#abusers

[liberalsarecool]

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Disgusting display of white supremacy and groomed virtueless moms.

#moms for liberty #hate groups #abusers

[furiousgoldfish]

abusers when you're in a ton of pain, depressed, anxious, suicidal, but still obeying them and under their control: Nothing is wrong with you

abusers when you're showing a hint of resistance and finding joy in something that puts you away from their control: You're going to go BAD, who did this to you, who changed you? You are Wrong and Stupid and you will WALK INTO YOUR DEATH, you need to be Stopped Immediately, you need to get Help and be return to normal, you are Delusional and Mad!!

#abusers #control #abuse tactics #controlling behaviour #brainwashing #psychological abuse #emotional abuse

[jellyfishfem]

My biggest flex is that I never ever fell for or partipicipated in misogynystic hate campaigns. Not with Taylor Swift, not with Billie Eilish, not with Megan Thee Stallion, not with Ariana Grande, not with Amber Heard, not with Millie Bobby Brown, not with Meghan Markle, not with Hannah Kae Kim, not with Brie Larson, not with the Kardashian family, not with Daisy Ridley, not with Mia Khalifa, not with Doja Cat, not with JKR, not with Amanda Bynes, not with Azealia Banks, not with Selena Gomez and not with Hailey Bieber. Did I forget someone? Women are never held to the same standards as men. Chris Brown, Johnny Depp, Charlie Sheen, Woody Allen, Kanye West, Mel Gibson, ETC, they never even got half the portion of hate that the women did for *checks notes* dating many people…uhh, believing in biology, uhhh… not smiling enough in the movies… uhhh…being visibly mentally ill… yall get the point.

#radfem #feminism #radblr #radical feminism #misogny #celebs #amber heard #depp vs heard #taylor swift #millie bobby brown #billie eilish #amanda bynes #megan thee stallion #abusers #male violence #cancel culture #online hate #jkr #doja cat

[neuroticboyfriend]

shoutout to recovering abusers, especially those who are abuse/trauma survivors themselves. you and i both know that, unfortunately, once we do something, we can't take it back. i know it hurts to know that, but recognizing it for what it is... that's what allows you to do the only thing left to do - be better. it's not easy, nor pleasant, and likely, a very isolating experience.

so i want you to know, there's at least one person out there who's rooting for you, who's proud of the person you're becoming. you are not doomed to do horrible things forever. you are not beyond leading a happier, healthier life. growth is an option. healthy relationships are an option. they have to be, for all our sakes.

if you want to stop hurting others, and stop hurting yourself, your choice is right here. i believe in you. you can do it. you have to. break the chain.

#softspoonie #abusers #abuse #recovering abuser #recovering abusers #abuse survivor #trauma #trauma survivor #mental health #mental health support #abusive relationships #abusive relationship #abusive #rehabilitative justice #rehabilitation #recovery #growth #healing #personal growth #positivity #mental health positivity

[unwelcome-ozian]

#abuse #abuse tactics #abusers

[oasisr]

Getting yelled at by your family members for being the voice of reason or just trying to communicate and work out complex issues is a sign that your family is filled with toxic narcissists.

#I swear my entire family is like this #narcissistic #narcissistic men #narcissistic abuse #malignant narcissism #narcissists #narcissist #narcissticabuseawareness #raised by narcissists #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #abusers #toxic #family #justnofamily

[traumatizeddfox]

the devastating feeling of wanting the person who hurt you the most to somehow praise you for surviving from them.

#traumacore #actuallytraumatized #ventcore #actuallymentallyill #ok to rb #trauma #actuallyabused #abuse #abusers

[te0kir4r3d]

As an ex Dsmp fan that still is in the general mcyt community, I wanted to share my opinion on the Wilbur soot Allegations here too and not only on my discord server. I really hope everything's get better soon for you Shelby!!

#minecraft #my post #allegations #wilbur soot #dsmp #mcyt #minecraft youtube #shelby talks #Shelby #support #victims #not #abusers #fuck abusers #fuck wilbur soot #dream #tubbo #ranboo #Nikki #Dream smp #cc #content creator #woman rights

[spacedadsupport]

Jean-Luc Picard @SpaceDadSupport Awful people rarely appear as moustache-twirling villainous caricatures. They are mundane, common, and thus more insidious in their casual abuse of others. Never blame yourself for not being able to detect an abuser before they've made you another of their victims. 2:39 PM · Feb 4, 2024

#star trek #star trek the next generation #star trek memes #star trek tng #support #jean luc picard #captain picard #picard #affirmations #spacedad #kindness #what would picard do #boundaries #abusers #red flags

[sbrown82]

Happy Women’s History Month!!! 💅🏿🚗💨

#happy women’s history month #queen #women’s history month #misogyny #sexism #domestic violence #abusers #male chauvinist #black women #i love to see a nigga get embarrassed #black men #lame ass nigga #video

[so-i-did-this-thing]

How can I tell the difference between love bombing and someone being really nice?

Someone trying to manipulate you via love bombing is more concerned with talking about the circumstances and reception of their gifts, rather than actually engaging with the content.

They want you to know the gift was exceptional in some way. Maybe "fate" brought it to them and then you, or it's from their special stash, reserved for only the most discriminating of friends. Maybe they actually downplay the gift in a humble bragging way that really means, "I could just as easily turn off the gift spigot as I turned it on".

What the abuser wants most is for you to tell them how amazing they are for giving it to you. They really love to find out if they're the one that introduces you to your next hyperfixation and will increasingly try to tie themselves to both it and you. They opened that door for you, after all - where would you and your new happiness be without them?

The gift itself? They aren't as interested in talking about it, other then probing for how it makes you feel.

Andy love bombed me via a lot of angles, and the one that stood out the most was a dump of scans from an old leatherworking handbook. It was a hodgepodge of Leatherworking 101 stuff that I outgrew years prior, but he was determined to tell me how *amazing* it was that, shortly after one of our chats, he was walking by a used bookstore and the book practically flung itself out at him, how incredible! When I wanted to talk about some of the patterns in the scans, he quickly changed the subject. 🤔

Nice people will be nice and engage equally with you via a gift. Be very wary of someone who sets up gifts as a way to break down your boundaries, tie themselves to your emotions, set up a "you now owe me" situation or some other kind of power imbalance.

#andrew blake #thanfiction #andythanfiction #abusers #abuse #manipulation #love bombing

[furiousgoldfish]

When abusers pretend you actually control their actions during the abuse it's almost laughable, you're doing this because of something I did? Really? I control you? I decide what you do? In that case get down on your knees apologize for what you did to me. Cry and beg for forgiveness and spend next 10 years repenting for your crimes. No? You won't? Then maybe I don't control what you do. If I did I know what I would be making you do.

No victim ever controlled what their abuser did to them. If they did, they would have stopped the abuse before it even started. No abuser abuses because of something the victim did. They do it out of their own volition, nobody forces them. The victims have zero responsibility for any act of abuse towards them. No victim deserved it. No victim wanted it. No victim was in control. Abusers take control both of themselves and the victim, then blame the victims for the crimes against them. Do not buy into their lies.

#victim blaming #shifting blame on victims #abusers #psychological abuse #darvo #victim shaming #pretending victims can control abusers

[unwelcome-ozian]

#abusers #types of abuse

[wonderingwhisper]

Help:

Okay... I’ll admit it, I desperately need help,

But how can I ever leave when I’m trapped in your own personal hell.

I need help with the debt you built up in my name,

I need help with the trauma and the emotional pain.

I need therapy and rehab to handle what you put me through,

But how do I get out when you have me stuck to you like glue.

I need help with the abuse, my body now in physical pain,

I need help to escape and no longer play your twisted game.

Yet I have no money, I can not leave, my emotional state is always in grief,

with a noose around my neck like a silver chained dog leash, you have me trapped begging at your feet.

So Okay… I’ll admit it, I desperately need help.

But how can I leave when I’m trapped in your own personal hell.

-Whisper

#love #mental health #relationship #anxienty #self love #alone with my thoughts #smile for me #tumblr girls #girlblogging #emotional abuse #narcissistic abuse #narcasist #mentally fucked #anxitey #kinda depressing #depressing poem #original writing #original poetry #im so tired #abusers #abuse survivor

[anthroxlove]

Brad Pitt is a producer of "She Said", the new movie about the takedown of Harvey Weinstein? I shouldn't be shocked by things in Hollywood anymore but seriously, WTAF? Is he trying to make us all forget that he willingly worked with Harvey more than once knowing full well who and what he was? Brad had known Harvey was a predator since the 90s when his girlfriend, Gwyneth Paltrow, told him he assaulted her. A decade or so later, his wife Angelina Jolie, would say to him the same, that Harvey assaulted her... and he still chose to work with him over and over again. And now he puts himself on this project...

#she said #brad pitt #harvey weinstein #angelina jolie #gwyneth paltrow #abusers #abusers in hollywood #birds of a feather #dont forget brad pitt has been exposed as an abuser as well

[spacedadsupport]

Jean-Luc Picard @SpaceDadSupport Do not burn out your engines trying to achieve or maintain peace with those who contributed to your trauma but have done nothing to aid you in your healing. 1:38 PM · Feb 10, 2024

#star trek #star trek the next generation #star trek memes #star trek tng #support #jean luc picard #captain picard #picard #affirmations #spacedad #kindness #what would picard do #trauma #healing #mental health #abusers #boundaries #you are worth protecting