across a crossroad and this is his, he could say nothing and continue pretending that it didn't happen, or he could come clean and let it all Lay out "Last night you may or may not have confessed your undying love to me” 

Silence fills the room and Eddie thinks fuck maybe he should have chosen the first option instead, avoided seeing the look of his best friend's face. 

“Please tell me I didn’t” 

 The metal head brings a piece of hair to his mouth and nods " You did” 

“Fuck” 

Eddie agrees ‘Fuck’ indeed  

“Y/N” he waves his hand in front of face “I didn’t break you, did I?”  

“If it helps, I love you too” Eddie said leaning forward and pressed his lips to Y/N's own, his lips were warm and perfect. He already knew he’d become addicted to kissing him.  

For a moment Y/N sat frozen and Eddie wondered for a moment if he truly did break him but a moment later, he was pressing right back and bringing his hand to tangle in the metal head hair. 

When they pull apart, they don’t go far. Y/N looks like his entire world has just been flipped upside down and Eddie can relate. 

“oh” 

“yes ‘oh’ come on your meant to be the smart one in this relationship” Eddie teases brushing the back of his knuckle lightly against Y/N cheek 

“Right, how could I forget”  

Y/N leans forward and presses a quick kiss to Eddie's lips before pulling away with a sigh “I need to shower” 

Eddie leans forwards and makes a show of sniffing "Definitely” 

“  You're hilarious” 

“I know” 

Eddie snickers as Y/N climbs out of bed and almost falls on his ass 

“Fuck you, I meant to do that”  

“ Sure you did sweetheart” 

#x male reader #stranger things x male reader #stranger things #eddie munson x male reader #eddie munson

[littlefroginthegarden]

Sold to Heartsteel 1/24

its a liiiittle bit late but whatever... im trying to write an advents calendar fic, theres some buffer but ill write during the month so im also open to input if you have any good ideas :)

hope you enjoy!

Tags: semi-ironic adaptation of 'sold to one direction' trope so yeah theres obv selling involved, angst, fluff, friendship, romance, maybe smut, mlm, transmasc character, some transphobia but mostly just parents being shit but nothing explicit or slurs or stuff, yeah i think thats about it, ill update this if anything changes xoxo

Part 1

Hi, my name is Hwei and I’m a misunderstood artist. Well, that’s not exactly true. My Parents hate my art and they think it’s just a waste of time. But under the name DemonBrush I’m known all around the world, my art account just recently hit two million followers. Which didn’t help me at all in my real life. I’ve been 18 now for a few months but my parents still act like I’m 16. I haven’t finished school yet and I can’t move out because my anxiety has made working impossible so far. My parents don’t allow me to get therapy or meds and I’m on their insurance so there’s nothing I can do. I sigh and try to think about something else but looking out my small window into the dark December morning isn’t helping. I go and pull the curtains, turn on my fairy lights and sit at my small desk that is crammed between the bed and the heavy wooden dresser. 

My reflection stares at me in the mirror, dark shadows under my amethyst eyes, a sign that I slept terribly, once again. The nightmares wouldn’t leave me alone. I sigh and start doing my makeup, nothing bright, just some smudged dark eyeshadow and black eyeliner on my waterline. My mom was probably gonna complain again but I don’t care. Last week she told me “People might think you’re gay!” Yeah, sure mom. I mean, why do you think I have all these Heartsteel posters hanging in my room? Because I love their one song so much? But when she says "gay" she means "lesbian". She would have an aneurysm if I tried to explain to her that I’m trans. And then she would probably throw me out. As if she could read my thoughts, I hear her shouting from downstairs “Come down immediately, Hwa! I can hear that you’re up.”

Ugh.

I throw on a black oversized hoodie that matches my skinny jeans (also black) and put my dark juniper green hair in a messy bun before I run downstairs as quick as I can. Better not make mom wait, she’s awful enough as is.

When I enter the kitchen, I almost bump into a large man in a suit that is standing next to my mom.

“Oh fuck, sorry!” I quickly say, getting a death stare from my mom but for once she doesn’t even berate me for swearing. She just looks between me and this dude, who was wearing dark sunglasses (in December!) for some fucking reason.

“Who is this?” I ask after a few moments of awkward silence.

“My name is Mr. Mundo, nice to meet you, Hwa.” His voice fits his impressive stature perfectly.

My mother steps forward and puts her hand on my shoulder, looking at me more seriously than I have ever seen her. “You know that we haven’t had the easiest time since dad lost his job. And since you refuse to work and pay your share, we had no other choice.”

“What do you mean? What choice?” I ask, slowly starting to panic.

“You’ll go with Mr. Mundo, he has a job for you where you’ll work for six months. You’ll get a room and food and the money goes to pay back all the debt you owe us.”

“Debt? What do I owe you?”

“Darling, you've been living and eating here for free for 18 years!”

“This is insane!” I yell at her. “You’re selling me? You are a monster!”

“Selling? It’s just temporary honey, and it’s a decent job, don’t make it sound worse than it is!”

“You can’t do that, I’m an adult, you can’t force me!” At this point I’m full on panicking. This can’t be happening, it should just be another nightmare. But I know it’s real. My nightmares are way different.

“You are right and nobody is forcing you. But think about this, it would give you the perfect opportunity to get some good job experiences while at the same time helping out your family! Also –” she adds “if you don’t take this offer then you’ll have to pack your bags, we can’t pay for you any longer.”

“If you stayed off the booze you could.” I press through my teeth, anger winning over panic.

She just ignores it and tells me “Please Honey, think about it. If you go with Mr. Mundo at least you’ll have a roof and food. We just want what’s best for you! You’ll thank us in a few years, mark my words.” With this she turns around and leaves me alone in the kitchen with this absolute hunk of a man.

“Go pack your stuff, we leave in an hour.” He hands me a big suitcase before sinking down onto the washed-out red leather couch in the living room, turning the TV on, unfazed by all of this as if it was his daily job. Which it probably was.

Still in shock, I go back to my room and just stare at the mirror for a solid minute. I still haven’t processed what just happened but I start throwing my most important stuff into the suitcase. I have a lot of clothes but most of them are from my parents and I hate wearing them. So it’s not too difficult to fit all my favorite pieces into the suitcase, some skinny jeans, flowy tops and hoodies and of course accessories, I can’t leave my choker collection here. Then I go to my bed and from under the mattress I pull my binder. I put it under all the other things so it won’t be visible if my mom checks my suitcase. She would freak out. I gather the rest of the stuff, making sure I have my laptop, makeup and favorite books, and check the time. I still have 15 minutes left but at this point, the quicker I’m gone the better. I grab the heavy suitcase and try to carry it down the stairs. Two steps in I nearly slip and the suitcase crashes onto the step with a loud Thud. Before I’m even up I can hear heavy steps on the stairs.

Mr. Mundo grabs the suitcase without saying a word and carries it down. I awkwardly follow him, hoping my mom is distracted and hasn’t noticed the commotion. For once I seem to be lucky, she’s nowhere to be seen. At the door, Mr. Mundo turns around and asks me “Are you sure that you have everything? You won’t be able to come back here anytime soon.”

“Yeah I’m not planning on doing that anyways. Can we go?” I ask impatiently.

He doesn’t answer and just opens the door and walks down the driveway towards the black car with darkened windows that is waiting at the end of it. He puts my suitcase in the back of it with ease and opens the door in the back, gesturing for me to get in. I hesitate for a second, but when I can hear the front door of the house open again, I quickly get in before I can hear whatever my mother wants to tell me. He slams the door behind me and gets into the driver’s seat, which I can’t even see from back here because there’s a divider between the front and the back of the car. Like in a limousine. Or a cop car. It feels more like the latter, like I’m a prisoner.

The car rumbles to life and even though the windows are heavily tinted, I can see the shadows of trees racing past us. Where are we going?

#heartsteel #ezreal #yone #kayn #sett #aphelios #ksante #hwei #league of legends #riot games #riot games music #heartsteel headcanons #hwei pov #hwei x heartsteel #not gonna tell you who though hehe youll have to find out i guess #heartsteel mlm #transmasc character #this is just a trashy fun little project #dont take it too seriously

[nothorses]

Asking on anon because I don't feel like getting fucking lambasted by both radical sides of this. But I think they're are some folks that talk about transandrophobia (not you, baeddel-txt, etc) that are starting to pick up on toxic masculinity in the same way TIRFs picked up on TME/TMA shite and the like. (I have it on my blog but only because I'm tired of getting a toss up treatment from shallow transfems and getting reduced to either a cis man or them insinuating I'm not who I say I am, and the like. Frankly as of today I'm muting all of the related tags on both sides because frankly... I need a break).

I agree with y'all just like, be aware of it just like transfems should be aware of our own problems.

I also dislike the whole TIRFs "reclaiming" baeddel as a.) It's literally a ye old slur for intersex people (re: tfems having a problem with fetishizing intersex people, speaking from personal experience here)

b.) it reads like a far inferior version of reclaiming the tslur, which tbh, I would just prefer if they did that.

Also I guess if you ask this and you care so much about who's sending this, I'll reveal myself, just don't make it public because I don't need to be getting harassed by TIRFs for being a weird reject because I just choose to be both a girl and a boy identity wise and clearly the everything not binary fem phobia (even if I meet the criteria of not "CAFAB" to them.) they have is still clearly alive and well considering I took a soft ban 3 months ago for it. (After getting a full ban rolled back bc of staff reviewing it.)

The "baeddel"/TIRF ideology reminds me a lot of my own internalized transmisogyny turning me into a shithead radfem both pre and post coming out, but also everything else going with it.

That's not to say that there isn't some areas where it can be disproportionate. I also don't understand the obsession with violence statistics when a.) It shouldn't be happening period and b.) I don't think either side is accurately reported, really, unless it's entirely relying on self reporting. Also c.) I don't know how much of violence on trans SWers is reported in that, i could see it being even or even mildly trans fem biased, not statistically significant though.

I'll be honest here in that I am not 100% sure I'm understanding you correctly, but it sounds to me like you're making a couple of different points that I'd love to be able to engage with- I think I just need some clarification first so I can make sure I'm not completely misinterpreting what you're trying to get across.

So like, if it's cool, I would love a follow-up ask to clarify a couple of things!

What are folks doing with "toxic masculinity" that you feel is similar to what TIRFs have done with TME/TMA? My understanding would be that TME/TMA were turned into a kind of definitive label that people use to determine who's allowed to speak on certain issues, who's "oppressed enough" to matter, etc., but I don't really see a way that parallels "toxic masculininity" among folks who talk about transandrophobia. Unless you mean that people are distancing themselves from the possibility of being masculine in a toxic way on the basis of their identity? (If that's the case, I think I'm misunderstanding the connection to TME/TMA)

Could you expand on: "The "baeddel"/TIRF ideology reminds me a lot of my own internalized transmisogyny turning me into a shithead radfem"? I think the sentence after that muddied what you meant, for me, and I'm curious what insights you have there!

Also RE: statistics, I really agree that there need to be more studies and research into these issues in order to get any real sense of clarity. IMO the best uses for statistics of violence and discrimination against trans people, specifically stats that tell us who is facing what kind of discrimination, is to better understand the systems causing us harm in order to work towards dismantling them.

Trying to determine "who has it worst" overall is pointless and self-defeating. The goal should be to understand why transmascs tend to face more lifetime sexual violence, while transfems tend to face more childhood sexual violence. Not to decide which issue to give a shit about and which issue to ignore, or which trans people "deserve" to be prioritized over all the others.

I will also say that the study I draw from more than others is the U.S. Transgender Survey, which relies on self-reporting. I recommend checking them out if stats interest you; they're pretty expansive and had a massive sample size. The 2015 results have been published for a while, and 2022 results are coming soon.

[cecilpedia]

Finally, I decided to make an introduction post!

Name: Cecil

Pronouns: He/him, it/its, ve/vir, serp/serpent, hill/hills (feel free to ask me about how to use them if confused!)

Age: 18

Orientation/gender: Bi and some flavor of asexual, depends on the day tbh. I'm also a trans man with some xenogenders. You can ask about them, but I will clown on you if you say something in bad faith.

Relationship status: In a polycule with my lovely girlfriend and boyfriend

Other info abt me and my blog:

•I am QUEER. I respect if you do not wish to be referred to in that way or don't feel comfortable with the word, but I will not tag anything with "q slur." My identity will not be censored.

•On that note, I will often reblog or post with (reclaimed) slurs that will probably not be tagged. If that triggers you or otherwise makes you uncomfortable, it's best not to follow me.

•A DNI list obviously cannot stop you from interacting with me, but if you're a jerk to me and my friends or your blog makes me uncomfortable, I will block you. Don't take it personally unless I tell you outright to get bent. With that being said I do not care if you post NSFW because that's none of my business.

•I am often wrong about things! Please please PLEASE correct me if I end up posting or reblogging misinformation!

•I am pretty inconsistent with tagging triggers and I apologize! Let me know if I miss something but refer to the first two bullet points beforehand. I'm not tagging anything about my personal identity as a trigger warning.

•Don't tag me in discourse that I'm not already involved in to see what I think about something. Odds are I do have an opinion, I'm just opting to not share it at that time.

This post is replacing my previous pinned post, but I'm not deleting it because it still applies now. Plus, I want you to see that I will give you the Reblog of Shame if you add some stupid shit to my posts.

#about myself #intro post #shut up cecil #transgender #bisexual #asexual #queer #trans man

[ars0nism]

okay, final post on this. my thing with terfs isnt the terfs. im 18, ive been through a lot, i can handle a couple of terfs on my page. what bothers me is the young people, especially young girls & transmascs, that fall into the terf rabbithole on accident.

SO.

heres my quick & easy guide on how i personally check for terfs. PLEASE check for these signs. to protect yourself. ofc not all things immediately mean terf, but this is my personal checklist

rad and or fem in the url (IMMEDIATE red flag)

labrys lesbian flag (somewhat of a red flag, could be innocent young lesbian roped into it. if theyre an adult its a red flag)

if you click on the search icon it will show a bunch of commonly used tags. look at the tags. common tags wpuld be radfem, radical feminism, terfism, gender critical etc

look at where they reblog from. who theyre following if its public. what posts they like if thats public. look at the bios of these. if the terf doesnt have a bio and is trying to be stealthy, oftentimes the people they agree with are open about it. block both while youre at it

queer slur discourse (also done outside of terf circles but far more common among terfs, especially coupled with the "not queer, im lesbian" stuff (though thats understandable and not inherently terfy) and in combination with other red flags)

exclusionism (not inherently terfy but still a good point to look out for)

fixation on wombs and vulvas (immediate red flag no one but terfs is that obsessed with their reproductive organs)

the "LGB" community, or even the "remove the L" because they dont want to associate with gay & bi people

really big hatred of the concept of "genital preference". sexuality is only about genitals to them.

intense man hatred. they hate men so much. (also not an immediate red flag because yeah some of it is warranted but you can tell the difference between joking about trauma/standing up against the patriarchy and straight up... being a terf)

the term "ssa". stands for same sex attraction. (pretty big one i think. i personally have only heard it from terfs.)

febfem. bisexuals who only date women. (also one i didnt know about until like half an hour ago. also a big one)

this is one specific to the current time and might be obsolete soon but if theyre vocal amber heard supporters. those are ALL terfs.

terfs are also often swerfs. hating on sex workers (not the system, the system is fucked and we should recognize it) is terfy !

they like to refer to us (trans people) as a cult. which, to be honest, after this experience, im more likely to call them a cult. (if a terf disagrees with you, get ready for closing anon & gross bullshit in your notes. we have mutual circles, they have them too)

and of course green flags for trans people & trans allies, if they have these the odds of it being a terf are. a lot smaller

pronouns in bio

some variation of lgbtq+

following trans blogs

inclusive

mature fucking human being

and if you're in doubt whether or not its a terf, its better to block an innocent person than to interact with a terf, id say. odds are the innocent person doesnt care.

BUT!

let's say you said something they didn't like and now your post is circling in their shitty little group chat. what then? my suggestion would be to

CLOSE ANON ASKS. once their cult has found your page and realizes you post about trans things, or worse, are trans, they will harass you. anon gives a lot of confidence to send death threats. dont let them.

Block all of them. No, it's not gonna stop new ones from harassing you in their place, but it does make for a pretty nice blocklist.

If you need to, don't hesitate to step away from tumblr for a while. Not everyone can handle harassment, and it's okay to step away if it's too much.

Remember you're worth so much more than any of these terfs. Remember being trans is something to be proud of, remember you are loved, and most importantly, remember they're just terfs on the internet. laugh at them. make fun of them. they may say shitty things, but they can't actually hurt you. (anything that can hurt you, like doxxing, is illegal. get law enforcement if possible if you think you're in actual physical danger)

Best of all is to ignore it. Don't keep talking about it ("take your own advice" im working on it). it's not fun to harass someone who just ignores you.

If you really can't cope, it's okay to close your blog. You don't have to stay. Make a new blog. Only tell your mutuals.

(also, side note, i have a blocklist filled with terfs. i am absolutely down to share this blocklist with you, if you want somewhere to get started)

#feel free to add onto the checklist tbh if you have any other good things #i focus mostly on easy to notice flags #with my checklist usually i catch a terf within five to ten minutes #the amber point. i dont care about the case. but everyone ive seend efending her turned out to be a terf. SO #long post

[kyoxyukiforever]

Trigger Warning: homophobia, slurs, abuse, assault, murder, suicide, hate crimes, bullying

Just a heads up to anyone looking to follow in this idiot’s footsteps — I am not a guy you want to have this discussion with. Really.

I, along with the rest of the queer community, have been through so much of the garbage that people like this have seen fit to put us through, and we have come out the other side as warriors. On the one hand, it has made me more patient and understanding. On the other hand, it means I will defend young queer individuals from hate speech like this with every bone in my body. I went through years of homophobic people like this one physically assaulting me, all so kids today wouldn’t have to.

I stayed strong when I got outed in elementary school. I stayed strong when the boys on the playground held me by my hair and shoved dog shit down my throat. I stayed strong when they held my nose and forced me to swallow it. I stayed strong when a popular boy asked me out as a prank. I stayed strong when the video of me saying yes was posted on all my classmates’ Facebook and MySpace pages. I stayed strong when I got cornered in the bathroom by a bunch of jocks. I stayed strong when they shoved my head into the toilet. I stayed strong when they flushed it and I had to blow air out through my nose so fucking hard just to not drown. I stayed strong when I had to walk back into the cafeteria with my hair plastered to my head and water dripping down my front. I stayed strong when my very first boyfriend killed himself. I stayed strong when I got beat to hell in the locker room for looking anywhere but my feet. I stayed strong when I spent years in physical therapy so I would be able to walk again after what they did to me. I stayed strong when I came to school with a doctor’s note and the same boys who had put me in the hospital reported me for forging it. I stayed strong when I was forced to arrange a meeting between my doctor and the school principal. I stayed strong through founding my high school’s Gay Straight Alliance. I stayed strong as I replaced the posters for it every day after they’d been vandalized. I stayed strong when a man in a grocery store parking lot cat-called my trans friend. I stayed strong when he realized she wasn’t what he’d been expecting. I stayed strong when he came at us with a knife, and I stayed strong when he put it through my hand. I stayed strong when my friends Korbin and Matt were killed in two completely separate hate crimes. I stayed strong when neither of their killers were convicted. I stayed strong when I found out that I would be able to get married one day, and I stayed strong when people immediately tried to take that right away from me.

But today’s kids? I don’t want them to have to stay strong. I want them to be allowed to cry when they hurt and not have to expect more pain as a result. I want them to go to school worried about their SATs, not whether or not they’ll be attacked by their peers for something they can’t control. I want them to dream about getting married without the addendum that it won’t be real.

So, @flirtatiousstab, when you come onto my post made by a queer for other queers, calling us disgusting fags — firstly, know that nobody wants you here. If you hate queer people that much, block the associated tags and you’ll never have to hear when we’re making everything about us ever again.

But you lost your right to a quiet, calm resolution when you decided that this was a good place for your hatred. It says in your bio that your blog is not safe for queers. Well guess what? My blog is not safe for you, and you would have to be stupid not to realize that (although based on your comment I have to assume you only made it through the first three sentences of the original post, seeing as I went on to discuss all the other reasons Eddie might have been wearing that bandana).

So let me ask you a question: after everything I went through at the hands of people like you, what on earth makes you think you can take me? After everything I put up with in the hopes that one day queer kids wouldn’t have to fear for their lives if they got outed, what could you possibly do that would make me back down?

Meanwhile, you? You lost your shit because someone on the internet suggested that a fictional character might not be straight. If queer folks really have made everything all about us, then why do straight characters in fiction outnumber queer characters a thousand to one? Or hell, why do straight people get to decide whether or not queer people can get married?

Queer kids on the internet see themselves in Eddie Munson, because he’s different, because everyone villainized him even though he was innocent. When you see him through a screen, a fictional character, you can see him as a human, a victim of stereotype and circumstance. But when you see us in the real world, actual people, you call us names. So don’t kid yourself. If Stranger Things were real, and you were actually there, you would be Jason Carver. Eddie Munson would hate you. And you would deserve it.

So keep your hate speech the hell off of my posts, and take a good long look at yourself while you’re at it. Who do you think you’re helping? Do you think young queer kids are going to see you calling them slurs and decide they should be on your side? Or did you just leave that comment to make kids feel bad about themselves? Honestly.

#gay #queer #queer pride #homophobia #stranger things #eddie munson #eddie stranger things #pride #and I’m not even a little bit sorry for putting this person on blast #their behavior is unacceptable and they need to learn #I know I won’t change their views #but maybe they’ll think twice before doing this again

[hehimdykesrock]

I am on indefinite hiatus, tumblr just isnt good for my mental health. I've got another account from which I don't follow anyone and I just post horse pictures and the occasional personal statement, so if you want that dm me. I'll try to check back here from time to time.

About me!

Hi y'all, my name (here) is Beau. I have other names but they shall remain a mystery 😘

I use he/they pronouns, emphasis on he

I am an adult and I post posts that are nsfw and this blog is body-positive and sex-positive! I try to keep this blog positive and gendery, sometimes I post discourse type stuff and that will be tagged as "shit that sucks" if you want to block that tag. Selfies that I reblog get the tags the op used. If I reblog your selfies and you want me to take it down, please don't hesitate to ask!

Please submit selfies, art, your writing and experiences, whatever you'd like to share! Anyone is welcome to send me posts that you see that you think match the vibe.

The words I like to use for myself, and would like others to use for me are: Queer, Transsexual, Butch, Dyke, Man, Trans Man, Lesbian, Bisexual

I believe in radical movement towards equity and justice to dismantle white (+patriarchal) supremacy for the benefit of all Queers, POC, Disabled People, etc. etc. etc., and I am always open to conversation about this.

I love Queer history and Queer bodies and Queer love and Queerness! All Queers are welcome here! I don't like the censoring of the word Queer in any circumstance because I do not believe in that assimilationist LGBT-gentrification bullshit everybody seems to be on these days. I believe that censoring the word Queer is the first step on a slippery slope that leads to shit like Texas collecting lists of trans university students and states banning medical transition for adults. If you tag any reblogs from me as "q slur" I will feel deeply hurt.

If I do or say something that makes you feel disrespected in your identity please tell me!

Love y'all!

P.S. find my horse stuff under the tag "beau is horseposting"

#about me #faq #about #beau says

[rivetgoth]

I don’t ever mean to be like. “No fun allowed” about gender I REALLY don’t. I’m an anarchist I don’t care what you call yourself I don’t care about gender jokes I truly honestly genuinely believe in informed consent and the right to body modification and self identification and I completely understand that the majority of gender jokes are like, good faith humor, but I do feel like sometimes people end up cycling back around with their “gender jokes” to just replicating gender roles or the gender binary or even just run of the mill transphobia because they aren’t analyzing the actual root or implications of what they’re saying…

The other day a goth musician I really really adore who is NOT that famous, I’m talking “he has found my posts about him on other sites where I did not tag him just because I mentioned his band by name” levels, who is also openly queer/not straight, posted a selfie in eyeliner and there was this 17 year old they/them in the comments who was like “What are your pronouns lol” and like… idk man, I get it’s a joke and it’s good natured but I feel like it is SOOO incredibly weird to implicitly suggest that this queer man in eyeliner is “less of a man” because he’s, what, somewhat gender nonconforming? Like come on. He’s never shown signs of not identifying as a man but even if he did come out as trans or nb, worst case that joke is weirdly prodding at outing him. It feels so out of line to say that publicly on someone’s personal social media account, even if they are a small scale celebrity.

And it frankly does happen to me not unoften, I post selfies and get these comments or asks about how “my gender” is so crazy and epic and cool and it very obviously suggests that I am not being perceived as a man, I’m being perceived as this like, aesthetic or this caricature or the embodiment of “gender nonconformity,” rather than just being a gender nonconforming man. And fucking of course my relationship to gender is complicated, I’m trans I’m a cuntboy I’m a bihet I’m a creature I’m a creep I’m a weirdo fuckin whatever, it’s all in good fun when the subject of the joke is actually apart of the joke and engaging with it, but I’m sorry some of you need to learn boundaries with these jokes and/or evaluate what it is you’re actually implying with them. “A man being gender nonconforming makes him less of a man” is not a good look especially when it’s being said about individual people to their faces. And that’s x100 when it’s “a trans man being gender nonconforming makes him less of a man.” Like omg. At best it’s replicating really bizarre transphobic and homophobic gender roles, and at worst it could be overtly transphobic or outing somebody against their will. Jfc.

I’m a trans man. I’ve fought incredibly fucking hard to live as a man and express gender nonconformity as a man, to be able to present how I want and live my life how I want, I’ve undergone surgeries & I’m on hormones 4 the rest of my life, I’ve dealt with transphobia and homophobia and rejection from family and friends workplace harassment slurs bullying ostracization religious trauma etc…. I love who I am and I’m proud of who I am and I’m proud of the man I’ve become thru my own blood sweat and tears and of COURSE I consider myself good natured and down for jokes and humor but some of y’all seriously will see a man in eyeliner and immediately tell him that it makes him less of a man and act like that’s a reasonable comment and not genuinely just blatant repackaged far right conservative bigotry.

[ricksanchezbignaturals]

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☆profile picture by @piki-miki !!

ok tldr: this is my main blog but the rick and morty hyperfixation hit hard so that's most of what i post. there's other fandoms too, just not as often. as for non fandom things ive got queer, leftist, neurodivergent, mental illness shit as well as random memes/shitposts/etc that i find funny.

i tag posts with [media] [character] [ship] and relevant attributes like autistic [character] or trans [character]. totally ask if you want me to tag something, but at the moment i don't trigger tag anything consistently. so uh blanket content warning for this blog (and a list of fandoms and some stuff about me) under the cut.

content warning: nothing extreme enough to piss off tumblr, but there is very suggestive art and general "horny about that old man" vibes. slurs like f*****, d***, t*****, and r*******, and maybe others that i don't remember. discussions or depictions of homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, ableism, racism, classism, possibly some other bigotries that im not thinking of. canon typical content (like gore, death, probably some in poor taste jokes coming from rnm). loads loads loads of mental health things, suicide, self harm, smoking/drinking/drug use and addiction, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, body dysmorphia, ocd, adhd, autism, overstimulation, meltdowns, dissociation, gender dysphoria

basically i think the content warning can be boiled down to this: anything that happens in rick and morty, bojack horseman, or disco elysium can show up on this blog.

i do not ship rick and morty together but a lot of ship art just looks like regular fanart if you don't know any better so it's possible that ive reblogged something r1ck0rty before without realizing.

i do ship jerrick and rickcest and like to reblog that kind of ship art. i don't consider those ships to be incestuous but i know some people do so i figured id give you a heads up.

☆the fandoms☆

~disco elysium~

~rick and morty~

~cyberpunk 2077~

~solar opposites~

~bojack horseman~

~gravity falls~

~bob's burgers~

☆about me☆

im 21, autistic, and very mentally unwell.

ive got a long time special interest in cats.

big fan of caffeine, nicotine and weed. love me some substances but my stomach is so sensitive that getting drunk and especially getting hungover feels like the whole ass organ is trying to die and take me down with it.

pretty much as far left as you can get without actually reading theory or doing anything lol. i spend every day rotting in bed so it's been a long time without any kind of praxis.

very queer, bi or pan, idrk which but that doesn't matter to me personally. im whichever one i need to be at any given moment to piss off people saying dumb shit like "bisexuals don't date enbies" or "pansexuality isn't real" or whatever.

a lot of labels fit my gender, transmasc, demiboy, nonbinary, genderfluid, genderqueer, male, probably a metric shit ton of mogai identities that i haven't really looked into because the internet circa 2016 fucked me up.

3 years on t!

but yeah, that's all i got for now. asks and dms are open, you're welcome to just drop in my messages and start talking about rnm or whatever. im no therapist but if you need someone to listen or commiserate in mentally ill solidarity, im here.

🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

[transedhausen]

autism and sex (intricacies)

author’s note: this is straight hookhausen porn. shoutout to @tedtheodorelogan for autistic hook hc and for writing a fic that made my little autistic heart SING go read it and then come back and read mine

also for @graculuss because they are a self described horny autistic, just like me fr

edit cause i remembered i saw @thebestintheworld ask to be tagged in hookhausen smut fics and this is the one!!!!

this is autistic and trans hook and danhausen loving and indulging him really. pressure stimming and horniness ❤️

Danhausen’s smell was comforting. It was a weird thing to notice, but it was the truth; he smelled like fruity shampoo and good soap, and a little bit musky after a match. Hook always made sure to hug him then, bury his face into Danhausen’s neck and breathe it in, comforting and grounding and something else that Hook couldn’t let himself think about when they were still backstage. They’d find time later to be alone and he could fully indulge.

Their hotel was all the alone time Hook needed. Danhausen seemed to have an innate sense of when his partner’s social battery was drained— he’d gently disentangle from whatever conversation he’d been in, taking Hook’s hand and lacing their fingers, squeezing twice, quick pulses, and guide them both away— and in the comfort of the hotel room, Hook returned the thanks with two quick squeezes of Danhausen’s fingers. Danhausen grinned, kissed the younger man’s temple, tacky from his facepaint. The feeling was less than pleasant, but Hook could endure it. It was fine when it was Danhausen.

“Can you lay on me?” Hook asked, quiet and half-hoping Danhausen wouldn’t hear, but of course he did. He made an interested noise, pointed ears seeming to perk up a little. “Hook wants Danhausen to lay on him. What purpose would that serve?” Jesus, sometimes Hook wished his brain worked properly so he wouldn’t ask for weird shit. “It’s— it’s like a comfort thing,” he began, face growing warm, then hot, “I have a weighted blanket at home, it’s, like, the same idea.” Danhausen hummed, taking his hand from Hook’s, then nodded, a bob of his head. “I see. Well, let’s get started!” 

Shoes came off, obviously— neither of them liked shoes on bedding— and Danhausen took off his cape, and then Hook was laying flat on his back on the bed, feeling like he did the first time he fooled around; a clumsy teenage encounter that wasn’t really fun for him but solidified his disgust at being touched even more. But now the squirming in his stomach was more fluttering, caterpillars morphed into butterflies. Danhausen was looking down, studying Hook’s face, the eye contact never long enough to make the younger man wince. With another hum, Danhausen climbed onto the bed and carefully laid himself over Hook.

It was like Hook’s weighted blanket and not. The pressure was intensified, but not as evenly distributed, and, of course, Danhausen’s breathing was in his ear, soft and calm. “Is this what Hook desired?” and Danhausen didn’t have to say it like that but Hook didn’t really care. He had that feeling after a perfect day, everything in its place, routine, blissful monotony. It was so nice that Hook just nodded and closed his eyes, focusing on the weight of Danhausen’s body on him.

Hook wasn’t sure how long they’d both been lying like that before it happened, but it wasn’t sudden, more a gradual thing. Maybe it was because Danhausen was literally on top of him, warm and firm and there, but Hook was perking up, his clit slowly swelling with arousal, pressing against the front of his boxers and thin sweatpants. His brain was mush in his skull, vaguely cataloguing this odd change in his body, but everything felt sleepy and relaxed and good, like a waking wet dream. Danhausen hadn’t seemed to take any notice, just shifted occasionally when his arm fell asleep, getting more comfortable. 

“Sorry,” Hook finally managed to say, slurred and thick, probably right in Danhausen’s ear. His hands were still by his sides, but they were twitching, wanting to hold onto something other than the sheets. Danhausen said, “why is Hook apologizing?” and shifted again, lifting off Hook, and the younger man felt a sharp, cold stab of panic spear his liquidy brain. “No, no, no, don’ get up, stay,” he gasped, reaching up and grabbing the demon’s arms, and it was like a switch was flipped; Hook was hyper-aware of how wet he’d become, the way he was tenting his pants, aching with how turned on he was. A flush of embarrassment crept up his neck, and Danhausen looked perplexed, but he lowered himself back down. Hook’s fear began to melt away almost instantly, and he wrapped both arms around Danhausen’s shoulders without thinking.

Another few minutes crawled by, and Hook could feel his heartbeat echoing between his thighs, still too groggy to really focus on why or how, so he just sighed, turning his head and nuzzling at the side of Danhausen’s neck. It wasn’t like they weren’t physically affectionate, but Hook had always drawn the line at anything too sensual, anything that could lead elsewhere. Now, the line was blurred and almost nonexistent, and Danhausen just made a wordless sound of curiosity, then muttered, “mmm, Hook is quite touchy-feely tonight,” which made Hook huff a laugh against the demon’s neck, hips rolling of their own accord. Danhausen shifted again, belly rubbing firmly against Hook’s crotch, and the younger man sucked in a sharp inhale at the sensation, pleasure blooming from his lower half. 

“Jesus, D,” Hook groaned, getting another noise— soft, amused— against his neck, lips still sticky with his facepaint. “Fuck,” he mumbled, eyelids dropping, and Danhausen’s voice was still gentle when he said, “no swearing.” Everything was syrupy-slow, like nothing Hook had ever felt; grinding against his tag team partner laying atop him, breathing unevenly against Danhausen’s neck as he tried to gather his glittering thoughts. They were scattered again when one of Danhausen’s hands found its way to Hook’s hair, fingers carding through the untamed mane. Sweet, relaxing, good, everything felt fucking good when he was with Danhausen. Hook moaned, louder, pushed himself harder against his partner’s stomach, getting more of that friction, getting wetter, getting harder. 

His clit was throbbing, the hot-cold pleasure numbing his crotch when Danhausen put more of his weight down on Hook, saying something that he couldn’t really hear, the words indecipherable, the tone lilting all slow and nice, a pattern. Hook liked patterns, he liked predictability, he liked being able to rely on others. And here he was, relying on Danhausen, who was letting Hook fucking— hump him like a horny teenager, one of his feet sliding up the back of the demon’s calf, more involuntary than anything, the need to curl in on himself the closer he was to orgasm, that hand in his hair still petting, petting, pausing the scratch his scalp. Then Danhausen drew in a breath, stomach tensing tight and hard, Hook’s clit rubbing through the ridge of his abs through three layers of fabric, and he was cumming, muffling his whimpery noises with his face tucked into Danhausen’s neck. He was sort of aware that his toes were curling, pleasure absorbing Hook and making him feel like he was drowning in the wonder that was Danhausen.

The pleasure slowly tapered off, and Hook’s hips dropped back to the bed, feeling so bone-tired all of a sudden that when Danhausen moved off of him, he watched with a muted sense of satisfaction. “Is that what laying on Hook usually entails?” Danhausen asked, and Hook laughed, rubbing his eyes and stifling a yawn. “Nah, that— was more of a one-off. Sorry for bein’ horny,” he added, because he felt like he should. When he looked back, Danhausen was smiling, not deranged like normal, but genuine, eyes crinkling. “No need to apologize. Danhausen thought it was quite an experience.”

#autistic trans hook my beloved #hookhausen #aew hook #danhausen #aew #aew fics #aew fanfiction #wrestling fics #wrestling fanfiction #wrestle boys

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

Sorry for asking this, my memory is garbage (Also, the internet contains so much stuff that I can no longer remember which internet personalities have said slurs on camera and which internet personalities were actually falsely accused of being racists by a mob of white Twitter users)

What did Contrapoints say about nonbinary people? Imma assume it was a bad take from context but idk how bad.

You're fine, it's good to ask these things.

There is so much she has said about us that it is hard to keep track of. I am sure I forgot some and that there are other things that I never even learned about.

She said that it was bad to ask for pronouns in trans-friendly spaces because she gets gendered correctly in sports bars. (This was from a tweet, one loved mostly by other passing binary trans people, her cis fans, and right-wingers.) The problem is that not all trans people are binary and not all binary trans people pass.

She said that she would gender non-binary people correctly but she also said, "I want to believe about [non-binary people] what they believe about themselves. So long as those beliefs are reasonable." (The quote is from her video The Aesthetic.) No one is owed an explanation for someones else's gender. Her not understanding the enbies is not our problem to fix, it is her problem and she needs to get over it.

When people got upset with her for having a truscum as a guest on a video she claimed that she is an old-school transsexual and that most older trans people are transmedicalist so we need to be more accepting. (From Twitter and reportedly from her Patreon.) She's not old school anything, if most of the trans people you know are transmedicalist that says more about you, and you can't tolerate truscum if you want a safe environment for trans people.

Not non-binary related but there was that time she tweeted about meeting a trans female fan who read as a cis man and Contra used this to deny this fan her womanhood.

And that's just most of the transmisia I could think of. I am not even touching on the antisemitism or anti-native racism.

I doubt I have seen every apology she has made but none of the ones I have seen were anything close to a valid apology and most of it was for actions she has repeated anyway. Like all the anti-genderqueer things she has said. Even if they were good apologies, she kept making the same mistakes so I would have to stop believing she was sorry or that she wanted to do better.

Also, I do have a contrapoints tag but it's not long and I have old fan posts for her in there as well, though even some of my fan posts have criticism.

#asks #transmisia #exorsexism #contrapoints #natalie wynn

[plague-of-insomnia]

hm idk how ur gonna feel abt an ask like this but i do want to get smth off my chest & u seem p safe. feel free to delete if u want

i saw a post recently talking abt how "gay" got used as a slur a lot more than people acknowledge. and it got me thinking of my school years & how often it got thrown around.

thing is. and heres where my train of thought goes off the rails. i actually experienced the word "incest" as an attack more than the word "gay"... which. ill explain. but it really got me thinking on this whole purity culture & demonising of incest depicted in literature & yknow taking things too far with whats considered incest.

bc at the end of the day. the reason incest is illegal (mostly) is to prevent inbreeding & the health issues that come along with that. if ur not blood related then theres no problem.

and like. the reason i got called incestuous and generally ostracised was bc i was close with a boy in my year. like we dated for a week as 14 yros do. and at some point i discovered that hey. his last name is the same as my aunts and lo and behold hes my 2nd cousin thru marriage or smth. so. not incest at all.

anyway that p much ruined our friendship (& it was a friendship. i broke things off before i even knew we were related bc i just didnt feel the same way and we stayed friends for a little bit) all bc some kids couldnt let it go that we had the vaguest relation to each other. he got bullied for the rest of our school year & ive felt horribly guilty for leaving him bc i wanted to be "cool" & ended up without any close friends like we were.

sorry if thats a weird thing to put in ur inbox.

Hey, anon. I don't mind this ask. I hope you don't mind me replying publicly. (In future if you don't just say so.)

This post will be a bit long, so I'll go ahead and put it under a readmore.

TW for discussions of "gay" used in a negative way, and discussions of the use of the word "incest," and its association with child sexual abuse, though there's really nothing terribly bad here as I'm not going into detail on any of thse topics. (If you need something tagged, though, let me know.)

Now, I'm old as dirt by tumblr standards, and I remember VIVIDLY the word "gay" being used in a negative light. As a kid, I didn't really see it used as a "slur" per se, but it was used to mean something was bad.

Like, if you saw a movie that sucked, you'd say "Man, that movie was so gay." It meant something like "lame."

So obviously, it wasn't a good thing, and when I got a bit older and was explained why using the word was bad, I stopped, and fortunately most other kids did too and it mostly faded from use (in that sense) at least as far as I noticed.

(I'm not saying gay hasn't been used as a more nasty slur/word ofc, this is just my personal experience with it.)

Granted, keep in mind when I was in high school, our LGBTQ+ club was just the "Gay/Straight Alliance." Back then, it was basically, you were gay/lesbian, or you were an ally. We never talked about trans people or nonbinary people or ace/aro people. Ofc every one of those identities/kinds of people existed, but as far as my world went, they didn't. Most of my circle of friends was queer in some way, but many were closeted or semi-closeted for various reasons.

Anyway, sorry for that detour. Now, as to your incest situation. I'm sorry that happened to you. It definitely wasn't fair. You didn't have any way to know if you were related, and if/when you did it was "easy" to end the relationship. But kids are kids, and they always love to find a way to single people out, and they probably didn't really care what the actual truth was.

Even if you'd discovered having a similar name was total coincidence, I'm sure they'd still have bullied you for "incest."

I wasn't bullied for it, thankfully, but I did have a classmate in high school with the same last name as mine. My name is very common in some places, but where I lived at that time it was not, so everyone assumed we were fraternal twins. He was a nice enough guy, but I really didn't want people to think we were siblings. But no matter how many times we both explained we weren't related, no one believed us.

Sometimes, once someone makes their mind up about something, there's no changing it.

As for "abandoning" your friend because you didn't want to be left out and regretting it, I get that too. There was a guy I dated when I was around 16, and we were very passionate, but I think honestly I entered a major depressive episode and lost all interest in everything, including him, and... anyway, I regret how things ended between us even today, many, many years later. I wish I could shake my 16-year-old self and tell them not to be so cruel, but we can't change the past, only learn from it and move forward.

With regards to antis/purity culture taking incest so far, I do agree it has gotten ridiculous. As you said, the reason incest is taboo is because of inbreeding, because if your (general you) DNA is too closely related, you increase the chance of having major/significant diseases due to a lack of genetic diversity. But antis tend not to understand the WHY's behind things (since they also believe pedophilia is bad bc it's disgusting, and not because it hurts children, who become real grown adults).

But I have seen some really wild takes called incest. Like a ship from one fandom where the male and female characters are friends. A lot of people consider it "problematic" apparently, because they have a "sibling-like" relationship. They did not grow up together, they aren't related, and yet that's "incest" according to antis.

I do want to mention another reason that incest can/is considered so bad, and it's because, despite what antis may think, most sexual abuse of children comes from someone close to them in their lives, often a family member or close friend. So for a lot of people, when they think of "incest," they closely associate it with sexual abuse of a child. It's possible that's why antis get so upset about it. I don't know. But that is another aspect to it. (Ofc for you, in your past situation, you were both around the same age, so that's not the case, but that association is there.)

But, in the end, in fiction, it doesn't matter, because there are not actual children who can be conceived or harmed, and so the whole purpose behind why incest isn't allowed in many places in modern times doesn't exist.

I hope you're doing OK now, anon. Don't be to hard on yourself. A lot of people have done things when they were young teens they regret and wish they could "undo," but as long as you learned from that experience so you could become a better person than that 14-year-old version of you, I think you're doing OK.

Sending you some hugs. <3

#poi answers #not kuro #anon

[theneonsoul]

Welcome!

My name is Neo, he/him (21), I have other blogs. @thevillainoussoul where I just post art and reblog random things, and @kindsoul-kindtale which is an undertale AU comic that I've now made more readable!! I also have the blog @talesfromavillain where I just put au info.

I DO DRAW SUGGESTION ASKS AND WILL ONLY PICK ONES I FEEL LIKE.

I can do RP asks with almost any UT, or UT AU characters. My own OCs included. But, no RP will continue beyond asks and is strictly if you ask a character a question or want to tell them something. All replies will consist of my own headcanons about the character. No private message RPs.

Do not send sexual asks to characters that are minors (Soul, Kind, Chara, Frisk, or any AU version of Chara and Frisk, regardless of their age in the AU). Keep sexual things to just being a bit suggestive, no "I fuck this character" I will not respond and you might get blocked.

I might post something suggestive but won't post any porn. I will think of a tag for the suggestive stuff.

Any and all discrimination will not be tolerated. That includes the use of the r-slur. If you see anyone being discriminatory or I posted something from someone who is, please let me know if I seem like I haven't noticed (and be nice about it.)

Try not to have any arguments in the replies, be civil.

If you see Soul or Kind, but they look older, on my normal blog, then that's because there are two versions of them. UT them and non fandom them. Seven also has a UT and non fandom version. That's because I'm also using them for my own story.

OC/Persona introduction!

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Persona

My usual persona. He also wears masks. You might see him sometimes. I just call him hoodie.

UT persona (human and monster ver.)

My UT personas, just call him Star, there's a monster version because that's just fun. Monster version I just thought of bunny and mouse combination.

Seven (trans man, he/him)

He is actually named after a Mystic Messenger character and not because of the human souls. The name is fitting in the human soul context though. He was a self insert, but no longer is (he was in like 2015/16.) You might see ship art of him and Sans as I'm letting my inner child live as I was too scared of making self insert x canon as I was scared of being called cringe at the time.

Soul (he/him)

I can't say much about him at the moment.

Shown in image with Kind.

Kind (he/him)

Can't say much about Kind either but that's because you're supposed to learn about him through my UT AU story. (@kindsoul-kindtale)

Kind (left), Soul (right)

Image is edited for the purpose of showing the colours. I have not gotten to properly redesign Soul.

Silver (He/him)

An old skeleton oc had the name "silver storm" and I'm letting that oc keep "storm" and call this guy Silver. Works perfectly since I took the high collar that's not folded down from Storm (storm had both a human and skeleton design and is no longer a skeleton)

Hazel Pecan (she/her)

Yes, her names are just the names of nuts, sue me. She is just a npc type character that you can interact with and fight is the idea. She's just a sweetheart.

Overworld and (coloured) fighting sprite.

Unnamed Deltarune OC (he/they)

He was first a TV personality type character, but I've decided to make him into a silly scientist instead. (I have no drawing where he is coloured yet.)

Line-up

Just a little line-up of the characters, plus some actual undertale characters but how I colour them.(Only one missing is the Deltarune oc as that's 1. Slightly different style wise. 2. I don't actually have a full design of the character.) Other UT characters are supposed to be added, but, I don't need them for the intro post.

#undertale #undertale au #au undertale #undertale aus #introduction #introducing post #introducing myself #deltatune

[coffincataclysm]

ykz/judgment anon here once again to say that im a bit shy, so i probably wont share my blog lol... sorry :') a lot of fans (the "dudebro" fans especially, you know the ones) can be extremely rabid when it comes to their faves, so i feel a bit too? vulnerable?? when i engage with the community directly? even on my blog specifically for selfshipping i gave my f/os aliases/emojis to identify them just so i dont show up in tags or when you look up characters, it just makes me feel safer.

thats also why i like blogs like yours! youre doing what i dont have the guts to do!

also... regarding soma... if you havent already, i recommend checking out his actor! a lot of the movies/shows he stars in are mild entertainment at most but theres some hidden gems. he also tends to star in more comedic roles, which is a nice contrast to soma lol. the knife mans lookalike is being a bit silly in his shows and i enjoy that a lot

thats it for now, but i guess i will check in more often. thank you for letting me ramble lol if this is too much you can go ahead and ignore, idm 👍

HONESTLY ANON I GET IT SO HARD SO IT'S TOTALLY OKAY!! The dudebros are one of the reasons I'm a little scared to interact with the fandom myself especially as a gay trans guy (as if all these characters aren't INSANELY bisexual) but the fact I'm making ppl who are scared to talk about self shipping with the characters feel better makes it so worth it 😭 I'll be called slurs a thousand times if it means I'm helping ppl be less scared to talk about these silly men they love.

ALSO I WILL TOTALLY LOOK INTO CHECKING OUT SOMA'S ACTORS STUFF OH MY GOD :DD Please ramble all you want in my ask box anon especially bc it's a real nice change of pace compared to all the harassment I get. Rambling is always welcomed!!!!!

#anon id kill for you #victor.txt

[evilcatgirlwizard]

im very tired snd cant articulate perfectly? but heres a fun fact

trans women are not more important, greater, or above trans men

trans male issues are just as much of issues as the issues trans women face

yes. yes it is kind of gross of people to focus solely on the woes of trans women as trans men rot in the background. support your trans brothers just as much as your trans sisters.

yes i am saying that trans women, especially since we're so insanely talked abt, need to take a step back and let trans men be in the spotlight maybe once in their entire lives. thanks.

if people start harassing me for saying Basic Facts such as Trans Women Are Not Superior To Trans Men then i'll make a better post. who cares, tumblrs gonna fuckin continue 2 ignore trans men anyway. goodnight

#negative #trans #trans men #trans women #trans positive #also yes im gonna say it straight out yes trans women do hold priveledge over trans men due to being amab. #and yes it is misogyny and transmysandry (yes transmydandry is real slurp on my girldick) to ignore or belittle trans men for existing #trans men and trans women are equally hated by society. stop fucking valuing the efforts of trans women over trans men who put out equal or #greater effort #a trans woman can say and get 90k likes #a trans man says and gets asked to tag it as a slur #fuck you people my GOD treat trans men like you do trans women for fucking ONCE #also trans men dont have male priveledge unless they pass perfectly. and i genuinely mean perfectly #any hint of femininity from a man and theyre socially fucked #doubly so for trans men. trans men even think about femininity and get called fake men or whatever the fuck else yall bitches say #so no trans men dont have male priv. neither do trans women for the same reason (femininity). no trans person does unless they #look 100% manly #which can happen ily masc nbs or gnc trans women or fully passing trans men. i kiss you gently #just #jesus christ im so fucking tired #also re: my first tag abt trans women havin amab priveledge #an m on your drivers lisence gets you more job opportunities and bigger paychecks no matter how you look #and many trans men dont have their gender changed on official shit #nor do trans women #motions vaguely