#abusive mothers

[furiousgoldfish]

Abusive fathers will make it clear they don't care if you live or die but you WILL do as you're told and abusive mothers will make you feel like you're the worst thing thats ever happened to them and every single bit of misery in their life and everyone's life in general is personally your fault, and also you look despicable

#abusive mothers #abusive fathers #child abuse #different styles of parental abuse #can be in reverse too this is just in general #abusive family #toxic parents

[halcyondaaze]

the mother myth

Nayyirah Waheed, Salt, 2013 // Amy Beager, Simmer II, 2021 (acrylic and oil on paper) // Susan Forward, Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters (paraphrased) // loveryborxo, Into The Wall // Joan Tierney, The Elektra Complex // Fortesa Latifi, The Truth About Grief // Ninn Salaün  

#web weaving #web weave #literary parallels #comparatives #quotes #on mothers #mothers #on parents #abusive parents #mean parents #parental abuse #abusive mothers #childhood trauma #dysfunctional childhood #rough childhood #unloved #narcissistic abuse #unloving #toxic #verbal abuse #dysfunctional family #dysfunctional parents #dysfunctional families #bad moms #quote #enabler #enabling #emotional abuse #inherited trauma #abuser

[moonlit-positivity]

To anyone still being abused and you feel like there is no hope for escape... Please know I am thinking of you so so so much... You are so loved, and cared about, and I am wishing you the warmest and safest of feelings, even if just for this moment. Please do not give up hope that you will ever be able to escape. Please do not give up hope. Please do not give up hope. Hold on to whatever you can. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

#ptsd #trauma #healing #child abuse #abusive home #abusive families #abusive mothers #abusive parenting #toxic parenting #toxic families #toxic relationships #boundaries #escape

[cptsd-kitsune]

Blythe Baird - If My Body Could Speak // Di Brandt - Questions I Asked My Mother

#mothers #abusive mothers #my edit #words #di brandt #blythe baird #toxic family #lost childhood #alone #web weaving #mother #poetry #poems and poetry #abuse #neglect #trauma

[addilynn-rogers]

how do you expect me to get better in the environment that made me sick in the first place?

#childhood trauma #abuse survivor #emotional abuse #trauma #trauma survivor #verbal abuse #complex ptsd #abusive mothers #emotionally abusive mothers #verbally abusive mothers #childhood neglect #neglectful parents #emotionally neglectful parents #emotionally neglectful fathers #abusive parents #toxic parents #emotional neglect #enabler parents #enabler fathers #tw vent #vent post #vent #venting

[thedepressedweasel]

I just talked to my egg donor about filing for Section 8 and she said that the government would never let me, an autistic person, live alone (except that it actually might anyway) and that I should always either get married to some theoretical man or permanently live with her and take care of her when she gets very old.

No! Not happening! I'm not going to sacrifice the rest of my life for her and my sperm donor! I'm done!

She only said that because she wants to still have someone to blame, beat up and scream at without consequences whenever she feels shitty...and so she can still have someone to brainwash and then kill whenever I try to become my own person.

I always wanted my new home to be one where there's no loud anger, no screaming, no name-calling, no banging doors and walls and no violence of any kind whatsoever! I always wanted my new home to instead be a very warm, safe and welcoming place. After all, I came from a broken place and I have the right to build one that's actually whole and safe! And nobody's going to take that away from me because my abusers have done this enough times already!

Either I file for Section 8 and move out all by myself and live alone (and hopefully with just my dog and probably my girlfriend) or else I will kill myself! Because I would rather die than be stuck with my abusers forever!

#i hate my mother #i hate my father #i hate my parents #child abuse #actually autistic #actually abused #abusive mothers #abusive fathers #ableism #abusive parents #abusive family #toxic family

[religion-is-a-mental-illness]

Holy shit, this is surprising. So much for "conventional wisdom." The numbers aren't even close.

Feminist theory asserts that violence is perpetrated by men to control women, and female violence is only in self-defence. Except the statistics demonstrate very differently. Moral of the story: feminist theory is bogus, ignore it, go with the data.

#child maltreatment #child deaths #violent women #child abuse #violent mothers #media bias #domestic violence #abusive mothers #feminist theory #religion is a mental illness

[stinkgh]

"They did their best" BRO THEIR "BEST" GAVE ME PTSD LMAOOOOO

#child abuse #ptsd #abusive parenting #abusive parents #abuse #emotional abuse #parenting #toxic parenting #toxic parents #boundaries #neglect #child neglect #gaslighting #manipulation #abusive mothers #acoa

[celestialautifutch]

google how to present as a gender that would give my mother a heart attack

#how do I even tag this? #mom trauma #transphobia #transphobic parents #abusive parents #abusive mothers

[roxie-poetry]

Will I always be sixteen Lonely in this house Reading books That are too hard for me In the long, parentless hours.

--Books and Libraries

#child abuse #abusive mothers #abusive fathers #abusive parents #child neglect #childhood abuse #childhood trauma #trauma #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #instapoetry #poetryblr #poetry #spilled words #poetry of tumblr

[crazycatsiren]

Feminism means not supporting women like my mother who physically and emotionally abuse their daughters, btw.

#tw: abuse #childhood trauma #child abuse #intersectional feminism #abusive women #abusive mothers

[ramyeongif]

And to those in this situation, I wanted you to know that you are not alone. This is why I wrote this poem - to hold space for others like me when typically we fold in and pretend we don’t exist so as not to spread sadness on a loving day.

#poetry

#poetry #abusive mothers #abusive mom #abusive parent #abuse

[new-austin]

Morrigan saying "we have more in common than I thought" if you talk to kalah while she's in the party too. GOD

#Morrigan 🤝 Brosca #Abusive mothers

[grouchydairy]

Still thinking about the time I told multiple adults that my mom was abusing me and all anyone ever said was, 'have you thought how your bad behaviour (getting an A instead of an A+) deeply hurts your parents that justify their angry behaviour (threatening to chop your fingers off)? It's so hard to be a parent now in the days of entitled children. Suck it up and do better' and I just... '???'

#Tw: abuse #Abuse #Abusive mothers #Abusive moms

[addilynn-rogers]

I'd rather people feel my deep piercing aches,

than to have to explain the pains i feel with words I don't have.

I look to others to have the words I'm looking for,

something to resonate with and make myself understand what i feel.

the comfort of putting a name to the things I've felt for awhile.

#childhood trauma #abuse survivor #emotional abuse #trauma #trauma survivor #verbal abuse #complex ptsd #abusive mothers #emotionally abusive mothers #verbally abusive mothers #childhood neglect #neglectful parents #emotionally neglectful parents #emotionally neglectful fathers #abusive parents #toxic parents #emotional neglect #enabler parents #enabler fathers #vent post #tw vent #vent #venting

[thedepressedweasel]

Adrien Agreste really deserves better (and so does Chloe Bourgeois)

ML Writers: *deliberately fuck up the show for its fanbase by still allowing Gabriel Agreste and Audrey Bourgeois to keep controlling their respective kids after the 5th season finale* ML Fans: *complain to said writers about it and rightfully so* ML Writers: Never fucking message us again! We write what we write and we can make the show however we want and if you don't like it, FUCK OFF!!!!11!!!11one!!11!!

#miraculous ladybug #adrien agreste #chloe bourgeois #child abuse #ml season 5 finale #abusive mothers #abusive fathers #abusive parents #gabriel agreste #audrey bourgeois #that show is fucked up because its writers are shit