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atlasundertheworld · 2 days

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"I only support the narcissists who go to therapy and take accountability for their actions and try not to hurt other people, others deserve no empathy and should be eradicated"

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#nothing wrong with wanting mentally ill people to heal and get better #but this sentence kinda implies that we need to heal do we wouldn't be an inconvenience to neurotypicals #rather than us... you know - getting better #npd #actually npd #npd safe #actually narcissistic

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 2 days

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NPD culture is having better music taste than everyone

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#npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b

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autopsyfreak · 2 days

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seeing NPD + ASPD positivity posts on any other platform being met with literal thousands of people flooding the comments to try and justify their ableism and discriminatory behaviour towards us is so fucking gut wrenching

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flashy-mf · 1 day

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When are therapists gonna understand we can be self aware? Are they really gonna die on the hill that states it’s impossible for a narcissist to know and accept what they are? I lack empathy, not basic cognitive skills. Even intellectually disabled people can know they’re intellectually disabled.

This awareness they think we’re incapable of is the type of awareness living beings have intrinsically. It’s fucking basic awareness of information and the ability to compare. This red strawberry looks just like the other red strawberry, so 4-year-old-you matches them together on your little tablet game.

Yes, I can comprehend why I would be labeled as a narcissist. I’m mentally capable of understanding how I fit the description, and I’m mentally and emotionally capable of accepting new information I learn about myself.

What I don’t understand is how the psychiatric industry can be messed up enough for a LICENSED PSYCHIATRIST to believe someone can lack an intrinsic skill that LITERALLY COMES WITH BEING CONSCIOUS like what the actual hell?!?!??!!?

#flashy ✨ vent #flashy ✨ thoughts #cluster b #actually cluster b #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b safe #npd safe #npd stigma #self awareness #ableism #psychiatry #psychiatric ableism #tw caps

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bathroomflooder · 1 day

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no you don't understand. yes, I think that I am the scum of the earth, and hate myself immensely, and think that I don't deserve love of any kind, but I also think that I am the most important person ever, and love myself because I am perfect, and I deserve everyone's attention and love and and and

#what am I even saying #actually npd #npd #actually narcissistic #npd safe #:3 #npd memes #npd traits

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nyanfever · 2 days

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npd makes me the most jealous fucking person on the planet. someone will draw something and instead of being like "oh that looks great!" i will get irrationally upset because i can't draw like that. or my friends will hang out with other people and i'll get angry and defensive because that means they don't like me anymore and i'm not good enough.

#cluster b #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd safe #★ mine

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deceiver-of-god · 2 days

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Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

#actually npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #narcissistic personality disorder #npd safe #actually cluster b #npd culture is #narcissistic #npd #npd positivity #narc posting #npder #npd traits #cluster b safe #cluster b pds #no empathy #low empathy

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itsallforgottennowtoo · 2 days

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I hate being villainized by people for having NPD and being called "aggressive" when im really being defensive because i feel collapsed. do egotypicals know the difference between aggression and defensiveness and that defensiveness is a symptom of NPD?

#npd #narcblr #actually narcissistic #npder #actually npd #narcposting #narcissistic personality disorder #npd vent #npd traits #cluster b vent #cluster b #cluster b safe #npd stigma #npd safe

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solitaryschizoid · 1 month

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neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist

#actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #npd safe #actually narcissistic #narc abuse isn't real #npd abuse isnt real #npd

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unbearable-swagger · 9 months

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I will be like "I'm fine" and then another fucking event will occur

#mecore #actually borderline #bpd #bpd mood #bpd meme #npd #npd mood #npd meme #actually narcissistic #npd safe #1k #5k #10k #15k #20k #25k #30k #40k #50k #60k #70k

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 1 day

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npd/bpd culture is Constantlyyyy devalueing + valueing people again bc of mood swings

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#npd culture is #npd + bpd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #bpd #borderline personality disorder

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evilsystemm · 7 days

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uhh???

#npd #cluster b #npd safe #actually narcissistic #actually npd #npd culture is #npd traits #npd positivity #npd posting

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doomsdayradio · 1 year

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HELP THE TIKTOK ABLEISTS ARE SAYING NARCS EYES CAN STRAIGHT UP GO BLACK⁉️⁉️⁉️

bro they think we're mythical fucking demons im done😭😭😭

#npd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually npd #actually narcissistic #ableism tw #words words words !!#🧋❓

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nyanfever · 21 hours

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the urge to put yourself out there for attention and the urge to isolate yourself also for attention.

#cluster b #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd safe #★ mine

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sin-esthezia · 7 months

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the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

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thecatspasta · 1 month

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Inspired by @arrgh-whatever's post on helping ppl with BPD

Edit bc I forgot to add this: Being vulnerable means smth different for different ppl, something that could read as being vulnerable to you can read as just another Tuesday for someone else

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[ID: a simply-drawn comic, narrated by a person coloured-in in pink.

Panel 1: The pink person narrates: "So there's a lot of "signs your ex is a narcissist and how to deal with them" and it's not very accurate. So here's how to actually "deal" with a narcissist from someone with narcissistic personality disorder."

Panel 2: This panel has the heading: "1. Supply." The pink person narrates: "People with NPD have very fragile self-esteem, and supply is what keeps us from having a mental breakdown. Supply can be many things, but often attention and praise are effective. Stuff like "Wow! That's super cool!!" can go a long way." A person is shown saying this to another person, who smiles.

Panel 3: This panel has the heading: "2. Criticism." The pink person narrates: "Oh boy. So narcissists take things as personal very easily. It's because if anyone contradicts our delusions that we have built our entire self-image on, it feels like you are attacking us as a person." There is an example shown, where one person says "hey, you were a bit too rude back there," but the other person hears "You're an awful dick no-one likes." The alternative manner of phrasing is suggested as "Hey, you were a bit too rude. You're cool, but some people took it poorly." The second person in this example thinks "I'm still a cool person. It's not my fault, but I can do things to be better." The narrator continues, "We don't really understand the concept of a harmless mistake."

Panel 4: This panel has the heading: "3. Boundaries." The pink person narrates: "With narcissists, setting down strict boundaries is very important. 1. Knowing we have hurt you because you didn't set down boundaries can really upset and annoy us because the delusions that we can do no wrong and know you best get broken. 2. If you let us break boundaries, it can lead us to see you as "weak" and devalue you. Communication is key."

Panel 5: This panel has the heading: "4. Anger." The pink person narrates: "So people with NPD tend to be prone to anger. This is a defense mechanism, because to us, it's either facing the inaccuracies of our delusions and having a mental breakdown, or blaming something else. We do not mean to lash out; we just don't have the skills to cope properly. You can help by: 1. Letting us express out emotions without judgement; 2. giving us praise or attention; and 3. Distracting us from what angered us." Each example of how to help is accompanied by a small cartoon.

Panel 6: This panel has the heading: "5. Other NPD things!" The pink person narrates: "'Love bomb, devalue, discard' is actually: we are genuinely obsessed with you and want you to recognize us as cool, we lose that obsession and move on, we feel threatened in some way and lash out. We can't really handle being seen as vulnerable. We take sympathy and empathy as pity and pity as you telling us we're weak. Not acknowledging we're being vulnerable and acting as if nothing is wrong can be helpful in these situations. People with NPD have a very warped view of reality. We do not mean to hurt you and often do not realise we have. Remember, this won't work for everyone, and talking is very important."

/end ID]

Ty to @aromanticsky for the id

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