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bored-boring-and-tired · 1 month

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me currently:

“i want people to have crushes on me so badly because i thrive on external validation and im super insecure so i really really want people to have crushes on me”

also me, being aroace and sex/romance-repulsed (if someone has a crush on me):

“pleasepleasepleaseplease nobody have a crush on me and ESPECIALLY DONT TELL ME because then i have to reject you and i hate rejecting people and then i’ll probably have to come out to avoid hurting anyone because i overthink everything ahahahha”

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em0-opossum · 10 months

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"can I be [x gender] if I..." "can I still call myself [x term] if..." yes. yes. if you like the term then use it. do whatever you want forever. labels are just little words we use to categorize our infinitely complex existential experiences on this floating rock !! no two people who use the same label are going to experience it the same way and that's the beauty of it !! use "contradictory" labels, use labels that don't make sense to anyone, change your label every day or not at all, explore anything and everything, use no labels at all or every label under the sun, confuse people or correct them or let them assume things rather than explaining, I promise nothing other people think about your identity is worth your happiness !!

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uncanny-tranny · 8 months

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Important tip for trans men/transmascs/whoever needs the reminder: Even if you pass as a man to cis people, you still need to have either some form of self-protection on you (e.g., mace, knives (if you can use them effectively), ect.) or know some form of self-defense. Please take it from me, you don't know what will happen out there at any given time.

You might assume that if you pass as a cis man to cis people, you will be safe from any harm. While I wish that were true, it simply isn't the world most of us live in. Please do whatever you can to protect yourself out there.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #ask to tag (genuine)#there's this idea that once you start passing as a man as a trans guy* that all your worries about attacks... disappear...#...but i'm going to be real my fears of being followed/sexually harassed/heckled/ect have increased by double...#...and i never felt the need to have self-protection before (which was kind of foolish even if i felt certain i was physically safe)...#...but honestly i think i really ought to start investing in this shit the more i pass #anyway please learn from my mistakes ♡#i talk about this a lot but it is a life-or-death level of importance to me #yes this goes for all trans people...#...i just call out other trans guys specifically because so many of us assume or are told we're immune to this type of violence

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oro-junestar · 2 months

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why do people gatekeep queer identies?? like,, isn't the whole point of the queer community that we're sick of being told who we are and aren't allowed to be?? stop shunning queer people for being queer in ways you don't like

#this one goes out to all my #he/they lesbians #enby and tmasc lesbians #xenogenders #nonbinary #trans besties who don't medically transition #trans besties who hardly transition at all #autigender #bisexuals pansexuals omnisexuals and polysexuals (pls stop fighting u are ALL valid)#aroace #aroace who are also gay lesbian bi etc #and INFINTELY more queer identities who are continuously bullied just for being themselves #queers can we stop shunning other queers please it's not cool #anyway more tags #lgbtq #lgbt #queer #transgender #trans

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coffeeshopdaydream · 1 year

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The Half of It (2020) dir. Alice Wu

Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019) dir. Céline Sciamma

#portrait of a lady on fire #poalof #Céline Sciamma #the half of it #Alice wu #film #movies #sapphic #sapphic film #wlw #cinema #lgbtq #I’m obsessed with films which hold a conversation with each other #it’s about Ellie turning back to kiss Aster before she leaves #Marianne turning back to look at Héloïse in her wedding gown before she leaves #the Orpheus and Eurydice of it all #of tragic loves that end before they can really start #passion and fire and water and I will never stop thinking of how these movies hold a conversation with each other.#tag: coffeeshopdaydreaming

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infraredss · 2 months

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a girl will do/say the most dorky, silly or stupid thing in the world and I will be like ooaoaoaogghhhhhh. make out with m ee

#tell any stories u have in the reblogs/comments/tags #lesbian #wlw #shitpost #lgbtq #i think im the main idiot in any relationship #once with my ex partner i messaged them one day with “WAIT IS HE CALLED SONIC BC. SUPER SONIC SPEEDS”#and all they responded to me with was “charlie...”#on the other side of this any girl or lesbian or nonbinary with the stupidest as fuck sense of humour will make me go feral #someone I know hid rubber ducks around a school and shoots bugs with nerf guns and i was overcome with lust #my ex's name on any game is something like Swagmaster or Robux Giftcard #one of my friends who i am attracted to pretends that im their yaoi uke #basically i think I'm drawn to the most dumbass abysmal senses of humour imaginable

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kittzuxp · 1 month

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MY OCS IRIS AND DEVIA, MY BELOVEDS

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bijoumikhawal · 10 months

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also it really is shit how several popular bloggers were like. Horribly bigoted towards ace people when it was cool, but once it stopped being trendy they 1) deleted those posts so receipts couldn't be pulled 2) maybe put up claimed "redactions" or said "omg its been years if you really wanna know wether i still hate those people dm me" but never apologized for their behavior lmao. I don't think any of the people who did that actually changed, I just think they know it's not such an acceptable/fun target to bully anymore. It's really sick how that type of bullying was encouraged for years and how few people repented for their behavior.

#cipher talk #H*stlerose and lgbt*nis in particular come to mind #x***guiw*ng too tbh #They did a weird heel turn of being normal about ace people to insinuating most ace people are homophobic and self centered #And that believing a society which strictly controls your sex life doesn't like you not having sex and may punish you is a 'white thing'#As though the pressures around sex are not MORE strongly felt by PoC #I don't wanna say 'imagine if there was a mass movement of people who said they hated gay men and homophobia wasn't real and they never #Apologized or faced consequences' bc I know that exists. It's on Twitter and it's why I'm cagey around how people on tumblr say f*g #(I do mean like other lgbtq people tbc)#But like it's ridiculously fucked up that it happened. That people allowed it. That most people have forgotten about it either bc #They were targeted or bc they did the targeting #Remember when a real human being who had recently come out as ace was murdered for rejecting a man and people turned her into a fucking #Discourse topic? And posted decapitation photos claiming they were of her in tags about ace people/spread rumors about that?#I do. I fucking do.#Remember all the discussions about how 'denying your partner sex' was abuse? How ace people were p*dos for forcing discussions of sexuality #Onto kids? How wanting non alcoholic non sex forward spaces- something ND people and addicts also discussed- became a fucking crime?#Because ace people also thought it was cool?#Like g-d I know this was painful and I'm not saying we should do discourse again but forgetting all that isn't helpful either

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impala-in-gotham · 8 months

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More of this kind of Queer rep please and thank you!

So I watched Good Omens and LOVE how being queer is not being treated like something you have to point out or make a coming out story for or even assume that relationships are consisting strictly of a hetero couple and it just feels so amazing to have that.

Then I watched Nimona (Netflix) and Strange World (Disney) that both had a mlm relationship that was treated like any other relationship, as normal, as what you see between them looks romantic because it IS.

Media for kids and media for adults (OFMD, Sandman, etc) not being JUST about being queer but telling a story where some of the characters just ARE and that's normal is something I really didn't expect to see when I was a kid. Its so beautiful. Their love is part of the story but being queer is not what the story is all about.

I've been getting straight friends to watch them with me and just sit back to watch their Oh. moment at the end vs where its so obvious to me from the beginning. If you normalize it enough they'll start considering that's normal to expect too I hope.

#lgbtq+#queer representation #no need to come out #just being is enough #other tags that work for this i cant think of #feel free to ignore #Im just in awe and so pleased its happening at all #queer millenial #good omens #good omens s2 #nimona #strange world #aziraphale x crowley #nina and maggie #ballister x ambrosius #ofmd #the sandman netflix

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chaos-in-one · 1 year

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The way people will treat extremely new definitions for labels as the Only Acceptable Definition sometimes is fucking WILD

Anyways I'm a proud butch panagender (mix between pangender and agender) & genderfluid lesbian and ily all other lesbians who get shit for not fitting the newest box for what people expect lesbians to be <3

#'lesbian means non men loving non men only!!!' that definition has been in high use for like 3 years calm down #and my butch lesbian multigender ass is not giving up my label based on a brand new ass definition #some people aren't going to fit your idea of what a specific lgbtq label looks like and thats okay #and honestly some of you really need to get the fuck over it #putting so much damn energy into policing others identities based on the most popular definition SCREAMS privilege #I promise you some trans person online IDing as a lesbian while having a gender that is partially a man is not #going to be what makes the whole damn community collapse. or the cause for prejudice towards lgbtq people at all #anti lgbtq people actively discriminating against us is what is causing that not us #rant #mini rant #lgbtq #lesbian #multigender lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #genderqueer lesbian #butch lesbian #discourse #not putting this in all the discourse tags because certain discoursers I dont want to deal with keep finding it when I do that

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devilfruitdyke · 1 year

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the she/theys vs he/theys and wlw vs mlm posts are symptoms of a larger problem within the queer community 👍

#1. lack of consciousness of beauty standards 2. no grasp of intersectionality 3. focus on online discourse and not queer theory #'discourse' used very literally there. this is not a sick dunk on Minors These Days #anyway we as lgbtq people are very focused on ourselves as oppressed that we dont realize how we are perpetuating/internalizing...#... oppressive beliefs #see how all 'g ender envy' is almost exclusively skinny *white* conventionally attractive cis people #i saw someone say something like 'dont tag as gender envy be yr own person' the other day #and that really opened my eyes ?#we can be so caught up in the politics of being trans (usually as yr only minority group)#that it basically turns into 'skinny white cis men are the ideal of manhood dont ask me why though idk'#its deeply internalized #same goes with the 2 posts i mentioned #ps. i KNOW gender envy is what you personally find enviable and you shouldnt forced to change yr attraction for political reasons #but its the same shit that cishet beauty standards have been for centuries #very similar to how the only models in magazines are skinny white cis women #they dont say that fat people/trans women/woc arent worth their pages. its implied.#we just need to think about what we're implying every day as a community.#also i have a personal thing against gender envy culture because you guys forced me to see FUCKING V OMITBOYX EVERY DAY IN LIKE 2020 #/JOKE I SWAER. unless i get told one more time that im not really trans because i dont want short hair over my eyes. then i snap #<3

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anfeycare · 17 days

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List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who reblogged something from you! get to know your mutuals and followers ٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و

sounds interesting! ok ✨

(was quite tough to put just a few little things on a list like this kjkskks, but here it is)

5 things that make me happy — a list

Undertale

Flowey

condensed milk pudding

romance

art

#asks #so... i'll send it to the first 10 asks of who reblog this- i think it's fair #i might get quite lazy about it #happy #list #favs #i like fictional romantic couples/stories specially ✨#to less romantic people — i'm sorry(?) kjkskks- i might not have a real life person i'm attracted to for now- but i enjoy romance a lot #(just. romance; other feelings mixed in are ok — but just sometimes to my case; depends on the feelings and all)#(that is when i'm involved to some extent — consuming romantic media with the wish to see mostly romance counts)#(and the queerer/gayer the merrier honestly)#[/silly]#oh ksjksjjsk i wrote ramblings in the tags- so-#ramblings #random thoughts #thoughts thoughts thoughts #queer #lgbtq+

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incompleteninny · 2 years

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The fifty-seventh free, unedited chapter of my upcoming book, “The Heist at Cordia Aquarium” is now available on its website (or click here to read from the beginning).

Check. You're almost out of time.

Not quite running, Avery pumps her arms in the fastest walk her pajama pants will tolerate without catching under foot. Tendrils suffocate her from within: they wrap around her chest, crushing and writhing and demanding her attention. It was one detour. By request! Why does my brain have to be like this?

The Hall of Discovery winds in front of her; a slithering eel made of concrete, plaster, and carpet; lined with murky, unlit tanks on both sides. It'd be creepy if she didn't know what was inside every single one of them. As she passes, she can see shadows floating inside them — each unique in their own way.

Names pop to the forefront of her mind, as numerous as her footsteps: marsh periwinkles with their distinctive, conical shell; the bulbous eye sockets and long face of redlip blennies; writhing, wiggling masses of wandering nudibranchs.

Her mind wanders along with them. Her pace slows. I'll never keep the names of the sea slugs straight.

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