#and my brain just sort of assumes everyone knows i'm gay and apparently extended that to my family

[glittercorvid]

there’s a lot of conversation around coming out happening right now and i really just now remembered that i haven’t technically come out as gay to my family yet bc of it........ i actually forgot that i was closeted

#i mean i've censored myself around them to avoid saying gay shit but it wasn't in a 'they can't find out' way #it was in a 'ugh i don't want to deal with them being weird about it' way in the same way i avoid talking about being trans w them #like they Know fucking obviously they know i'm trans but i just don't really uh talk about it #and my brain just sort of assumes everyone knows i'm gay and apparently extended that to my family #which tbf i think my mom does already assume that BUT i've never confirmed it #idk maybe i'll do that at some point but it seems like a lot of effort #dan.txt