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ace-exploring · 9 days
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PSA
Feeling sexual attraction for someone and wanting to have sex with someone are actually two completely different but very similar feelings, and don't let any allosexuals (for whom this feeling is largely the same and very difficult for them to differentiate) tell you any different.
As an asexual (I identify as greysexual), I rarely feel sexual attraction even to my husband, but I want to have sex with him because he is awesome 🥰.
I'm still ace and it's still completely valid.
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traceyshortfilm · 11 months
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Gotta give the people what they want
#WeeklyMemeDump vol. 2
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asexualaromanticblog · 5 months
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IT’S NOT FAIR
It’s not fair that I’m asexual. It’s not fair I’m a romantic. I can’t believe this card was dealt to me. Why can’t I fall in love? Why don’t I want to make out with anyone? All my friends have. Everyone laughed at me because I’m single. Why do I feel so much disgust at thinking of losing my virginity? Or why do I feel simply neutral regarding it? Why don’t I want sex as much as everyone around me. It’s not fair that I’m all alone and all my friends have partners. My parents keep telling me to find someone but I just CAN’T tell them what I feel because they won’t understand. I know they’ll just laugh. I’m so angry, because everyone keeps telling me I will find someone and I quite simply know I will not. They don’t understand it. They say it’s not natural. Why are all my friends getting married already and I’ve never even been in a relationship? My younger brother has been happily married for years. My colleagues at work bring their spouses for dinner and I can’t turn up all alone.
It’s not fair, it’s not fair, it’s not fair.
Well, my asexual and aromantic friends. This is our life, IF WE CHOOSE TO LOOK AT IT THAT WAY. But we write our own story, and though we do not choose our asexuality, we do choose how we look at it, and how we react to it too.
Yes, we can be upset over our sexuality. It is hard soometimes. Actually, it is hard ALL of the time.
I will not deny it. At all.
And even if you all hate me because I make it sound so easy, accpting your asexuality as it is can set you free. I felt set free when I accpeted myself for who I am. You stop trying to be like everyone else. You stop trying to like people because other people do. You realise you are heathy and alive and as sane as everyone else. And you can live your live without some flaming romantic interest taking over it.
Be youself. Because if you aren't youself, then who are you?
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willowitzy · 2 years
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hello I love sketch to finished comparisons
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ivolederer · 9 days
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ACE 🖤🤍💜 Linocut, about A5, 2024.☺️ Plenty of my friends are on the aro and/or ace spectrum, and since it's sometimes difficult to find merch/representation at cons and markets, I decided to make a few prints focusing on the aro-ace communities. I really like the cheeky expression on this cat.
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ciudadanouniversoblog · 7 months
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Tobie y Alice con la bandera ACE! 🖤🩶🤍💜
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zwei2x · 2 months
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Hesitated on posting this here, but I feel like I must for the sake of the asexual community.
This is unacceptable. Even as a joke. When someone mentions everywhere, several times, upfront, that despite being a NSFW artist, they are asexual and not horny; you RESPECT THAT.
Consent for fuck's sake. CONSENT. Drawing NSFW and talking about sexuality and NSFW art and stuff with others does NOT equal consent. NEVER, EVER try to "convert" an asexual, or push horny stuff on them constantly.
I've been struggling for YEARS with drawing NSFW art because of my asexuality, and the internal conflicts of liking sexuality/nudity as a concept, especially artistic, but not being horny for it. Give me a fucking break.
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mistyf0g · 1 month
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Hello:)
I'm Mist or Lulu. I'm dutch canadian, 16 years old, i'm asexual and lesbian and feminist, I use they/it pronouns and I am Agender!
Interact: queer folk, trans men, trans women, any ppl, genderqueer people
DNI: TERFS, homophobes, racists, transphobes
Thin Ice: bi Pam omni lesbians (bc I'm learning more)
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cicisartandstuff · 1 year
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🖤🤍💜HAPPY ACE-WEEK🖤🤍💜
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In celebration of Asexual Awareness Week (Oct.23-29th 2022) All pride flag stickers and prints are on sale! Shop Link
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pianotrees · 6 months
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i don't get why ace attorney is so popular? eleven whole games about this one lawyer who would not like to screw anybody? come on
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ace-exploring · 3 months
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"You just have to find the right person."
I FOUND my person. I moved heaven and earth to marry him. We're still together after 17 years.
I'm still ace.
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traceyshortfilm · 11 months
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You already know what time it is
#WeeklyMemeDump
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beebeemagica · 10 months
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happy pride, my queer loves! I spent the last day manically creating Eevees with lgbtqia+ witch hats. I want to make them into stickers! <3
are there any pride colors you’d like to see in the next round?
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asexualaromanticblog · 5 months
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Before Realising My AroAce Sexuality
I want to make one thing very clear before anyone starts reading. Though I identify as being asexual and aromantic, I can only talk about my own story because it is the only one I really understand. And I know that all of us have a different story. We all walk a different path. We all react differently to the obstacles placed in out way. But I can only talk about myself and how I, and some people I know who are also aro-ace, have been affected by their sexuality. I hope sharing my story, as well as my opinions and advice is of any use to you.
I also want all my readers to feel free about contacting me if they want their story to be published or simply understood, EVEN IF YOU AREN'T AROMANTIC OR ASEXUAL YOURSELVES. I will handle everything which any of you send me with the utmost discretion and to the word referring to your wishes.
I am a British demigirl teenager of 14 years of age who has been living in Spain since the young age of about 4 or 5. I am currently undergoing my freshman year of highschool. The presence of the doubt that I was asexual always dug at the back of my mind, but I liked to think I wasn't. I was SCARED: I didn't want to be lonely for the rest of my life. In fact, I was obsessed with the idea that I would find love eventually.
I realised I didn't like boys or men when I was about 10 or 11 years old. I simply did not feel romantically attracted by them at all. Yes, I found some boys attractive, and some actors too, but I found I was not able to form romantic attractions towards them. What's more, the people who I had previously 'liked' (obvoiusly I was like 11 so never anything truly serious) had always been very good friends of mine. Such close friends that our friendship almost seemed like the celibate and completely nonsexual relationships the popular kids were forming between each other.
I knew that gay people existed. I'd never been against it. From the moment I realised being gay was a THING, I'd supported it, even if I didn't feel that way myself.
So I went and thought: hmmm... I don't like guys. That must mean I like girls. Now, what girl do I like?
So I found a pretty girl, VERY popular (actually, I remember quite clearly her name was Inés). And I decided I had a crush on her.
Then, 7th grade, I changed schools. And I lost contact with all my friends (including Inés). I found a girl, a Russian called Maria, and decided I liked her. We dated, some months later. But we never DID anything. Max was holding hands or kissing each others cheeks. Then we broke up on rather bad terms., Even now, almost a year and a half later, we don't talk. I was in the same room as her for 15 mins and has an anxiety attack. I must admit, I hold a massive amount of trauma from that relationship still.
I had never made out with anyone and never really felt the need to, even though by 8th grade most of my friends had. I felt like I fancied another of my friends, Sarah, but when I confessed my feelings I got rejected. I was not too sore about it, surprisingly. I felt more like my pride was hurt than that my heart was broken.
And then, something magical happened.
In June of 2023, at 14 years of age, I watched Heartstopper in a day with a friend.
I fell in love with it.
And then, on the 3rd of August, when season 2 was released, I watched the entirety of it at night on my phone. And that was when I discovered asexuality.
More later!
Subscribe if you want more!
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runfromreality · 10 months
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pride typography - part i
please credit when using and don’t repost.
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( click for other posters —> part ii I part iii I part iv)  
etsy I redbubble
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