#allistic bullshit

[crazycatsiren]

"You are not an 'autistic person' you are a 'person with autism'!"

I'm about to be the person who feeds you to a bear.

#actually autistic #allistic bullshit #autism community #autistic adult #allistics stfu challenge

[singloom]

I’m noticing a pattern in demanding autistic and disabled people “deal” with difficult and often triggering situations because we’re in a society, but not understanding or being willing to help us have a place in that society.

Noise cancelling headphones only go so far, y’all.

Every abled and allistic person’s solution to us explaining our lives in a hostile world is “wear noise cancelling headphones” or “don’t leave the house then.” They don’t include us in their society because they put all the burden on us and never lift a finger themselves.

#actually autistic #autism #autistic #disability #disabled #ableist bullshit #allistic bullshit

[june-egbert-official]

As an autistic person, it continuously frustrates and confuses me how much allistic bullshit just gets folded into expected culture.

When someone asks how you're doing, they don't care.

They just want to hear "I'm holding up" at the absolute WORST. Never actually how you are doing.

#actually autistic #actually bpd #allistic bullshit #allistic nonsense

[baku-usagi]

I am honestly so furious with being alive and the state of society.

I'm exhausted by being told that my blood sweat and tears poured into being a good person makes me wrong for demanding the same of others I'm tired or being told I'm wrong for not laying on the table for others to feast on me.

I Will not make myself less

I will not make myself stupid and idiotic to fit in with the dramatic childish incomprehensible actions of those around me. I am allowing myself to be right and others to be wrong.

I have paid my pound of flesh being wrong, just because the majority feels different then me doesn't make me wrong. The majority Is a lynch mob full of selfish and greedy people who are spineless and allow that lack of spine to drive their decisions, and I am expected to bow to being spineless because my confrontation and my willingness to healthy communication bothers people and I'm sick of it.

I respect boundaries, I don't respect those who fear being uncomfortable

With no discomfort there is no growth and I'm tired of feeling like the only well rounded person in a room full of children.

#Rage #Nikki vents #Baku bitches #neurodivergencies #Autism #angry #Neurotypicals #Allistic bullshit #Cowards #Spineless

[sanguinolencyandscriptitations]

Allistics are all behind autistic people until you do autistic things that autistic people do like rehearsing facial expressions and talking to yourself and speaking in the "wrong" tone and not wanting to be touched and saying the exact same words that someone just said to you back to them and liking your stuff a specific way and rewatching the same episode of the same show 10 times in a row to self soothe and blinking too fast and verbally stimming or stimming at all and not having the "correct" reaction to things. Then you're "weird" and "rude" and "a control freak." It's all, "It doesn't matter that you're autistic as long as you're autistic in a way that is identical to how allistic people behave. I don't care as long as I'm never reminded that it exists."

#actually autistic #autistic things #autistic adult #autistic experiences #personal #my thoughts #my opinion #mine.txt #mine #txt post #txt #autism #im autistic #and i have a headache #i need a nap and a hot drink and a forehead kiss if anyone cares #allistics #rant post #complaining #again #autistic rant #a little tirade to spice up your feed #ableism #ableist bullshit #fuck ableists #disabled

[jenjensd]

Some Neurotypicals are just awful people.

Really disrespectful and incredibly ignorant, ableist people.

My parents had bought tickets to Shrek the Musical. We were enjoying the first half and I’d taken a few pictures, but at the intermission, someone came over and told me to stop filming. I said I was only taking pictures but was told nothing was allowed. This wasn’t advertised anywhere or mentioned at any point, and I felt really bad about being told off, but I obviously put my phone down.

Then the show started up again. Unfortunately, being autistic, I really struggled when I didn’t have my phone in my hand. I tried searching by feel in my bag, and eventually found my stim toy. It has clicking and silent bits. I was starting to click a few times and that was when the trouble started.

“What’s that clicking noise” came can angry voice from next to my partner. A chav with a strong weed smell and an angry voice. I tried to show her my stim toy, and was about to apologise. Then she said “You should stop it!” Not a “please can you be a little more quiet?” Not a “would you mind being a little quieter”. Just “You should stop it!”

My mum told the woman “She’s autistic” and she stood her ground. “You should warn people!” My partner told her that I don’t owe anybody my diagnosis. I don’t have to tell people around me all the time that I’m autistic. She just said “Shut the fuck up.” And he didn’t want to disturb anyone else.

By this point I was crying heavily, but silently. I tried to stop myself as much as I could. My mum checked in, asked if I needed a minute, but since we were in the middle of a row and it would have disrupted a lot of people, I said I was fine. What I didn’t see was my mum was apparently glaring at this woman for several minutes.

The woman then loudly states “What the fuck are you staring at?” And tries to instigate a fight. She says that she will disrupt everyone around us and “ruin it for everyone”, and cause a scene, followed by “I paid for my ticket just like everyone else!” And because that is the thing I am terrified of happening, I try to get my mum to back down.

I’m sat there, blubbering quietly, trying to use hand gestures to get my mum to back down. I just want it all to stop. Eventually the woman calms down and goes back to clapping and laughing like everyone else. I wipe away tears through the rest of the show.

When the show finishes, she quickly gets on her coat and tries to move out as fast as she can. I don’t know if she thought my mum wild deck her, but I know my mum absolutely wanted to.

If she’d stuck around after, I would’ve told her how awful she was and that she shouldn’t speak to autistic people that way. But she ran like a coward. I hope she never has an autistic family member, because I am sure she would be even worse to them.

Some NTs are just terrible, selfish people who think they’re more important than anyone else.

#it didn’t help that I’m physically disabled #and couldn’t easily manoeuvre into the seats #even getting out at the end needed stairs #neurodivergent #autism #actually autistic #neurotypicals #disabled #allistics #some people just suck #ableism #ableist bullshit #disability

[mbrainspaz]

in sewer ants

People: Whatever you do, make sure you have insurance.

me: Okay.

*something bad happens to my insured thing*

me: hello My Insurance, can I have some of the money I gave you back to fix this problem.

insurance: Sure, here's all the money you need to fix it.

people: You fool! You're not supposed to USE insurance! Now your rates will go up.

me: But... I didn't cause any of the damage in any way? I don't think they can do that.

people: Doesn't matter—they'll get ya! At least don't tell us you spent the insurance money on fixing the thing you insured!

me: I thought I bought insurance so I could fix the thing if it was damaged.

people: But you could've kept the money, and had more money!

me: ... technically I would've had more money right now if I'd never bought insurance in the first place, and I'd still have had to spend a bunch of it to fix my thing.

#wtf #I don't understand these people #I'll never understand #went through the same bullshit 10 years ago and I'm just as confused now #it's all pointless #10 years ago they all yelled at me for NOT contacting my insurance and letting the guy who hit my car pay for the repairs #and he was a dick about it so yeah #not doing that again #WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME #smells like allistic bs

[sunsetcorvid]

#back on my tik tok bullshit #pokemon autism is growing #miles posts #miles' art #pokemon #pokemon swsh #allister pokemon #bea pokemon #tik tok #video

[navelgazed]

I hate allistics. "Autistic people are too literal with questions, try answering the question as it was asked" HEY WHAT DO YOU THINK LITERAL MEANS

#if i have to fucking solve a logic puzzle to figure out what youre asking then its a stupid question #just ask what you mean. can allistics PLEASE just drop the bullshit for five seconds and say what they mean

[area51-narutorun]

being autistic + working in any sort of customer service job = the worst fucking hell anyone on earth has ever experienced

#i’m not saying customer service isn’t hell for allistic people #just that there’s a special kind of awful that comes from having an auditory processing disorder + extremely low tolerance for bullshit #+ naturally ‘flat’ tone and expressions despite trying to be friendly+ getting overstimulated #and having to smile and make eye contact and listen to the stupidest requests imaginable #all while being monitored on a security camera #it’s just so awful and i hate it #but i need money #grrrrr

[matoitech]

awakened the beast of terrible things i saw more commonly abt promare when it first came out that i forgot till now but all i can say to that is well at least i dont see that shit around anymore bcuz the fandom ppl you’d expect 2 rub their homophobic fucked up little hands over new canon gay anime men of the month moved on to more recent things and thank GOD. galo and lio need a fucking break. and me too as a real life person

#im someone who intentionally stayed VERY far away from Promare Fandom stuff too #for many reasons but the main one was i liked it too much to want to see what the voltron fandom moms hot takes were #i read that shit from a mile away movie w gay anime guys gets popular and u r a gay real life guy u do not get near the fandom #u find ur own little group of guys and hang out and do not look over there #and i still saw so much. and i was trying very hard 2 not know what was going on #i stayed away from fandom stuff anyway but w prmare was like my final im not even going to look up fanfiction 4 this one #LIKE I DO GENUINELY RLY LOVE SEEING FAN CONTENT WHEN ITS NORMAL JUST. IT WAS ONE OF THOSE THINGS #U JUST KNEW PPL WERENT GOING TO BE NORMAL ABOUT. #and they were not. read correctly unfortunately. with my bi guy autistic transgender etc senses #AND THIS IS JUST HOMOPHOBIA THIS ISNT EVERYTHING FUCKING ELSE LIKE. GALO BEING AN CANON AUTIST. GOOD FUCKING LORD #THE ABLEISM WAS AT THE SAME LEVEL IF NOT WORSE THAN THE HOMOPHOBIA #esp bcuz it was coming from like allistic lgbt ppl so like #there was the factor of even the self proclaimed 'normal' ppl not even REMOTELY being normal abt THAT part of galos character #there was a lot of lower level stuff but there was also some of the most upsetting completely fucking insane bullshit #you have literallyy ever seen #like u were just seeing allistics just blatantly share their evil little thoughts w the world and project them on2 lio #and u thought oh so thats how u justify how u treat us to urself

[borealisposts]

at work we started doing corporate buzzword bingo and the key offender at the moment legit might be "all that good type of thing" which basically is HR short hand for "I want you to communicate widely that things are good but I don't want to say what the good things are. you must guess"

#corporate bullshit #dont wanna say its bc hr is allistic and the rest of us are er. not #but its that

[high-theyre-frendough]

Allistic people all have an eye contact fetish and get mad when you point it out.

#♻️ gilded profoundness #actually autistic #actually autism #autistic stuff #allistic stuff #neurotypical bullshit #autism meme

[fantabulisticity]

If you know someone autistic who has difficulty telling the difference between rhetorical and literal questions, do me and them a favor and don't fucking keep asking if I tell you "that's all the context I have. I don't know anything else." And don't then get pissy when I keep telling you "I don't know" when you KEEP ASKING ME QUESTIONS. IF YOU ASK ME A FUCKING QUESTION THEN I AM GOING TO ANSWER IT. I AM FUCKING DISABLED. I CANNOT TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN RHETORICAL AND LITERAL QUESTIONS ALL THE TIME. IF YOU DON'T CHANGE YOUR TONE OR PHRASING AT ALL BETWEEN A RHETORICAL OR A LITERAL QUESTION THEN YOU ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY DO. NOT. GET TO BE FUCKING PISSY WITH ME WHEN I ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS. LEAVE ME ALONE OR I WILL FUCKING LEAVE. I AM SICK AND TIRED OF THIS SHIT. I AM DISABLED. I AM UNABLE TO TELL THE DIFFERENCE IF YOU DON'T USE VERBAL OR TONAL INDICATORS. IMPLICATIONS FREQUENTLY GO OVER MY HEAD. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT. I AM TRYING MY BEST DURING EVERY SINGLE SOCIAL SITUATION IN EVERY SINGLE PART OF MY LIFE. DO YOU KNOW HOW EXHAUSTING IT IS TO HAVE TO ANALYZE EVERY SINGLE SOCIAL SITUATION YOU ARE EVER IN AT ALL FUCKING TIMES???? LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE.

#allistic parents are fun #my old shitty psych was WRONG. i am NOT just lazy. i am doing my best literally at ALL TIMES. i am UNABLE to navigate every single... #...social situation with perfect ease. i am UN. ABLE. not unwilling. UNABLE. #i have been working on this shit my ENTIRE LIFE. i have been memorizing social cues and analyzing body language and vocal tone my ENTIRE... #...FUCKING LIFE. AND YOU HAVE BEEN THERE FOR BASICALLY *ALL* OF IT. YOU *KNOW* I STILL CAN'T TELL. #YOU ****KNOW**** THIS AND YOU ***STILL*** DON'T CHANGE YOUR FUCKING BEHAVIOR ******EVER******. #I HAVE CHANGED EVERY ASPECT OF EVERY SINGLE BEHAVIOR I HAVE EVER HAD FOR MY ENTIRE LIFE. OVER AND OVER AND OVER. #AND YOU CAN'T CHANGE A FEW LITTLE THINGS TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH ME. #I HAVE BEEN MONITORING AND WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND ***YOUR*** MOODY BULLSHIT MY ***ENTIRE*** LIFE *****WHILE***** BEING AUTISTIC. #IT. IS. NOT. MY. FUCKING. JOB. TO MANAGE ******YOUR******EMOTIONS. #YOU. ARE THE PARENT. THIS IS A VERY SIMPLE CONVERSATION. STOP ASKING ME FUCKING RHETORICAL QUESTIONS. #YOU DO ******NOT****** GET TO BE PISSY AT ME FOR BEING AUTISTIC. YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR OR TELL ME WHAT'S GOING ON OR I CAN LEAVE. #FUCK YOU. #personal #ableism #yelling #yelling tw #caps lock #caps lock tw

[stealingfromwoolworths]

Waiting for my autistic dad to shut the fuck up

#just because you conformed to allistic society doesn’t mean I have to #😍 #he is always like #we never see you #🥺🥺🥺 #bitch you never see any teenager #autism #actually autistic #autistic #autism posting #abelist #ableism #ableist #ableist bullshit #anyway #allistics

[bitchwholoveslife]

Why are some allistics so against the idea of asking to help in a different way. Like, if you come to me and ask me to do a task that is overwhelming or highly unpleasant for me, just for the sake of some assistance.... what is so wrong with me asking to be useful to you in some other way? I am happy to help, but I am not happy to make myself suffer for the sake of others. Can you not just point me to some other area/way in which I could support you?

#text #bitchwholoves.text #nd shit #actually asd #actually neurodivergent #actuallynd #actually autistic #actuallyautistic #allistic bs #neurotypical bullshit