#and that’s okay

[bulldog-butch]

i’m gonna say something controversial yet brave: sexuality labels are a convenient tool we use to define something that is undefinable

#you literally cannot change my mind #if you accept that sexuality is about something other than genitals than you also have to accept that there are going to be millions #of definitions for the same labels #and that’s okay #who you are attracted to cannot possibly ever be described with one word #put weirdo little brains and desires are too complex for that #*our #anyway #i’m right #bork bork!

[heavensghost]

im actually okay with being known for being a little strange and off puttting

#likeeee I cant pretend to be cool and good at stuff because im not cool and good at stuff #and that’s OKAY

[liverralonee]

stuart macher is my representation of an evil bisexual 🙏 the scream fandom needs to stop writing him as this innocent little boy HE IS EVIL!!!!!’

#and that’s okay #i support him #stu macher #stuilly #scream 1996 #gay horror #“stu was manipulated by billy #WRONG! #stu is just as insane as billy if not even more #stuillyshipping #billy loomis #stu macher x billy loomis

[thebibliosphere]

I hope you live.

I’m working on it 💖

#thank you #and thank you to everyone who has sent me similar messages #it’s been an emotional time going through my inbox today #I’m okay #well #as okay as I ever am #but I’m here #and that’s okay

[cookiesandcantarella-art]

Do you ever think about the absolute euphoria Duck would feel at getting to be human again? I do. I do a lot.

[ID: a stylized digital painting of Fakir and Duck embracing each other as he lifts her in the air. Fakir stands ankle deep in a pond and water splashes around them. A few white feathers float through the air around Duck. She is nude and her hair is down. Fakir wears a simple white shirt with his pants rolled up above the water level. In the foreground, an open book rests upon the dock. Behind them, the clouds are lit with the pinks and blues of a sunrise. End ID]

#princess tutu #fakiru #i dont *think* i need to tag for nudity since i chose the least revealing pose i could find #but if thats an issue lemme know #my magic number is 5 years after the show #duck is roughly 19 human years and fakir is 21 #are we moments away from a category 5 fakir naked girl meltdown? #or has he grown out of that #you decide #i was trying to go for something more stylized and impressionistic #but eventually i had to say fuck it #it’s good enough #I’m not Monet #and that’s okay #that’s okay #lea draws #my art

[rubixcubi]

Goofy painting is done and turned in

#I can see every mistake when I look at it right side up so #for my own sanity #I’m just gonna post it like this #no matter how many ppl tell me it’s perfect #I know it’s not #and that’s okay #it was a great first attempt! #and I’m very impressed with my painting abilities #just… can’t look at it for too long without throwing up #luke skywalker #Luke Skywalker fanart #star wars #mark hamill #empire strikes back #painting #oil painting #portrait #sw art #sw fanart #esb

[vilf-lover]

milo is not a white man 😕

#or he is #to you #and that’s okay #live your truth #redacted audio #redacted asmr #redactedverse #redacted milo

[biitchyberry]

One more thing

Anya is not a gifted kid and you losers need to accept this. She’s for the troubled kids. Shoo. Go away.

#‘omg Anya has gifted kid burnout when she’s aged up’ no the fuck she does not #like you are literally missing one of the points of the story #that she isn’t academically gifted and has to work really hard to pass #and that’s okay #to erase all of that because yall can’t relate is frankly insulting #not everyone is academically smart and that’s okay #and they don’t need to be #your au’s would have so more depth if Anya continued to struggle and people around her accepted and accommodated her #but yall only have one vision of neurodivergencey in yalls head #anya forger #anya is not a gifted kid #spy x family

[roykentschesthair]

Listen. Do I understand people who ship Roy/Jamie/Keeley? Sure. The dynamic has potential. The chemistry is there definitely. All three of these people are disaster!bisexuals even as Keeley is the only canonic confirmed queer person between the three.

But…..

I don’t know. I just don’t buy it. I do not buy that Keeley, freshly on her own and determined to dominate in her career is willing or able to be a part of a poly relationship that is going to demand SO MUCH emotional labor.

I love my girl Keeley, she’s an absolutely fantastic character. But, I dunno, is she the most emotionally intelligent of the three? Sure. Is she the most emotionally mature? I don’t know, I think that might go to Jamie in all honesty. Roy is definitely the most stunted of the three.

And Jamie and Roy being equally as clingy and desperate and needy as each other, in ways that complement so beautifully it’s almost perfect, doesn’t leave a lot of space for Keeley to emotionally connect with them.

And she doesn’t seem to want to?

Like, she has the opportunity to get back with either one of them…multiple times! And she doesn’t? She loves them, both of them, but chooses to just be by herself. Chooses what she needs and wants in that moment because I think it’s kind of clear that neither Jamie nor Roy can truly give her that?

I LOVED Roy and Keeley at first, but the pure cruelty of lamenting how clingy he was when he was going through a massive depressive episode broke my heart. (Maybe my own mental health struggles make me extra sensitive to this)

But I just don’t buy that Keeley, free spirit and business woman, wants to settle down with these two, no matter how much she may love them.

#roy kent #jamie tartt #ted lasso #royjamie #roy x jamie #keeley jones #this is probably a massively unpopular opinion #but I just don’t buy it #and that’s okay #each of these characters is still fantastic

[rainystressed247]

Flower boy 🫣

P.S. have I ever altered the way you view the tales character? because if yes, the spreading of Cornelius supremacy is working 😈

#dream fanart #rainystressedart #cornelius tftsmp #tales from the smp #he is the original pretty dream #I take no criticism #he is just a baby who lives with his husband #and that’s okay

[ninety-two-bees]

regulus black wakes up before the rest of the world every morning so that he can watch the sunrise and remind himself that the world does not stop spinning just because life got hard

#sometimes he just needs the reminder #and that’s okay #we all do sometimes #morning person regulus black will always be real to me #he wakes up at 5am and makes his coffee and watches the sunrise #makes a plan for the day and cleans the kitchen before james wakes up #regulus black

[4everdiary]

johnny cade used to be what you thought of when you think of greaser btw. he wasn’t always jumping at his own shadow. he used to be tuff. he never was always like that—he was once exactly like everyone else.

#stop erasung johnny’s tuffness i’m tired of this #↳ leo’s diary ༉‧₊˚✧ #snd stop making him unable to stand up for himself #he can #he just prefers not to #and that’s okay #johnny cade #the outsiders #or maybe i’m wrong #maybe i need to reread the outsiders.

[letitbehurt]

@whumps-and-bumps‘s Willow is so divine, I just had to draw her.

#watching my asexuality vanish around her #and that’s okay #not Whump? #but she is a whumpee/whumper!

[booksandpaperss]

Some idiots people on tik tok: I think Will was ready to start moving on from Mike in season 4 and people need to realize that.

Meanwhile this is the Will they’re saying is ready to move on:

#like bffr #ur just sayin what u want to be true cuz u don’t like Mike #cant project your dislike of Mike onto Will #he loves that boy #cry abt it 😌 #Will wants to be ready to let go but he’s just not #and that’s okay #he’ll find out he doesn’t need to be #anyways #actual tags now #byler #mike and will #byler endgame #will byers #will byers loves mike wheeler

[tableintheteacherslounge]

I hate when people say Melissa’s a lesbian I HATE IT IT HATE IT

She’s so almost explicitly bi why can’t that be good enough, why can’t that be queer enough, why can’t people be happy with that?

And I know she’s not canonically bi but she’s pretty damn close

• has a boyfriend

• thinks decisive women are hot

• wants to bang the rock and john bonjovi

• asked ‘no women’

•thinks Barbara’s aged like fine wine

• just like stanley tucci

I get wanting your faves to be like you but bffr when she’s so bi coded why erase that?

How did it go from ‘omg she’s so queer coded’, ‘she’s for the girls’ etc to ‘she’s a lesbian’

Why is it not just celebration of a sapphic character?

If we want to talk about characters to head canon as a lesbian why not barbara?

The woman who’s deep religious faith would make sense to stop her coming out.

Not the woman who has talked about (or at least implied) attraction to men and women

Happy pride month

Stop bi erasure xoxo

#abbott elementary #melissa schemmenti #bisexaul #lgbtq #pride month #melissa schemmenti is bisexual #and that’s okay #why do you want her to be a lesbian #sapphic

[popinjaycosmicray]

Was gonna draw a bunch of my favourite nandermo moments. Got bored at two hehe.

Look at these dumb bitches tho❤️ god i hate them

#no patience #thick vibes only #art #wwdits fanart #digital fanart #fanart #digitalart #wwdits #nandermo #nandor the relentless #guillermo de la cruz #these bitches gay #and that’s okay