ok i wasn’t gonna say anything but this has been itching me; i was on ops side until they said steddie writers that write fem steve are just writing self inserts and i’m just…
if i wanted to write a self insert, i would write a self insert. but i’m not. i project onto some characters yes, but no fem character is rly anything like me because i’m trans masc, and tend to not relate to fem characters in regards to their femininity. when i write fem characters, they are *characters* that i’m writing.
also a queer man being feminine is not heteronormative. because no matter how feminine he is, he is still a queer man. his femininity does not take away from his queerness, and it is offensive and harmful to say it does. and even if in some fics hes written as a woman, whether cis or trans, it doesn’t fucking matter. if it bothers you, don’t read it. ao3 has a lovely tagging system to avoid what you don’t like, and you are responsible for the content you consume. don’t make it our fucking problem.
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i feel like i'm always in a constant battle between not being obsessed enough to be taken srsly on tumblr and being too obsessed to function with irls fa;lskdjf
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head in my hands. i promise i am not a scary unhinged person fdsgjkl, and none of my silly happy posting is fake, i am just very good at repressing and partitioning things. i can be having the worst day of my life and still enjoy jokes and be genuinely having a good time with my silly little characters and stories i come up with. this brain LOVES to section off shit that is genuinely unbearable (because how else do you live with that? if not putting it in a place where you cannot feel it?) so that i can cope and find joy in life still fsdjkl i simply love having a good time too much to ever make it up
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