#and that includes negative interaction

[strrwbrrryjam]

"we need more complex female characters," you guys can't handle molly o'shea, mary gillis, abigail roberts, sadie adler, tilly jackson, marybeth gaskill, karen jones or susan grimshaw.

#karen tilly and marybeth dont get it as much people are usually quite kind or just completely forget about them #but they are included too. with susan molly mary sadie or abigail they get the worst treatment #being called either a bitch whiny mean asking too much emotional etc #i can understand why people can't handle susan. sometimes i can't handle susan #when i see her sometimes interact with the girls or remember the fact that she killed molly i'm genuinely disgusted but she's more than tha #there are layers to her. she's like dutch yet people still like him and try their damnedest to defend him #people might be surprised by sadie being included too but god the hate that she gets from mostly men for being 'overconfident' is insane #you have complex female characters yet you refuse to either give them a thought or completely disregard them as one negative quality #and refuse to recognize that they are just as complex as the men in this game #treat them as such #rdr2 #red dead redemption 2 #rdr2 molly o'shea #molly o'shea #rdr2 susan grimshaw #susan grimshaw #rdr2 sadie adler #sadie adler #rdr2 abigail roberts #abigail roberts #rdr2 mary gillis #mary gillis #rdr2 tilly jackson #tilly jackson #rdr2 karen jones #karen jones #rdr2 mary beth gaskill #mary beth gaskill #rdr2 van der linde gang #van der linde gang

[quillkiller]

people have to stop acting like they’re oppressed because people are being annoying and/or mean about their otps

#i get its annoying but lets chill maybe #its not Real #just block ppl and dont interact w those bothering u #i promise you’ll experience a lot less negative reactions then #yes this includes me and other people who ship rair pairs #some of yall want to be mad i swear #some of have to stop being so fucking serious ahdhdhshdjfjdkfk #lets touch some grass <3

[wisebeth]

A tiny parallel between Sasuke & Sakura

Sasuke – Ch. 181

Sakura – Ch. 319

Bonus : Ch. 181 (again)

The crescent moon, which symbolises Sasuke, is a constant in all three. Coincidence? I think not.

#naruto #naruto shippuden #naruto manga #Sakura #sasuke #sakura haruno #sasuke uchiha #sasusaku #ss #pro ss #pro sasusaku #antis dni #i have never posted about them before #i just hope i don't get haters interacting with it #im lowkey paranoid #i dislike controversy #or being included into petty little shipping war in the internet #im here for having fun #and im only gonna have fun #and negativity stresses me out #so if you dislike the ship and found it through other tags #PLEASE IGNORE #oof

[musclesandhammering]

If shippers are making you this pissed off, you need to stop interacting with them instead of being so fucking negative.

And if seeing negativity makes you pissed off enough to anonymously (lmao) send me a message about it, you need to adjust your filters accordingly to avoid posts that are specifically tagged as anti from blogs that have anti right in the name 🤷‍♀️

#and I don’t interact with them #I have the ship tags blocked on here but half of the time y’all don’t even have the tumblr etiquette to tag your ships #and there’s not really any way to avoid stuff like that on Twitter aside from blocking everyone that posts shipping stuff (which I do) #and as I a rule I don’t get pissed off about fictional stuff in my real life #this is a hobby #these websites are for consuming and discussing media for entertainment #and sometimes that includes being critical of parts of media #and if you’re one of those fans that’s so childish that you can’t handle anyone ever being negative about the Thing you like #well then #maybe find a children’s version of this app? idk what to tell you #anons like you annoy the hell out of me #and the fact that you’re such a scaredy ass weirdo that you do it on anon? lol #lord have mercy #anon #fandom wank #anti lokius #anti sylki #antisylki #loki series negativity #loki

[anotherpapercut]

people acting like there isn't still very much an active stigma against cannibas and cannibas users is going to be my joker origin story

when i go to the doctor they still put cannibas use under the tab "substance abuse". not even just substance use. it is fully assumed that people who use cannabis, even as a prescription medication, are abusing it. just because you're friends with a couple of dumbass stoners doesn't mean that we've abandoned the idea as a culture that weed is a bad and scary and dangerous and highly addictive drug that will ruin your life if you use it once

#idk what its like in other countries but in the us and especially in red states fear mongering about weed is alive and well #'it ruins lives' -direct quote from a library board member making it so we can be fired for testing positive even w a prescription #i just take umbrage with posts about addiction that go out of their way to mention weed which we all learned in 6th grade is addictive #but dont also mention that this true of all prescription drugs and that a person can be dependant on a drug for health reasons??? #yeah i get anxious and cant go a day without weed. because i use it to treat my anxiety and pain. i also get anxious without my wellbutrin #but people arent lining up to make posts about it?? and like you CAN obviously become addicted to prescription drugs its super common! #so i kind of feel like it would be far more useful to say 'this is true of ALL drugs. including weed caffeine and prescriptions' #you should always research ANY drug you take. prescription or not. find out about addictiveness + side effects + other drug interactions #and you should talk to someone if you feel anxious about your relationship to drugs. prescription or not #there have been many times where i was prescribed way too many drugs at once and it made me feel anxious and uncomfortable #so i talked to my doctors and consolidated several and it actually made them work a lot better #locked reblogs because i KNOW people are going to read this is 'so you should never ever talk about negative consequences of weed' #and im pretty sure the people who follow me will be able to understand thats obviously not what im saying #but as soon as it leaves my blog whos to say. but anyway like. I think we should talk more about addiction to all substances #and not just the ones that were already covered in DARE #I feel like at this point everybody has heard all of the negative possibilities with weed use at least once #and that's not necessarily true of caffeine and even like. benadryl lmfao #I might delete this in 10 minutes if I psych myself out akbdjznsjf

[detectivenyx]

is that character moment really wasted potential or is it a tragedy to further the themes of the text that you've decided is wasted potential because your beloved blorbo was just another victim instead of the hero who saved the day

#look this could apply to virtually any of your blorbos that you say this to #but for the sake of an example: kaede. #her sacrifice is a lot of things. positive and negative in both ways. #a thematically relevant sacrifice that haunts & drives the rest of the narrative including a destruction she could inspire but not perform. #a misogynistic move to market heavily with 'the first female protagonist!' and then immediately drop her for another boy. #but one thing she isn't is wasted potential. #kaede's potential is fully utilised. death is fucking powerful. #a death isn't just 'a cheap gut punch' #or where it is it shouldn't have to be. #a character might not be able to interact with the narrative in the traditional sense #but with death being the only one guarantee we have it is one of our most powerful narrative elements. #what that death means can be as diverse as what one's life means.

[leonsliga]

Look, I just…don’t like kids. Or maybe “don’t like” is the wrong phrasing. I feel uncomfortable around them. See, you’re allowed to like them if you want. There’s nothing wrong with that! In fact, I’m pretty sure that’s the “normal” thing to feel. I was just responsible for kids from a very young age and don’t want any of my own as a result. Why would I want to be a parent when I’ve spent most of my life being a (very poor) stand-in for other kids’ parents who didn’t want to take care of their own? Plus I just don’t think I could be emotionally available to kids the way they need and deserve. There’s more to this thought (and more reasons why I don’t want/feel uncomfortable around kids than this) but I just really needed to get this off my chest, since this rb/block kind of hurt. I thought I was past getting upset over things that happen on the internet, but this cut deep for some reason.

#I just think people can be really harsh on here sometimes #and jump to conclusions #can we just…not judge people until we know the full story? #including myself in that #maybe I made a mistake reblogging that post but it’s true for me…idk #I guess I could’ve phrased it better #this is probably the only post I’m gonna make on this #sorry for this paragraph post of negativity #I really like to be positive on here #but I just needed to vent #also please don’t be mean to op #I just wanted to explain my rationale for saying what I said #since I felt it demanded explanation #i probably shouldn’t have engaged in the first place/interacted with that post #I really was asking for trouble

[wheel-of-fandoms]

How come so many people who play Genshin Impact like Tartaglia/Childe? He's vile. I think maybe the only person I might dislike more would be the Tsaritsa, but we haven't even met her and she's certainly not playable.

Every time Childe opens his mouth I want to stab him, and also make sure I cover my drink and keep it with me. Like he's shitty and bad enough, but then his quasi flirty attitude just adds a layer of creep to me.

Genshin really likes the "oh the villain was just misunderstood/confused/in a bad place, now they are better, how about they join your party". I'm not necessarily against that in stories - I like DBZ after all - but Genshin doesn't always handle it very well. The extremely quick forgiveness of the Electro Archon bugs me… but at least she acts nice when you start hanging out with her. Childe is forgiven too quickly *and* acts like a creep and a jackass.

#genshin impact #Anti-Childe #Anti-Tartaglia #Negative #Childe negative #Glad I haven't pulled Childe or Electro Archon on a wish TBH #If I did they would definitely sit at the bottom of the list with no levels or items #To be fair I find a bunch of the Genshin dudes slightly offputting for some reason #Including Diluc and Kaeya #Really Xingqiu and Venti are about the only ones I have had much interaction with that I totally liked #The ladies as a whole are much more likable #Though some exceptions of course

[gettothestabbing]

Found a good AC for my house, but I can only get it there if I buy it via Amazon, since the manufacturer refuses to ship to me or provide a pickup location. Waiting to buy it until it will arrive on a day I’m actually home. I’ve been visiting my sister/bro/nephew every two weeks. Hence why I’m up past midnight: too hot to sleep even with ceiling fans.

And if you’re wondering why I have no central air, my house is too old to have the proper ductwork to install it at a price I can currently afford.

#pers com #personal #I'm trying to talk more online #only took me 10 years on this site #but in my defense when I joined in Dec 2011 we could still edit each other's posts #that and I was mutuals with an IRL friend who hated my politics and didn't know I was conservative sooooooooo #lots of negative interactions on here when I get personal tbh including religious arguments unfortunately #glad I'm finally following a more chill and diverse-without-constant-fighting group #I feel bad for leaving the Discord chat because those girls were all so cool and most of them are here too #but the constant notifications ... it was fucking me up #totes wanna talk to most of them via Tumblr though. I'm just not good at being part of a larger group chat

[shroomierambles]

why’s it so embarrassing when u start catching feelings for someone aaaaaahhhhhh

#he’s simply a Silly Goofy Guy #not beating the Goofy Bi Guy stereotype lol #I do feel quite silly waitin for his ig notifs since he started dming me tho #unfortunately I do be Experiencing Feelings 😔 #but also fun vibes cause it’s been awhile since I Started Talking To someone irl (like not including dating app chats) #not that we’re Talking™. idk if we are. idk. social interactions are confusing lol #maybe we are maybe not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #we messaged a bit yesterday when he messaged first #then today I sent him a meme & we’ve been messaging for awhile #he’s working on a play & we we’re chatting before the show started & I thought that might’ve been it #but he messaged again after it finished & we’ve been talking a lil while now too :) #he’s rly friendly tho & we were kinda just becoming friends so it could well be just Next Stage Of Friendship #cause it’s not like either of us have said anything flirty or anything. just talkin & joking #plus he’s a few years younger than me- not in a creepy way. both legal adults in college- #I just usually have a weird thing with age gaps over like 2 years because of a personal negative experience #so it would just make me feel better if I don’t initiate anything first #I’ll let him do that if he wants to & then ask if he had any thoughts about the bit of age difference #if anything were to get that far. who’s to say. he’s a v chill platonic friend too if that’s where things go :) #need more funny goofy friends in my life :) #ok I’m done lmao #shroomie rambles #shroomie long tags

[doodlebloo]

your tags are the eeverything ever im on my laptop so i cant sc them and add them to the post but believe me i would and if i remember later i will. youre so fucking RIGHTTT its the condensation of the story into LORE into 'big streams' or episodes and in part thats bc of how the fandom treated lore and how it got turned into a big Thing that has to be very Streamlined and its a Lore Stream (yet they wont. plan it 😭) and Aurgghhh its pretty sad. but atp id rather actually see season four retconning than have to sit through another HUGE EVENT ON THE DREAM SMP!! (DEATH) (DRAMA) and then have no follow up on it

TBH I feel like everyone being busier definitely contributes to that bc like the Burger Plotline was supposed to be several streams over which we would likely have gotten a lot of little moments and interactions that showed us a lot about the characters and that had to get condensed to a WRITTEN STORY...

So it would not surprise me at all if there was supposed to be a lot more in-between but it kept getting condensed into five streams, then three, then One Big Stream simply because it's so hard to get everyone together now. Like that's why I think they need to be wrapping things up because if it's that much of a hassle to get multiple people on the server at the same time then the thing that made the story so interesting is sort of already gone at this point? Not that it was only interesting because people streamed Daily but like, that sort of "improv lore" that Tubbo always says he misses can't really come back because nobody is ever online enough for it (and when I say Nobody I mean rarely any people that have been here long enough for c!Tubbo to have history w them)

So like I do think part of the reason that lore has been so sparse is because of scheduling, it isn't Only that but what could have been several streams gets condensed into one huge stream where so many things happen that there isn't really time for the characters to react properly and we don't get to see any of the aftermath because they don't log on... In a story about grief and humanity we aren't getting to see c!Tubbo grieve or be human much at all, because if he logs on it's either for Lore that has a clear goal in mind and not a lot of time for us to see into his mind or it's just to mess around and we don't get to see his character's thoughts/emotions then anyways ...

There is nothing wrong with "big event" lore streams but at some points it sort of seems like events are planned just for the sake of having a "big event" happen and not because they actually make sense for the characters involved.

Idk I know it's easier said than done but if Wilbur has sat down and written out an ending that he's slowly working his way through at like 1-2 streams per month I feel as though others should look to him as an example, like I wish they would sit and genuinely assess "How much fun am I genuinely having doing lore CURRENTLY (not in the past), how much free time do I have right now/am I expecting to have," & make a decision based on that

#^ also w the Improv Lore thing... ppl have said before that it was a lot easier to do in the beginning of the server when ppl didnt have a #ton of characterization yet and thats very true. but also I feel like the term ''improv lore'' has sort of been twisted into something it #isnt. like c!Eret's betrayal wasnt improv lore. cEret and cWilbur planned that. They didnt have a Script #and they didnt tell other ppl so the Lmanbergians reactions were genuine... but that was Planned Lore. #the election results were not really ''improv'' because they had different plans based on what happened. the festivak and nov 16th were #planned. like everyone wants ''improv lore'' but i dont feel like a lot of ppl including Tubbo realize that big lore events are rarely ever #improv. ''improv lore'' is mostly for characters having little interactions or doing side-plots. cBeeduo building their hotel was improv #and it didnt go anywhere..... because improv lore rarely does. its sort of supposed to be self-contained to a couple of streams and if it #isnt then you need to actually Plan how/why it will be relevant or it doesnt really go anywhere... #so to me Tubbos plan to ''log on and see what happens'' aka to try and do mostly improv lore doesnt seem like it will work #asks #negativity #this is not cc critical again its their characters and they know their lore plans and schedules better than i do #long post

[freckledsweetpea]

the way I could never associate with someone who thought their negative opinions about characters and how other people interact with media was worthy of posting publicly. some of y'all are rancid. you're not fun. you're not quirky. your imagination, wonder, and ability to have unrestrained fun are broken.

#bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #fandom #videogames #humans have different experiences and find enjoyment in different things in media #no this doesn't include people interacting with media in a bigoted way #negativity can be beamed directly into their breakfast

[pumpking64]

okay my US friends I love you dearly and your tendency to exaggerate more than average is lovely when you’re happy, but god it’s unsettling when you’re unhappy. i’ll be having a normal average slightly boring day and you’ll call it horrible. please calm down

#own post #I know obviously not all ppl from the us do this #especially the ones I interact with the most on this site are not included in this and don’t negatively exaggerate in that way #they’re just the sweetest and so very justified in the negative things they have to say. I am in no way judging you <3 #but there just are a lot more people from the US who do that exaggeration. in my experience #(which obviously also is fine when everyone around you does it. then it’s the norm. I’m just not used to it) #and damn it just threw me off for a bit today….

[majorxmaggiexboy]

It is astounding how quickly the return of the work week transforms me from a a delightful freak into an absolute garbage can full of rage and loathing like damn

#Negativity tw #I really am better when not dealing with other people including my fam #I should just not interact with humans outside the internet #That would cure me

[artfightdramaconfessions]

hey mods just a heads up that strazi is going around messaging everyone who interacted with the posts about them :/ theyre saying they appealed their ban like any other person

Funny. Seems so, as others have alerted us as well. We received intel from other banned users who have appealed and a current staff member that ban appeals are allegedly backlogged. Very much so. You are claiming your relation to Takaia had no influence, however how you "skipped" ahead of a queue is telling.

#artfight #art fight #artfight2023 #submission #again because this needs to be repeated apparently #readers should take what is said on the blog with a grain of salt #this includes things the mods of this blog say #use your own judgement #especially in instances where we dont or cant show you proof #as to strazi #i cannot believe i have to say this again #stop interacting with the blog #the more you interact with the blog the more negative light you are bringing to yourself #drama blog frequenters thrive off of any little crumb you give them

[waterparksdrama]

its also like. way too fuckin late lol like he spent years doing this and creating this hierarchy in the fandom by interacting w specific people and noticing certain fans and reinforcing the concept of "big parxies" and now he wants to wash his hands of it and be like lol bye not doing drama anymore ?? its like everything is on fire and he's just dipping like king you did this. this is on you you don't get to decide you're not doing it anymore and ignore the fact that ur actions have consequences

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#and if any of you on twitter get pissy over the big parxie term instead of actually getting the point of the ask #it’s just that awstens interactions encourage negativity and make more problems for everyone including himself - iz