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sugarlywhispers · 7 months
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b.katsuki x reader ; m.izuku x reader — bakugou cheats on his gf, with midoriya's girlfriend.
☆– warnings; ANGST. swear words, cheating.
☆– i got inspired to write this angst while i was watching Grey's Anatomy, SPOILER ALERT, the episode where Alex leaves Jo and goes back with Izzy.
☆– okay, so, in this blog, we support old, grown up, calmed down mineta. i read a fanfic once (i can't remember the name! ill try to find it🙈) where mineta had cooled down his thirst for women and became a great friend (still with the double meaning of things, but funny actually), and i thought "okay, if we accept redeemed bakugou, we can accept redeemed mineta". in fanfiction, cuz he's still a stupid, hormonal kid in the manga/anime. so expect more cool mineta bestie here, cuz i like and enjoy double meaning humor. if it's not your cup of tea, you're welcome not to read this🤍
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It takes a second, a breath, the entrance of air on your lungs to realize. To assimilate what happened, what it means.
"I brought a bottle of wine, some snacks and ice cream… Nothing heals the heart better than ice cream, talking about personal experience here," his voice says, but you're barely paying attention. You even saw him come into your apartment like it's his own, like he has done it thousands of times. But you don't leave your standing position by the door.
You saw the silhouette of Mineta, tall and broad shoulders through the peephole of the entrance door, and for a second you thought it was him. Even though they look nothing alike. But you thought… you wished it was him.
Bakugou Katsuki.
Reality hurts. 
Reality… is a bitch.
It takes a second to blink, to watch how everything changes, how everything falls apart in the simple action of closing and opening one's eyes.
You never thought it would happen to you. You thought he was it for you. You thought Bakugou Katsuki was going to be the one true love of your life. You trusted him. You gave him years of your life. Years where you thought he was the most amazing thing that ever happened to you. Years where you gave up dreams to help and support him in his dreams. And how does he thank you? Cheating. Choosing somebody else over you. Choosing her over you.
"I also heard hooking up with someone else also helps," Mineta jokes, snorting at his own ridiculous words. You know he is joking, he is your best friend and he has always joked this way. You know it. But… the heaviness in your chest doesn't know it. The pain in your heart doesn't know it.
"I'm not offering though… Don't take it personal, love. I love you and you're one the hottest hotties around here, but you're not exactly my type." He chuckles, taking the things he brought on bags over the counter of your kitchen.
You can see him from your position because it's not that far away, your apartment isn't big. When you and Bakugou went apartment hunting two months ago, you didn't want anything big and ostentatious. You simply wanted a home, whether that be a one room apartment.
It had been a home... Or so you thought.
Now, this apartment feels like a prison. A cell where it doesn't hold enough oxygen to breathe. Where every single corner reminds you of him. Where every single item and thing picked to decorate or to use, spoke about him. Him and you.
And there wasn't a "him and you" anymore.
Everything was a reminder of what him and you were.
There fucking isn't a "him and you" anymore.
"He left me," you breathe out, hand trembling over the doorknob.
Mineta turns around then. He sees you, shaking by the closed door at the entrance of your apartment. Hand holding the doorknob with strength, like your whole body depends on that contact to not fall apart. But your face… He has never seen you like this.
It's blank. And it's full of sentiment, emotions that hurt to actually see. Dark circles under your eyes. The skin of your face is pale, almost like a sick person; and that worries him. You're barely holding everything inside.
You are barely looking like your usual self.
Your breathing starts to agitate when you let go of the doorknob and turn your body a bit towards his direction. Then, your eyes find his.
"He… He just left me… And I–... I can't… I can't breathe," you finally cry.
You haven't cried since he confessed he had cheated on you with his ex-girlfriend, Uraraka Ochako. And that he has been doing it for three months. You did cry in that moment, but you haven't done it again. Not even when you broke the news to Mineta two days after–if you could describe your best friend's reaction, it would be murderous. It had been the first time you had seen Mineta Minoru that furious–. And you haven't even cried when you told Midoriya Izuku about what his actual girlfriend had been doing with your now ex-boyfriend. You remembered watching clearly the slow break of the number one Pro Hero's heart right through his eyes.
You haven't cried again until now. 
Why? Because today, you woke up to a message that said: "I'll pick up my stuff and leave the key at the apartment. I'll go in the morning when you're at work so I don't bother you." When you came back from work at 5pm today, Bakugou Katsuki had done as he promised. His clothes were no longer there, just more space for you to hang and organize your clothes. His computer set-up was no longer there, just an empty desk that you could use as your little home office. His shoes were no longer by the door, just empty space that you didn't know how to fill up.
The apartment is small, but it feels huge now that his things are no longer there.
You immediately texted Mineta: "S.O.S.", and it didn't take even an hour for him to appear with all this stuff he bought to make you feel better.
As you finally broke down on your knees, sobbing uncontrollably like you couldn't bring enough air to your lungs, Mineta knew any silly thing he could bring would be able to help you heal.
Because the only one able to heal this pain inside you… is yourself. 
But you're broken now. And Mineta's heart breaks with yours.
As he kneels beside you and holds you in his arms, he prays his friendship is enough to help you put yourself back together. And if not, Mineta prays to whatever exists up there that they send someone that can help you heal your heart with the devotion you deserve.
As you cry in your best friend's chest, you don't hear the little sound of a new notification on your phone. It's a message, that says:
"Hi, Y/N. It's Midoriya… I was just thinking that… only if you want to, if not it's okay… we could go grab a coffee together sometime. Just if you feel like it. Just… let me know if you want."
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mioakem · 7 months
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Rating td boys based on how good they r to their gfs
Duncan- do I even need to explain? Obv cheated on Courtney and was an overall dick to her after island and with Gwen he was always just trying to make court jealous 2/10 (the two points are for island Duncan and island Duncan only)
Cody- okok coderra is technically canon so leave me alone. Obv he was rightfully weirded out at first but he was actually really sweet with her towards the end of world tour 4.5/10
Geoff- ok like he’s good to Bridgette butttt gidgette is overall just dysfunctional and he did also say that Heather was the hottest girl on the show. Also they just made out all the time, not a lot to judge on 5/10
Owen- I’m sure he actually liked Izzy, but their whole relationship was kinda weird anyways, but they were fine 6/10
Alejandro- while making this I realized that every guy from this point forward treats their girls like literal queens, anyways he literally loves Heather and it’s so cute how he remembers every little detail about her 8/10
Trent- loved Gwen so much, was her biggest supporter, Gwen honestly fumbled bc he treated her better than Duncan ever could 8.5/10
Noah- was literally willing to give up the money for Emma, loved her sm, literally saved her life. He’s just so sweet to her and I wish that they were in more seasons together 9/10
Harold- ok I know Lesharold isn’t technically canon but whatever! He literally worships the ground she walks on, Barbie and Ken who bc I only know Leshawna and Harold. He’s just such a sweetheart 9.5/10
Tyler- holyyyy shit if you wanted an example of the perfect boyfriend then u better use him bc he was just so patient with Lindsay. He never got mad at her, he never gave up on her, he stayed by her side until she remembered him and then even when he was literally in a full body cast he was just so excited to see Lindsay again, I can’t he’s just perfect 10/10
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pavardscherie · 1 year
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hello
do something with Gavi
being his first gf<3
thanks
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— the first one, pablo gavi
⤷ pairing ;; pablo gavi & female reader ⤷ summary ;; being gavi's first girlfriend after he swore off the other girls, came with negative and positive traits. ⤷ warnings ;; cute gavi?? ⤷ izzy talks non-sense;; i'm a pedri girl, i gotta admit that. but gavi might be a close second if we're only talking about la liga. sadly, i am so bad at headcannons that i just decided to turn this into a little drabble as his first gf.
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since the world cup, gavi's name spread throughout the countries like the melody of a popular song, or the announcement of another great invention. with just seventeen years old, his goal against costa rica made him the youngest scorer. if the praise from the world wasn't enough, the girls fawned over the young athletic.
for over a year, a couple of weeks after he turned eighteen, pablo gained his experience throughout different nights. how could he not accept the luring words of another female, who snuck into his private messages and shared her fair opinion about him with a little hint of admiration in the syllabeles. none of his mates would have thought that the image he created, would wear off so easily. until the day, where pablo's eyes met yours in the front of the stands.
hair tangled together to a messy bun, thick strands framing your face and occasionally falling out as the tie loosened. a barcelona home jersey hugged your upper body, a little knot on the hem to reveal a thin line of skin between shirt and high-waisted jeans. the world around him could have not worked slower, but at the moment, you turned around to take a cup of cold coke from your father's hands, pablo saw his name written between your shoulder blades in capital letters, and the large number nine underneath.
at that very moment, his mind worked faster on creating a perfect plan to have a conversation with you between the screaming fans than focusing on the second half of the game. and somehow, after multiple attempts of asking you out, and having a decent chit-chat with you without your father's intense glaring, gavi made you his girlfriend. the first since he became the famous number nine or thirty in some matches for barcelona.
in the beginning, the first couple of months, it was a very hidden relationship. the meetings were private, mostly at spots where no paparazzi or supporters would engage with them. but as the days passed, pablo's popularity increased immensely among the fans, and it got harder to actually hide from the public eye. but the fear you carried like a heavy weight on your shoulders, made it extremely difficult to announce the official relationship.
before you, there's never been another girl that swept him off his feet so easily. not one, he came home to or texted multiple times a day. even if it was a very unnecessary winking face. you infiltrated each of his thoughts, starting in the morning, throughout the training sessions, and when he went to bed without you in his arms. hundreds of pictures he had hidden on his phone, stories of you he created for his Instagram but kept as drafts until you were prepared to announce it.
but pablo wasn't as subtle as you about the relationship. over the months, pedri slowly realized what was going on. why gavi ditched the party nights with the team, or why he never seemed interested in any intentions of various fans anymore. while you were still scared that he would cheat on you, and leave you once the public made up headlines about the two of you, you always watched the videos people posted. how he smiled at girls because it was his job to keep up the golden boy attitude, but the corners of his mouth never reached his eyes like when he was with you.
the small differences in his entire behavior crumbled the fear of being left alone or mistreated piece by piece. and somehow gavi talked you into the dinner nights with his closest friends, and sometimes even the entire team. holding hands underneath the table, sharing caring glances, and showing the mates around him what truly laid underneath the 'i'm bringing a good friend'.
somewhere along the way, it was impossible to hide the relationship anymore. cameras and supporters waited for gavi almost everywhere. you went out to get food for the movie night, and were approached almost immediately by a couple of girls. flirting with their eyes, touching his upper arm so softly with their manicured nails, and handing him little notes with their numbers on them. it bothered you, it pained you to watch the scene unfold without being able to say something, or actually claim him at all after still being hidden from the world as his girlfriend.
and those situations occurred more and more, and got insanely difficult to watch for you. so, the decision to publicly announce the relationship was made without overthinking. while your discomfort grew again when the followers increased on your Instagram account, the fans who actually liked gavi for his playing style and the skills he had, commented the nicest things underneath your pictures.
and gavi, he was certainly posting at least one story every day of you, the ones he had saved for way too long from months back, and telling the world how happy he was about finally showing off his girl, the one he loved. and when you struggled, pablo just became a more caring person than you expected. the dates were still mostly at home, not wanting the cameras or fans to interfere on such special nights. little gifts, like roses delivered to your house when he was away for another game, or a bracelet with two little silver letters on it. p and g, for pablo gavira.
like in every other relationship with a public figure, there always had to be a couple of people who claimed you were in a relationship for the fame. and on some days, the comments got very mean, calling you the worst names and even insulting you. but gavi was quick to shut them down, posting a picture of the two of you with a sweet caption, reassuring you that there was nothing in the world that could separate the two of you.
it never got not difficult as the thoughts of him being away from you, in another town with girls lining up in front of him to share their thoughts, pablo always showed you the opposite. receiving a note with a number turned into giving the piece of paper back to the girl with a delightful smile, and starting to ramble on about the beautiful girlfriend he has at home, who's waiting for his return to barcelona. over the time, you became comfortable with the situations, even the cameras that took several pictures of the two of you while being out and about.
you might never get a real name from the newspapers, always called gavi's girlfriend or the girl he's dating but it was alright. you got a seat in the section for people close to the players each home game, wearing one of the barcelona jerseys with his name written in capital letters on the back. this time, you were truly his, and not another person who only came to enjoy the game. you were in the stands, arms in the air, hands clapping together for the number nine of barcelona. your boyfriend, who always dedicated the goals he scored to you. sometimes with a heart, sometimes with blowing a kiss, and other days with a cheeky wink and thumbs up.
but you were there, proud of the man he has become over the past months, and in the comfort of your arms. cheering for him, clapping for your boyfriend. your number nine. your golden boy. your pablo gavi.
and you were his first girlfriend, the first one he gave his heart to without protection, and the first one, he truly loved and cared for.
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dianetastesmetal · 4 months
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Happy New Year to each one of my lovely mutuals!!! It's already 2024 over here!!
A special, New Year shoutout to:
@mysteriouslybluepirate for making me the happiest girl ever, by being the most wonderful gf anyone could ever ask for 🥰
And for being one of the most fantastic writers I've ever seen, of course 💞
You make me feel loved, and I hope I can do the same for you ♥️
@mysanityisinpieces for being one of my best fandom buddies who I'm always delighted to get a message from ♥️
@izzy-b-hands for being the one I could always message for support and advice, you're fantastic ♥️
@callmestannismaybe for being the first ever supporter of my writing, for being an inspiration for my first fics, and for being one of my most wonderful and most reliable friends! ♥️
@drlokiren for being a brilliant friend who I can always share headcanons or just simply any life situations with ♥️
@gydima for being another one of my best friends, and for celebrating Ferguson Friday with me every week!
@scariercnidaria for being one of the silliest, most whimsical little guys I've ever had the fortune of interacting with
@theageoldquestionn for being the newest member of the Ferguson Fuckers Club!
@feelmyskin for celebrating Ferguson Friday with me, and just for being one of my sweetest mutuals!
I'm looking forward to keep chatting/interacting with all of you in 2024, may this New Year bring you happiness and good moments!
I may or may not have forgotten to give a shoutout to some more mutuals, so if you feel like it, message me and I'll give you a shoutout too <3
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missjanjie · 2 years
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Let's hear the tdi lgbtq+ hcs then 👀
oh work i didn’t think i had followers that would be interested in this but leggo
ezekiel — a blank canvas if you think about it. if he comes out of goblin mode, he could be anything, and with his previous super old fashioned upbringing, he’ll probably end up deconstructing a lot and that isn’t a terribly uncommon queer backstory
eva — if i have to explain why eva is a lesbian you’re too far gone lol
noah — same as eva but gay
justin — delays coming out bcs he loves the attention he gets from girls, but he knows deep down he’s not capable of reciprocating that affection and ends up a club-hopping party gay
katie/sadie — bi, have or will explore each other’s bodies under the pretense of practicing for boys
tyler — pan but doesn’t know the word. he’s happy if they’re nice and pretty
izzy — pan and is very aware of it, helps owen come out as bi. also i refuse to believe she’s cis. that’s a she/they enby right there
cody — disaster bisexual
beth — just… so much comphet. maybe im projecting but she gives me the vibes of someone that is trying to appear boy crazy while secretly crushing on her bestie
courtney — starts off experimenting with girls in college fueled by the same urge for rebellion that drew her to duncan, but clings onto ‘heteroflexible’ for a few years longer than she needs to before eventually settling on ‘sapphic’. it sounds better to her
harold — already indifferent to gender roles but also pretty indifferent to gender. agender, mainly uses he/him bcs he knows that’s how he’s always gonna be addressed anyway
trent — big ‘hearts not parts’ energy. kinda cringey but harmless
bridgette — i cannot tell you how many bisexual girls ive met that are just like her. geoff has bi wife energy by proxy
lindsay — she thought ‘everyone likes boys and girls’ until she brought home her first gf in college and nearly gave her parents a heart attack (they’re supportive, just shocked)
dj — a ‘loves people for their souls’ type, like trent but not cringe. lowkey he/they vibes too
geoff — just likes to have a good time, not into labels. def in an open relationship w bridgette
leshawna — bi but only dates studs/mascs when it comes to girls
duncan — you can’t be punk and cishet. sorry i don’t make the rules. he thought he was kissing dudes to be edgy but quickly realized he liked it
heather — knew she was gay since she was like eleven but thought it’d hinder her ability to climb the social ladder so she got herself deep into comphet that takes a good therapist to pull her out of
gwen — bisexual she/they goth. i will not accept criticism
owen — was already pretty bad at hiding his attraction to guys, but being with izzy gave him the tools to understand his identity
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puppyboy-selfships · 1 year
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💙Hey, Look! A Promo!💙 (2023-???)
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💙Heyo! My name’s Isaac but I’m mostly called Izzie! I also have the self-given nicknames of Izzie Fizzie, Izziecakes, and Izzie Bo Bizzie if you ever feel like using those. I’m 19 and I’m a Transgender Male who goes by He/Him pronouns. I’m Panromantic and Ambiamorous(Currently Questioning Sexuality). I have a gf who supports my self-shipping and even does a bit herself. My personality type is INFP and I’m autistic. I’m okay with sharing my f/os as long as you are! Otherwise you should probably not interact!
💙Feel free to interact with me even if we don’t have any mutual interests other than being selfshippers! I just want to be able to make some friends!
💙DNI IF(Basic Edition): Pr0sh1pp3rs (And anything similar), You support cringe culture, You support Autism Speaks, You’re Racist, Abelist, LGBTQ+ Phobic, If you reblog selfship posts with “I wish that were me” tags,You obsessively talk about negative topics (Politics, Su1c1d3, Any Form Of Abus3, Call-Out Posts)(I know these are important but these things are kind of triggering to me so keep that in mind please!)
💙I draw and do a bit of writing so you may see things like that here. I only do drawing requests for CLOSE friends unless I ask for requests in a post. Don’t become my friend for free art, because that’s just cruel!
💙If you EVER feel like gushing about an F/O, feel free to leave a message! Also if you ever want to write an anonymous letter to me as one of my F/O’s I’d be super appreciative! (Not required of course!!!)
💙This may be updated at some point.
THE REST AS IN AN F/O LIST AND SUCH IS TO BE DONE AND UPLOADED LATER!
ROMANTIC F/O LIST: HERE
PLATONIC + FAMILIAL F/O LIST: HERE
CRUSHES/TBD:   To Be Uploaded Soon!  
SELF-INSERT LIST: To Be Uploaded Soon!
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zumpietoo · 2 years
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Ummm....initially, so it seemed (and I shipped it way earlier and longer than you did). In retrospect it was actually toxic, with Jug being an amazing partner, yes---while Slizzy lied, manipulated, used him as a placeholder and carried on an emotional affair with Douchie throughout. She also routinely took credit for all his work, was snide, belittling and bitchy and made everything endlessly about her ladypain....even while he was dealing was vastly bigger issues at hand. 
She then proceeded to betray him in the one way she had known for years would devastate him most, dangle him endlessly to feel better about herself, made him feel like he was completely worthless and treated him thusly. She did not care if he was ded or alive, she belittled his creative work and gave away his last hope of career resurrection. She didn’t care that he was a confessed alcoholic and ghosted him. 
Conversely, Tabitha, who he chose, while both were single and Slizzy kinda acted like she might be interested, after all (for the first time in forever)....cared about him at his lowest, has always been supportive and encouraging and only every wanted to help him. They bring out the best in each other and she is the 
ONE PERSON WHO HAS NEVER, EVER BETRAYED HIM AND WOULD NEVER CONSIDER IT BECAUSE SHE LOVES HIM. 
Admittedly, Jizzy HAD (not any moare) better chemistry because they were IRL couple....Jabi aren’t and are both in committed relationships with others. BUT this doesn’t mean Cole and Erinn don’t have chemistry. You just hate it.
You’re also pissed because they were fucking adorable last ep and we got fed...
So that’s why, cuntwipe!
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No, iknowusuck, as a former Jizzy shipper, I precisely hate Jizzy because Slizzy is a fucking bitch. Especially to Jughead
Nope, it isn’t Izzy....and we are here....plus, even if it IS a popularity thing....doesn’t matter. Jabi’s canon, Jizzy is ded....
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The cheating and the cuntwipery, but Scratchy actually isn’t wrong.
OML.....Izzy, it’s fucking pretend. And I’m perfectly “confident”, while freely allowing the possibility of Jizzy as a voiceovered reconcilation in the series finale. However, again, your kween is the one who caused all this. 
No, slizzypinto, we’ve had this with Jabi all along. We just haven’t had them for awhile.....which I suspect was due to Cole’s availability. Maybe? That said, I am stunned you admit that....
Nooooppppe....again, Jabi was a slow burn all last season, that y’all insisted no and made every conceivable reason for not (it was fucking hilarious). They were adorable all along......you just refused to see it. I started hating Jizzy because of the cheating and EVEN THEN....I was willing to look past it. She was eventually written as a vile asshole. 
THAT IS WHEN I STARTED TO HATE IT
Additionally, when Erinn was first cast, even you assholes admitted she clearly was cast as Jug’s LI, you just then refused to accept it would be permanent. Then it wasn’t gonna happen....and it did.
Not our faults you can follow plotting....
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Ummm....no, I just listed precisely why I love Jabi @petalsmooth does so routinely, as well....now, TBF, yes, Erinn’s exquisitely beautiful, to the point where Claudia remarked, the first time seeing her, “wow, that girls is so pretty! Is she Jughead’s new GF?” And recently remarked, “I figured everybody just moved on to Jughead with that new lady anyway”
Errmmm...they’re written as Jizzy should’ve been. Tabs is way better. See above.
Nooooppppeee
Ooohh...you’ve watched TeeVee before, slizzypinto? A) TBH, doubtful B) so fucking what. So have I. Dude, now you’re just lying. Also, how TF are BARFIES “shoving” anything down your throat (something that doesn’t exist), I thought this was about Jabi and why TF don’t you just block them, then?
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Nope....but, Snorty has to lie, OFC....what did your sources tell you this time, hmmm?
If anything, I’d argue the express opposite, in fact....
Dude, I had that proof over a year ago
And you know this HOW, slizzypinto???
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Nooopee.....also, you mean Bunker Vale Jug? So you “get endgame in the AU”? That you don’t, because HE loves Tabs, too. And has said as much!
Ooohhh....Snorty admitting it’s probably not gonna be THE Jughead. Again, I thought AU endgames don’t count.
Nooopeee....
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Simon definitely uses the fact that he technically didn't age for six months to have two birthday parties every year
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yarart4ever · 2 years
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Can’t stop thinking about the fact that Izzy is obviously neurodivergent and even tho she was outcasted by her own pony tribe her whole life in Bridlewood, Sunny from the very beginning didn’t even judge her and was prolly the first pony to actually treat Izzy like a living being with feelings as she was also the only pony to ever be this gentle and patient with Izzy in the essay I will—
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badgirlcovenrep · 3 years
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Still have not forgiven Doug Gardner for blaming Izzie for Casey's emotional breakdown when he was the one that literally ran her into the ground so much she got PTSD from doing one of the things she loved the most in the world.
And then he didn't even apologize for it... smh 😒
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dollyreblogs · 3 years
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💕 Kumiko and Kennedy could be cute, it’s like Olizzy but dialed down a little and a bit more soft. But also Kumiko dressing Kennedy up for galas, the. Kennedy goes and kicks ass in a dress and heels and Kumiko’s just cheering on her girl
I agree, I just would associate them too much with Olizzy because Green lesbians and Green lesbians.
It would be fun as Kumi and izzy's feral disabled gfs fight each other and Kumi and Izzy are torn between being supportive or pulling them apart.
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spookyrobbins · 3 years
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late night of rewatching scenes and thinking about arizona but:
I can't shake the feeling that all the time the show is trying to prove how Arizona is wrongTM about not wanting to do certain stuff when, in reality, she has a totally valid point, they just picture her as uninterested or selfish about it.
Like the moment when she says she doesn't want to date newborns and it turns into Callie feeling bad, but also, it's true that it can be stressing, coming out is a whole thing and if she wasn't up for it she can just not want to do it. From then it gets worst, to the "Mark stares at my boobs" episode to the whole speech Callie gives her and Arizona having to tell her "I'm not broken". Or her wanting to see Sofia after she cheated, they act as if she wasn't her mother ever. Or during the therapy when she says "it wasn't how I wanted it" and it turns into "she didn't want Sofia AT ALL" when Callie also never planned to get pregnant, she most likely didn't want it to happen that way either. Even with the custody trial it feels like they're trying to push the narrative of Arizona being selfish, when she doesn't want to give up a day with Sofia or reschedule after she had to schedule everything again.
-🐝anon
100% - arizona is pretty much always the bad guy/wrong/always in a negative light. i think part of this is bc we see everything from callie's pov always with almost zero exceptions
let's just run through some of the things though and why it's bullshit
newborn thing: you're totally right, coming out can be a big deal and a heavy burden on a partner; we also don't know pretty much anything about arizona's dating history - there was a girl named joanne, the various girls at the hospital, and a girl named carly that arizona was so devastated by the break-up that nick had to fly from japan to comfort her - that's it; sure, arizona made a snap judgement, but I think it's unfair to really go after her for it (and to her credit, she was incredibly supportive of callie through all of the drama with her family)
the baby argument: arizona was just blatantly portrayed as the bad guy here - which is sort of shocking considering how pro-child free the show has been at points; I think she laid out valid reasons why she didn't want children and she also works a job that frequently puts her in a position to watch families go through the worst time of their lives; and then when callie comes in and is just like, oh, it's because of your brother, it's portrayed as callie 'winning' as if using a major trauma against arizona is a good call; callie (and mark to an extent) go out of their way to push the conversation at inopportune times; it's valid for arizona not want to want kids ever or at that moment in time, and callie vilifies her for it; i'd say that arizona made the right call in breaking up - at that moment in time, they weren't compatible
mark and the boobs argument: I've talked about this a few times before, but I have to say, I side heavily with arizona in a lot of the mark-callie-arizona debates, just as a precursor; arizona was uncomfortable with mark pretty much from the start and there was never a point where callie was like yeah, sure, I understand (which is ironic considering the issue of george's friendship with izzie and Meredith); callie acts like arizona is being ridiculous that she's not delighted by mark, when mark is being incredibly intrusive on their relationship (I mean, i'd be totally frustrated if my gf's bff kept planning dinners and walking in on us); but arizona is the bad guy bc she doesn't love mark
africa (you didn't mention it but I think it's important): arizona won an amazing grant and had the opportunity of a lifetime, but it was seen as like inherently negative bc callie didn't want to go; callie wasn't thrilled about Africa, but she was willing to try for arizona until webber and sloan got in her ear and exacerbated her doubts; similar to the baby breakup, arizona probably made the right call (just had crap timing - should've done it earlier); we only saw callie and how she dealt with it - which from an audience standpoint makes callie more sympathetic; they could've done a million different things to write arizona out for a few episodes and they chose to do something that tries to make her the asshole
after the cheating: obviously, arizona sucks, she cheated and that is inexcusable (which again, weird writing choice from a character standpoint); but sofia was still her kid and callie was cruel; callie was hurting horribly so it's understandable; but it's sort of heartbreaking how everyone acted like arizona had no right to see sofia
therapy and sofia: it's sooo frustrating just across the board; bc of course they both love sofia, but that isn't how they were supposed to have kids; arizona came back from Africa to have a family, a future with callie and callie was pregnant and what was arizona supposed to do?; did callie really want a baby with mark? (jury's out on that one tbh); all arizona was trying to say was that she changed a lot in her plans, in her life for callie because she loves her - she wasn't an asshole for what she said, but callie couldn't listen
custody battle: i'd say this is the first point that callie's actually portrayed in a negative light; but even then, arizona is still sort of the bad guy - she's the one who wouldn't let callie go to nyc, she's the one who called a lawyer; and then after the custody battle, arizona is the ridiculous one who won't let callie see sofia; but callie was the one who started everything, callie was the one who behaved horribly at the custody battle, so it's bizarre that arizona is still portrayed negatively
okay i realize this is very long winded, but i have a lot of thoughts on this. arizona was pretty much always, and at times, the bad guy in their relationship. which minimizes her own positive qualities and reduces callie's agency as well
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how does izzy feel about lisa? and that girl from s1 that used to be deans gf
izzy’s okay with lisa! in my universe, the only time they meet is in 3x02, which is also the first time lisa appears, and izzy was cool with her (she’s even like supportive and encouraging to dean when they thought ben was his kid). but lisa doesn’t appear after that cause she isn’t really that important in my universe cause dean and izzy’s gonna have their own fam at s4 and they’re gonna have that apple pie life instead of him, ben and lisa!!
and izzy is also okay with cassie! at that time she met her (1x13), izzy had already told dean how she feels about him (in 1x12) and like he hasn’t said anything about it, mostly cause izzy avoids the topic before he could even think about bringing it up cause she’s scared of what he’ll say and she’s been jumping into conclusions that he doesn’t feel the same way blabla, and she’s super jealous of cassie (esp since she slept with dean oof) but she doesn’t hate on her or anything, but she’s less friendly with her and less energetic during the days they were working the case
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send me a canon character and I’ll tell you how my oc feels about them
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thinking daily and constantly about "this is what love got me" and maia completely changing the way she sees love in the context of the polycule like....
first of all we all know that jordan, like most abusers, was possessive and controlling, so just having an open relationship is like... i dont think monog people understand that it is a completely different take on what love means and looks like. open relationships mean necessarily reframing the way we look at romantic love because when it stops being exclusive, it also means its not above other kinds of relationships. and anything can follow its natural course without having to worry about the limits that we put on how you should love. and no one considers themself more important than the others. not her other partners, not her friends, not her pack. she is so free! its the complete opposite of possessiveness and control. no one interferes in how she builds relationships with other people. that in itself is already such a breath of fresh air, such a beautiful, dramatic change
and then there's the fact that she builds so many beautiful relationships?? so meaningful?? so caring??????? raphael is her absolute rock, this reliable presence that supports her always and is by her side, who shares goals and dreams, who makes her laugh and who cares about everything she has to say. and who's also got that roasting side that she absolutely loves to bring out. simon is so earnest and sincere at all times, and she knows she can trust him. he clearly and openly adores her and they have so many common interests! he also always listens when she's upset and makes genuine effort to change. also, he's adorable
meliorn makes her laugh all damn day and also makes her heart flutter with the casual but still intense displays of affection and old school flirting/straight up courting. they make her feel so cherished and even spoiled and that's not something she ever had before
izzy is her wonderful science gf with a WICKED side that always brings her into adventure. they can make up crazy plans and get into rabbit holes of knowledge and idea and with her she gets to indulge in every one of her projects. clary is protective and fierce and a riot no matter what happens. and they all ADORE her
and that's without counting all the love from her pack and friends because we know she means romantic love, and!!!!!!!! god she's got so many meaningful relationships and she feels like her life is so fulfilled and like her love and the love she gets has only been multiplying, and its not terrifying like it could be, it's this feeling of family, of home, and of freedom!!!!!!! love is good now, it gets her so many wonderful things, and she sometimes gets overwhelmed by it, when shes lying on the sofa on top of all her partners who are also on varying degrees of snuggling each other and her, and she feels like she belongs..,,,,,,,,,,
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I’m nervous about Season 3 of Atypical, but I haven’t seen it yet
I haven’t watched the new season of Atypical yet because I promised my mom I wouldn’t watch it without her, but after that ending I’m unsure how I feel about Casey. Like, she was a bitter ass angry young woman who went out of her way to make her mother miserable after she found out her mom cheated on her dad and the very last seen we see of Casey in season 2 is her cheating on her boyfriend with Izzie. Yes, the did only briefly make out but Casey has pretty much been emotionally cheating on Evan since she befriended Izzie and I just feel really bad for Evan since he is so sweet and has tried to be understanding and supportive of Casey since they did get together while also trying to keep her from being the worst version of herself when he sees how she’s acting towards Elsa. It also just kind of sucks that when I saw that scene my first thought was “here we go with the cheating bisexual again.” Like, would it have been so hard for Evan and Casey to gradually realize their romantic relationship fizzled out into an even stronger friendship and for them to instead connect by Evan being a supportive straight friend that Casey talks about her developing feelings for Izzie to? Because I feel like that would have been pretty good too and that would have been a really interesting take that I don’t think I’ve seen on a tv show, a supportive straight guy helping his bi ex-gf turned best friend get the girl she’s crushing on
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