#and thinking about old friends lately

[atalana]

so the good place is widely lauded on this site for its takes on morality and capitalism, which i totally agree with

but i think it should get more recognition for the line "all humans are aware of death. so we're all a little bit sad all the time. that's just the deal. we don't get offered any better ones. and if you try and ignore your sadness, it just ends up leaking out of you anyway. i've been there, and everybody's been there. so don't fight it. in the words of a very wise bed bath and beyond employee i once knew - go ahead and cry all you want. but you're gonna have to pay for that toilet plunger."

#i dunno i've been thinking about grief lately #and i think the nature of humanity is everyone's grieving something #it might not always be as straightforward as the death of a loved one - sometimes it is #but sometimes you're grieving a life you never got to live #the person you used to be #hell an old toy you just realised you lost years ago and are never going to get back #we're all just a little bit sad all the time #and i think looking at the world like that makes it a lot more friendly place #because everyone is someone who needs a bit of comfort - or just someone to say hey its okay to be sad and angry and confused #and when you're finally ready to let whatever you're grieving go the world will be a happier place #and you'll find a new thing to grieve because there's always something to be a little bit sad about #but the world keeps getting better for every one you get through and every friend who helps you through it #and sometimes you just need to throw a dumb joke in there at the end #that's what it means to be human #the good place #tgp

[gentlenotes-moved]

hey, you guys. life gets so much more fun when you let yourself enjoy the small pleasures of life, love your friends loudly and wholeheartedly, and let yourself be loved.

#reminders #gentle reminders #healing #positivity #mental health #self care #self love #self healing #wholesome #encourgement #quotes #inspiration #inspirational quotes #mine #no bc honestly #i'm squishing really hard on an old friend of mine so i'm feeling particularly giddy lately lmao #but like!!!!! god when i was in late elementary/middle school i used to almost never show my friends much affection #or tell them how much i love and care about them. i think i was just scared they would think i was overbearing. #but now..... lately ive been trying to show the people in my life that i love them a fuck ton #so life tip!!!!! tell your friends you love them. because i promise they love you back :)

[r3dlif3]

I think above all the worst misconception about a naruto character has to be a 31 year old obito still being in love with 14 year old rin. Not only does this go against obito's whole character past the third shinobi war but it's plainly disgusting that people think this about a middle aged man. I'm telling you now that rin was not the sole reason for Obito's hatred for the shinobi world she was just the catalyst for him agreeing to madara's plan, resulting in everything that happened.

It's just annoying to see this misconception even when within the manga itself obito has stated he isnt in love with rin anymore in his adulthood as he refers to his love of her in the past tense. It's just painful to see people forget that rin was his best friend, not just his crush. She was the first person in his life to introduce him to friendship and to truly believe in his abilities and dreams. They were eachothers closest friend within life, even if rin didn't reciprocate obito's feelings she still loved him and cherished him.

I see comments about obito being the ultimate simp or some shit like that and its infuriating to see this shit about such a complex character like obito, he's only wittled down to some guy in love who apparently caused a war only for her or kakashi's friend.

#obito uchiha #rin nohara #naruto ramblings #naruto #anti naruto fandom #obito is genuinely my favourite character in naruto so im alot more passionate about him than other chara #and i've been seen too much of those comments lately #It's a shame because he's written so well and has so many layers to him #He's a middle aged man who's been manipulated for the past 15 years of his life i dont think he's really focused on being in love #especially with his dead 14 year old best friend who killed herself using his rival whom promised would protect her for him

[yumemiruuuu]

Chu Wanning: You are driving a car and all of a sudden, there is an elderly woman and a young child crossing the road. What do you hit?

Mo Ran: (in deep thought)

Mo Ran: The elderly, because she already had her fill of life but the young child has barely experienced life yet so it would be a shame if he got killed.

Chu Wanning: …

Mo Ran: Or you can hit them both if you want to be a little silly

Chu Wanning: The BRAKES, Mo Weiyu. YOU HIT THE BRAKES.

#i was reading meatbun’s author’s notes outloud to my friend last night and like… Mo Ran is a racecar driver in a modern au #one of the mini theaters was like ‘‘0.5 MR: Late because he was busy killing an old lady who was walking too slow’’ #i can’t with this series I stg 😭 like every time I think about it I feel like I’m in a fever dream #meatbun can we talk #mxtx too can we talk… esp about the Yi City arc #I promise I won’t bite #i finally understand the jjk fandom with their lovehate relationship for gege akutami #mo ran #mo weiyu #the dumb husky #chu wanning #the husky and his white cat shizun #2ha incorect quotes #2ha #erha incorrect quotes #erha #erha he ta de bai mao shizun #二哈和的白貓師尊

[lavenderjewels]

this chapter of jjk changed my brain chemistry

#kenjaku #jjk spoilers #not kidding this is one of my favorite chapters and thinking about it animated makes me soooooooi shdjdjdjdjfjs$:&:&; #I NEED more of this. the vibes the atmosphere the eeriness #kenjaku feeling enough towards yuuji to thank his old friend #I need more kenjaku in the story rn #I still don’t even really know what they meant here #with the space between dream and reality. but I love how abstract it is #fingers crossed there’s good stuff in the future manga with kenjaku #I constantly forget how most fans don’t even like kenjaku. been seeing a lot of general dislike lately after the trailer w them dropped #I will gladly live in my own niche world though #id in alt

[4harts]

#tumblr polls #poetry #poets on tumblr #just something ive been thinking about lately #because i wrote a poem about an old friend and i was wondering if it would b weird to tell them #we dont rlly talk much anymore n its a big regret for me #because i know now what i should have done better #anyways thats a lot of info to dump #happy monday

[lollygirlpops]

I just accidentally casually came out to my mum. Coolcoolcool. I mean, it was fine. But, wow, was I weird about telling her before now. Maybe it was because I’m older and settled and coming out didn’t seem important? Hmm.

#coming out #I’m too old to be worrying about coming out #do I need to tell friends and family anyway? #does it matter if my family never knows? #especially as I’m very late to the bi party #not young royals #not sure why I’m posting here but I think I’m stunned at my big mouth blurting it out

[marsixm]

i complain about being alone but i like do not want to date lmao i want to already be married to my soulmate for 10 years

#this is why im not really upset at myself for having an unattainable crush occupying my mind lately #if homeboy and his wife decide to go poly and i get to be his little bf who comes on the family camping trips ill be set #but in the meantime i dont care bc i dont wanna date! i just dont! #i also complain about everyone else calling and talking to their friends for hours but i get shy when someone texts me so womp womp #(also thats kind of a lie i love the fact that ive done all these things alone! i think its cool) #(of course i WOULD love it if my soulmate im old gay married to was there too but alas!!!)

[madamescarlette]

💐

#shocked with myself (maybe pleasantly surprised? is the right phrase) #at actually liking barbie a great deal more than i had prepared myself to #it was just a lot more sincere than i had expected; i was afraid it wouldn't be/be more on the snarky side of cinema lately #but it was strangely so much more heartfelt than that #of course some points felt rushed/too on the nose #but the girls and ryan gosling made me so happy #and her at the end saying (spoilers obvs) that yes YES she does want to take life by the hand and pay the price to live and live #also as a former representative of unrequited love the throughline felt a lot gentler than i was prepared for it to be #it was a lot more about emotion and the joy of growing up and growing old than i expected #i don't necessarily think its heart is as pure as a truly great movie?? #but it didn't laugh AT you. it made you laugh and it also meant what it said #which idk idk in a sea of endless winks at the camera laughing obnoxiously loudly media i appreciated the at least #wanting to live and live well aspect of it all and how it took that seriously #like someone on my dash said. i don't really know if it was a good movie?? but the borders of my mind are stretched #something in me is dreaming because of it. so i think that at least is worth it all #also all the girls in the theater laughing their heads off did something to me!!! #there were countless friends (including mine) decked out in pink and it was so so so sweet to me #(anyway. you didn't need these thoughts and maybe I'll retract it later when I've come down from the high of hugging both my buddies)

[oldestking]

Sometimes I ponder the idea of going back to a single blog, like,, not in the sense of leaving my currently active multi behind, or Gil behind, but like, that craving of having a new muse, that has their own space,, it feel like I haven't have that in some time already (and to those who know me, it's nothing unusual to find 844738382 blogs following u which are all mine OTJRPRJTRK)

#;ooc #ooc #late night thoughts after a long day #like i really crave connections and dynamics but sometimes i feel like on my end as the multi blog; i might be making it difficult to othe- #and mainly;;; single muse aesthetics and reblogging memes and knowing that the muse u chose will be the one receiving prompts all the time #aOASUUREJTJJTK #i just feel a bit lonely lately; trying to not let that squeeze under my door but; y know! the usual ; would someone remember this blog #if i went on hiatus? or does someone get excited whem i reply? i wonder about my writting too; is it really conveying the feelings i want #to put out there? #like; to this day i still remember this k.arna rper; gosh their voice for k.arna was spectacular; they arent on the rpc anymore as far as #im aware of; but ill lways remember them as the cool karna blog #or my friend squiwe and their unpredictable Bartholomew roberts! always a delight #to this day i still think k about old blogs now left to the wind and taking a peek atthem and goinf #wowowoajwkwoaokwaww this person wrote their character in such awesome way!!! #i wonder if any of my muses left something behind #that would be great #ok its late im gping to bed but apologues for the typos

[surferboypizza-argylespeaking]

I don’t know man. I feel like because Argyle is so genuine and loves being there for other people he often forgets to take care of himself. He is the type of person who will go out of his way to make someone feel included and taken care of but I don’t think a lot of people do that for him. Argyle is human after all. He has moments of self doubt and anxiety. He has moments where he feels like he isn’t good enough.

That’s why I think Jonathan and him are such a good pair. He can recognize when Argyle is giving too much of himself. When Argyle does something for him he tries to do something in return. When Argyle lets him vent he extends the offer to talk over anything with him. When Argyle started to teach him to skate he teaches him a few things about photography. It’s a mutual give and take.

I think Jonathan is the first person in his life to really take care of him. To remind Argyle he is allowed to have bad days. And that he has someone there to support him in the way he supports everyone else. Most importantly to remind him he can rest. To let someone else do something for him.

The first time Jonathan brings it up a few months into their friendship it’s the first time Jonathan sees Argyle get emotional. He gets quiet and misty eyed. Argyle just pulls him in for a hug and mutters a quiet thanks man. Jonathan hugs him back and Argyle relaxes more. He learns eventually that the Byers give the best hugs. And that they are a perfect cure for just about anything.

#jargyle #argyle #jonathan byers #stranger things #I’m feeling so emotional about how supportive and friendly argyle is and it got me thinking about how people who are like him tend to #overtend themselves being there for others that they don’t take the time to take care of themselves #like argyle is the type of guy that remembers all your favorite things #he just remembers the little details about people #and I think that before he met the Byers a lot of his relationships were one sided #another reason why I think he says Jonathan is his only friend #I think he had friends before but it was all take take take #and I think Argyle meets the Byers and they are just such loving people who have been dealt a bad hand and just know how to care for people #so well and it’s the perfect match for Argyle because no one has really taken care of the Byers and then here comes argyle who will bring #dinner when he knows Joyce is working late #who drives the Byers kids to school and back #who likes to help el with homework and encourage wills art skills #argyle who treats el and will like normal 14/15 year olds #I’m feeling emotional about argyle and the Byers man

[plugnuts]

Long time no Profile Stan

#skyy's art #south park #stan marsh #profile stan #profile stan marsh #you have 0 friends #sp stan #I miss him. a lot #I’ve been thinking about him lately can y’all tell? #it’s been SO long since I drew him I had to go back and look at all my old drawings to figure out the markings lmao #(and even look at that old reference sheet I never. er. finished) #profile is like. keeping me tethered to this fandom. istg. he’s my everythign #why am. I the only one who loves and cares for him

[fyodorkitkat]

Going into 2024 with a respect for what I've lost but hope for roads ahead 🙏💜

#this year was rough but what i found myself thinking about mostly this morning was my late friend tammy. and then subsequently everyone #else ive lost in the past few years #yes things were difficult with relationships jobs general life things. a lot of things changed for me in the last months as well that #were out of my control and because of that infuriated me #and i found myself thinking about what tammy would have probably said to me if she had been alive and in her right mind while i was going #through all of these things #and she would have said 'shut the fuck up jay. if you're telling me this then you're fine and you got to make it. you got to be here so #yell if you want to break some shit if you need to. but just keeping looking forward' #she said things similar to me before so it is like i heard it in her raspy yet lilted voice. anyways this is getting really sentimental #and personal but. i wont tempt things saying 2024 will be great for me. but at the very least i have hope i can make it what i #need it to be. no matter what ends up happening #if you read this ty and sry sry. i hope you have a nice start to your new year and plenty of calm vibes this year #-pers #-cw death mention #but it is in the tags #also super secret lue lore with a prev name drop but i wasnt thinking about that idc yall can know one of my old ones im not editing it

[sailor-aviator]

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#y'all my anxiety has me spiraling as of late because it just feels like my whole life is falling apart at this point #i got fired from my job a couple of months ago and i've been scrambling to try and find a new one #i work part time at a store i really love but it pays shit #and i've had all of these interviews and no one wants to hire me and i just feel unhireable at this point and it's hard not to despair #and on top of that i'm struggling with my self esteem again #i know i'm not ugly per se but i'm struggling with feeling confident in the way i look as a big girl #and all of my old insecurities are rearing their ugly heads and i want to cry just thinking about it #and i feel like such a failure right now even though i know that life has its ups and downs but my stupid brain just won't chill #and i don't really have any friends in the area because they all either moved away or didn't live here to begin with #and i'm tired of living at home because of my stupid student loans and not being able to afford to live on my own #i have one person i hang out with and we just met and i don't want to scare them off because they're a great friend and person #and i just feel like i'm never going to meet anybody who's going to love me the way i want to be loved because of my looks #also because it's me. and i feel like i'm so flawed as a person that no one will ever fall in love with me #and i've just been feeling really alone lately and i'm trying to do things to make me feel better but it's just so HARD right now #and i love writing because it gives me a chance to explore some of my feelings and it's something i genuinely love to do #and i'm sitting here waiting for the day things start to get better. and i know we all joke and i'm gonna sounds so dumb for saying this #but i feel like i was meant to be famous? or do something great idk and it's something everyone has always told me #and idk if my feelings of inadequacy are because of that or what but i'm scared that my life is going to mean nothing in the end #anyway this was a lot and you can pretend like you didn't read it. i just wanted to write some of my feelings down