#allistic communication

[invalid-request]

Allistics: Oh my god why don't you ever think before you speak?

Also allistics: Oh my god, he's hesitating before he speaks, he must be lying 🤔

#allistics be like #allistic communication #allistics #actually autistic #social skills #neurotypicals #autistic experiences

[inthecarpets]

Kabru is such a character

it's interesting how from i.e. Laios' perspective the story is like fun adventure mixed with drama when his sister is gone.

but from Kabru's perspective it feels like a thriller or a horror story and Laios is one of more terrifying things in it due to the simplicity of how enthusiastic he is around it.

Kabru's there, in the place that terrifies him the most, meeting a person who loves said place and everything involved with it with all his heart. And the longer he knows said person, the more he's terrified of him.

#he doesn't like shiver in fear or anything like that. he's collected and appears calm. but he fears him so much #in a way we could joke It's like the Peak lvl of fail in autistic to allistic communication #but that sense of dread is so meaningful still #Carpet talks #Kabru #dungeon meshi #Laios #laios touden #dungeon meshi spoilers #dunmeshi spoilers #just like the actual reason for it

[leostarred]

allistics, are y'all INTENTIONALLY being mean when you say things like this or what cuz.. its not like we're tryna BE loud, some of us just get excited and sometimes when people get excited they get loud???

#neurodivergent #autism #actually autistic #autistic things #autistic community #yippee #autism creature #allistics #neurotypical

[sirenium]

Was wanting to try out the poll feature, and was also wondering...

Obligatory reblog for sample size

#otherkin #poll #neurodivergent #autistic #neurotypical #allistic #nonhuman #therian #therianthropy #otherhearted #alterhuman #otherkin community

[asharestupid]

I will not name names but *stares at allistic people* some people *stares specifically at allistic therapists and other mental health area allistics* need to learn how annoying it is to be labeled by how tolerable your autism is.

One cannot be *mildly* autistic. One cannot have *a touch* of the tism. Your autistic or your not. If someone came up to you and said to your face "your mildly annoying" would you be offended? Because that's what you're saying. I don't care if my symptoms annoy you, I care about how it feels like the clothes I'm wearing are strangling me.

#autism #autism spectrum #autistic burnout #autistic culture #autistic community #actually autistic #autistic things #autistic adult #autistic artist #mildly autistic #a touch of the tism #therapists #im so angry #allistics #allistic therapists #mental health

[nothing0fnothing]

no I fucking can't stand it when allistic people aren't listening bc when autistic people aren't listening they space out then realise you're waiting for a response and say "I'm sorry I only heard like 30% of that" and I'll be like "hey that's cool josh it's all in the email anyway dont worry about it."

when an allistic person isn't listening they will just interject with the exact opposite assumption of what you just fucking said in that condescending tone like you're the one who's not communicating right.

Me: I was online shopping an etsy business the other day and the website kept crashing --

Coworker: you were on our website the other day and it kept crashing??

FUCKING NO DARYL USE YOUR FUCKING EARS AND LISTEN TO PEOPLE FUCK GOD DAMN YOU.

#actually autistic #autistic things #autistic adult #autism #autistic experiences #autism things #autism thoughts #allistics #autistic community #Autistic

[puppyparkmoving]

Autistic selfshippers u are amazing and your f/o adores you and they love hearing you infodump and seeing how happy your special interests make you. They love your collections and passions. They love your stims and expressions. The way you talk and the way you are. They love you completely and entirely. You are perfect to them not in spite of your autism and symptoms but just entirely and unconditionally!

#allistics if u fucking touch this like omg sooo me but i have depression; adhd; anything not autism.... i will fucking come to your house #and kill you in your sleep #happy disability pride month my autistic beloveds #self shipping community #self shipping #self ship #self ship imagines #selfship community #selfshipping community

[uncanny-tranny]

Person-first language can be a perfectly fine way to address others, but if you have to do so in order to remind yourself that the people you talk about are, in fact, people, maybe it isn't the language you're using that's bad, but the way you fundamentally view the people you are talking about.

#politics #language #like person-first language for autism can be fone and some prefer it... #...but if your goal in using it is 'it shows you think autistic people are people!' that's where i have questions #what about 'autistic person' (non person-first language) makes you forget about autistic people's personhood... #...is there a reason why you have to be /reminded/ of our personhood? #i use that as an example because the conversation around person-first language in autistic communities can vary #i am not saying that an autistic person can never use person-first language or that it is bad #however i cant deny that some allistics specifically are pretty ableist about their _own_ preference for how they address autistic folk

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

I think Ed kind of does have some issues communicating it's just that those issues aren't being bad at communicating they're "I operate at a certain level of honesty and I expect others to do the same" it's less of a "I can't read social cues" and more of a "why would I bother with that social cue when you directly contradicted it with your mouth? I'm just gonna go with what your mouth said." And honestly I think that this is the right way to communicate and we should start accusing Stede and Izzy of having trouble with communication actually. Like yeah Stede had a big neon "doesn't want to run away to China" sign directly above his head and it was flashing, but he said yes I will go to China with you so that's his problem for not clarifying.

#as an autistic person this is part of why i relate to Ed actually #social cues are hard so i will simply use my words idk what you want #ofmd #one of my red flags is that i think allistic people are the ones who need to get gud when it comes to communicating #just use your words. we learned that in kindergarten just say what you mean i do it every day its so easy

[invalid-request]

Allistics, can you pick something else besides silence as the designated way of expressing displeasure? Cuz sometimes I just don't have anything to say and I don't mean to offend

#actually autistic #autistic #autism spectrum #autism #autism spectrum disorder #autism things #autistic problems #allistic communication #allistics #allism #social skills #neurotypical communication #communication #neurotypicals #neurotypical

[bookishpedia]

Christian: Hi, I'm Ronan Markov's emergency contact.

Nurse: Are you here to pick him up?

Christian: I'm here to remove myself as his emergency contact.

#christian allister #christian x gianna #ronan markov #mila mikhailov #nicolas russo #the maddest obsession #the sweetest oblivion #the darkest temptation #the purest addiction #the made series #mafia #mafia romance #dark romance #incorrect quotations #funnytumblr #books #bookstagram #readers community #book memes

[leostarred]

nuerotypical people, i am not your fucking pet, autism isn't "silly" or "funny" or "cute" i literally want 2 rip my skin off when i can't read tone or when i touch something wet and squishy. i will shut down if i think i upset you. i will cut you out of my life if you're too overstimulating and step my boundaries. my special interests aren't something to be babied, and not wanting to be touched isn't just a quirk, my anger isn't okay to blow off just because i'm autistic, i'm still feeling these emotions. i am a real person. stop babying autistic people or treating them as a hand purse when you wanna say something problematic and back it up w, "i have an autistic friend/kid/sibling!"

sincerely, an autistic person who doesn't need your goddamn opinion on my disorder. 🌈♾️

#actually autistic #autism #autistic #autistic things #autistic community #autistic experiences #allistics #neurotypical #neurodivergent #actually neurodivergent #im not ur pet lol #eff ableism #ableism

[lfcgirl23]

My manager 😂

#jurgen klopp #liverpool fc #lfc #ynwa #alexis mac allister #communication #👀

[crazycatsiren]

"You are not an 'autistic person' you are a 'person with autism'!"

I'm about to be the person who feeds you to a bear.

#actually autistic #allistic bullshit #autism community #autistic adult #allistics stfu challenge

[talesofanautisticwoman]

allistic acting like they know-it-all......

I HATE!!! when allistic/neurotypical people acts like know-it-all about my autism diagnosis and belittles my experiences... and come up with their own "cause", as to why i might be feeling a certain way. And when you tell them off and say 'no it's like this or because of that. It because of ....' they tend to get angry. Sometimes i feel like they try to remove me from my autism diagnosis, like they are two seperate things.

This happen to me today. I opened up on how my autism diagnosis presented? itself at work. My dad tried to say "it might be that way, because those who has been there many years will have more experience". And when my brother started asking about our conversation my dad said "Julie, is worring about how she's acting autistic at work".. and he said it an annoying and kinda lika like a mocking way. I started the job quite recently, like less than a month (i'm an intern). My dad has an outsiders perspective of it, yet he thinks he is right. I notice things like mannerisms, ways of communicating, fatigue etc. I mask quite a lot at work, and try not to let anything autism related slip up. Because they might view me differently if i do so. - Out of my both my of my parents, my dad is def the one who is the least understanding and dismissive about it. I know it's though being a parent, whose child gets diagnosed. It hit's them hard too ya know.

#can allistics please stop.. i'm getting tired #know it all #autistic spectrum #autism #autistic #actually autistic #actuallyautistic #autistic experiences #autistic experience #actually autism #autistic community #asd #high functioning autism #autistic things #autistic adult #neurodivergent #actually neurodivergent #neurodiversity

[gender-sexuality-happiness-rage]

#allosexuality #lgbt #queer #gay #transgender #bi #funny #allistics #nurodiversity #neurotypical #intersex #cisgender #gender #autistic community #actually autistic #autistic experiences #autistic things #dyadic