imma be spilling some of my lore to u guys !!
tw: uhh none really. just horrible friends and horrible people :3
ok so basically i have this friend, we're gonna call her w, and she's been my friend since like 6th grade, she's my bsf. i moved middle schools bc she was going to another middle school and i literally do everything with her.
then in 7th grade i met this girl, lets call her m. i became friends with her and me, w, and m have been a trio since then. but this year, w and m became friends with 2 other girls, lets call them k and n. i knew k and n since last year. we had a few classes together. i was actually kind of friends with n at the time. we weren't best friends, but i trusted her.
m and n have a few classes together and that's how they became friends. same with w and k. they also had a couple classes together. n and k are best friends btw, they've gone to all the same schools. anyways, me, w, m, n, and k now all become friends.
i have a little bit of history with n tho. last year when i was dating my ex, i was friends with n (like i mentioned.) i trusted n and saw her as a friend, so i told her that i was dating my ex (lets call him s.) obviously i was wrong in trusting her, because she told my entire grade that i was dating s. (s was kind of popular and i wasn't, so it was kind of a big deal ig. i was an ugly loser back then lmao)
because n told everyone a SECRET, a secret that i told her to keep to herself, i didn't trust her anymore. now back to the present.
this all took place in novemeber/december of last year. anyways, k was dating a girl i knew, lets call her z. k and z dated for about 2 months before breaking up. i won't go into the specifics, but they broke up because k acted like she was dating n instead of z. mind you, k and n were best friends, and n even had a crush on k last year.
i'm friends with z, and she told me more details, but the point was that n was a homewrecker. and i honestly agree with her. n has trouble keeping things to herself and has trouble respecting people's boundaries. i really didn't like n now, not only because of the shit she did to me, but also the shit she did to z.
now, i told w and m all of this, since we were all friends. i told them that i wanted to drop k and n, especially since no one else liked k and n at this point. they were really rude to everyone else they used to be friends with. but w and m said no, and that they wanted to stay friends with k and n until they did something wrong to them.
and i was pissed at this point. but i just told them that they could stay friends with k and n, but that i wouldn't be friends with them. so i'm not. i'm trying my best to avoid k and n now. i'm spending my breaks with z and her friends, c and d. they're really nice, and i really like z a lot.
but now i have a problem. z told me that m has a crush on k, and that's why m was gonna keep on being friends with k. so i confronted m about this. i asked her if the reason she wouldn't drop k was because she liked her. and m said it was true, and that she didn't only like k romantically, but also as a friend.
now i'm fucking pissed. i'm so fucking tired of telling m the same thing over and over, that k and n are bad people, that i don't like them, that OTHER people also don't like them. that we're the only people friends with them. and m doesn't care. and i'm fucking pissed.
i'm thinking about dropping m and w. but it honestly isn't that easy. i've been friends with m and w for so long, and they know everything about me. they know my secrets, they know about this blog, everything. and i'm fucking terrified that one day, when i eventually drop m, that she'll tell someone about this blog, and that i'm a fucking loser who writes porn on the internet. i'm fucking terrified.
my parents have been thinking about moving, so that's good. i really hope that i move. that way i'll be able to get away from m and n and k. i still feel really bad though. i've been friends with w and m for so fucking long and the thought of dropping them is still so scary. i don't wanna be friends with n or k, but i still wanna be friends with w and m. especially w. she hasn't really done anything wrong, even if she doesn't care that n and k are bad people.
i don't know what to do now. i think the best for now is to move away and forget about everyone.
lmao thank you for reading this far guys !! i'm just really stressed with school work and this whole friendgroup thing. i'm so sorry for the lack of fics. i can't promise you guys anything, and i'm really sorry. i'll try to get back on track soon enough. thanks for all the support :)
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I have such bad imposter syndrome. I met with my school’s therapist and at one point she said “yeah I just hold out hope that one day your parents will wake up as be like omg look at this awesome child we have” and I was immediately just slammed with a wave of guilt like “oh my god I’ve mislead her”.
In my head I know that I’ve never lied to her, and the only time I’ve ever not told the absolute truth is when I’ve told her about getting bullied and she asks who it was (I may be a lot of things but I’m not a snitch), or if I’ve relapsed and don’t think it was bad enough she needs to know
I got into an argument with a friend a while ago and I was telling her about it and I didn’t show her the texts but I was telling her what happened in a way that is objective as I can because I feel really bad about what I said but Im also upset about being insulted.
At one point she said “you’ve told me you were a bad person in the scenario more than you’ve told me what happened.” And after I’d finished telling her what happened she was like “I mean yeah you were rude but you have every right to be upset.” But now I’ve convinced myself I skewed the story and I’m manipulating her so that she validates me
When I got committed to a psych ward 2 years ago, before I got diagnosed with any of the depression, anxiety, body dysmorphia, adhd, any of that, the psychiatrist said “you have imposter syndrome”. I’ve had another psychiatrist and 2 therapists tell me I have imposter syndrome.
I can’t tell whether I’m an actual manipulative narcissist or I’m narcissistic for thinking I could manipulate every mental health professional I’ve come in contact with. I don’t think I could trick 2 phd holding psychiatrists and five or six therapists all of who went to school for 6+ years , as well as being able to trick all my teachers into giving me good grades and college acceptance boards into letting me in, but again I feel like that’s something someone who could do that would say
Even reading back what I’ve written here it seems to me like what someone trying to manipulate people would say. I know I’m not consciously trying to manipulate people, the only time I’ve ever done that is when I was waiting tables and I was god awful at it. But again that last sentence sounds like what someone trying to manipulate ppl into thinking they can’t manipulate ppl.
I don’t know I’m just digging myself a deeper hole in my head. I feel like I’ve tricked everyone into thinking I’m a good person, or I’m smart, or I’m a hard worker.
If anyone knows what to do it would be great. The more I think about it the more confused I am
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Step away from my cage
I am a wild animal wounded and full of rage
They say I’m aggressive
That I should be put down
You caress my face so gently
With your blood fresh in my mouth
I bare my teeth
I bite the hands that feed
And I’ll whine and lick the wounds after making you bleed
I am as rabid as a dog
Yet as fragile as a fawn
I don’t want to hurt you
It’s just how I was raised
A loyal dog that was scolded instead of praised
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