#age gaps positivity

[black-salt-cage]

Sebastian Michaelis x Ciel Phantomhive (Sebaciel / Black Butler) moodboard with black, red, and gothic wedding themes

ଘ(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* ੈ♡‧₊˚ for @technomanticsystem!

#💙 sugar life posting 🌙 #requests #moodboard #moodboards #aesthetic #Sebaciel #Black Butler #Sebastian Michaelis x Ciel Phantomhive #Ciel Phantomhive #Sebastian Michealis #proship #proship safe #proship positive #age gap ship #adult x minor ship #problematic ships #ship #ships #shipping

[self-shipping-doll13]

Questions for selfshippers

What's one romantic trope you dislike and never plan on inserting into your selfship? And what's one romantic trope you like and almost always insert into your ships?

Stolen from an anti, proshipper safe!

#for me it’s babies ever after/getting pregnant 🙃 #because #no #but it seems like pining/touch starved things pop up a lot #on both/either sides #also age gap but that’s more bc of my taste in men than anything else haha #f/o #proship f/o #proship #proshippers please interact #proship safe #proshipping #proship positivity #proship selfship #proshipper safe #pro ship #pro shipping

[forestgreenlesbian]

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#feel like my relationship with my younger brother is changed completely forever not to be dramatic lol but i am sad #we used to b very close but he has kind of. found his faith again and gone full missionary christian which like. i knew meant the dynamic #was doomed lmao but actually acknowledging it makes me sad i feel like i'm grieving for the friendship we used to have even though #it is literally a me problem i think from his perspective he doesn't think anything has changed. but i feel weird about everything #also his new gf is nineteen and he is. almost 25 and i am the only one who feels weird about it like i know she's over 18 but! idk i can't #tell if i'm being overly cautious or if my gut instinct is right. my sister & her husband have a similar age gap but they met when they wer #both over 30 so like. it didn't feel weird. and i didn't feel comfortable actually seriously talking to him about it apart from the first #time he mentioned her over facetime (he went to another country to do mission stuff & met her there) so like an idiot i've just been #making jokes about the age gap becausee like. thats always been our thing lightly bullying each other lol but he blew up at me and said #i've had nothing positive to say about her since he's been back home and that he thinks i hate her and i'm out of line for constantly #implying he's creepy for dating someone younger. idk i felt like such a freak idiot horrible person about it. it completely blindsided me #bc yes the jokes were coming from a place of idk how i feel about this situation so i'm going to rely on the humour-based communication #we have always fallen back on as a safety thing but i guess i was wrong or the dynamic shifted or something anyway it's all fucked #& everyone is just telling me i feel weird out of some?? misplaced kind of jealousy thing?? because i'm 'losing' my brother to his gf lol #which does not feel right at all he has dated so many other girls and i have never had a problem it is literally the age gap like i haven't #even met this girl i'm sure she's very nice! i just worry about her being nineteen!! jesus. and yes maybe i do feel some resentment around #a brother younger than me who seems to be able to live his life with zero difficulty whilst i'm stuck being this unemployed loser who ruins #literally ever friendship & relationship ive ever had but i think thats ok right like i can't help feeling that. i don't fucking knowwww #am i just projecting all these sad feelings about our friendship dying onto his new relationship or like. am i right to be genuinely #concerned she's six years younger than him and still a fucking teenager!!!!!! i don't know

[yeru211]

WIP! kissuuuuu~~ 😚

#genshin impact #diona genshin impact #genshin diona #genshin kirara #kirara genshin impact #kirara #diona #kirara x diona #diona x kirara #kiraona #kiona #genshin proship #pro fiction #profic #proship #proshipping #proshippers please interact #proship positivity #profiction #proshipper safe #age gap ship #neko #neko girl #nekomimi #cat girl #comshippers are valid #comshipper safe #comshippers please interact #comshipper #comship

[wazzuppy]

i adore cardcaptor sakura and i always will, but i still find some of the decisions in it so bizarre.

like okay, tomoyo has a crush on sakura, cool, but why are they also second cousins? like i'm pretty sure neither of even KNOW and it doesnt have any plot significance, so why are they second cousins?? i know some people don't consider that distant of being related to really matter, but like,,,, clamp didn't HAVE to write it that way. so why did they???

#tara says stuff #cardcaptor sakura #ccs #clamp #sakura kinomoto #tomoyo daidouji #i tend to be kind of lenient on clamp bc its made up of all women #and i think these types of Things (for lack of a better word) manifest differently in women than they do w men #and i feel that way w clamp especially since-- as far as i know-- anything like uncomfy age gaps that are seen as fine in the narrative #always have the female character as what we'd consider the victim of the situation #for example sakura's mom and dad being a younger woman and older man #or sakura's girl classmate and the teacher #obviously that doesnt mean these things are good. like at all #but i dont think they mean anything intentionally malicious by it #i would feel much differently if the genders or roles were switched #but as it is i dont feel like saying clamp is immoral or something is exactly the most well thought out position to have

[xmoonlitxdreamx]

Why i am blocked oh my god i feel terrible 😭😭😭

Hi! I often block people if they post content I'm particularly not interested in or content that makes me uncomfortable (usually the latter). I block semi-liberally, so please try not to take it personally; I'm just trying to curate my experience on the internet to fit my personal comfort. We don't know each other so I'm not trying to say anything about you as a person by blocking you.

Not to get on my soap box about blocking, but I really encourage you and others to not take blocking personally. I've gotten blocked by artists whose works I like, and it's definitely shocking at first, and very tempting to get defensive or hurt by it. But for me it helps to keep in mind that the person blocking me has their own experience on the internet that they want to have and curate and it may be the case that the things I post happen not to be part of it; and likewise, I'm not obligated a right to view anyone's works if they don't want me to for whatever reason.

(Also please know that people are not obligated to give a reason for why they block, it's really not your business. Many people find it invasive and disrespectful of boundaries to message someone after they've blocked you. Just keep this in mind that other people will likely not react kindly to receiving a message from someone they blocked)

#replies #delete later #probably #like ive gotten blocked by a fairly popular kbdn fixed position artist before and my first instinct was to be hurt and wonder why #like is it bc i drew dnkb or reversible raileon? or bc i draw kibkab? or bc i draw adult age gap pairs? and eventually i was just like yknow #it doesnt matter what the reason is; that person just felt like blocking me and its fine. theyre allowed to do that #idk its kinda easy to forget sometimes that while ppl often tout that you should block ppl to curate ur internet experience #it means sometimes you'll get blocked too. and that's fine! it's just a website feature #anyway yeah prob delete later bc this is too wordy

[proficmika]

A scarahida mood board for my first real post! I personally love this ship sm. I think it should get more love

#proship #proshipping #proship positivity #comship #proshipper #proship safe #age gap? #not really #power dynamics #genshin impact proship #proship love zone #profic #proshippers please interact #scarahida #pro fiction

[familymeansnoonegetsleftbehind]

I haven’t been shipping much lately and I’ve decided that I’m done with that and that I should go back to drawing so here’s a little pompous pep that I’m very proud of!

#Stan pompous pep forever honestly #pompous pep #danny x vlad #proship #proshipping #problematic shipping #proshipper #pro shipping #proship safespace #<3 #ship and let ship #positivity #my art #traditional art #art #drawing #ship art #cw age gap

[pherre]

people always talked about magnus and lucretia but i haven't seen too many people talk about merle and lucretia even though clint constantly goes out of his way to hang out with her and ask what she's doing and generally bring attention to her

#the development of their relationship is fascinating 2 me because he used to be much older than her but also not in a position of authority #like davenport was #and then their age gap suddenly shrinked and now she's his boss and yet he /still/ insists on treating her as a friend #maybe she even feels younger when shes around him. she deserves to have an older figure in her life that she hasnt traumatized to hell #balance lb

[black-salt-cage]

Omega!Sebastian x Alpha!Ciel (Sebaciel / Black Butler) stimboard with animals and tea, food, and cooking stims ☽ - ✰ - ☾  ☽ - ✰ - ☾  ☽ - ✰ - ☾

ଘ(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* ੈ♡‧₊˚ for anon!

#💙 sugar life posting 🌙 #requests #Black Butler #Sebastian Michaelis #shipping #ships #proship #proship safe #proship positive #stimboard #Ciel Phantomhive #Sebaciel #Sebastian Michaelis x Ciel Phantomhive #age gap ship #omegaverse #animals #cats #felines #kitties #snakes #reptiles #plants #flowers #roses #tea #drinks #food #cooking #lovecore #hearts

[doesyourshipmakeyouabadperson]

(Saying this for a friend as a surprise teehee)

Even if it's between a father and son who's relation was revealed in the last comic?

No.

Your friend's ship is valid. ❤️

#pro ship safe #anti anti safe #anti antis please interact #pro shippers please interact #safe for anti antis #pro ship #anti anti #pro ship positivity #ship positivity #lovely anons ❤ #tw shipcest #tw age gap

[sapphire-weapon]

leans in really close to the mic

new hot take headcanon just dropped as a flash of brilliance while writing this fic

Ashley is more sexually experienced than Remake Leon is by the time they first meet, pass it on.

#remake leon can probably count on his hands how many times he's actually had sex by the time of RE4make #whereas if you think of ashley as ever having a boyfriend for any period of time during her college years #chances are #she's banged a lot more than leon has #then factor in that she's also a sorority girl #there's no way she wasn't fucking around when not in a relationship #and in much more compromising positions/circumstances #and like this is another part of the reason why the age gap discourse is so fucking stupid #leon might be 27 in RE4make but he still has the maturity of a 21 year old due to trauma #and because of their individual circumstances surrounding their lives #it's actually not crazy to think that ashley has more practical experience than he does when it comes to certain Adult things #it doesn't matter that she's chronologically 7 years younger than him she's more of a normal fucking human #and has more normal fucking human life experience than he does

[danielnelsen]

current thing: trying to map out the last court (as someone who never played it)

#no need to point out issues; it's not complete. this was just 'go through every card and put it in a rough position' #idk how much further ill go with this or anything. just want a better idea of what happens because it's a complete lore gap for me #dragon age #da #dragon age the last court #datlc #da:tlc #the last court #personal #next step is probably just colour-coding different types of cards because this is so hard to read lmao

[yeru211]

💋💋💋💋 CHU!

#genshin impact #genshin proship #diona genshin impact #genshin diona #diona #kirara genshin impact #genshin kirara #kirara #diona x kirara #kirara x diona #kiraona #pro fiction #profic #proship #proshipping #proshippers please interact #proship positivity #profiction #proshipper safe #age gap ship #comshippers are valid #comshipper safe #comshippers please interact #comshipper #comship #pro ship #genshin fanart #fanart #rare ship #rarepair

[hella1975]

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#be deadly fucking serious rn PLEASE whatttt. that post that's like 'parents will say something that shapes you as a person #but for them it was just another tuesday' like WHAT JUST HAPPENED #basically if you've been following me since i went to uni then you know first year was an... interesting time for me and my mum #we rowed all the time and it's the most unsettled our relationship has ever been and i do truly believe it was just some unfortunate #external factors like me leaving home would rock the boat enough it was always gonna rejig our dynamic #but on top of that i was her LAST child to fly the nest which she hated AND my sister was in germany being insanely dependent on my mum #so i got sidelined a lot which was shitty at the time but i get it now like im still a bit bitter bc being the eldest everything my sister #does is an exciting first and our age gap means typically our academic big moments tend to cross over #so my a-levels happened during her first year of uni so for me a-levels were the biggest thing ever but ofc her thing was bigger #but when she did HER a-levels it was the biggest thing ever and i was /just/ doing gcses etc and germany was the same #like it was JUST my first year of uni bc meanwhile my sister was living alone in a foreign country. so that sucks and my mum was #defo focused on my sister and i wasn't in a position to be like 'hey i know it doesn't seem like it now you've got one kid through it #but going to university and settling in for the first year is still an insanely stressful and lonely time so please pay attention to me' #and all in all me and my mum just STRUGGLED we fought A LOT and not petty rows either they were really emotionally heavy all the time #and basically what's caused this post is that she said about america 'it'll be the longest ive been away from you' #and i know what she meant like a month out of england is the biggest thing ive ever done and im not even in EUROPE so this is huge #but i kinda said like 'im pretty sure i went a month in first year a couple times without visiting?' AND I MEANT IT CASUAL #BC I AM PRETTY SURE IT'S TRUE LIKE I WASNT EAGER TO GO HOME I WENT SOME WEEKS NOT EVEN RINGING #which REALLY shows how strained it must have been at the time. and she responds with confusion so i pointed out that first year #wasn't a great time for us and again still being casual bc it's such a fundamental truth for me that first year was Bad for me and mum #and she just blinks at me like 'what are you talking about' what. WHAT. like i knew she wasn't paying much attention to me then #but it made me MISERABLE for an entire YEAR like boom can testify bc they had to deal with my bs over the phone the entire time #and my mum just. didn't even notice that we weren't doing well. what. what the fuck even..... baffled by this actually #like i am REELING from this i feel like she just tipped the fundamentals of my world with that #hella goes home

[thesunlikehoney]

my most offensive and controversial star wars opinion is that every single clone/jedi ship is the exact same degree of Problematic

#“but ahsoka is a teenager!” if you can ignore the codywan age gap you can ignore the rexsoka age gap i promise #“but anakin is evil!!” if you can ignore the commanding officer aspect you can ignore the evil sith aspect i promise #like #if you can suspend your disbelief long enough to positively engage with a scenario where a jedi #any jedi #gets into a romantic/sexual relationship with someone they hold massive amounts of power over #literal power over life and death #then i think #i think you can also suspend disbelief in some other areas #or at least extend some courtesy to people who chose to do so #my ability to suspend my disbelief is directly proportional to the quality of art and fic i am presented with #and yeah if a fictional relationship makes you uncomfortable to engage with then avoid it #but also. “this would be good and healthy in real life” and “this is fun to explore in fiction” are not. the same. #accept that your favorite ship is a little fucked up #or do one better #embrace that your favorite ship is a little fucked up