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lhoandbehold · 11 months
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Is anyone else like, ah my friends... they are out there. I love them, I think about them, I remember them. I would like to keep our interactions fresh and frequent. Oh shit it has been 3 years since our last call.
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moonsf1 · 2 years
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Zero at the bone - Jane Seville / Fleagbag pice - ratsandlilies.art (on instagram) / Gold rush - Taylor Swift / Mirages: The Unexpurgated Diary of Anais Nin, 1939-1947 - Anaïs Nin/  Little women- dir. Greta Gerwig / Friends - dir. James Burrows / Honeybee: Baggage - Trista Mateer / The one - Taylor swift (Lyrics) and almart_8 (Collage on instagram) / Lalaland - dir. Damien Chazelle / I Found - Amber Run / Flipped - dir. Rob Reiner / Love Rosie -Christian Ditter / Gold rush - Taylor Swift
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spn-ish · 7 months
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kathastrophen · 21 hours
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"There is a hole in my heart (and it's shaped like you)" - 2024
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amarantoo · 3 months
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Hi ♥️
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redfieldfeer · 11 months
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Time for second chances
Some time ago, I ran my first original D&D campaign. I couldn't get to the end of it, both for personal reasons and problems at the table... And that always bothered me. I looked at all that material I still had, at that world that had amazing stories waiting to be told and... I also blamed myself a lot. For not being a stronger person, nor a more professional DM. Time passed, I focused on my writing and also on myself. Creativity is back, as is the tabletop RPG. I went back to play, until a good friend, remaining player at that table told me "You need to come back, you're still the best DM I've ever had" and that stayed and took root in me. I found myself digging through the old campaign files, rewriting the lore and promising myself it was only for "later"... And "later" became now. I'm back, as a DM, as a friend and, above all, as a storyteller. Sometimes we roll a nat 1 that haunts us for a long time... But if we don't try again, nat 20 never comes, right?
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sincericida · 3 months
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oh and before you answer that it’s not a hate ask, they both seem really nice, especially the second one, It’s more of a “how did that become friends with that?” reaction
It happens.
(context)
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letargia · 4 months
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as I talked about in my last therapy session, the event made me see friends through a different perspective, somehow took a veil from my eyes. now someone I thought and saw as a dear close friend just shared news publicly, and it’s funny earlier today I was rethinking how close we actually are at the moment, as turns out it’s more even one sided than I thought before.
it’s really the moment to see people for who they are.
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datamodel-of-disaster · 4 months
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Congratulations
Cw: personal, about friendships and self-sense. Creative writing, stream of consciousness.
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Late at night, lying awake wondering if my friends hate me: the quintessential mental illness experience, but also…
Realising I need a space where I can be mean and resentful and *bad* because a part of me is like that. And I don’t want it to be private, and yet I can’t function if I constantly swing between the catharsis of saying what I think in the moment and wondering if the wrong person may have seen that at the wrong time and now I’m about to be ghosted or excommunicated from a friendship.
And yes, I know friends who will block or ghost you for being a complex human being are bad friends. But… and I hate myself for saying this because it sounds like the reasoning of a woman choosing to stay with a guy who beats her -sometimes, those very people give you something no one else does. A kind of focused attention, a kind of engagement with your creative work and interests, a kind of encouragement and shared humor, that’s just… one in a million. Impossibly rare. And suddenly you do find yourself saying it’s worth it. All the self you carve down and smother, all the nights lying awake wondering if you did something wrong -just to keep having *that*. You’d cut yourself down to the bone to keep having that.
Congratulate yourself, Richard Siken said to the person who asked what to do if you’re always the one who loves more.
Congratulate myself -But I don’t know how not to become the collateral damage of others’ inability to love me as I am.
Sometimes, love is carving yourself into pieces for someone. Saying, here’s the sweetest part, I saved it for you.
But there is something about putting your own bleeding self out in the trash and offering only the best to someone who sees you as nothing but a little nibble on the side, ready to be discarded at the slightest inconvenience. To someone who’d rather reject the meal than risk choking on even one sharp bit of you. To someone who eats you like a store-bought steak, trying to forget where the meat came from.
It is not something I feel warrants congrats.
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goobtacular · 5 months
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Things will never go back to normal. They can't. And... Somehow, that still feels okay.
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. . .There are certain people who come into your life, and leave a mark. . . Their place in your heart is tender; a bruise of longing, a pulse of unfinished business. Just hearing their names pushes and pulls at you in a hundred ways, and when you try to define those hundred ways, describe them even to yourself, words are useless.
Sara Zarr, Sweethearts
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moonsf1 · 1 year
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Without you without them - Boygenius/ The sisterhood of night - dir. Caryn Waechter / We’re in love- Boygenius/ Euphoria season 2 - dir. Sam Levinson/  Please stay - Lucy Dacus / boygenius- Photography by Matt Grubb / Grey’s anatomy season 10 - dir. Tony Phelan and gif by @houseofgreysanatomy / Pooh’s little instruction book - Joan Powers / Graceland too - Phoebe Bridgers / Lady Bird - dir. Greta Gerwig / Quote - Muhammad Ali / In my arms - Peter Weber (not sure pls correct if you know) / Without you without them - Boygenius
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pharaohgargamel · 6 months
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Стадии и уровни одиночества:
Stages and levels of loneliness:
1. Есть друзья и питомцы, но всё равно грустно будто никому нет дела до вас.
You have friends and pets, but it's still sad, like everyone doesn't pay attention to you and ignores you
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2. Друзей нет, но есть домашние животные. Грустный.
No friends but have pets. Sad.
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3. Есть домашнее животное. Нет друзей. Грустный. Ты плачешь и желаешь, чтобы появились друзья.
Have a pet. No friends. Sad. You cry and wish for friends to appear.
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4. Нет домашнего животного. Нет друзей. Очень грустный. Ты плачешь и очень желаешь друзей.
No pet. No friends. Very sad. You cry and really wish for friends.
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5. Нет домашнего животного. Нет друзей. У тебя есть любимая плюшевая игрушка, и ты представляешь, что она живая, но тогда становится еще грустнее. У вас есть воображаемые друзья.
No pet. No friends. You have your favorite plush toy and imagine that it is alive, but then it becomes even sadder. you have imaginary friends.
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thebroken--soul · 1 year
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serenadefiii · 10 months
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yang disebut sebagai persahabatan itu,
tidak melulu harus bertemu setiap waktu, tidak selalu harus saling berkirim chat setiap saat, tidak mesti berada pada jarak yang amat dekat.
dan sahabat adalah dia yang memelukmu atas sedihmu, tersenyum atas bahagiamu, pengingat untuk khilafmu, juga terkadang lirih mendoakan kebaikan tanpa sepengetahuanmu.
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amarantoo · 1 year
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✨Por favor✨
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