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star01007 · 4 months
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heywriters · 4 months
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do any of you use an alternative to itunes that you would recommend? i have an old ipod i still use, but am loathe to download itunes onto my new PC
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lunamoth14 · 25 days
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I have a wap so every time I wear leggings there’s a little wet spot on my seat when I stand up at school. The Slime is disgusting and idk what to do. I already wear a liner when I wear leggings and I shower every day so idk what I’m doing wrong. Please help me what can I do? I’m sorry for assaulting your eyes with this one but I’m desperate.
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asraetie · 1 year
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Very seriously considering doing the Cruella hair again. Or just getting some jolly ranchers. Idk.
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rivatar · 9 days
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Not to be TMI guys but is anyone else prone to UTIs on here???? 😭😭😭 this is the 2nd one I’ve gotten THIS YEAR and YES me and my partner are clean, i pee after, i hydrate- WHAT AM I DOING WRONGGGGG??? ANYONE HAVE ADVICE? 😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼 id greatly appreciate it
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hashrea · 7 months
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hey wheelchair people!
I'm looking for my first wheelchair right now as my joint pain has started to get unmanageable with just my crutches. for context, I'm F19, UK, about 165cm, and about 60kgs. Diagnosis of joint hypermobility and fibromyalgia, was briefly diagnosed with hEDS until a consultant removed that dx because he didn't believe it existed, currently waiting for reassessment.
I've been using a rental chair for the past few days and it's been a gamechanger so I'm looking at getting my own (ASAP as I move away for uni over the next couple of weeks) to help me do things like shopping independently and getting around on flareup days.
Over the past few days, I've compiled a list of non negotiable features that I'd like said chair to have:
- self propelling, comfortably
- lightweight and folding, enough so it fits in my partner's car
- removable wheels for same reason
- adjustable handles (partner is 6'4" and has to hunch to help push me right now lol)
The kicker is that as I've just left my job, I'm looking for something as budget friendly as possible, ideally around £500 or less, or less than £1k at a stretch. 100% willing to buy second hand, clearance, or refurbished chairs, or anything discounted with reparable damages.
any suggestions? thanks in advance :)
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tinadablackthorn · 6 months
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new school problems
i moved schools this year and i’m currently hanging out with this friend group but all they do in breaks is gossip abt their exes (how ugly they are, how their mom doesn’t love them, etc.) and it’s really annoying for me (i feel uncomfortable n stuff, won’t go into details) but i haven’t said anything yet.
but in lessons they’re nice to hang out with (they can’t talk about stuff like that during lessons) and their jokes are funny. they’re also rlly smart, also they help me keep up with the my studies if there’s anything i don’t understand.
i just don’t know what to do
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jorvikzelda · 10 months
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chair1390 · 11 days
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I need advice from whoever wants to give it
ok so one of the people i am friends with and i use that term very, very loosely (some background info i am a furry and i am pansexual, dont worry its important to the rest of the story) so i was talking to said 'friend' and he said "all people that are furries or that are in the LGBTQ+ community belong in a loony bin and should get electroshock therapy to fix their disgusting minds" and im pretty sure he knows i am a furry because al least three people have told him but he said it straight to my face. so what should i do?
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theirwolfbicanthrope · 6 months
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to any of my followers who might have rented cabins in recent years - did you use a specific site or service/company for that? hubs and I are thinking of taking a couple of days in Oct/Nov to rent a nice isolated cabin and just kind of, take a break from everything - sm, work, family, etc. - because we are both very, very burnt out and overwhelmed and have like, zero privacy and alone time or time to shut down completely due to our living circumstances. would love any advice/suggestions. airbnb/verbo or whatever make me nervous but if you have had positive experiences let me know? pls and thnx <3
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lexicat36 · 5 months
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Anyone know where to buy a computer and what computer to buy, I know literally nothing about them and have never owned one.
I can NOT find any good advice on getting one for the first time, everything people talk about is super advanced stuff that I can't understand for the life of me.
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thewitchfarhan · 2 months
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Advice Please?
I’ve been sick recently, and going through what I can only describe as a combination of a Crisis of Faith and a Revelation?
I’m coming more and more to the conclusion that I want to do away with Kaênaastha and fully dedicate myself to being a Hellenic Witch.
I was recently reviewing my family tree and found that one of my great grandmothers was born in Italy. I knew that we had Italian heritage in my family but I didn’t realize it was so close - I thought it was many more generations removed.
That side of my family (my mother’s side) has always been Catholic - but I feel a strong call to revive our ancestral traditions of Hellenic/Roman Polytheism.
With this I also feel like I want to change my pagan name and maybe start a whole new blog to get a fresh start?
Any thoughts, ideas, or advice would be really welcome rn 🙏🏻
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creatinghelen · 2 years
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anyone have advice for when you’re starting a new hobby and you keep forgetting it’s meant to be fun because you’re putting a tonne of pressure on yourself to be good at it straight away?
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elden-bling · 11 months
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RPG Horror Story
I need to get this off my chest. Normally I would post this on reddit but one of the people I play with follows me on reddit and I am pretty sure none of them are on Tumblr.
I play in a dnd campaign that from the start was told was going to be dark, it involves things like smuggling, assassination, gaslighting.
I predicted that everyone would make dark, broody and edgy characters. So I made sure to make a tiefling bard who is a ray of sunshine, which probably made her the target of a lot of the dark stuff that happens.
Session 1 passed by without much trouble, but when we got to session 2, that’s where things started to go wrong. I’ll have to introduce the cast to make this more understandable. We have:
DM
Bard
Wizard
Rogue
Warlock
Paladin
Me
Bard and I were told to get someone to open a certain door. I wanted to get them but Bard decided he would open the door himself. This led to plans being slightly delayed and things going wrong. After a fight, the person who we were supposed to get was livid. At this point Bard had to leave, so I was forced to take all the blame for what happened. I tried to help an old man who turned out to be a powerful wizard. Now my character has a grandfather who is also a powerful wizard, so this really tugged on her heartstrings. In the end, trying to help the wizard caused a major fuck up later down the line.
Next session, I had to blackmail someone into paying a debt for someone, once again with Bard. Now, my character hates all the things she has to do, but she wants to better this organization so she wanted to convince the person instead of actually blackmailing them. Let me tell you what Bard did to help.
Nothing.
He only came in to ask who a certain person was and because I didn’t know exactly what the relationship between those two people are, I simply said they must have had history together because well… they know each other. In response I was called a pig because apparently the person who is in debt was their son. How was I supposed to know that?
Meanwhile, everyone keeps telling that I have a bleeding heart. Even my characters fiancé calls her scuffed.
Tensions are high between me and Paladin. We have a conversation where we agree that we can call each other out on our bullshit. I admitted that my character made mistakes, but she thought what she did was right in the moment. Paladin says he isn’t worried about mistakes, but he is worried about her killing herself because of it. One thing he said, that if he needed to shut up, she should tell him to. This will come back later.
A couple sessions go by without anything really happening. But eventually we have to find the wizard again. After he was let go he had a shackle attached to his wrist so it would block magic. Now our Rogue who is built for insight and investigation… does not insight check this man at all. She has been insight checking every little thing, but not this man.
We tried to lead the old man into a false sense of security and then the Paladin just STABS him. We are level 4. We have to now fight against a wizard with level 5 spells. Now, he is at least a level 9 wizard, but knowing how my DM plays powerful characters, he would most likely be more akin to level 13 to 17.
Our Wizard, Rogue and Bard hide the entire fight, leaving the fight mostly up to me, the Warlock and Paladin. Still after my character risking their life, the man who yelled at her before claims that SHE is the reason all this happened.
During more sessions our gang loses access to the black market. So I thought: “Hey if I can get access back to the black market, maybe the party will realize that I can do stuff”. During downtime, I also tried to get a talk with a leader from a rival gang to hopefully help my group.
Now, to help the DM, I make character portraits for the npcs. I was told that the leader of a rival gang wouldn’t show up this session. So I thought that I would have time to discuss things on what to do with the party, what to say to the leader to not fuck it up once again.
That session… I was called to that leader. I didn’t get time to prepare, I was put on the spot. I was forced to take a deal where no matter what, we would be in debt to them. I chose the lesser of two evils.
The party proceeded to flip their shit. Paladin was yelling, Warlock was yelling in his own way which is by grumbling, even Rogue who barely raises their voice was yelling. I never got the chance to explain myself. I tried to get them to stop yelling but they just wouldn’t budge.
Now, out of character, I had a talk with Paladin that yelling at me is something I do not appreciate because when I was young my parents would yell when they were angry and not let me give a chance to explain myself. He said he understood and that he wouldn’t yell at me.
About two weeks before the session I described earlier, I got contacted by the DM and Paladin. Paladin wasn’t having a good time playing his character because he felt like he had to walk on eggshells around me and asked if I would mind if he played his character how he wanted to. I said I didn’t mind, thinking that he wouldn’t yell at me because of what we discussed. Obviously I was wrong.
Now as Rogue, Warlock and Paladin are yelling at me, the DM is laughing his ass off. Paladin also starts laughing and he and DM start to say how DM read up on criminal psychology and how manipulators get people to do what they want.
At this point, I was on the verge of tears, but managed not to cry. Paladin, in character, walked out of the room to which our leader asked him what happened. Paladin responded with:
“Character’s name happened.”
We then got into a combat situation and had stop in the middle of that.
After the session, I asked Paladin if he would have yelled at Warlock and Rogue if the same manipulative situation had happened to them. He said yes, to which I responded that I find that very hard to believe. Paladin proceeds to tell me that he is sorry if I am taking this personally.
My character has been the punching bag this entire campaign, at what point is it still fun story telling? Is it my fault for wanting to play a more positive character in a darker campaign?
The DM said that a lot of the plot progression has happened because of my character, but it doesn’t feel like I am doing something right when I just get yelled at by both npcs and the party.
It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want to play the other dnd campaign I am in, even though that party is very positive about my character and are actively encouraging him to get into shenanigans.
My only choice seems to be to either keep playing my bard and be miserable, start playing a different character or just leave all together. I don’t want to leave these people since I genuinely enjoy their company but I can’t be the punching bag of this campaign anymore.
I honestly just have no idea where I went wrong with my character as I have actively been trying to prove that she can do things only to have the DM pull the rug out from under their feet to make them mess up again.
Should I just talk with them again? I honestly doubt they will listen since nothing has changed from our previous talks.
I suppose I can always play a character who is just as big of an asshole as the other party members are, although I’m not sure that will solve anything.
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v3ggyqu33n · 11 months
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This is my first tumblr post, so pls don't bully me. Or do. This is the internet, I can't tell you what to do.
So basically I've written a fanfic a while ago but it didn't go well and I never finished it, but I had an amazing idea that's probably being done before but I love the trope and I'm hoping someone sees this and either takes inspo or gives some kind of feedback lol.
Its pretty much y/n slander and making an OC that is the complete opposite to the unrealistic traits of the short, blonde, half-werewolf, half-vampire, half-mermaid, half-mutant who has Wanda's powers but stronger and is also princess of the faeries and Goddess of the forest. I really want to flip her on her head and make a fic where she is absolutely despised, and an OC is trying to exist around her and is just sick of her bullshit. Add in a popular character like Harry Styles or Loki or Edward, (who also hate y/n and are now her ex) and I've never been more excited to write.
Anyway I wrote down some random dot points in the middle of the night, and now I get to bless the void with them. Enjoy! Or don't :)
- genderfluid masc OC character
- fem character with initials Y.N.
- Y.N. is stereotypical Y/N self-insert character with all of her strange qualities commonly found in the chatacter
- stereotype male fanfic character who is commonly found in y/n first person pov fics
- Y.N. is comically overpowered yet cringe attention seeker who thinks the world is out to get her yet also thinks everyone loves her
- masc OC is the opposite of Y.N.
- OC is realistic and logical
- OC has a decent home life and TWO LIVING PARENTS (with a sensible amount of complexity found in an average family)
- all characters hate Y.N. but she is oblivious and thinks she is better than everyone else
- Male character Is Y.N.'s ex and hated the relationship
- he bonds with OC over talking shit about her
- their friendship isn't forced into a relationship and instead they stay friends and OC doesn't coerce the other character into showing vulnerability like Y.N. did
- maybe smut or friends with benefits, but no full on relationship
- they do like to read together tho 💛
Yeah so that's what I've got so far, ta-da!
Oh and if there are some good fics like this already, please please bless me with a link, I love nothing more than a sarcastic petty fic. Or keep your secret fanfic jems, it's not like I can do anything about it.
And go drink some water, bitch.
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hashrea · 1 year
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so day 1 of being a crutch haver. what the fuck
So. so so. so. I got given the boys
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these bad boys
and suddenly everyone knows I'm disabled and it's like this big huge thing and everyone is treating me like I'm a completely different person to who I was yesterday and I HATE IT. like it's lovely that they're finally acknowledging that I'm disabled but they're treating me like I'm incapable :((
in more positive news. I had enough energy and stability to take a whole shower standing up at the end of today which is something I haven't been able to do in a while :)) I can't wait to go out and enjoy the world again JUST NOT AT WORK HOLY SHIT IT SUCKS SO BAD RN.
(I really don't wanna go back tomorrow :(( any advice?)
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