#and friends along the way. its nice

[smashwolfen]

FINAL DAY FOR 3DS ONLINE!!!! SERVERS SHUT DOWN APRIL 8TH!!!!!

PANIC FINDING ANY FRIENDCODES FOR THE FRIEND SAFARIS IN THE 3DS POKEMON GAMES AND WOULD LOVE TO FILL UP THE FRIENDS LIST BEST I CAN BEFORE THE SERVICE DIES ON US ALL

MY FRIEND CODE IS

3695-0229-4191

ALSO DON'T FORGET TO UPDATE ANY 3DS TITLES THAT HAVE AN UPDATE AVALAIBLE FOR THEM AS WELL!!! I literally got the last of my 3DS pokemom games needed for the collection and one hadn't been updated, so be safe and double check your cartridges and update if need be! Updates for games are still usable today in the 3DS eShop!

#3ds friend codes #friend safari #friend code #pokemon #3ds shut down #pokemon xy #pokemom x #pokemon y #spreading this around best i can so other know the server shut downs coming and hopefully get codes along the way #their not required but nice to have for those increased odds for shiny hunting in X and Y #LETS GET CODES AND FRIENDS BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!

[puppyeared]

Ouhhhh friendship I love friendship……..

#I’m reading volumes 14-16 of the ouran manga OOUGHHH MY HEART #I love this weird little friend group so much its unreal #like u have this charming sweeps you off your feet prince but he’s actually a huge lovable idiot with a kind heart and his friends #who are all misfits that he reached out to and drew in because of his kindness and own weirdness like that shits TIGHT BRO #and the trauma part where he has some deep seated issues with love bc he thinks that itll break a family apart like with his mom #how his family isnt allowed to be together because his mom and dad fell in love and how he says he wants to build a big house #so that way one day everyone will get along as a family like. all he wants is not to lose everyone and the only way to do that is #by maintaining a certain order.. he both wants a complete family so bad and doesnt want anything to sour between anyone #so he assigns each of his friends a family role based on how he sees them and YEAH its mostly played for giggles and tamakis #already weird so its his way of showing theyre close to him but. god damn this boy has LAYERS #it also feels kinda meta towards how found family tends to get thrown around to assign characters as 'siblings' or family roles instead of #using it to describe characters who are close enough to be each others family. cuz tamakis doing that EXACT THING in a way tht #ties in with his character and i have to say its fascinating using that within the story itself and its completely plausible #theres a lot of things i can say about ouran that are good bad and questionable but. god i love it when characters are niceys to each other #i remember i really liked the kyoya episode bc him and haruhi got to spend time together and their relationship isnt very close #but it was really nice to see their personalities bounce off each other. i think i also wouldve liked to see haruhi alone with kaoru #i also firmly believe all of the hosts are at least a little in love with haruhi and this can be anything like endearing romantic cuz like #who DOESNT love haruhi. kyoya i think would want to study her under a microscope like his fascination with her draws him in #but im fucking obsessed with whatever haruhi and tamaki have going on because YES hes obsessed with her YES he jumps at the chance to #put her in a cute costume but haruhi? she just fucking goes with it because she knows hes fun to be around even if hes a little wacky abt i #theyre all so. NNGGHHHH #ouran #ohshc #yapping

[daily-hanamura]

#persona 4 #p4 #persona 4 golden #p4g #hanamura yosuke #yosuke hanamura #this scene gets to me because it reveals how a lot of yosuke's talk about getting a gf or meeting a girl and all of that is just... talk #on the one hand it's atlus needing the best friend character to fill that role of “lets check out girls!” #on the other hand it also reads to me as another facade of yosuke's struggle to meet his idealised conception of an average teenage boy #see it's funny because even in the first instance the role is always a bit deeper than it is #slight spoilers for p3 and p5!!! #but in junpei's case regardless of his flirtations he doesnt actually reciprocate or is even a potential LI for femmc #in ryuji's case when ann turns on the charm and offers to go on a date with him he tells her off and says that she should be like herself #i think that theres always a surprising level of nuance to be found with that skirt-chasing stereotype atlus likes to give us #i think yosuke's narrative here quite closely parallels junpei's in that theyre actually super devoted people #and yosuke has found an attachment to saki in the way junpei had with chidori so of course hes not willing to compromise on it #its such a mixed thing because even though he knew saki's kindness to him was probably faked yosuke's loyalty to her was already set #yosuke strikes me as the type of person that if youre nice to him once he'll follow you for life #i love that nanako was the one that responded to yosuke with like “oh like homework?” and yosuke gently plays along #its evocative of his tendency to shoot his mouth off only to quickly cover it up with a joke #but yu is there in the room as well listening and empathising and i think it was a moment that really #revealed to us (and yu) yosuke's underlying motivations and beliefs #even if it was sandwiched between the moment of yosuke trying to look at yu's prn #or perhaps especially because it was sandwiched between that moment the juxtaposition becomes more salient #that such talk from yosuke functions as a distraction from the anguish and ennui he feels about losing saki #he's good with his queue

[autisticlee]

it kind of sucks when all your friends and family, everyone you know, are all pairing off and getting married and havinf families, except you. you're the only one that doesn't have a partner and probably can/will never get one. especially if one around you has time for you anymore, they never reach out, never get back to you, because they're only focused on their partners and families. you're stuck alone and drift away from everyone through no fault of your own. you have no hope of finding your own partner or no motivation to look for one for whatever reason. the lack of connections while seeing everyone around you having their own can get overwhelmingly lonely at times....

#autism #autistic #asexual #aromantic #these are probably the two factors that put me in this position #im undateable because im too autistic to form any connections with people and cant even make or keep friends around for long #so how would i ever try to date anyone???? #and also asexual which makes it harder. and aromantic (not sure what kind if its like demi and i just need to meet “the one” #and form a connection first to actually have any feelimgs for anyone or not sure if I simply cannot experience romantic attraction #either way its a lonely existence in a world where 99% of people pair off or obsessed with trying to partner up #and theres less value/time/effort put on friendships #ON TOP OF being autistic and forming any connections at ALL is an extremely difficult task that seems to always fail on me! #lee rants #lee rambles #im actually visiting a friend and her gf (who is also friend but we are less close) so i know not everyone partners and shuns friends #but they live in another country and i cant visit all the time so it doesnt help this lonely shit feeling all the time D: to have ~1 friend #would be nice to have all the close benefits and of a dating partnership without the physical stuff and pressure of “dating” #if thar makes sense. best friends but life patners. the person is obligated to help me and bw there for me at all times #someone who chooses me first instead of others. someone that doesnt make me their last choice all the time #their very comfortable to be around and we relate and get along perfectly and make up for each others weaknesses #my favorite person and im their favorite person #they usually always say yes to me and include me and im their first choice for eveything #they respect my needs and boundaries and work with me if we have a misunderstanding or disagreement. #its so hard to find people like this. someone who matches me well enough to fit all these picky things i want #someone who would like me enough to be like this. someone im comfortable with and like who fits the energy i want #even if someone liked ME enough and was these thjngs if they arent comfortable or match my energy then i dont want them #im not desperate enough to take Anyone ans im extremely picky about it #being aroace makes any kind of datimg very hard because theres ~less fish in the sea~ #but being autistic makes it EVEN HARDER becuase i cant even make and keep FRIENDS so how would i have a /partner/ ????? #sighs. i think im meant to live a lonely life and need to learn to accept it

[holllandtrash]

two and a half months ago i started a podcast with my friend because we like talking about formula 1

this summer i am going to a motorsport promotional event in texas and to the indycar race in toronto

what the heck

#to be fair i have been busting my ass this whole time #so its nice seeing hard work pay off #but still WHAT the heck #huge thank u to everyone who has even looked at my podcast u rock #also thank u to the friends that have been helping me out along the way #cay and nat im talking to u

[elegyofthemoon]

some work stuff thats been on loop in my head all week

so i think most of this week minus today, i've sorta accepted that i'm just riding a dying dream. that's mostly why everything feels very unreal these days just bc i wanted to distance myself from it i think. that at the end of this, i'll just fail again and then i'll fail out and that'll be it for me and i'll somehow magically pick up the pieces and sort my life out in some different way with the numerous backup plans i have saved for myself

but i'm still on top of stuff. i'm doing what i'm supposed to, even if it's kinda painful to do thinking that all this effort will amount to nothing in the end.

i get asked to review a new patient who came in the night prior to present to the other doctors, and i go and do that. i get to know the patient and try to figure out whats going on. i go and do my physical exam and all that, and at the end, when im trying to wrap things up, she stops me just to say "you're such a sweet and kind doctor. the other ones are so abrupt and dont listen to me"

i had to just kinda smile bittersweetly at that bc thats really all i want to be. i just want to take care of my patients and make sure they get the best help they can. i want to, but im no good medical student.

i thanked her again and left to go present the patient accordingly. the whole moment still sits with me a lot though and i just sorta play it on loop.

by character, i'm very much a caretaker. i love taking care of people and its always at the risk of overdoing myself - something i'm working on. if i could i'd do anything to keep up with this dream so that i can better help everyone. but i still find myself at a loss. i'm by no means smart. i just want to help however way i can, and if that means being in this position to do so, then i'm happy for it.

it just makes me sad because i'll meet the worst medical students - my peers - and i question and wonder and worry about the people who would fall into their care. i'm not saying i deserve their position. i understand i'm not smart enough to be where i am. heck, im even surprised i even got where i am tbh albeit i am also failing severely now lmao but it's just... it makes me sad that the smart people i meet are always so awful

at the very least, that moment with the patient was nice even if its bittersweet. it at least means that i was already where i kinda wanted to be as a person. i want to be there. and i want to take care of others because i care.

#i didnt know who to talk to #everyones offline which is fair bc its like near new years and all that so #here. #work logs #i promise after this though ill stop posting about all this nonsense #im just in a really weird state orz #i think after today though things will be happier #its mostly bc of my friend (i really have to thank both of them) #my friends are so nice and it was nice to just hang out again after so long theyre so cute when theyre being nice LMAO #both of them are very talkative which makes up for my Lack Of Talking #ill at least say this #i probably wouldnt be such an open person if it werent for the people i met at school #they say certain personalities gravitate to a certain profession and youre right! #i think all the people ive met their personalities kinda click w me and its honestly nice askdjafh #all my friends from school were the most supportive people ever and its like the first time ive actually stepped out of my little bubble #(i had some friends in undergrad but i spent majority of it alone tbh which also wasnt bad it just meant i worked on myself more) #but yeah #lets say this: even if everything just falls apart and we end everything with a bang #ill be happy with the journey anyways for the people i got to meet along the way #snow speaks

[catfishofoldin99colours]

what's that thing of 'you meet a man and no one has ever told him to shut up in his life'sl

#catfish speaks #man i went on a date today with is very nice #hes sweet and likes animals a lot - he brought his little Quaker parrot along and thay was so cute! #we share a lot of interests and he was kind and gentle #but man. he talked a lot #not necessarily in a bad way and i enjoyed a lot of whay he said and we did share conversation at times #but were chatting on discord now and i was like yeah i would have left eventually i get tired easily #and he was like man we wete chatting so much i didnt even notice #and like. #yeah #yeah you wouldn't. why would you #like ahdjsiwiiawiiw its not malicious but. so many men just talk talk talk and don't really see whats going on around them #truly. the best dates I have been on have heen the ones where people got ME talking #cos i don't talk a lot i am a Listener #if you can get me talking on the first fuckinf meetinf you are doing something VERY right #this guy. hrm. #like hes lovely and being friends sounds fun but. bro. please. i can't talk forever

[kathrynmjaneway]

.

#the way that ive known my boyfriend not even for two whole months and weve been officially together for a month only #but ive already been invited to two weddings and a birthday party #its wild to me #and its also sooooo so nice #bc all his friends are genuinely so happy for him #and everyone ive met so far has been so nice and welcoming and open to me #and like i havent even met the guy who invited me along to the birthday party #also just in general. #life is really really good right now #like i finally feel like im finding some inner peace and have the time and space to calm down and just live life #the past 5ish years have been hell and so stressfull and anxious and full of isolation and panic and one prolonged crisis that were all #the final exams of my 8 1/2 years of lawschool and becoming a lawyer #and now its all just. Good. #and he is a big part of it #he showed up just at the right time #and its weird to be all like that after A Months #but its a if you know you know kinda thing #And i know he feels the same #because he keeps telling me how he feels and thats how he feels and aaaahhh #im all mushy about this #i wont see him for 4 whole days bc im gone for a long weekend and thats actually the longest amount of days we havent seen each other #since our first date #it was 3 whole days between date 1 and 2 #and i dont think we even had that again since then #personal #i am genuinely so happy and in peace and its just the nicest feeling #okay anyway thanks for tuning in #bye

[bangcakes]

.

#GOD. how do i even begin #this crush is TESTING ME. REALLY TESTING ME #i feel like this is gonna be a Lesson of some sort oml #he's the most difficult guy ive ever met. like not in a bad way but JFJJRJDKDKDKDKDK #GOD HE CHALLENGES ME. I JUST.......... HHHHHHHHH #i ... i wouldnt want it any other way tho NDJDJDJDJDJDKDM #hhhhh it is nice to know tho. that like we are friends n hes gonna be in my life #like god that is so WEIRD #out of everybody i met at school... never imagined id be this close to him. like closer to him than anyone else even. its soooo weird... #along for the ride tho i guess JFJDJJDJDJDJDJ #personal #hes so.... idek how to explain this. hes SO straightforward. but he can be sweet too??????? like not in an obvious way but like. idk !!!!!!! #everyone's always like... god hes such a nice guy #n im just like. ARE WE TALKING ABOUT THE SAME GUY?????? #like ya hes nice. i wouldnt be friends with him otherwise but OH IS HE PRICKLY. #THATS THE WORD. PRICKLY. GOD. I NEVER KNOW WHAT HES GONNA SAY HHHHHHH #n e way. im seein my friends on the weekend n theyre gonna want details n im like how do i explain that simultaneously i like him and #that also i think he was created to piss me off. be my NEMESIS???????? #hhhh simple romance goodbye i guess. it was never meant for me JDJFJJFJFJFJDJDJ

[biteapple]

the perspective of looking at new jersey apartments again makes me glad im living where im at now, honestly ... ^^ ''

#i SO wish i could hop over there though ... the price of living is SOOO high and the pay doesnt match even a little #its bad everywhere .. but new jersey's got a special kind of sickness like that because of its nyc proximity #everyone lives there and commutes to the city like 1.5hrs away for the better pay . but i just lived there lol #i feel like compared to here everything in jersey's tinged an ''old'' way .. #i dont know how to describe it but EVERYTHING from the stores to the apartments has a ''grandma's house'' feel #a ''hasn't been updated in 40+ years'' feel #and austin's so new and booming. apparently. but i agree it doesnt have that old tinge to it #the apartment im living in isnt new. but it isnt old either. it doesnt have the feel to it #i thought it was just nostalgia speaking but looking at nj apartments today was like. oh wow. its nice to know im not going crazy #this same apartment in nj would be SO SO SO much more expensive. people here complain about prices (they SHOULD. its bad) #but looking at where i was and why i HAD to move elsewhere .. i remember now yknow. this place is a luxury i could never have had in nj #which doesnt mean its good. its sad. i wish things were different. i DO .. sort of .. wish i never moved out here to begin with #but im glad im here. i feel like ... you know when a hero goes on a quest and makes friends along the way and then .. doesnt return home .. #even though the quest was supposed to be a transitory period .. yknow .. maybe im just home now #atleast awhile longer. im happy calling here home awhile longer #i do kinda miss that old tinge to it. i always said everything in nj was like .. ''tinged yellow '' .. and it really is. yknow. #i just need to put some antiques and lighting into my apartment. lol. feels just like home

[sonknuxadow]

i get so confused when i see people say sonic should treat amy better. not because i think sonic should be a jerk to her or anything but because hes ALREADY nice to her. theyre really good friends? what are you talking about

#and i Know its because sonic was always ignoring or turning down amys romantic advances #back when she was really obvious about her crush and always trying to get him to date her #which is really stupid. because theyre not dating why should sonic have had to tolerate or play along with that stuff #just because you like someone doesnt mean they owe you romantic affection. #not even if theyre your friend. not even if theyre nice to you. not even if youre nice to them #(not saying amy thinks shes entitled to a romantic relationship with sonic but the people im talking about seem to think she is) #and from what i remember even when amy was at her worst with that kinda stuff sonic still wasnt mean to her? #the worst he would do is tell her no when she asked him to marry her or whatever or be visibly uncomfortable with whatever she said or did #which are not unreasonable reactions to have to something like that #and in the more recent stuff sonic isnt even doing that because amys crush is almost never brought up anymore #so they just have a completely normal friendship like they would have with anyone else. #and to be clear im not complaining. i like seeing sonic and amy be best friends without annoying romance stuff getting in the way #i just dont know what more these people want. sonic doesnt have to be nicer to her because hes already nice to her

[titansarmy]

the girls shitting on gina 1.0 was. not it. gina 1.0 come back to us we’ve missed you

#hsmtmts #gina porter #girl has had me in the palm of her hand since season 1 i will not tolerate this slander #also IF IM ALLOWED TO SPEAK she's not going back to who she was at the start #she has opened up. holds her friendships close to her heart. BUT she's also getting back parts of herself that she lost in the way #her nice nature and care for others was always there. she had just lost it along the years where she was forced to move and abandon #everything she knew. she was forced into not caring to protect herself #all she had left where her ambitions and drive because that lives within her and no matter where she would still have them with her #but staying at east high (and the friendships she has built there) has made her have to revisit and learn to live with the part of her that #is nicer and cares for others and wants to have friends who are there for her #and now she has that. her arc was finding a place with people she could call hers #she's got that now #and the ambitions and drive that she let a bit to the side so that she could find her footing within this new more state era of her life #can come back to her because now she's standing straighter. her friendships are not on the brink of falling apart and her life doesn't feel #like its changing every two seconds #so of course she can 'go back' to gina 1.0 #and actually she's not going back if anything is gina 3.0 #a mix of gina 1.0 and gina 2.0

[theladyfae]

very upset at the show giving billy costa the fate of tony makarios but also, nice little parallel in that both of lyra's friends die to each of her parents

#made more fun by how she thought she'd managed to save roger from undergoing severance in marisa's care #where the setting was v clinical and detached and she was technically responsible even if she didn't do it herself #and then accidentally threw him to asriel who has his sole focus on severing him and salcilia. and is way more personal #yeah i never got past s1e5 ever but now i have and shbfhsbxjanxmxms my god #asriel's FACE when he notices roger he's practically projecting his murderous intent he's so unsettling i love it. #also marisa had no fucking clue who billy was but asriel heard roger was at jordan and was like. its so nice of my daughter #to bring her friend along for me to sacrifice :) and its obvious she's no clue what he really wants #but god. yeah i'm not emotionally prepared for this At All #hdm #faera's

[youjustwaitsunshine]

random pic for tag diary (made these from kneadable eraser)

#idkkkk just feeling some type of way? #last weekend i was hanging out with some friends and we were just talking about how long we want to live idk #and my boyfriend is the first person ive heard saying that he wants to get at least 120 bc like so many of us are just sad kids #who are scared of a future that seems so dystopian #and in comes this idiot (affectionately) going 'i need to get at least 120 i want all the time i can get' #i dont fully know why but he said 'life's the only thing we get for free and you know that i cant say no to free things' and i almost cried #it was just so very earnest and sweet and im used to being friends with a lot of cynical people #hes good for me i think. softens me up. bc im definitely more on the rough side and hes just very emotional and (a bit over)dramatic #its really funny actually bc were like. super effeminate boyfriend x super masculine girlfriend and tis probably hilarious from the outside #even if i feel super inadequate sometimes bc he's so thoughtful and romantic and im. well. not really. im more like a block of wood #romantically speaking #idk i just stand there and feel awkward a lot bc i cant deal with affection too well but it helps that hes just so sweet #like when we were on our drive through half of germany and we just talked about so much and it was things like favorite colors #or singing along to the beatles on one of his player pianos (dont ask) #it can get a bit much but hes just so easy to talk to. idk why im making a blog entry from this but hey :) #anyways what i wanted to say. it's nice to have someone in my life whos less cynical than me

[mrfoox]

Maybe I'm petty but the guy that I basically turned down a month back... Is still kinda messaging me half heartedly and I just... Im over him lmao

#miranda talking shit #I saw him in an probably not intentional but bad light when he went from being #Super talkative and wanting to speak and such every day to... Silence in minutes after i said i wasnt #Intrested in him that way... Its probably bc its so against how my brain works but i just thinks its stupid #Everyone works differently and i know he doesnt control it but i feel... Not used but like... Like i only was worth #His time if he thought he could date me/get in my pants :). He seemed like an nice enough guy and such but #The complete turn around just... I havent answered his last messages bc i just feel /: #I hate people who just seek their prefered sex/gender people as partners. Like... Fr.. If you cant like mr as a friend first i dont want to #Date you. I need to have that established connection to even consider deeper feelings... Nah #I probably sound like a bitch but yeah no i dont like it at all. I feel like girls value friendships more #Ive been on dates with girls im now great friends with but not a single guy bc they ghost #It just feels so shallow in my mind. Like they dont care about me unless they think they can 'get' more from me #Im so glad im ugly so i dont have to deal with this regularly but when it happens its still so shit like /: #Do i have to disclose this during third conversation with every guy i talk with or what? #Im ranting but im frustrated. He had potential to be a cool friend and he blew it. Not by making an unwanted move. I can deal with that #But how he acted afterwards. Dont want to get to know me as a friend first? Please go along bc i am so friendship focused its bad

[titlishu]

i may be slowly fading out of people's perceptions and i don't like it i don't like. being forgotten and replaced god

#i dont even know why i feel like this i need to lime #like #cater to everyone idek wjo i am abymore its so triirng #do. would abyone even listen lmao #like if i #if i ranted to anyone abt stuff would they even care #except sits #sita #i love him hes nice but #i dont know about the rest im so confused who the fuck even am i is yellow even .y favourite colour #do i even have a real personality that people would like because its m e or would i have to continue this exhausting act #for the rest of my life #i need to be a good daughter to my parents a good sister to my brother a good friend to everyone and its so tiring cause #whatever i try to do its never enough theres always somekne *better* and someone not me and so u #i #create personalities that arent me so people would like me and i dont know when it started maybe when i was 13 or 12 or somewhere #along those lines i just. i dont know wjo i am abymkre its so tiring and i cant even cry abt it to anyone lmao cause #i dont want them to know that i may have done that for them too like the me they know isnt the me i know #but who js the me i know like i #i just. i dont remember i really font rememver but the saddest psrt is im sure id hate myself either way #i hate myeelf now but if i was different id hate mywelf even worse #anyqay #rant tw #tw rant #delete later