Giving every aroallo, just aro, and non-asexual aromantic person a respectful nod, hug, high five, handshake, or smile
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lets stop assuming "power couples" is romantic, because me and my bestie can and will destroy you in kahoot
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this has probably already been done, but it popped into my brain and I had to make it so here you go
+ aroallo, non-sam aro, and neu aro variants
➹DON'T TAG THIS AS ASEXUAL/ACE OR AROACE➹
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Please remember aroace and aroallo do not form a binary. There are people in between and people outside of it
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i get that many aroaces experience their aromanticism and asexuality as connected in some way, but it's still important to acknowledge that "aroace" and "aro/ace" are not umbrella terms for the entire aspec community. as somebody whose aromanticism and allosexuality are inextricably intertwined and can't be fully separated from one another, you don't see me using "aroallo" for all aspecs - that clearly wouldn't be an accurate reflection of the whole community! "aspec" is a good term that includes all of us - please consider using it when referring to the general community.
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When and why did people start using aroace when they actually mean aspec? Why take a perfectly inclusive term and make it less inclusive? And then force all non-aro aces and non-ace aros into the label of aroace and just fucking ignore them? Not to mention all other aspecs that aren't romantic or sexual. Because so many people seem to forget that exists. And not all of those are aro and/or ace.
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Have I ever explained how happy I am that Wincest has so many possible different levels to it within fandom and therefore has a lot of spaces for aspecs?
Like we've got straight up Wincest, it's a classic, it's exactly what it says on the tin, it's insanity and beauty and loyalty and fucked up codependency.
And then there's weirdcest, which is really giving off sex/romance interested aspecs. Like yeah, they're platonic. Yeah, they're not actually attracted to each other. But sometimes they fuck. Sometimes they dedicate their lives to each other in a church. Sometimes they adopt a dog together and live out that queerplatonic married life that a lot of us aspecs dream of.
But that's not the end all be all. Sometimes, gencest my beloved, they're literally just brothers. They're platonic, they're family, they're each other's most important person, and sex and romance and anything in between has nothing to do with it. They're soul mates, they're each other's past and futures, and they're platonic. And that's all they'll ever be, because its already so much.
Like I just, as an arospec asexual I didn't know I was gonna find so much representation from these two fucked up weirdos, but god I do. And I love it
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ok real talk aro to aro one of the best things you can do for yourself is find other aros irl. i know that sounds literally impossible and it sure as hell can feel like that but being able to talk about our issues and our culture and our experiences face to face with an actual person and not just an icon and handle on a screen will literally change your life. i’m not even being hyperbolic. go out and find other aros. it’s worth it
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hi not so friendly reminder that this blog is inclusive of aros and aces. yes, even cishet aros and aces.
I really hate how I have to make a post like this.
cishet aros and aces are still queer *because* being aro or ace (or aroace) is queer. queer is not the same thing as "not cishet". and if you think otherwise get off my blog and never come back until you've unlearned your aphobia.
thanks.
(OP is a minor. Don't be weird)
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idk if you already did this but Non-SAM Asexual??
Great request :]
This is another addition to these
Non-SAM ace, similarly to Non-SAM aro, does not use the Split Attraction Model. They are simply and only Asexual. They are also amazing and wonderful.
I originally made these for valentines day. is it too late to say happy valentines day for these now? Nah. Happy valentines day :]
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"love always wins!!!!!!" is a lie, because tell me how i'm destroying everyone in my class in kahoot
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"why are you always so angry?" well you see I wasn't invited to the rage room, so I cannot get the amatonormativity-induced aro rage out
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A reminder that 1) asexuality and aromanticism are spectra, there isn't an allo/a binary, and 2) the repulsed/favourible spectrum isn't reserved for the use of aspec people. It is possible to be allosexual and be sex averse or alloromantic and romance repulsed. "Attraction doesn't necessarily mean action" also applies to allos and I wish that was more widely accepted because it would save a lot of allos a lot of hassle. I just didn't expect to have to point either of these put to the aspec community
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