#actually dependent

[lovesse]

She Sent This Down From Above , Wishing For It To Reach The Masses . . .

♡ ꒱ * ₊ ･ㅤ◟ DPD ALTERNATIVE FLAG 𓂃 ଓ ⋮ an alternative flag for those with dependent personality disorder (( dpd )) , made mostly for fun && self indulgence ! exclusive to those with dpd

do not tag as gender as tag are just for reach

#🎐 ── bestowed. * #dpd #dpd flag #actually dpd #dependent personality disorder #actually dependent #xenogender #neogender #mogai #liom #mogai post #mogai friendly #mogai tumblr #mogai gender #mogai flag #mogai coining #mogai safe #actually liom #liom blog #liom term #liom safe #liom coining #liom gender #liomogai #my flags #my genders #my labels #my terms

[dpdcultureis]

autistic DPD culture is never feeling like an equal around other adults, always feeling like a little kid who needs to be told what to do

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#dpd culture is #dependent personality disorder #actually dependent #dpd + autism #aegleseeker #mod cloud!

[dreamdropsystem]

i want someone to care for me..

#my text #bpd #yandere bpd #bpd yandere #actually bpd #actually boderline #actually dependent #dpd #pink #heart #red #gif #glitter text #vent #vent text #vent post

[comorbidpersonalitydisorders]

i’m making a playlist for people that have dependent personality disorder! i’m taking song requests to add to it

edit: asks/reblogs/replies/dms are accepted forms to request songs!

#actually dependent #dependent pd #dependent personality disorder #dpd #actually dpd #dpd culture is #spotify playlist

[d-vewing]

♡ DPD intersex ♡

[pt: dpd intersex] [id in alt text]

A flag for intersex people with dependent personality disorder! Flag colours were taken from @beyond-mogai-pride-flags dpd flag.

Any intersex person can use this so long as they also have DPD

Dividers by essthereal

#♡ ꒰ coining ꒱⁠ ˖ #intersex flag #intersex #themed flags #themed flag #dpd #actually dependent #liom #liom community #liom pride #mogai community #mogai pride #liom coiner #liom coining #mogai coiner #mogai flag #mogai safe

[crittercasanovaxxx]

When your partner loves you and also understands harm reduction. They always makes sure I have multiple cleaned and sterilized blades on hand <3

#tw s3lf harm #tw self destructive behavior #tw depressing thoughts #actually dependent #dpd #tw sh related #actually mentally ill #s3lf mutilation #s3lfharmm #s3lf harn #jirai kei

[anti--transid]

{ ’ Reclaimed transDPD ’ }

[pt: { ’ Reclaimed transDPD ’ } /end pt]

A reclaimed identity for those with DPD who feel as if their DPD is heavily intertwined with/affects their transgenderness!

This term is supportive of RESEARCHED self diagnosis!

This term is anti-radqueer and anti-transid, fuck off.

[Pt: This term is anti-radqueer and anti-transid, fuck off. /end pt]

#🩰 ⁰⁵ flags/terms #FINALLY CAN USE THAT TAG #🩰 ⁰¹ talking #actually dependent #dpd #dependent personality disorder #cluster c #transdpd #transDPD #transgender #anti radqueer #anti trace #anti transabled #anti transage #anti transid #anti transx #anti transautistic #anti ship #former radqueer #next up is transAVPD

[alostlittleriverlotus]

I've been embracing my empathy gaps instead of trying to hide them and it's honestly so nice.

For instance, a big empathy gap for me is around the death of elderly people when it's natural/old age. My friend's grandma died and I'm just there like "Oh." I let my friend know I can't really understand since it is just a part of life, but I'm sorry for their loss. My friend rants a bit to me and I just sit there feeling kind of awkward, but trying my best.

My mom always made me feel so awful for being that way around death that isn't animals or isn't some "dying young or through tragedy thing." To me, death from old age is just something that happens, whatever it may be that actually took them. And especially with older people I don't know, it's like I cannot empathize there at all. They lived a good life, my friend got to talk with her grandma a bit ago.

I was the same way when my grandparents died when I was younger and I always felt so awful for not reacting the "right way" and being confused why my mother was sad over her parents dying.

But I'm allowing myself to experience these instead of shaming myself for them and honestly, having my friend support me is so nice. I just explained why I didn't really care or couldn't find a way to empathize and they understood. All they needed was to talk through their thoughts a bit and me listening.

It's really nice to be able to express this and open up and let myself be the way I am without being shamed or seen as some monster as I've experienced most of my life. I'm hyperempathetic most of the time, but I have gaps cause of autism and trauma as well. And it's genuinely so nice to be able to just let myself be who I am. I love my empathy, but it's also very exhausting emotionally so also allowing myself to not be as empathetic with things is refreshing because then I'm not as anxious or desperate to please or feeling things as intensely outside of my own emotional bubble. In fact my hyperempathy only added to the traumatic event that happened at 16/17 because of how I was. So that's another reason why I have empathy gaps.

Either way, empathy doesn't mean shit in the end. It can help in relationships and understanding, but can also be bad if there's too much of it. Nothing wrong with low/no empathy, nothing wrong with fluctuating empathy. It doesn't dictate shit and there's lots of people who have had it used against em (like me :p) so wherever you fall with empathy, what matters most are your actions, not some arbitrary thing that some people experience and some people don't. Humans are multifaceted and complex, we are different and we all have different strengths and weaknesses, different traits, especially with how trauma and disorders and neurodivergency can affect that.

#empathy #hyperempathy #fluctuating empathy #low empathy #no empathy #personality disorders positivity #trauma #empathy gaps #empathy doesn't mean shit #neurodivergence #neurodivergent #actually autistic #actually borderline #actually histrionic #actually narcissistic #actually avoidant #actually dependent #actually schizoid #actually paranoid #rant #rambles #autistic rant #empathy rant #rambling #my thoughts

[8ntisocial-freak]

the bpd need for isolation the moment u see any signs of abandonment vs dpd absolute horror of being alone and shutting down the moment u think they will leave

#bpd #dpd #actually bpd #actually dpd #dependent personality disorder #borderline personality disorder #dependent pd #borderline pd #actually dependent #actually borderline #personality disorder #mental health #mental illness

[borderline-culture-is]

aroace bpd+dpd culture is breaking up with your so/fp after realizing youre aroace then blaming yourself for them leaving you because you thought the only way you could make them stay was by being in a relationship with them and that means you failed at making them stay which now means you’re an heartless unloveable monster who doesn’t deserve anyone to actually care about you.

-⚜️🍺

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#bpd + aroace + dpd culture is #bpd + aroace + dpd culture #borderline culture is #actually borderline #borderline personality disorder #bpd culture is #actually bpd #bpd culture #bpd safe #bpd fp #fp #bpd #fp bpd #aroace #aromantic #asexual #ace #dpd #actually dependent #dependent personality disorder #- ⚜️🍺

[thevoid-isthe-onlyone-ican-trust]

Is it that difficult to see that I do nothing but waiting for you? Is it that difficult to tell me that you can't talk with me today after I waited to whole day to finally talk to you? Is it that difficult to love me?

#mentally unstable #obsessive love #yanderecore #yandere #obsession #tw yandere #yancore #girlblogger #actually mentally ill #girlblogging #yandere coping #yandere thoughts #yandere blog #yanblr #obsessive yandere #actually obsessive #obsessive thoughts #actually dependent #vent post #vent #tw vent #bpd vent

[sistrly]

🔗 、 DPD LESBiAN ── A flag exclusive to lesbians with dependent personality disorder ｡

#♡ 、 wish ｡ #dpd lesbian #dpd #dependent personality disorder #actually dependent #lesbian #lesbian flag #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #pride #mogai #mogai blog #mogai friendly #mogai flag #mogai safe

[dpdcultureis]

DPD culture is changing beliefs and emotions on a whim depending on what your dp wants. Oh me being sad is inconvenient? I'm fine now! Oh you don't wanna deal with this episode? No more! You want me to like this thing? I love it!!

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#dpd culture is #dependent personality disorder #actually dependent #mod cloud!

[yourinsanepoet]

Sleep, daydreaming, and delusions are not working, how do I deal with this emptiness and how do I deal with reality??

#bpd mood #bpd rage #actually madd #being borderline #actuallybpd #delusional #sorry for being depressing #actually dependent #borderline thoughts #reality sucks #emptiness #i wanna scream

[dreamdropsystem]

having BPD n DPD is rough..

#my artwork #bpd #dpd #vent #vent art #trauma #trauma art #love #bpd art #dpd art #vent artwork #trauma artwork #actually traumatized #actually borderline #actually bpd #actually dependent #actually dpd #bpd vent #dpd vent #borderline #borderline feels #being borderline #borderline life #borderline personality disorder #dependant personality disorder #dependant

[d-vewing]

🦴 — DPD4DPD

[Pt: bone emoji — dpd4dpd] [no spoons for id]

DPD4DPD is an _4_/_loving_ sublabel for beings with dependent personality disorder (DPD) who prefer to/exclusively date other beings with DPD! self indulgent

Tagging @dpdarchive !

#🫀 — dont hang up | coining #dpd4dpd #actually dependent #cluster c #liom #liom community #liom pride #mogai community #mogai pride #liom coiner #liom coining #mogai coiner #mogai flag #mogai safe