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venuscnjunctpluto · 1 year

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Astro pt 3.

Credit: @venuscnjunctpluto

(I’m on spring break and literally have 50 other things I should be doing but we’re back at it again folks😝)

Venus conjunct saturn women 🤝 men w mommy issues

The worst moon square moon beef I’ve seen is Taurus and Aquarius. Both won’t let it go like the Taurus moon thinks they’re making sense while the Aquarius moon wants to seem unbothered it’s a mess.

Taurus Venus people are so beautiful (ex: Victoria Monet, Ariana Grande, Leighton Meester, Cillian Murphy, Matthew Gray Gubler, plus my mom💕)

There are three types of Aquarius risings: one who walks around in pajamas and chokers, one who is legit a model, and the one who wears graphic t shirts and multiple finger rings)

Also I notice a lot of aqua rising women love dressing masculine (ex: Zendaya, Nicki Minaj, and Aaliyah) if you see a girl w her pants sagging with her hat turned backwards w every color of the rainbow on. just know she’s a aqua rising.

Sag Venus women are bisexual ex: Erica Mena, Nicki Minaj, and me lol

Most kpop stans have libra placements and this is coming from a libra moon

Underdeveloped Men w Fixed sign placements are such incel. Leo esp mars when their ego gets hurt they cannot take it. Aquarius thinks they’re too good and smart for women so they can’t understand why no one wants to be around them. Do I even need to explain Taurus and Scorpio?😭

Pieces Venuses are down bad ex: the men crave a manic pixie dream partner and when they can’t live up to the natives fantasy; they cheat. The women are usually loyal but they are blind asf and will neglect and abandon their relationships w others just for their partner who may or may not be trash. On a good note; they are very very very giving in relationships and so sweet but just because y’all can give doesn’t mean you have to constantly.

Brent faiyaz and Jungkook have Scorpio Mars😮‍💨 I don’t know what it is but I wanna date one so bad. What’s y’all experiences?

Certain signs and placements date people w similar charts. Like I notice Taurus suns usually date eachother bc who else is about to put up w them (just kidding…no I’m not🙂) also Scorpio placements (ex: future and Ciara, Megan fox and machine gun Kelly, Karruche and Chris brown…these are terrible examples😭)

As far as Venus conjunct ascendant synastry…I honestly only feel the tension when I’m the ascendant. Whenever my Venus conjuncts someone’s asc it doesn’t really move me like I don’t think they’re unattractive I just don’t really gaf. Their personalities are fun because my sag Venus and mars knows they can take a joke. I think Scorpio/8th house doesn’t really care too much about looks and appearances. In fact I notice Scorpio Venus men view the people they date as beneath them in some way and they do that to feel comfortable as if that person can’t get better and leave or cheat.

I always tell people I don’t have a type which I kinda don’t aesthetically but: Virgo rising, moon-Pluto or Scorpio moons, Virgo mars, Taurus suns w aqua moons, air venuses or mars, libra risings, Scorpio mars😚

Blueface and Chrisean have Venus square pluto synastry. When I say they are the most exaggerated example of this synastry it’s crazy. She clearly seems trauma bonded and believes she’s truly in love with this man (Venus). While he’s using her for money (pluto) and maintaining control over her at all times. That’s another thing w Venus Pluto synastry the venus person looks worse in the public eye because we’re always outwardly vulnerable (the good and bad) while Pluto doesn’t show just how insane they are overtly. But he’s the jealous one because peep how mad and aggressive he gets when she gets any sort of attention outside of him (ex: when Drake followed her and he twisted it to be related to him) Pluto really thinks they OWN the Venus person like that Brent lyric “they only wanna fuck with you cause they know I fuck with you” that’s their mentality. (They’re both physically abusive to eachother and need to breakup asap)

Also everyone talks about how much she’s changed for the worst since she got w him. Her missing tooth and getting multiple tattoos of that man. I’ve seen this guy w his Venus square his ex’s Pluto and he looked terrible while w her and when they broke up he got hisself together. My conjunction synastry took me from wearing bold colors to black for months😭

Sag placements esp Venus or mars men are bow legged asf

Lana Del Rey’s catalog is the epitome of 8th house stellium. Constant changes, a certain loneliness that doesn’t go away, learning and growing, but also never giving up hope.🦋

Cancer mars men and their pregnancy fetish…lil durk has like 5,000 kids and his ex India said that she wanted another baby because of how affectionate he was when she was pregnant.

A lot of football/soccer player have air mars. (Ex: mason mount, kylian mbappe, phil foden)

Women w sun-Neptune, Uranus, pluto may have terrible relationships w men bc of their relationship w their father

Aqua, sag, and cap placements are funny asf😭 I’m one of them and I don’t even try but people are always dying laughing around me

I’ve been in two “lust” triangles and both pairs had one Taurus placement friend and one Scorpio placement friend. The Taurus friend (literally both of them had birthday two days apart) liked me and had their Scorpio friend (one was a Scorpio Venus and the other was a Scorpio mars) spy on me or maybe they just offered😭 long story short the Scorpio friend ended up liking me in both situations I just✨felt✨ it. Taurus and Scorpio are both sneaky and possessive they have opposite energy and it’s very likely they could like the same people. It gets complicated because Scorpio is more likely to keep their crush a secret which can cause unintended overlap.

Capricorn mars: I don’t get mad like I rarely get upset😐

Us all hearing them yell behind closed doors and come out like nothing happened:

#astro notes #venus pluto #synastry #taurus venus #aquarius rising #astro observations

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erin-bo-berin · 2 years

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I think I have caused some hurt in my heart with this request bc oh my god.

Abbie is a teen now, she’s out doing usual teen things & she comes home late. Her mom & Steve Scold her and she tells her mom she hates her. Reader doesn’t know how to feel and she breaks down crying and walking away. Steve proceeds to go off on her and it turns out really fluffy when she comes into bed with the reader and they hug it out.

if this isn’t something that you wanna do, ignore it, I get it 1000% if you don’t want to -🦋

Ouch my heart. I can’t even imagine how much that has to hurt and now I really regret all the times I yelled at my mom as a teen 😭

I feel like this is the perfect gif for this too lol

Part of the Steve x SingleTeenMom!Reader universe: you can check out the others in this series on my masterlist, if you’re interested ☺️

It was after midnight when your sixteen year old daughter finally walked into the house.

You and Steve sat in the living room, worried to death and angry that she hadn’t called to let you both know that she was going to be late.

“Abrielle!” you called, rarely ever using her full name, unless she was in trouble.

She came in, sighing. What used to be happy smiles and laughter when it came to seeing you and Steve was now met with stubbornness and annoyance, as if she had better things to do. How your heart ached for those days when she was still a baby and didn’t resent you.

“Where were you?! Your dad and I have been worried sick!” you exclaimed.

This hadn’t been the first time she’d been acting out lately. She hadn’t been horrible, necessarily, but she’d been defying rules—natural teenage things Steve had assured you. It still didn’t ease your worries. You had no idea what she was doing anymore and you desperately didn’t want her to end up like you were—18, pregnant and alone.

You wanted so much better for her.

“Relax, mom. Jeez. Me and some friends went out for pizza after the game. It’s no big deal.”

“You could’ve still let us know, Abbie,” Steve said gently.

Steve was always the one to try and ease tensions in the household. With a stubborn teenager that defied you at almost every turn, he was the natural favorite at the moment.

“I was only a little late for curfew, okay?” she shrugged.

“You were an hour and a half late,” you scolded.

“Can’t you lighten up and let me have any fun?!” she shouted.

“Don’t you take that tone with me, missy,” you said, lips pursed tight.

“Why don’t we just all calm down for a minute,” Steve started, but Abbie didn’t let her finish.

“God, I can’t do anything right can I?! You’re always jumping down my throat for something! I hate you!”

Your breath caught in your throat, stunned speechless by your daughter’s words.

You’d had plenty of fights since she’d entered the teenage years, but she’d never said those words to you. You pressed your mouth into a firm line, trying to ward off the tears that threatened to fall. You turned without a sound, heading off to the kitchen, only letting the tears to fall when you’d left the room.

They say that the terrible twos are the worst because of all the tantrums a toddler has as they try to express emotions and feelings they’re experiencing and know nothing about. What they don’t tell you, is that the teenage years are harder. There will be fights, defiance and stubbornness, similar to a toddler’s tantrums. What’s worse is that by this point, they can say some awfully hurtful words, wounding you so deep, you’re not sure how to even express it. You truly don’t know of any other pain similar to it, hearing the child you’ve brought into the world and raised thus far, tell you they hate you.

Even if said in the heat of the moment, you feel like an awful mother.

•

“Abrielle Jade Harrington!”

Steve was absolutely furious and he wasn’t one to lose his tempter often.

“Dad, don’t start,” she groaned, unaffected by her full name from his lips.

“No. You’re going to listen to me and you’re going to sit.”

He pointed a finger to the couch and something on his face must’ve portrayed how deadly serious and insanely angry he was because she dropped on it without another word.

“I have never heard you be more disrespectful to your mother,” he glared at her, “I thought you were better than that.”

“But-”

“Did I say talk? I’m not even close to being finished with you young lady.”

Her mouth snapped closed real quick.

“Your mom spent the entire ninety minutes you were late, pacing, fretting and worrying herself to pieces. She was afraid something happened to you, Abbie. She’s not mad that you went out with your friends. If you’d called and let us know that you wanted to go for pizza, she would’ve let you. I would’ve let you. But you can’t just do what you want and ask for forgiveness later. That’s how we stop trusting you.”

She sat, fidgeting, not looking at him.

“Look at me, please,” he said, a touch softer, but still firm.

She looked up at him, looking miserable.

“I know you were angry and that’s fine. It’s normal to be frustrated and angry. But I won’t tolerate you screaming at us or telling your mother that you hate her. You really hurt her, Abbie. You know how much she loves you, sweetheart.”

By now, Steve’s voice had softened a lot more. He couldn’t help but notice his hands were on his hips and he was wagging a finger at her just like he did to his friends so many years ago.

“I’m sorry, daddy,” she whispered, looking like she meant it.

“I’m not the one you should be apologizing to,” he said firmly, “You know since you broke your curfew, you’re going to have to be punished, right?”

She nodded, miserably.

“Good, because you’re grounded for a week. You’re to come home after school and aren’t allowed to go out with you friends, got it?”

“Yes,” she nodded.

“If you’re good, you can be off punishment by Friday to go out,” he hugged her shoulders, kissing her head, “Love you kiddo.”

“Love you too, daddy.”

•

You sat in bed, trying to concentrate on the words in front of you. The book you were holding wasn’t keeping your attention and you didn’t have the energy to try to make sense of it anyway.

Steve had been earlier to let you know that he’d talked to Abbie, grounding her for a week. You’d just nodded silently, fine with his decision. He’d left to go do something down in the kitchen, promising to be up for bed soon.

All you could hear was her words rattling around in your head.

I hate you.

Hate.

You.

You were definitely too tender hearted for this teenager thing, that’s for sure.

“Mom?”

You looked up and saw Abbie, in her pajamas, fidgeting in the door.

“Can I come in?”

“Of course,” you said, pulling back the covers.

It was something she used to do when she was little, come crawling into bed with you before Steve had come to bed. She’d curl under the covers and face you, sometimes sitting, sometimes laying, but you’d always had the best times just laying there with her.

It was like watching her past and present self at the same time as she climbed into the bed next to you, pulling the covers over her legs and sitting back against the headboard.

“I’m sorry for worrying you tonight. And yelling at you. I don’t hate you, I was just mad,” she said, looking ashamed for her earlier temperament.

“It’s okay, sweetheart. We all get mad sometimes.”

“Yeah, but I shouldn’t have said that. Dad told me it really hurt you.”

You weren’t surprised that Steve had picked up on it. After all these years together he knew you even better than you knew yourself.

“Yeah,” you sighed, “You might understand one day with your own kid, but it does hurt to hear it come from the child you helped create, bring into the world and raise—no matter if it’s toward the father or mother. Any good parent would hate to hear those words.”

“I wasn’t thinking,” she said, shoulders slouching, “I really don’t hate you. I love you so much, I hope you know that mom.”

“I know, Abbie, I know,” you smiled, pulling her to you for a hug, “I love you too.”

“You know,” you said when you pulled away, “You were way too young to remember, but for the first year of your life it was just you and me against the world.”

“Really? I know dad is my adoptive dad legally, even though he’s my real dad, I’ve just never known how old I was when you guys met.”

“You’d just turned one,” you chuckled, “And he fell in love with you at first sight more than he did me, I think.”

“Mom, stop,” she laughed, “I’ve seen pictures of you as a teenager and you’re just as pretty as you are now.”

“Well you’re just biased,” you chuckled.

“Will you tell me the story about how you and dad met? It’s been too long since I’ve heard that one.”

You smiled, launching into the tale again, one you used to tell her all the time as a little girl.

All the while, Steve stood outside the door, eavesdropping, pleased to know peace once again ruled the house.

#steve harrington #steve harrington fic #steve harrington blurb #steve harrington x you #steve harrington x fem!reader #steve harrington x reader #stranger things #stranger things blurb #steve harrington fluff #stranger things fic

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castlecult · 2 years

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okay so basically i’m just testing the water so… some kind of intro for mbf!natasha with f!reader ahead <3

pairing : mbf!natasha romanoff x f!reader

warnings : none + r is of age & nat is her late thirties

you’re coming back home from college and basically you find your mom & nat at your house. they’re cooking and gossiping and stuff like that and it’s been a lot since you last saw nat because she used to be super busy with work.

“oh? that’s y/n?” nat exclaims once you enter your house and she’s all like ‘you grew up so much, look at you! you’re a heartthrob for sure’ and stuff like that, so you’re a bit flushed by her compliments and so you thank her but like all shy.

she eats at your house, curious about your college life she asks questions alongside your mom and then they announce that maybe a little party with some close friends will be fun since you’re back.

you help them out a bit and then disappear to get ready for the night. you hear nat leaving too and once you and ur mom are ready you wait with her for the others to come.

at the party, everyone greets you & ask the usual questions, you know the drill. then nat overhears one of your mom friends asking you about a boyfriend and you simply reply with an ‘i’m not interested in finding a bf atm’ and stuff like that.

by the end of the night, you find yourself cleaning around the house with nat, while ur mom’s out saying goodbye to everyone.

“not interested enough to find a boyfriend, huh?” nat teases, making you chuckle. “well, i’m alright on my own for now, you know?” you say and shrug. “makes sense,” she nods and help you put away the empty bottles.

ur mom’s finally back inside and you tell her to go to sleep since she’s clearly tired. she waves goodnight and goes upstairs.

once you and nat are alone again, you finish cleaning the living room and tell her she can go home. you reach the door and notice nat’s sending you a strange look, but you don’t ask anything.

“sleep well, okay? welcome back, sweetie,” she smiles and kisses your cheek, you feel your face heat up and simply smile back, nodding. you watch her walk towards her house, not too far from yours and then you close the door, sighing deeply.

you feel like a strange sensation inside of you, thinking about the looks nat sent you through the whole night – which seemed more than just those of an adult checking you were enjoying your night.

but maybe you were just imagining things. she always cared so much about you and your mom, she was one of her oldest friends and you enjoyed having her around, so maybe the fact that nat would spend more time around would help having that relationship back, and it wouldn’t hurt anybody… would it?

an : this sucksssss 😩 but yeah as i said it’s just to give some context bc i’m gonna write misc one shots .. hope you enjoyed it + reblogs & feedback are super appreciated <3 if u wanna share your thoughts about mbf!nat hit my inbox !!

#rin writes #mbf!natasha romanoff #mbf!natasha romanoff x reader #natasha romanoff x reader #natasha romanoff x y/n #natasha romanoff x you #natasha romanoff one shot #natasha romanoff drabble #natasha romanoff blurb #natasha romanoff fanfiction #natasha romanoff #black widow #scarlett johansson #marvel

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sadsycamoretree · 2 years

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HEY HEY HEY !!! ALL PEOPLE WRITING SIBLINGS HERE ARE THINGS ME AND SIBLINGS DO TO ADD THAT FUN SIBLING BOND

1. the room thing where you open the door, stare at your sibling for like a minute, they ask what the fuck are you doing ? and then leave. but leaving the door open to inconvenience them

2. dumb lies to each other, my older sister and i will gang up on our younger sister and try to convince her of random stuff that happened.

3. lie together! we all band together to lie to our parents <33 about dumb stuff or serious stuff

4. steal clothes

5. threaten each other with the nearest object. better if object is a food

6. be honest. like mean honest. like stuff you’d never say to your friends… stuff that would ruin friendships. the meanest shit tbh and then after you say it: laugh

7. hate on their friends. cuz sometimes they have awful friends and i need them to know that i don’t like their friend

8. fight over food related things. ex. theres only enough milk for one glass, theres only one strawberry left, there arent any marshmallows in the lucky charms… stuff like that

9. when they annoy you steal a random item for like two weeks and then put it back where you stole it from just to fuck with them but never tell them you stole it so they just think they’re stupid

10. fight over what food to buy when planning groceries

11. getting ready for bed and fighting for who gets to use the sink first/shower first

12. getting home from a long drive and racing to the bathroom and yelling when they get there first and then having to run to the other bathroom which is like on the opposite side of the house and upstairs

13. discussing something peacefully in your room with them then randomly getting annoyed and saying, “okay you have to leave now im tired” and them getting really offended.

14. inside jokes!

15. looking at each other when someone says something stupid

16. mishearing each other. my siblings and i tend to have conversations likes through different rooms so we usually mishear and have to repeat stuff, which also leads to argue and frustration bcuz none us like to repeat ourselves

17. my younger sister hates going downstairs by herself so she constantly comes into my room and like stands there in the dark while im half asleep like : will you come get food with me ? and if i don’t go with her she leaves my door open so i have to get up anyways

18. making a mean joke and them not having the same energy back and then you know you hurt their feelings so you have to be like, do you wanna get food? i’ll pay, and them be really nice on the car ride until they’re joking again

19. when our parents are being unfair to one us and the others stand up for us… alternatively tho the betrayal of when my parents argue with me and my sisters side with them

20. arguing about whos the favorite child. me saying, “its probably not me” and them immediately agreeing

21. second hand therapy from our older sister who goes to therapy and shes like yeah so my therapist and i talked about this and i also felt like you guys would benefit bc its about mom and dad and then revealing some random trauma we all forgot about and being like yeah that was fucked up !

#writing #writing prompts #prompts #writing siblings #siblings #writing stuff #writers #authors #sibling dynamics #long post #i think long post?#idk

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peligrosapop · 7 months

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I can’t sleep and have a headache, I’m in pain and sober ( weed would help 2/3 at the least)for some stupid reason. So, I’ll rant.

I went skating (as in skateboard) yesterday

did my first ever 50-50 trick (skate trick) at 40

but also pulled a muscle in my upper thigh and I’m limping a bit and it hurts. (Hi, It’s me, Pedri without free accessible healthcare)

A girl flirted/hit on me and I can’t thinking about it bc, maybe I liked the attention? and she’s cute? I get plenty of attention at home though, dunno wtf is going on.

I forgot to call my mom on her bday but I called her today and we talked like an hour and it was nice. I like my mom a lot. I don’t want her to die, ever. My dad’s death anniversary was last week and I just realized yesterday. None of us surviving family members said anything either, guess we rather forget.

The call with mom also made me realize I barely call anyone anymore, ever. Last time my older sister called I didn’t pick up and have ghosted her since. I told my mom I’m being anti social atm. I need to call my pregnant younger sister. I guess I’m the asshole.

I text with a lot of people that I don’t know IRL and have neglected a lot of my IRL friends. I even have neglected online friends I like a lot. I still chat people a bit too much, I’m afraid.

I think my current obsession with Barça on tumblr and tumblr in general helps me focus on something else but myself when I’m stuck creatively or emotionally.

I need to finish writing 4 songs that I started and are almost done. One about staring at your crush, one about dreaming of people that have passed away, one about Messi (in the most non-obvious way) and one about leaving everything behind to move somewhere else to remake your life. It is annoying to feel like I can’t when I’m perfectly able to. They are 80-90% done.

Right now I’m in between jobs doing some gigs and the break in routine and extra time to do fun stuff things has been , instead of being liberating, weird.

My fav girl friend has been really busy lately and I fucking hate it. I feel needy. And I hate it.

My boyfriend is amazing, thank god he’s there. My bff. I am a mess rn. He was trolling me a week ago saying “I read this list of symptoms of depressed people and you checked out most of them” and I laughed at him and he was like 😅. I’m not depressed. It’s okay. I have depressive tendencies from anxiety but that’s it. I’m a hedonist most of the time, anyway. 🤣 Very few fucks given but active existencial dread.

My health/body has been changing since I hit 40 and it’s pissing me off. Also I kinda stop caring care of myself for a second but getting back on track. Also need to start saving money for all the “hey you hit 40 so you may have this” health test, like cancer screenings and shit. But hey, better old than dead.

and….I need a hug. And to write poems but they won’t come out. I don’t need anyone to do anything. I just need to get it out of my system.

I wish you were here and not so far away, you know this. I punched my pillow today like I told you I wanted to. I wish it was easier.

We had a friend as a house guest for a week and he just left today without telling us, even though he was supposed to be here 2 more weeks and now he said he is with a dude we don’t talk to anymore. lol wtf is wrong with people?! can’t they be normal?!!!! You can say you wanna go see a friend, why just disappear and tell us a one like text when we asked where the fuck you are. He may come back? I dunno ahahahah. Maybe its our bad for having a bunch of moody musicians as friends.

Also, like my bf jokes all the time….when I die, be happy for me because I won’t have to pay any more bills.

Maybe this was too real but IDGAF. The end.

#mental health rant #buenas noches

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sydneyofalltrades · 10 months

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Now for the less angst and more wholesome portion of the lovebugs bc I love those little shits

Everyone knew about Moni and Mason. Their friends, their families, their colleagues.

And yes, it was.. nice. But this feeling of guilt crept into Moni and stuck around with her, a little black cloud no amount of sunshine could get rid of.

It was a rainy Saturday when the cloud consumed her whole. She felt too wrong for Mason, she could hurt him beyond repair, she could do to him what all those other men did to her. And she couldn’t do that. Not to him.

So she’d remove herself from his life. It’s the right thing to do.

“Hey, Mon, you wanna come over to my place?”

Moni looked up and smiled. “Sure! I haven’t met your parents yet.”

Mason shrugged. “Yeah, they’re never around. Always at parties or bingos or betting their lives away. They went to jail a couple times for it so..”

Moni frowned. “You live alone? Really?”

Mason shrugged again. “I’m 18, I’m legally allowed to. And I work like six jobs anyway to pay rent, I manage just fine without them.”

Moni kissed his cheek. “You’re very brave to do that on your own. I couldn’t imagine living like that, but it’s your reality.”

Mason sighed. “Yeah, but anyway. Here.”

He gave her a key and a note. “The address is in the note and this is a spare key to the apartment. I figured you’d rather have one since I trust you with it.”

Moni stared at the little key. “Thanks, Mason.”

She smiled, not entirely real but not entirely forced. How was she going to break the news? She’d probably break his heart.

The thoughts in her brain swirled around like a tornado. Moni walked to Noel’s room and he looked up.

“What’s up?”

Moni sighed. “Tell Mom I’ll be at a friend’s house, I’ve got something to do.”

Noel was confused. “Okay, do you need me to go with you?”

“No! I- I mean, I’ll be fine.”

She grabbed her phone and bag before leaving. This was going to be hard.

She took Mason’s hand and they walked off to his apartment.

“Hey, you okay?”

Moni nodded, smiling faintly. “I’m fine!”

They arrived at the simple, empty apartment.

“This is your place,” Moni asked slightly.

“Yeah,” Mason said sheepishly, “It’s not always this messy.”

Moni shrugged. “It’s fine. It has a lived in feel to it.”

Mason smiled. “Thanks. Hey, you want something to drink?” He grabbed a soda and offered her one.

Moni shrugged again. Mason frowned.

“Are you okay?”

Moni shook her head. “I have something to tell you.”

Mason popped open his soda and nodded. “What’s wrong, Monini?”

Moni took a breath. “I think we should break up,” she said quickly. Mason paused.

“What do you mean, break up?”

Moni’s hands started shaking. “Look, Mason, don’t get me wrong, I love you and I love being with you. I do. I just- I don’t want you to ever think you need to fix me or save me.”

She sighed. “I don’t want my past ruining what could be something amazing. I don’t want to hurt you the way I’ve been hurt, so the best way to do that.. is to let you go.”

Mason frowned. “What makes you think that, Moni?”

Moni shrugged. “You know my past, you know how bad it got. I don’t want to relapse and hurt you, you’re the greatest person I’ve ever met and- I think it would be better if we ended this. While we still can.”

Mason took Moni’s hand. “Moni. I’m not breaking up with you. And you’re not leaving, you can’t. You’d be too heartbroken to live and then you’d probably kill yourself and I can’t have you killing yourself, I love you too much for that.”

She rolled her eyes. “Mason, please-“

He grabbed her face. “Monique. Listen.”

And she did.

“I don’t want any other pair of eyes looking at me the way you do. I don’t want any other hands in my hair because yours are the perfect pair. You, Monique Gruber, are not leaving because I’m your boyfriend. I’m supposed to help you feel like you can be vulnerable, you can let go of your trauma. I’d gladly get hurt by your hands over and over if I knew you were going to come back and love me the way I always love you.”

Moni sniffled. “You asshole. I love you so much.”

Mason grinned. “I love you too, you little bitch.”

She pulled him in for a kiss and it cemented something, it made her feel like she was worthy of someone else’s love.

Moni took Mason’s hand and they started dancing in the middle of the hallway. They did that a lot, dancing whenever the feeling struck them.

“Don’t ever think for a second you aren’t worth a healthy relationship, Moni,” Mason said earnestly, “You’re worth the world.”

#moni gruber #and her lover mason #fluff bc i have no angst prepared #but uh something’s coming #ride the cyclone #rtc au #sydneys weirdness

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astridthevalkyrie · 4 months

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consistently having a pain in both wrists for six years and then multiple doctors telling you “the xrays don’t show anything just take painkillers and put ice on it” is so frustrating. it’s so frustrating hearing that despite me starting off appointments saying that I already do that and it doesn’t work. my mother’s wrist hurting yesterday and me immediately taking her to urgent care and taking over making dinner while my dad jokes that i’m faking my own pain is actually spirit killing. wanting to write so much and not being able to bc of this pain, and needing to write and do projects for school and constantly avoiding it sure in part bc of depression or laziness or whatever but also bc I can never find a position in which my wrists don’t ache and my back doesn’t hurt. and my mom asking me “do you wanna drive forty minutes to see grandpa in the hospital” knowing that I’m gonna be the one to have to drive there bc she can’t, and I’m not saying her pain is fake or that it’s not worse than mine it probably is if she can’t drive. but my wrists ache so bad and writing aggravates it and driving aggravates it and cooking aggravates it and i am not saying that that means I get a free pass not to do those things but the absolute lack of sympathy or even care is so ridiculously frustrating. i despise crying in front of her but I still couldn’t stop a few tears coming out on the drive home and she tried for a minute to be like “what happened? c’mon, talk to me” as though. talking to her has ever helped or soothed a problem for me. as though she didn’t tell me a week ago to just “stop” with the depression. as though she doesn’t tell me things like how she hopes my husband beats me for doing theatre. in what godforsaken world am I supposed to feel safe enough to talk to her???? when I didn’t say anything she finally shut her fucking trap for a few minutes before telling me I should pray the depression away. fuck this woman fuck this pain i am so tired.

#i’m so tired i’m so tired i wish she would leave me alone

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sturnioloshacker · 3 months

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idk if it’s ok to vent to you but if it isn’t i completely understand and you just don’t have to respond to this, but lately my mom has been bringing up my dad so so much. like my dad is still present in my life but he has a new gf and he’s been leaving me in the past basically and never even seeing me, and my mom thinks it’s ok to bring up ‘oh he don’t love you’ n shit like that everytime she’s mad and it lowkey makes me js wanna pack my shit n leave. and i tried talking to her abt it and she gave me a shitty apology and brushed it off as if i don’t have feelings. and today was my dads wedding and i don’t have a car yet so she had to pick me up and before she picked me up she said ‘did you take any pics from the wedding’ and i said no so she said ‘ok then find a different way home.’ which is so unfair so i literally had to beg her to drive me home. and i’m honestly js thinking abt leaving tn, but like idk yet bc i still love my mom but she’s really not showing any ‘love’ back.

oh i’m so sorry you’re dealing with all of this my love. my best advice would be to try and talk to your mum and tell her how you’re really feeling and how much she’s hurting you.

no matter how much you wanna leave, you still need your mum as a form of guidance in life. it’s all about communication and making sure your mum understands where you’re coming from. tell her every single little detail.

she could also be hurting from the fact that your dad has moved on in life and she’s choosing to take her frustrations on someone else in her life which is sadly you. she may be finding it hard to adjust to this new life and now that your dad has remarried, she’s heartbroken, hurt, possibly depressed and just simply lost and the only thing she can really do is just be angry and upset.

the main thing is to just talk to her. you never know, she might actually open up to you and tell you how she feels about it all. the more feelings you let out between each other, the more likely you’ll become closer, stronger and tighter.

hope things work out for you and your mum sweetheart, you got this. i believe in you 🩷

fyi, vent all you want! i’m always here to listen and help when you need it most x

#asks ❤️#anon asks

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akkpipitphattana · 2 years

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i’m out of class and here is the extremely detailed “superache by conan gray is a pran parakul album through and through” post

movies - high school pran, especially while he was away at boarding school with the chorus. in his head his mom never sent him away! in his head him and pat could be together! also arguably ep9-10 pran bc he’s living in that fantasy of getting to have pat and then hit with the “we know it’s not what we’re doing, cause baby it ain’t like the movies” when their parents find out and everything falls apart

people watching - arguably more of a pat song, but definitely feels like pran while he was away at boarding school. i’m a big believer in whore parakul, so i think he definitely had flings but never anything serious. “i’ve never really been in love, not seriously” is him brushing off his high school crush on pat and insisting he’s over it. but he wants that! he wants to be in love! he’s a romantic!

disaster - this is SUCH a pran song fr. hes ALWAYS thinking about how things are gonna go wrong. what if things don’t work out? what if pat changes his mind? what if our parents find out? also “ashley thinks there’s something between you and i” is SO ink picking up on what’s going on between them like cmon

best friend - you could argue this is about wai or ink, but honestly? pat is his best friend and i don’t wanna hear it. they’re each other’s ride or die even if he doesn’t like admitting it in the beginning

astronomy - pran in ep6 fr. desperately trying to get pat to let what’s between them die so he can move on because he doesn’t think it’s possible and doesn’t wanna get hurt. “stop trying to keep us alive, you’re pointing at stars in the sky that already died” like!!!

yours - ep4 pran. this is so ep4 pran is HURTS. “i know i’m not the one you really love, but i guess that’s why i’ve never given up” and “all i’ve ever wanted was that look in your eyes, like you already know that i’m the love of your life” and “i’m somebody you use but never own” like!!! COME ON

jigsaw - another one that’s arguably more pat, but i feel like it can fit pran as well, especially if you consider it in relation to his mom like. “i’ll change every part of me until the puzzle pieces aren’t me at all” and “changing parts of myself to fit you, clear as shit i was not the issue” like!! it’s soooo pran and his mom

family line - this song is so both of them. but you know pran and his mommy issues, especially in the line “i’m so good at telling lies, that came from my mother’s side, told a million to survive” like!!!!

summer child - YOU DONT HAVE TO ACT LIKE ALL YOU FEEL IS MILD!!! YOURE LYING SUMMER CHILD!!!! do i even need to say anything. this is so pran i’m gonna cry

footnote - god. from high school to when they got together fr. like. “i’ll just take a footnote in your life, and you can take my body every line i would write for you, but a footnote will do” like!!! god it’s so pran, that feeling of wanting to be important to pat but thinking he’s not.

memories - once again pran in ep6. hes so desperately trying to keep pat at arms length but pat keeps coming back. “i wish that you would stay in my memories, but you show up today just to ruin things” AND “you steal all my clothes everything that i own and it makes me feel like dying” !!!!!! LIKE

the exit - pran when he transfers back. “feels like we had matching wounds but mines still black and bruised and yours is perfectly fine” and “you love her, it’s over, so you even doubt it on your lips when you say it (say it)?” and “you’ve already found someone to miss while i’m still standing at the exit” like!! he doesn’t act like it as much as pat but the distance effected him. and in his mind he doesn’t think pat even needs him especially when he has someone else (ink)

#thank you for coming to my tedtalk #my pran album fr #bad buddy #pran parakul #patpran #my analysis #mine

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marshmallowprotection · 1 year

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You know the whole thing about Saeran forgiving the people who hurt him and that includes his parents, people seemed so upset by that. But it’s like it’s so complex?

Like as someone with a mother who hit me a lot and was constantly tired in the past. I can’t find it in myself to hate her. I love that the choi twins differ that way. That Saeyoung makes it a point to say it doesn’t forgive them and he’s not shamed for it. But Saeran says he forgives them and isn’t shamed for it either. It’s just how the both of them chose to cope and move on. I find myself relating to Saeran bc of this.

There’s always shows and movies where an abusive parent to child relationship is shown and we see built up resentment which is valid. Those are all valid, hating the people who hurt you and even deciding to put them in a ✨retirement home✨ is valid. But I love my mom so much. We didn’t have a lot and she was disabled living off welfare and social security. And I was always a very sensitive kid. So she didn’t have patience for it or the burdens of life were crippling. She took that out on me as a result. I feel like parental relationships are so complex. I hold grudges against her obviously, a part of me is very angry because of what happened to me resulted. I can’t help but have so much love for her. And I think no one acknowledges that kind of complexity. I felt seen during Saeran’s AE. I never tell anyone this because I get upset if people tell me “wow your mom was a piece of shit” or “she’s a bad mom” like even if that’s technically true, don’t talk bad about my mom 😐 unless someone’s my family I don’t want anyone’s two cents on how I should feel about her.

I love that fact Saeran cried for her, and I found what he said so important. How yeah he was horribly and severely abused, but she’s his mom and after Saeyoung left, she was all he had. And since the difference between SE Saeran and GE Saeran being that one had the choice to escape Mint Eye the choice to seek his own freedom and happiness, the other was forcibly removed and then put in a hospital (even if it was for the best and Saeyoung was out of options). So I found it important that Saeran said regarding how she died, “I never wanted to lose her like that.”

He was never even given a choice to leave his abusive mom. She was just gone one day. They didn’t even find a body. I’m sure he felt lonely and empty, at that moment his mom disappeared without a trace just like Saeyoung did. And he never had the chance to even process his grief, bc for some people a loss is a loss.

I never wanna seem like those type of people who are like “oh but she’s your mother wym you hate her” every victim’s feelings towards those who hurt them are valid. But it never sat right with me that people passed judgment on Saeran for deciding to forgive her. Or saw it as bad writing. Felt hypocritical to me. Like there’s a right way to heal from abuse and Saeran did it “wrong”. It’s not like forgiveness means everything is all water under the bridge.

Basically, if you choose to forgive those that hurt you and that will help you heal? Good on you. If you choose to resent those that hurt you and that will help you heal? That’s just as good too.

I love the choi twins!

You hit the nail on the head. This is personal and circumstantial. As a victim of abuse, you are the only person that gets to decide how you handle your life and the complexities of whatever choice you make in regard to how you feel about your abuser. It's important you make an informed choice based on what you know about yourself.

If you need to talk to other people and spend days, months, years, etc, figuring out what to do? That's perfectly all right, but at the end of the day, you need to be the one that decides how you're going to handle your feelings about the person(s) who abused you. You are also not confined to the choice you make.

If something changes going forward and you feel differently, you are allowed to react that way. If you know you're never going to change your mind, that's also okay. You are the one that knows you the best. Do not let anybody detract from what you know deep inside your heart. There is no right or wrong way to handle this situation.

There is only the choice you make with what feels right for you. What's right for you may not be right for another person and that’s okay.

I don't think anybody should judge Saeran or Saeyoung. They decided what they wanted to do and everybody should respect that choice. It doesn't have to be the choice you make, but they did what was right for them. Frankly, I am so happy that the two of them got to decide what felt right.

There's a reason why you get a good ending by helping Saeran confront his father as opposed to letting Rika handle him. For him to be able to reach the best amount of peace, he needs to confront all of them and find forgiveness in his heart in some capacity. I've gone over the many kinds of forgiveness because there is no single type. He got what he needed.

Anon, I hope you know you’re not wrong for doing what was right for you. I don't think you're naive and I don't think you're foolish. You know what's right for you and you know how to keep yourself safe. If you know in your heart that the complicated feelings you have are okay, that's all that matters.

When your abuser is a parent, of course, you feel complicated. Society teaches us that we are supposed to love our parents as much as they're supposed to love us. Many abusers had good days and bad days, and that makes it even more complicated for you to come to terms with the fact that they hurt you. Some had a black-and-white situation where their parents weren’t good all the time, and I hope they know they’re justified in feeling what they need to feel, too.

Instead of shaming people or making them feel bad for the decisions that they make to come to terms with what they suffered, we should all be supporting each other and respecting our personal choices. Just because somebody chooses to do something different than you doesn't mean that they're wrong in doing so. You are allowed to have your feelings and they are allowed to have theirs.

As long as you respect and care for each other as fellow survivors of abuse, that's what matters.

I have my own feelings about the abuse I've suffered. I don't forgive. But, I've been allowed to make that choice and nobody makes me feel bad for it. Nobody should make people who choose to forgive feel ashamed of doing so, however. I find it admirable that there are people that can lighten the load on their hearts by choosing to find some form of forgiveness to find peace. Peace for me won't come through forgiveness. But I salute those that find it in their hearts.

#long post #mod kait #tw abuse mention

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winderlylandchime · 7 months

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2/2 ‘I will pay him to shut up. I’m broke as a fucking joke but bro i am willing to work my tushy on every corner to make him shut up. Pretentious fucker. I’m so happy Brian isn’t this cringey. *mocks ethan* alone jerking off. Oh fuck off. HE WAS IMAGINING HIM KISSING HIM. I WILL LITERALLY VOMIT RIGHT THIS SECOND, this is gonna sound weird but Bri looks better when he gets head. This guy makes funky faces. (THE KNOCK JUST HAPPENED) imagine if its brian!!!!! He needs help with more posters or some shit! OH MY GOD ROSES! OH ETHAN LOOKS LIKE HE JUST SAW HIS OWN LIFE FLASH BEFORE HIS EYES….spoiler alert it was a very boring one. HIS MUUUUSE? OH ETHAN IS SCARED- OH FUCKS SAKE BEN! WHY DO YOU RUIN EVERYTHING!’ *Mikey is now being dramatic with a needle* ‘Mikey whatcha doing? Dude, why cant you just be dramatic over boyfriends the same way everyone else is? Dye your hair red and get a buzzcut! FINALLY BEN! Now go back to boring and call it a day’ And we are back to Justin ‘ow ow Justin that has to hurt. TELL HIM! YES HE IS A LIAR! OH YOU MISSED HIM? FOR A DAY?! OH ITS JUSTINS FAULT AGAIN LIKE USUALLY?! (Ethan says thee line) OH YOU KEEP YOUR BRIANS NAME OUT OF YOU CHEATIN MOUTH! EXACTLY YOU NEVER FORGAVE HIM BC HE DIDNT DO SHIT WRONG! HE WAS HONEST FROM DAY ONE! YES LEAVE! SHOVE THAT RING UP YOUR ASS. Oh i have a few ideas what you could do without Justin. *does middle fingers at Ethan* HAHAHA FUCK YOU MARACAS BOY! JUSTIN FINALLY SAW THE LIGHT! *pauses tv* you know what we need now? Brian and Justin to bump into each other and for him to see Justin’s bleeding hand. Yup. I could do this shit for a living!’ He is literally smiling so big and he rewinded the scene like 2 times. Each time he smiled more and more while also laughing at Ethan. *raises his soda in the air* ‘lets all have a toast to Ben’s failed attempt at trying to be less boring. Glad you saw the light, big guy.’ ‘NOW HOW DID BRIAN KNOW HE DIDNT SLEEP AT HO-oh his clothes are the same. BRI YOU ARE ABOUT TO BE SO HAPPY! GUESS WHAT HAPPENED? THEY BROKE UP! (Ted just thanked Brian) dude, stop acting like you dont care for your friends. I get that its part of your schtick but dude come on. you most certainly did it for Teddy! THERES POTENTIAL IN THIS BROMANCE!’ ‘Oh fuck you Justin, you were buddies with him last episode but now youre saying he’s acting like total shit, i mean okay true BUT COME ON. And Debbie, maybe you could understand it if you, oh I don’t know, stopped blaming him all the time and being rude to him one second and the next you love him! Im still mad at you acting like you dont know that he loves Justin!’ Melanie just said she’s pregnant ‘oh no. Oh no. This is gonna be the worst thing since…quick name something bad. Mike is gonna be a dad. Oh that’s…i dont wanna say bad but i am coming up short on any other word’ ‘BRIAN! (Btw every time he says that when he comes on tv he literally points to the tv like he’s shocked he’s in the show..imagine that one Leo Dicaprio gif) HEY! brian is a good dad! *looks at me in wonder* Do you think backrooms are still a thing? Are they even legal? OH MY GOD ITS BLONDIE! JUSTIN!! HES IN THE BACKROOM! HES IN THE CLUB! FINALLY!! I hated how he acted that he was too good for it. AND LOOK HOW FAST BRI BRI SAW HIM! of course you are gonna fuck next to hi- OH JUSTIN SAW HIM *starts hitting me all excited* THEY ARE LOOKING AT EACH OTHER! THEY ARE FUCKING AND LOOKING AT EACH OTHER!!! DID YOU SEE THAT SMIRK? OH JUSTIN ISNT EVEN TRYING TO LOOK AWAY! *stands up and starts showing his shirt* TEAM FUCKING BRIAN! I KNOW THATS RIGHT! *screams literally on top of his lungs* I WANNA FEEL YOU FROM THE INSIDE?! OH THEY ARE SICK FOR THAT!’ He is now staring at the tv with his hands in his hair smiling while credits roll..’oh i gotta call mom! I gotta tell her! This is big news, shit i gotta call (friends name)! I gotta tell him all about this! I knew this shirt would work, you all thought i was crazy but it worked!’ And now he is giving mom the full run down. She is stuck with him on the phone bc she ignored his calls so he guilt tripped her

Your brother's reaction to THEE SCENE is everything. It is perfect. 10/10 would read that a million times over, no notes. (Or, this being tumblr, 1k notes post)

Brian and Justin to bump into each other and for him to see Justin’s bleeding hand. <- WHY WERE WE ROBBED OF THIS

THEY ARE LOOKING AT EACH OTHER! THEY ARE FUCKING AND LOOKING AT EACH OTHER!!! DID YOU SEE THAT SMIRK? OH JUSTIN ISNT EVEN TRYING TO LOOK AWAY! *stands up and starts showing his shirt* TEAM FUCKING BRIAN! I KNOW THATS RIGHT! *screams literally on top of his lungs* I WANNA FEEL YOU FROM THE INSIDE?! OH THEY ARE SICK FOR THAT!’

That is all of us right now.

I LOVE that your brother immediately wanted to tell everyone. No one cares but he still wants to share the good news.

#ask winderlylandchime #dear sweet anon #queer as folk #a straight man watches qaf us 2000 in the year of our lord 2023

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ravenousgoblin · 11 months

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I took half a painkiller for my legs earlier and I didn’t feel loopy or sleepy like at all. This worries me. Because I don’t take them often out of fear of becoming addicted like my mother was. But when it gets so intense that I need them…it’s bad. Last time I had some I had accidentally taken two whole ones instead of two whole headache meds bc I picked up the wrong bottle(the bottle is now labeled so we don’t have a repeat). So that could be why it was less effective and didn’t knock me out but I don’t wanna have to take another half. Especially if I’m not gonna call out bc if it DOES end up making me sleepy, there’s no telling when I’ll rise from the grave

ANYWAY the pain faded shortly after but it has slowly creeped its way back through the hours and they hurt so bad I’m afraid to move them to go get more medicine. It hurts so fucking bad but if I put pressure on them what if they feel worse. I’m literally trying not to scream and I’m crying.

I don’t wanna interrupt my moms sleep to call her from the living room to ask her to bring them and my sister doesn’t know I have drugs, she thinks I buy weed and not pharmaceuticals. But any kind of movement from them hurts so bad but so does just laying in here like some kind of corpse just crying.

And I wanna call off so fucking bad but I can’t do that, I’m finally in the system so it’d be considered an actual call-in. Plus I don’t trust the swing manager for shit she’s so bad at her job. PLUS it’s Thursday. Thursday is the day we get two truck deliveries and a coke vendor delivery. I’m not trying to make the overnight manager come in early again either. She already had to come in early two weeks ago when I “accidentally” slept in on that Friday. And I adore her so I’m not trying to make her life hard.

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limeade-l3sbian · 1 year

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the bruise analogy makes sense. except it’s more like she left a gaping wound and then this eventually scarred over and now hurts when it rains. it was about my mom, whom i love dearly. but i also hate a lot at times. i hate that i hate her. it sounds stupid. but i truly do wanna forgive her but i also feel like i can never truly make peace with the stuff in my childhood and teen years. the choices she made. the choices she didn’t make. feeling othered in my own home for my whole childhood. we have had many blow up fights over the years and gone no contact two times over it. and now we truly are in a better place. i sent her years ago a long detailed mail of my feelings. i expressed them without anger. and finally something clicked and she apologized sincerely. she also changed the behavior still left over that damages me. and while i have received therapy and while i can understand my mom did not have it easy as a single mother to two kids, this hateful resentment never is fully gone and it shows it’s ugly face when i’m depressive. it makes me want to lash out. cause even a smidgen of the same hurt she did me. i don’t. but the want is there. makes me want to cut her out completely. but i don’t because i know that hurts immensely too. so i’m forced to sit in this love/hate. i wish i was a better person bc that would probably have made me able to forgive her truly. and i guess i do forgive her to an extent, rationally at least. but emotionally, my childhood and teen years are unforgivable.

having such complicated feelings are tiring. i wish sometimes emotions were much more one noted. a lot more comprehensible.

ah, the parent trauma. that's much harder to get through.

i'll be honest, anon. i struggle with the same thing. i love my mom but like you said, there was a lot of neglect and anger in my childhood that left a lot to be desired. it stunted me and had an effect on my actual life progress. she's apologized many times but the dynamic between parent and child is much harder to navigate through. mainly because in a lot of situations, we want to keep in touch with the person who raised us. i can't help but credit some parts of who i am today towards her, though the same can be said about the bad parts like certain fears and insecurities.

i can't say "this is exactly what you should do!" but i find that space between me and my mom has helped tremendously. unfortunately, i think in these types of situations, the only way that that wound can at least start to heal or become less noticeable is when you give it room to breathe. also, share this with her!

one thing that i didn't mention in the analogy bc i didn't want it to go on forever lmao was that A should, for her benefit and the relationship, tell B that they were still a little upset. Talking through things can be annoying, and you'll feel tired as FUCK. But you'll definitely start to notice the changes.

#ask

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