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lostmf · 8 months

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selfhealingmoments · 4 months

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#toxic #toxicity #toxic people #toxic relationship #people pleaser #emotional abuse #childhood trauma #dysfunctional family #inspirational quotes #self help #positivity #new beginnings #new life #self improvement #mental health #self reflection #be yourself #letting go #life lessons

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poetrybyonur · 4 months

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Life is full of choices. How a person treats another is also a choice. If they choose to cherish you, it means they chose you. It means they want you in their life. If they choose to mistreat you, it simply means they didn’t choose you. They don’t care if you stay or go. Be wise and leave.

(Music by Willowbay)

#poets on tumblr #love quotes #love poetry #romantic poetry #love poem #romantic writer #onurtaskiran poetry #poets and writers #gentleman poet #love #poetrybyonur #writers on tumblr #spilled ink #choices #i choose you #friendship quotes #relationship quotes #kindness #abusiveness

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conscious-love · 1 year

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All too often [people] believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty, to forgive and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm's way.

Bell Hooks, All About Love

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iamnotatherapist · 2 years

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Things I learned in therapy today:

Giving your partner the silent treatment during a fight is a form of emotional abuse. They are not mature enough to handle their emotions correctly, therefore not ready for a stable relationship.

#therapy #the bitter truth #breakup #heartbreak #heartbreak quotes #sad poem #love quotes #relationship goals #relationship advice #depressing poem #life quotes #self healing #poetry #relationship quotes #poemsaboutlove #self love #twinflame #trauma #emotional abuse

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dailydiarynquotes · 5 months

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silvantransthranduiltrash · 3 months

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Guys, hear me out, hear me out:

What if ELWE. Was the one. That gave birth. To Luthien?

The Ainur can’t give birth to elves/mortal/etc, they can only sire children. Something to do with an ainur having to keep 1 solid constant shape for months on end to carry a child to term, which they can’t really do as it’s against their nature, and that usually when they have to appear “elf-like” it’s more a disguise and not them actually altering their body to be more mortal(?) ig?

As a result Elwe was the one to get knocked up, and after Luthien he said “no more”.

And Luthien, as a result, calls Elwe mama, and Melian papa, but because most elves don’t know that Elwe was the mother, they always confused the two.

Luthien: Naneth(Elwe) is so kind and patient with me.

Elf: ah, Melian must be a gentle maia.

Luthien: Ada can be pretty cold at times.

Elf: Elwe should be kinder to his daughter.

It has created the biggest misunderstanding of all time, and only Elmo, Oropher, and a hand full of other elves knows that Elwe is the mother Luthien is always talking about.

#lord of the rings #lotr #silmarillion #lotr elves #elwe #elu thingol #luthien #melian #subtly pushing my ‘melian had ghe power in the relationship/was abusive’ agenda #this works without that agend too though #silm incorrect quotes #incorrect tolkien quotes #mpreg elwe

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frameacloud · 5 months

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"Manipulative and Toxic Behaviors Around Noemata and Sourcemates: Patterns of being manipulative in regard to their and other’s noemata (‘kin memories’), source, or ‘canonmates’. [For example:]

"The pattern of someone conveniently having or gaining headmates, kintypes, or noemata that match yours, especially if they claim to be ‘your version’. A type of ‘we are specially connected so you can trust me’ gambit.

"Claiming to have known other people in a past life, often out of the blue and without much evidence they seem to be basing this claim on.

"Claiming they can scry for or otherwise tell someone their kintypes or help them recover noemata. Especially if they don’t know who they are doing this for very well or if they request the person does something for them.

"Frequent ‘sourcemate seeking’, wherein they are looking for ‘their x’ a lot and often have a pattern of making friends with every alterhuman with that kintype and then later ‘dropping’ them.

"Insisting on recreating the dynamics of a relationship (positive or negative) from a source or past life once more despite having just met them recently. Especially if it seems to be solely based on this connection instead of current chemistry.

"Making moral judgements based on alterhuman identity or noemata (ex- claiming that all villain fictionkind are inherently bad people).

"Inability to draw boundaries between them and their source material such as policing or otherwise attacking fandom on what headcanons, aus, or ships are ‘allowed’ of their kintype, or otherwise claiming malicious intent of anyone who views their fictional source differently from them. Insisting fandom has to listen to the because they are ‘the real x’."

- Excerpt from "Safety in Alterhuman Spaces," a document by the Dragonheart Collective, page 14. You can read the whole document here (PDF).

#rated G #fictionkin #noemata #otherkin #alterhuman #fictionfolk #reincarnation #community safety #abuse #relationship abuse #harassment #the Dragonheart Collective #quote #internet safety #queue

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thoughtsfromthecorneroftheroom · 22 days

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No, I'm not ok. But I haven't been ok since I was 11, maybe 12. I am still here though. I'm still breathing. For me, sometimes, that will have to be enough.

#clementine von radics #motivation #quotes #poetry #literature #relationship quotes #writing #original #words #love #relationship #childhood #child abuse #trauma

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mysoulbreak · 24 days

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‘I understand that I’m not perfect, that I can be clingy and overly emotional but I just want to be important’

- me

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zellk · 2 months

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Funny romance charts - Dangerous Babygirls edition (empty chart)

#i know i did spriggan and mitas but really i mostly wanted to do these two #but it always takes longer to complete for these two because i have to THINK so much more fkmdjhsmgkjh #helps me develop them properly tho >:) so it's good #lana #rena #lanare #renaiel #paracosm #symphonia #oc #ocs #zellk oc #zellk ocs #i am laughing SO fucking much at how fucking toxic Lana has the potential to be #like it's also hard for me to fill these (esp for her) because she changes SO MUCH as she grows through the years of her story #(and gets to a point where she can have a “healthy” relationship with Rena)#(healthy between quotes because they are both unhinged but together and for each other so it causes slightly less trouble to everybody)#(they do sorta balance each other out fr fr)#(but they also cause unhinged behaviours in each other and i love it kfdmjshgmkjdhgmkjh)#anyways when they were younger Lana was an abusive gaslighting bitch - glad she got reality checked a few times and grew out of it #someone told her “be better” and she took that personally

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hennapoetry · 1 year

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— Hinnah Mian, “If There’s One Thing I Learned, It’s That Prayer Is Not Transactional” from Pangaea: Poetry and Prose

#poetry #poems #poets #religious trauma #abusive relationship #quotes #books

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selfhealingmoments · 2 months

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poetrybyonur · 4 months

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Reverse projection is when a person tries to project their own good qualities onto another, usually someone who is abusive to them, because your pure heart wants to see that person as you yourself are. It’s the curse of the empath. For your own mental health, don’t ignore red flags no matter how much you love the person. It only prolongs the inevitable.

#poets on tumblr #love quotes #love poetry #romantic poetry #love poem #romantic writer #onurtaskiran poetry #poets and writers #gentleman poet #love #poetrybyonur #spilled ink #writers on tumblr #red flags #emotional abuse #narcissistic abuse #toxic people #toxic frienship #toxic relationship

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inbtwner · 25 days

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love (TW: SH)

when is it my turn

to write of the fantastical bliss

that love seems to bring

everyone but me?

how old it gets

to express my agony

while bleeding from my knuckles

i patch up the wall

like i patch up the letters of your name

engraved into my skin

obsession is not love

the love i’ve known is cruel like a blizzard

skin turning blue from the cold

every layer of my dermis freezes

until my nerves no longer burn

shock sets in and i feel no more pain

this can’t be the love

that people write about

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crazy-fangirl2524 · 17 days

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Andritch probably thought Zane meant him and Jean were dating and now Jean is with Riko😭😭😭

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